sakurafice Archive

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1	Fun active date ideas personally, i think grip strength is the most important thing (look at the calves/forearms of seasoned rock climbers - holy shit). Pullups help, but rock climbing is pretty accessible, I took some tiny asian girls rockclimbing once, and they were ridiculously good (I don't think any of them were particularly strong in any aspect) One thing to note also, is raw strength does fuck all for rock climbing. Muscle is more like baggage when you're hanging off a wall. Endurance is where it's at	/r/seduction	27/01/16 02:38 PM
8	Fun active date ideas I think avoiding something because you're bad at it is the antithesis of this sub. Being bad at something should never take away from your confidence, or how you carry yourself. If you turn her off because you're not good at something, it's because of how you handled the situation, not because of some specific thing about you that's hardly important. One example is when I went Ice skating. Never did it before, saw it as an opportunity to get closer to her, and have fun learning. Ended the sessio…	/r/seduction	27/01/16 02:27 PM
25	When I approach girls, I feel it is too obvious that I try to seduce them. How to be more subtle? It's always obvious. You're either being self conscious about it and they can see it (in your eyes, your actions, your body language). Or you're trying too hard. Work on holding your conversations first. Your interactions are lack luster because of this. When she is standing alone, awkwardly: "I see you are having a lot of fun with your friends." smirk, while looking around as if she is in a group Fuck your lines. If anyone came up to you and said any of those, you'd think they were the biggest …	/r/seduction	23/11/15 11:25 AM
15	How to ask out girl from class who is always with a friend? I've asked a girl out in front of 5 of her friends, and they all thought it was super cute. One of them went out of the way to say "Well done for having the balls to do that". She was already taken though ha! Just be honest, say what you want to say. ("I thought you were really beautiful and I had to ask for your number blah blah blah") and it'll be fine. The WORST thing that could happen is she says no. Not a big deal in the scheme of things.	/r/seduction	17/09/15 03:05 AM
16	How to ask out girl from class who is always with a friend? chances are, if you don't make it weird the friend will think it's cute more than anything	/r/seduction	17/09/15 02:59 AM
13	Don't make your life and goals revolve around someone else I think one aspect of it is that impressing others takes alot less effort and bigger short term results. All you have to do is present an image of yourself and perpetuate it every time you see this person (everybody you ever thought "had it together" was just projecting that image of themselves, they weren't necessarily well rounded people) Impressing yourself is alot harder because you know yourself better than anyone else (you live with yourself 24/7) so there's no bullshitting anyone. Improvi…	/r/seduction	20/07/15 12:43 PM
5	Are women turned off by surgery scars? if it's over the top and clearly for humour it's alright. Trying to impress people with lies is another matter.	/r/seduction	17/07/15 05:55 AM
1	Ever run into "nice girls"? That's why when she says you're lucky, you refute her and explain exactly why things are going well for you (which shouldn't be too hard for someone in this sub). Then after that, you can give an example of a subtle way she can be more assertive in a similar situation Also, make sure she knows that it took HARD work to get to where you are now (unless you really want to discredit what she says and admit everything you do successfully is just due to "luck") Don't try too hard though. As I said, b…	/r/seduction	13/07/15 09:52 AM
1	Ever run into "nice girls"? Act like you usually do - if she's around some aspects of your "alpha" (or whatever) personality will rub off on her. By being around you, she'll see the advantages of being assertive and she may ask you questions like "how do you always get your way?" etc etc. Then you can answer honestly, and she'll learn Leave her better off than when you found her. This is one way to do it.	/r/seduction	13/07/15 06:21 AM
