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| 2 | Do you feel more appealing to woman as you get older? [32yo male]/thread | /r/seduction | 02/02/18 06:10 PM |
| 39 | Cute girl at Starbucks: "How may I take your order?"Girl: "Here is your change!" me: Thank you sir! oops... | /r/seduction | 13/01/18 01:32 AM |
| 3 | The Most Powerful Person In The RoomGuess it is all about title of authority | /r/seduction | 07/06/14 12:43 AM |
| 1 | Heading to Vegas this weekend, any pointers?Bring condoms. | /r/seduction | 17/08/13 01:52 AM |
| 2 | Breaking the language barrier...Just think Gambit from X-men the cartoon from the 90's and talk like him. Hey..."mon cherie, want a jack of spades?" | /r/seduction | 30/01/13 11:02 PM |
| 1 | How do you set the terms of a relationship once you've gamed them? are there methods of keeping distance and attraction without being heartless?Haha nah man, I didn't feel that you were attacking me and I was not offended by any of your comments. I am enjoying this conversation as well. Well, you will be labelled a player by most people, just because you are seeing multiple girls and this may be because of society's mislabeling of people. Guys are always the bad guys first when compared to women, it is like the "slut" title, when women should feel empowered about their sexuality they are shamed and the same can go for guys as players, b… | /r/seduction | 30/01/13 10:17 PM |
| 1 | [FR] What turned out to be the wildest night of my life. (The following weekend/Update)I feel that you owe us a drink for some weird reason ;b haha good job bro | /r/seduction | 30/01/13 08:00 PM |
| 1 | How do you set the terms of a relationship once you've gamed them? are there methods of keeping distance and attraction without being heartless?There is dating without sex, no one said sex is a precursor to a relationship but your initial question is a conundrum. How do I keep them at a distance and attraction without being heartless? You gonna have to be heartless sometimes in those type of relationships. Every girl has their own "policy" of when they will give up sex and what it means to them. You are providing that emotional response to their needs and if you don't want to be with them then yeah, you gonna hurt their feelings. Yeah m… | /r/seduction | 29/01/13 10:16 PM |
| 1 | [FR]First post on Reddit and field report on first dateHaha yeah, I chalk Asian game into a whole different category than others especially those born a different Asian country and now live in a high metropolitan area. Asians born in America are much easier and are more open about dating and having sex with guys they genuinely like. The FOBS though look for other aspects before sleeping with you, such as wealth, career, etc. Most likely a brand name item will make them more loose but that is like 1000 plus dinners, etc. You may have to wait around 3… | /r/seduction | 29/01/13 09:34 PM |
| 3 | How do you set the terms of a relationship once you've gamed them? are there methods of keeping distance and attraction without being heartless?Sadly, people won't respond well to that and that is why I emphasized that you have to be up front and let them know that the relationship is casual and if the girl wants that good for you guys, but if they don't then you have to drop it. I use the word player loosely, since they are the ones dating around. I been in your boat before and it is hard for me to commit since I am always in these type of relationships like you want which is why I highly recommend dating someone you really want to be … | /r/seduction | 29/01/13 09:23 PM |
| 2 | [FR]First post on Reddit and field report on first dateROFLMAO...dude I live in LA and do business trips in the bay all the time. I'm asian and live in a community surrounded by Asians and what I can tell you is Asian women are the epitome of a "hard lay" they will bite and pinch and be super aggressive with you especially if they are FOB. FOB means Fresh off the boat, the feel entitled and are used to the finer things in life. Most Asian girls move from LA or get a job in the bay because they want to meet engineers who make good women and will take… | /r/seduction | 29/01/13 07:25 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Text game review. Advice needed!100% what this guy said | /r/seduction | 29/01/13 06:53 PM |
