saksophone Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Feeling creepy You feel creepy because you are not comfortable with the idea that showing romantic interest is okay.	/r/seduction	30/09/16 11:55 PM
1	projecting confidence instead of helplessness Therapy.	/r/seduction	30/09/16 11:29 PM
0	Which job or hobby, besides pickup has helped you the most with gaming? Literature, art history, psychology, film studies, creative writing and improv theater. Why? Because they make me more interesting.	/r/seduction	30/09/16 11:18 PM
1	Will you teach your kids about game? I would never have kids. But regardless, your post is all sorts of terrible. I hope you won't ever breed.	/r/seduction	30/09/16 11:16 PM
1	Con you ask this to a girl you're after? I like that. It's aggressive as it puts the ball on her court. She gets to make a choice between two options you've set up. Pay attention to her response. It might not be a straight yes/no but it will be telling.	/r/seduction	30/09/16 10:36 PM
1	When to double text? Next time after class chat her up, walk her to her car same as last time, and ask her out. The familiarity of the situation will work to your benefit. I don't see a reason to text her anything. If she has a budding interest in you, it's not going to go away in four days.	/r/seduction	24/09/16 01:40 PM
1	On the methodology of walking I think I've found the new benchmark for extreme neediness. "I want women's attention so much that I'm willing to change the way I walk to the store in order to attract it, and I'm polling my female friends for how they would like a man to walk." Tricks like these don't work and cannot work. You can only fake confidence for so long. When you are genuinely nonneedy not only do you not think about these things at all, you will naturally project confidence in your body language.	/r/seduction	24/09/16 01:27 PM
-5	Relevant to pickup - a quote from Michael Jordan No, actually he had success because he was really good at playing basketball, not because he failed so much. He got the chance to fail 26 game winning shots because he was good. If he wasn't good, he wouldn't have had those chances. Having the privilege of failing repeatedly at a high level (in this case NBA) comes from being exceptionally skilled and somewhat lucky, not the other way around. The ones who didn't have the talent, psychological makeup and opportunities to develop to his skill leve…	/r/seduction	24/09/16 01:15 PM
1	Getting the best girls - accepting yourself The normal human maturation process into adulthood, which you are clearly still going through, will likely sort that out for you. In time, you will hopefully realize that fulfilling relationships develop not from having a crush on a hot chick, but from realizing the things you have to offer, and finding someone who appreciates those things and in return has something that you value. You can't really succeed in relationships (unless by accident) until you have the self-awareness for these things.	/r/seduction	24/09/16 01:00 PM
1	Is it possible to be both the good guy and the asshole? Just express who you are, with confidence, and the right women will respond to that. I think you would benefit from reading Manson's Models, if you haven't already. (I assume from your post you haven't.) Also, for the love of gods, please research Nice Guy Syndrome (and pick up Glover's book) before you do permanent damage to your psychology. Your comments about how good of a guy you really are and how only douches get girls is a huge, huge red flag. You are in real danger of becoming the real a…	/r/seduction	24/09/16 12:49 PM
5	Is it possible to be both the good guy and the asshole? Is this a decent, caring, gentle, polite and fair person's view of women?	/r/seduction	24/09/16 12:34 PM
1	What STOPS you from approaching someone? It depends on the social and cultural context. Where I live, approaching someone wearing headphones or at the gym are not socially acceptable things to do. This is seen as rude and won't likely be appreciated. People like their personal space here. Day game in the American sense doesn't really exist here.	/r/seduction	24/09/16 12:23 PM
1	PSA: This will be short and to the point. Not having sexual energy is not the result of being funny. It's the result of not creating attraction and escalating it. It can also be the result of not having chemistry with the other person. Not everyone will be into you, no matter what you do. Trying too hard comes across super needy and will be a further turn-off. The image of some random Redditor on a date "giving her mystery and confidence" is a joke as it is. Play to your strengths. If you can make someone else laugh and relax, do it.	/r/seduction	24/09/16 12:07 PM