2	I have trouble getting second dates, even when the first date goes pretty well. well the date where you ended up on the date seemed alright, perhaps she felt a bit pressured by you to have sex, and didn't want that a second time. But yes, for 2 people, anything can happen, just keep practising, and work on using text as means of getting together, as opposed to a substantial means of communication. Otherwise, read the numerous text guides on here.	/r/seduction	14/05/15 03:27 AM
6	What's up with people telling me that girls check me out / stare? This is actually kinda why looks don't really matter in the grand scheme of things. (It does increase your approaches, but it definitely can't keep people's attention alone) It's like being smart, but doing fuck all but smoking weed and masturbating all day. That intelligence means nothing if you don't apply yourself to your goals.	/r/seduction	14/05/15 02:52 AM
5	I have trouble getting second dates, even when the first date goes pretty well. Many reasons: -You're not doing as well as you think you are. -You may be having fun, but you're not connecting. You're not building sexual tension throughout the date by touching her, or giving lots of eye contact. -Your texts afterwards are coming off needy. -You're just unlucky, and something popped up between all these girls. (unlikely if it's 3+ girls) You can ask your previous dates what went wrong, see their opinions, and work on whatever they tell you.	/r/seduction	14/05/15 02:48 AM
2	Why is getting a girlfriend so important? who cares. the less you judge others the less you care what people think about you	/r/seduction	04/05/15 02:23 AM
1	Kissing on first date? Psch, these words she says. They mean nothing!	/r/seduction	05/04/15 11:17 PM
7	I've helped 1000s of men with their dating lives... So I created a Udemy course called Dating, Relationship and Conversation Skills For Manly Men and I’ve decided to give it away for FREE to the Seddit community braces don't mean shit. take it from someone who made a HUGE deal about it in highschool. it's exactly the same if you had a large, red pimple on your nose. People will notice, but they won't care if you don't.	/r/seduction	15/02/15 05:42 AM
3	I avoid escalation, because it may lead to sex (and I'm intimidated by that). It gives you the ability to pump more blood down there, making you harder, gives the ability of multiple orgasms, and it helps with timing your climax. Also decreases chances of prostate cancer. However lasting longer could also be about your mental state and how aroused you allow yourself to be. There's a heap of books to deal with PE that help with this	/r/seduction	26/01/15 04:50 AM
9	How to deal with romantic introvert type of girl? +[FR] Dude, why are you using "tricks" and game shit if she already likes you? Do things naturally and what you feel in the moment. Also, the girl you're dating is HELLA insecure. You already know that, but if you're stuck on this one girl, expect this to go slowly. In the meantime i suggest you find other dates to fill in your time and get more experience with people who aren't her.	/r/seduction	26/11/14 01:59 PM
11	How to be Dominant He's doing it for the camera. He's dissecting the situation for his viewers/subscribers, and for his own amusement.	/r/seduction	30/09/14 02:45 PM
1	I really don't know what to talk about Yup, being secure with yourself was my main point. Being authentic doesn't mean "laughing like a fruitcake" at your own jokes, putting "energy" into what you say, or even expressing yourself. All of those are more likely to be behaviors of people who are trying to control how other people perceive them, and hence aren't being authentic. Well, not saying there aren't alot of authentic people who exhibit those behaviours naturally ;) But what I mean with "energy" is more with believing in what you…	/r/seduction	19/09/14 06:27 PM
1	I really don't know what to talk about I understand where you're coming from, but what I'm trying to stay is different to what you're arguing against. I don't argue on the internet, so that'll be it from me ;) (Tombstone put it pretty well anyway)	/r/seduction	19/09/14 06:19 PM
23	I really don't know what to talk about Sorry to say it bro, you really have to understand you CAN talk about anything you want. you have to be entertained by it yourself, and SHOW IT. You could be spitting mad shit, but if you don't have the energy behind it, it doesn't mean jack. Learning to express yourself is one of the most important skills you have to learn, everything else is just pretend Try make whatever you're talking about relatable to her (dumb down complex topics if you have to) and ask her questions (e.g. what does she t…	/r/seduction	19/09/14 03:25 PM