| 10 | How do you set the terms of a relationship once you've gamed them? are there methods of keeping distance and attraction without being heartless?Think what the OP wants to know is once you got the girl, how do you keep it good with them by establishing them as FWB rather than a guy who is trying to get in a relationship with that girl. Well my friend, that is a tough question. Generally I would tell you that you should be looking for a girl YOU want to be in a relationship with instead of a guy who sleeps with different random girls. But, if you must be a player then what I recommend is you to be very careful and set the tone right, noth… | /r/seduction | 29/01/13 06:04 PM |
| 3 | A big thanks to everyone here, plus a question...Got to do it slow and smooth, make it part of the make out and not feel like you are forcing the issue. Run a finger between her thighs and place your hand on her inner thighs, you want to drive her wild so she "seemingly" is making the first move on you. | /r/seduction | 22/01/13 08:27 PM |
| -1 | [FR] 1st date after almost a year, and 1 month since joining seddit. No close, but she didn't flake this time.dude, you had her to yourself for the entire show. It is push/pull you could of done alot of different things during the whole event. Work on things like kino'ing and such, you could of also been adventurous and changed venues. There was alot of potential, I suggest reviewing the day and see what other things you could of improved on. | /r/seduction | 22/01/13 07:24 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Gym approach, #-close to bedroomexactly, you do not want to go to a place you go to all the time and have to deal with the awkwardness that might happen if the relationship goes sour. Plus, something about seeing 50 year old buff dudes waiting outside yoga classes that makes me not want to do the same thing. | /r/seduction | 21/01/13 10:37 PM |
| 1 | Do you guys have a "girl " friend?Yep, I got two really good "girl" friends. I got other "girl" friends but we're not as close and I would occassionally FWB them. The close ones I make it a policy of mine not to engage in anything sexually with them, although sometimes they give me alot of hints. | /r/seduction | 17/01/13 11:25 PM |
| 3 | Let's Talk About Texting [with a mini FR]I find that push/pull is needed for texting. I hate it myself but Braddock was on par when he mentioned that as well as the Dynamite Theory. You did good by avoiding her shit test and the killer move was "A chance to seduce me" you made it sound like you were the prize and not her. Kudos man. | /r/seduction | 16/01/13 11:45 PM |
| 0 | An interesting read about the end of "dating" for the younger generations. I feel sorry for you, kidsI read this article and all it did was confuse me. I'm 29 so I'm at the end of my twenties but plenty of guys I know, we all know how to romance a girl. I'm just surprised about how hanging out is a date now, it seems that groups are the big thing and that is how you pick your next gf/bf. | /r/seduction | 16/01/13 01:08 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Many mini FRs in Asia and a couple of lessons from an HB7.5I don't have time to write a huge post, but if you want to give me a call (626) 230-4005 | /r/seduction | 15/01/13 11:11 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Many mini FRs in Asia and a couple of lessons from an HB7.5Whoa dude, I don't know how you're having trouble. In Taiwan and Japan those girls love people who can speak english, especially ABCs. Same rules apply as it would in America, the language is a barrier but I'm like you. I'm ABC (American born Chinese) and my Mandarin is okay but not a strong point and I can speak almost fluent Japanese. The culture is also different so you have to DHV alot by being social since both countries are high context which means they are more community based. If you are… | /r/seduction | 10/01/13 08:01 PM |
| 0 | 3rd girl in a row that this has happened to me. Can't get past 3-4 dates. I'm wondering if I'm doing something wrong/missing something and would like some advice.you learn seddit to pick up girls not make girlfriends man. If you want a gf you have to be genuine and show her your true self. Also, you are giving her the ride of her life initially and then afterwards things die down, you should think about escalating slowly into that fun stuff especially if you want a gf. | /r/seduction | 10/01/13 12:52 AM |
| 2 | [FR] The Hattrick - Part 2 and Part 3Now you can try for the perfect week! | /r/seduction | 08/01/13 10:25 PM |