1	Russell Brand's guide on hooking up Celebrity status is not the sole reason you sure ignore the video. Alot of celebrities were good with women before becoming famous. Russell Brand is a notorious seducer, and is well known/liked for his charisma. Surely you can learn something off him. That being said, the video is more for humour: e.g. "tip 6 - tell her you're famous"	/r/seduction	08/08/14 02:22 PM
1	How I learned to Seize the First Impression (Inner Game) well it seems you've done your due research. have fun with it brother :)	/r/seduction	25/06/14 07:52 AM
1	How I learned to Seize the First Impression (Inner Game) you seem to have things sorted out. why the switch? is there a med specialisation that screams to you?	/r/seduction	25/06/14 05:53 AM
2	How I learned to Seize the First Impression (Inner Game) what are the things you do for a living out of curioisty? :)	/r/seduction	24/06/14 05:18 PM
1	Epiphany at the barber shop today... read self help books, read the material on the side bar stay on the journey of self improvement :)	/r/seduction	13/06/14 05:32 AM
28	Epiphany at the barber shop today... For those who don't understand, two lessons to be had from this post: It's incredibly easy for people (e.g. girls) to pick up whether you're confident or not If you feel unsure of yourself and your actions, others will start doubting your, and even their own actions If you're confident, and project that confidence, people will ride along with you and your plan, and things will go smoothly. If you don't act confident, without a plan, people will opt out for a more secure option.	/r/seduction	12/06/14 09:16 AM
3	Why you should be very careful of certain types of people in the "community". meh, manipulative types are everywhere. If i do something wrong i'll let the girl tell me through visual cues/verbally, not by some guy trying to "help me out" (I'd be like "why the fuck is he so interested in my game anyway?") lack of specific advice is a huge alarm as well. If I'm doing something wrong, i need a discussion so I UNDERSTAND the situation (so it sticks to my brain, and I can improve on it). Not just be told that it is	/r/seduction	04/06/14 02:38 PM
1	are there places where you should avoid sarging? i think those situations are fine. as long as you're socially comfortable, and can see the situation for what it is, there's no reason a good conversation can't be had (and if not, just end it, no biggie) the bar is set pretty low on public transport in my opinion. How much of a good time would she be having just dawdling on her phone/reading her book compared to a conversation? The only people i see having a difficult time are those without a shred of social competance/inept at reading cues. Ot…	/r/seduction	31/05/14 01:26 AM
3	I can initially attract girls, but I can never keep them around. Anyone else feel the same w I feel if I just stay true to myself, be truthful open and honest with girls, of course at the right time, and be assertive in the right times. In other words being versatile and able to adapt, seems to be what my problem is and a lot of other people. you're being too conditional. BECOME the things you said, don't do them at the "right time" cause there's no such thing.	/r/seduction	27/04/14 09:48 PM
2	how to be less of an antisocial douche don't try to live up to their expectations, try and entertain yourself with what you're saying. When you can captivate yourself with your questions/monologue, you can sell it to whoever you're talking to, then they'll be interested in whatever you're interested in.	/r/seduction	25/04/14 05:55 PM
5	Get inspired by job applying mistakes why would you care? be confident in your own handshake. and show it don't worry about his.	/r/seduction	19/04/14 05:22 AM
11	Depressed and confused...I honestly have no idea how people hook up, find girlfriends, get married etc. yep self help books. doesn't even have to do with pickup, just get a healthy mentality when it comes to other people and relationships and you'll be fine. I'd recommend "intimate connections" by David Burns. It's a book on how to get closer to people, and systematically breaks down all the insecurities you have.	/r/seduction	17/04/14 05:32 AM
2	Spent one day on this subreddit, got my confidence up. Already have a date with a girl I've been crushing on. yeah, oneitis seems like the case! Putting a face for this one girl. I get dramatic improvements can happen in a day, but changing yourself into an attractive person, for someone who already knows you? It's ALOT harder	/r/seduction	04/04/14 01:41 AM