| 2 | Being asian...A disadvantage?I'm Asian and 6'2, dressed well and all of that. I don't have difficulty at all but I live in LA, it is super diverse here and it is sometimes comical because I have a harder time with Asian girls from Asia. Anyways, just step up your game it ain't hard. | /r/seduction | 06/12/12 12:22 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Field Report: Coffee shop daytime approach parlayed into insta-dateyeep, you are a writer. Add this to your book. | /r/seduction | 30/11/12 11:20 PM |
| 5 | [FR] First Date talked about sexFrom what I read it was a good run, until the end. I won't get into details but her latest text about not being over her ex shows signs that she started comparing you two and due to your AFC-ness you did not pass the "this guy is better than my ex" test. Just remember to make take the leap when you get an opportunity | /r/seduction | 15/11/12 08:18 PM |
| -1 | Stop looking for IOIs and just approach.I don't even remember what IOI stands for. | /r/seduction | 26/10/12 11:53 PM |
| 2 | [Field Report] Did my first cold approach ever, #-closed.In regards to your update. Be natural but look at some post here about the day game, these things can be integral for escalating. | /r/seduction | 24/10/12 11:40 PM |
| -11 | What are your go-to "make-her-earn-it" requests?What I do is, after a girl ask me to buy her a drink I will look her up and down and then look at the bartender and tell him "give me one of your cheapest drinks and one of your strongest shots" afterwards I will look at the girl making sure she heard what I said and give her the cheap drink and I will down the strong shot and then tell her, "stick around until my beer googles kick in and then I will buy you a more expensive drink" if she didn't leave in anger before she will suck up to you like… | /r/seduction | 20/10/12 12:15 AM |
| 0 | I asked a girl for 3 things she's into, later another guy did the same, she pointed it out and awkwardness ensued.Yeah I would of AMOGGed him, I would of said "Dude that line is can only be said by cool peoples" | /r/seduction | 19/10/12 08:05 PM |
| 1 | Seddit, I've lost my touchum..high school is not forever brah~ | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 11:00 PM |
| 1 | [FR] - Tuesday NightNot gonna nitpick, good work. Keep sarging the good fight. | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 10:58 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Rainy Day GameI guess the Vegas rain was a good thing for some peoples | /r/seduction | 13/09/12 05:29 PM |
| 1 | PUAs help me pleaseShe is working at the mall, so that entails that she is a "hired gun" people who are paid to be nice. Note that I am only assuming that she works in some sort of customer service job. http://www.theattractionforums.com/strippers-hired-guns/ check out that link for some good information about talking to hired guns | /r/seduction | 12/09/12 10:38 PM |
| 1 | So I got a really nice girl and its getting serious between us. Now what.what this guy said. Just to add something else, you have been with her for 4 months and by now you should of shown who you really are and there is nothing and I repeat nothing you need from PUA methods to keep things romantic and interesting, it was all you already bro and that is why you guys been together for 4 months. You graduated from the PUA stuff and now you got to focus on being yourself and concentrate on being in a relationship. Good luck to the both of you! | /r/seduction | 11/09/12 11:32 PM |
| 2 | I want to Shit where I Eat(Roommate Situation)dude, listen to your uncle barney and don't poop where you eat! | /r/seduction | 11/09/12 09:59 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Long Fuckin Read. Noob goes to a frat party, gets 1st # close and makeout close, also a failed makeout close.Hey man, that is why alot of PUA recommend doing things sober. Myself, I also recommend having a drink or two depending on how your tolerance level is, anyways you did good man just be more decisive next time. Not going to lie, Frat parties and Vegas are the easiest places to get laid so you got more chances. Keep up the good work and good FR. | /r/seduction | 10/09/12 10:25 PM |