2	Spent one day on this subreddit, got my confidence up. Already have a date with a girl I've been crushing on. i reckon it's all good, he can read this after the date and have some retrospective thoughts: It's like pre-emptive advice lol	/r/seduction	04/04/14 01:37 AM
2	People will hate you people hating me is their problem I'm just looking to add value to the lives of people i'm surrounded by, and myself	/r/seduction	02/04/14 01:09 PM
5	Bars Vs Clubs for Picking up Girls there's no reason not to find out yourself!	/r/seduction	30/03/14 12:26 PM
58	Just went on the best date in months, and it cost me $0 yes, but it's an assumption that models aren't very intelligent out of the basis they look good. That's shallow. It's as shallow as the most AFC thing you could do, which is not talk to a girl because "she's probably not your type"	/r/seduction	27/03/14 12:35 AM
3	Your approach to "Sorry, I have a boyfriend" "well he certainly isn't invited!" "really? congratulations!...continue with whatever you were about to say" "I'm more fun than he is" Not condoning home wrecking or anything, gauge the situation through her reaction. And aim for a positive interaction more than anything	/r/seduction	24/03/14 03:37 PM
2	How to not be awkward when cold approaching? mate, this question's been asked so many times, just use the search bar. basically things are only ever awkward if you make it. You're awkward cause you're thinking too much about what you're doing, and you're not in the moment.	/r/seduction	23/03/14 01:26 PM
3	I like how she took the first step to the next level me too brother haha	/r/seduction	21/03/14 02:29 PM
4	This shit is GOLD -- How To Pick Up Girls From Open To Close he's excited and passionate like a 12 year old :P	/r/seduction	10/03/14 03:26 AM
2	This shit is GOLD -- How To Pick Up Girls From Open To Close yeah, sometimes people use swearing for emphasis (some comics see it as cheating). That being said, i occasionally I use swear words in presentations in an academic setting, and and doing it tastefully can make things interesting/funny	/r/seduction	10/03/14 03:24 AM
1	How the fuck do I learn to dance? If you wanna stop being so self conscious, don't judge other people, and you'll be much less susceptible to what others think of you. People who judge the most have the most fear of being judged	/r/seduction	07/03/14 01:32 PM
2	How the fuck do I learn to dance? slow it down, anyone can do it slow, then do it faster the better you get at it, and before you'll know it, you'll have it down	/r/seduction	07/03/14 12:06 PM
2	How to Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back - if you've ever asked that question, this will shift your paradigm yeah, the author's main point is to be honest with yourself why she left you. There are a few exceptions where shit happens and you can't do anything about it, but he's trying to address the majority of cases The article was written specifically for people who want to recover a relationship (where the other party doesn't), after it does't work out and if that's that case, it's the mentality of the person that's the problem, and stopping him from realising his potential of becoming a better man	/r/seduction	27/02/14 04:47 PM
1	[FR] Second report, way more successful than the first round. K-close for myself and an F-close for my roommate haha awesome. Cheers!	/r/seduction	14/01/14 11:42 PM
1	[FR] Second report, way more successful than the first round. K-close for myself and an F-close for my roommate what's the white guy dancing you describe? It sounds hilarious, but I can't picture it!	/r/seduction	14/01/14 11:13 PM
9	Top 10 Tips on Seduction Learned in 2013 there are some good points. this is what this community is all about. It's all anecdotal, so filter out the bad, keep the good	/r/seduction	05/01/14 12:23 PM
2	How smiling changed my life I think an attractive smile is something that is practised, I mean you can tell that carmelo guy smiles ALOT to the point where it's just so natural. I'd like to see someone who smiles alot that is uglier/less approachable when they do so	/r/seduction	02/01/14 04:24 PM
2	12 things that annoy me about this place "The only time I can think that it would ever appropriate to tell a girl you like her is if you’ve been hanging out with her romantically for a while and she is wondering where it’s going." If you end up in that situation, you've done something wrong (unless you're hesitant in entering a relationship) I learnt that the hard way :P saying I like you still makes shit weird	/r/seduction	24/12/13 05:28 AM