| 2 | Cyrano, the fun pickup game my friends and I invented.Me and my friends play a game like this as well, except that I am the only single one so when we're at the club/bar or whatever my friends would pick a girl and offer me money or a drink depending on what I achieve. It is like a steam achievement except I get free stuff for doing better. It is great because they are living vicariously through me and I also get to have some fun picking up girls. On a side note, sometimes I would have to say some messed up things, but man...100 bucks is totally wo… | /r/seduction | 10/09/12 09:44 PM |
| 2 | All the guys having their first AA problems? This worked for me.upvote for his "p.s. even your warcraft addiction" | /r/seduction | 08/09/12 12:27 AM |
| 1 | F-Close but no stamina due to nervousness, advise please.Good sex or the best sex is usually fast and furious and I read somewhere that 10 mins is the longest women want to have sex for, afterwards they are just waiting for you to cum. Anyways, chalk it up to experience and get back on the horse. | /r/seduction | 06/09/12 11:57 PM |
| 2 | [FR] First night out attempting the game. 22yr MaleOr chill at the smoking area, or outside patio if they got one. It is less noisy there and you can totally approach girls more easier. | /r/seduction | 06/09/12 08:02 PM |
| 8 | [FR] First night out attempting the game. 22yr MaleYou my friend are good to go. You had enough balls to go out by yourself even though you are totally new to approaching girls and you even attempted approaching different girls, you earned an A+ for effort. Next step I would recommend is to try and make some friends who can be your wingman, sometimes sets of 3 girls and just you is too much for a beginner. Try evening the odds and then try again, also when it is too loud I recommend trying to get the girl to a less noisy spot in the place so you… | /r/seduction | 06/09/12 08:02 PM |
| 47 | Im a noob, made first 5 aproaches today. Better than expected!oh young padawon, the force is strong in this one. | /r/seduction | 01/09/12 12:15 AM |
| 0 | [FR] Follow up: Male style PUA tips applied by female > Role reversal reversal and F-close.yeah the dude is definitely experienced. | /r/seduction | 24/08/12 10:56 PM |
| 2 | Pickup lines or ice breakers for a shy guy that is in a wheelchair."Hey, uhh want to take a seat?" said while giving her a mischevious grin while giving her eye contact. | /r/seduction | 24/08/12 10:53 PM |
| -1 | Male PUA tips applied by female, 21. 1st Test.guys need things like the playbook because these are methods used to get women or help them break out of their AA. You miss already were born were a two volume set, you hitting on guys with your attitude you will have like 0% rejection rate. and when you type hella I keep thinking u from the bay area. | /r/seduction | 21/08/12 06:56 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Day game noob here, first Starbucks approach failed.Good job on doing the approach instead of getting AA. First thing, you did well in noticing what you were doing wrong. Using a weak voice can be kind of good since it shows you are genuine, anyways being confident is the sure way to go. I think the taken thing could of been a shit test since she asked for your name later. That last part when she approached you was another opportunity she was giving you I believe. Anyways, good work and keep it up! | /r/seduction | 15/08/12 04:28 PM |
| 2 | How can I overcome these issues?Take the initiative and make them your facebook friend, you work with them so you should know their last names at least. Also, when you are in a conversation with them try to engage them and put yourself out there telling them "you want to try that" or "that sounds like fun, let me get at that" you are the master of your own fate take charge and go from there. edit-because i thought of something else, create events of your own and invite them. For example, "Dude I got this awesome groupon thing … | /r/seduction | 03/08/12 12:13 AM |
| 3 | [FR]- Party girl F-close, kinda longtsk tsk, using your powers for evil. | /r/seduction | 26/07/12 12:31 AM |
| 5 | [fail report] Girl at a clothing store I've been casually talking to. What should I have done differently?Sometimes a girl says "I have a boyfriend" to reduce the pain of rejection and sometimes it is true, but that is the period where you make or break yourself. When a girl says "I have a bf" to me I give her a quick and solid "Want to cheat?" or "I have a goldfish, so what?" reply. It usually works, just be witty and keep the air good. Even if she really has a bf she can be a lead to other girls or if they break up you can re-establish attraction and go after her again. | /r/seduction | 26/07/12 12:22 AM |
| 4 | [FR] Four in one weekdude you were half way to a perfect week! Could of retired your tie. One day you will make it to the hall of game haha -Barney Stinson | /r/seduction | 20/07/12 08:14 PM |
| 3 | Guy friends to bring along?I only bring people who I know will sarge with me. Lately, I have been going with my brother his gf, my homie and his gf and since I am the single one I usually have to open the sets. I view it like an utility belt though, if I need a wing girl or a wing man I got the best of both worlds. | /r/seduction | 19/07/12 06:48 PM |
| 1 | [FR] So I got her number... now what?This link. http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/ecmm8/how_i_go_from_number_to_first_date/ | /r/seduction | 19/07/12 05:52 PM |
| 5 | Womanese, womanese, womanese. Seddit: What are your favorite examples?I can add to this one "I am a big time foodie"="I expect you to buy me dinner all the time" | /r/seduction | 17/07/12 09:14 PM |
| 2 | Living with my parentsjust be confident and cool about it. most people understand how the economy is and alot of college students and even mid twenty-late twenty guys are staying with their parents. | /r/seduction | 17/07/12 08:52 PM |
| 2 | Being too available [mini-FR inside]Yeah story 2 sounds like a classic story of "fear to close" like the salesman who pitches sales to people and may use the "fear of loss" tactic the "fear to close" problem usually comes from guys who recently broke up wit their girls or are still in love with their exs and even though they get opportunity they steer themselves away with excuses. | /r/seduction | 17/07/12 08:50 PM |
| 2 | Want to get better at banter and the alpha attitude? Watch Archer. Seriously.went through all the comments and I don't know why we're forgetting Barney Stinson! That man wrote the "Playbook" ! | /r/seduction | 13/07/12 04:36 PM |
| 0 | What to do when girls take a while to respond?take a cold shower fap fap while taking a cold shower hit the gym | /r/seduction | 12/07/12 10:40 PM |
| 1 | guys approach me, i repel them after 5 minutes, repeat x50...sigh help me sedditI don't know, guys usually won't run away from a girl unless they get a vibe that you are not interested in them. If you remain flirtatious and maintain communication they shouldn't back down and would proceed even further. In my experience I would never approach a girl I'm not interested in unless I'm using that girl to break into the set or making the girl I'm interested in get jealous and qualify herself to me. | /r/seduction | 10/07/12 11:33 PM |
| 1 | As a young working professional working 40-60 hours a week, I'm having trouble finding time to even meet people at all. What should I do?I understand how you feel and was completely stumped as well as what to do. I work out and work 40+ hours a week with the whole office job thing and that tends to eat into a lot of my time but one day I was in the gym and an epiphany hit me and I realized that since I'm busy I should just go and talk to girls I find attractive where ever I am. For this you need to have good day game and night game and it is like OJT. | /r/seduction | 10/07/12 09:13 PM |
| 3 | [FR] I got a pizza slice from a girlum..yeah I think you need to work on your banter. You need to draw them in with jokes and conversation to create a comfortable atmosphere between you guys and your friend needs to be more open because he wasn't winging it for you. The good thing was that you aren't afraid to approach and also the girls don't mind talking to you. You had the opportunities now you just need to learn how to take advantage of it. Good FR and with some polishing you can be real good. | /r/seduction | 09/07/12 09:56 PM |
| 1 | [FR] My Saturdayhindsight is 20/20, if you get another chance just re-evaluate this experience and see what you can improve on i.e. don't try to qualify yourself so much as if you were competiting with V, you dope in your own right. | /r/seduction | 09/07/12 09:46 PM |
| 4 | [FR] Completely unexpected...respect. | /r/seduction | 09/07/12 09:34 PM |
| 1 | Does she like me? What do you guys think?sounds like she was just trying to give herself a confidence booster, going wit a guy who she knows is into her. Best advice, play it non chalant if she flakes like that then forget her there plenty more of girls out there who would want you. | /r/seduction | 09/07/12 08:20 PM |
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