salemkittycat Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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5	How to stay happily married? - College class discussion Love is not something that somebody gives you. Love is something you find for yourself. Marriage is about sharing your life's journeys, goals and ambitions together and seeing them through to fruition. And when you fight, it's important that both of you don't give up at the same time.	/r/RedPillWomen	05/01/17 07:15 PM
1	Hey, I'm new to RPW! As a former radfem the red pill has helped me in relationships, but I'm wondering if any of you ladies mix aspects of the red pill and feminism together and if so, which aspects ? I'm going to throw in historical context for the philosophy already mentioned in this thread. 1964: Civil Rights Act. This was a big one, though not entirely relevant to the conversation of feminism vs. RPW ideology. 1973 (Roe vs. Wade): A legal decision by the Supreme Court on the availability of abortion. 1975 (This was the big one): Equal Credit Opportunity Act. Gave women the right to secure loans individually that were not backed by their husband or father. Previously, discrimination in len…	/r/RedPillWomen	05/01/17 06:00 AM
2	Trying to grow into a rose in the concrete...advice? and run for the hills even if it means living in a shelter and losing priceless possessions. I can't pretend to trust him as my "captain" when he regularly threatens my life and the lives of my kids, or puts his hands on me, or cheats on me and looks for sympathy. :\| What are you doing? You knew what kind of response you were going to get here. Do you really not know why the situation is wrong? The psychology is, mate guarding comes in many forms. Manipulation, codependency, abuse, etc., are com…	/r/RedPillWomen	05/01/17 05:48 AM
1	Hard time trusting other women Yeah, and here's the thing--most of the time when you're in a healthy relationship, things just work the majority of the time and the competition is pretty rare. Are any of your coworkers women? I've met a lot of my friends through networking and work events.	/r/RedPillWomen	01/01/17 01:32 AM
1	Let's talk about Passion. 1.) I asked you why you believed your son's father was a loser. You brought up money and career aspirations. 2.) You lived with his family the entire year you were pregnant. You now with your parents. 3.) That is outstanding that he is very social and has good relationships with family, friends and his teachers. 4.) He is an excellent father. That is also fantastic. I strongly believe you are looking for replacement parental figures to take care of you and not a "captain" as they call them here.…	/r/RedPillWomen	31/12/16 05:59 PM
6	I brought my SO my problem, and he solved it Yayyyy, happy story. :)	/r/RedPillWomen	31/12/16 11:00 AM
15	Hard time trusting other women I think that you have a very valid question, and it's difficult to find friends in the most desirable brackets of emotional maturity--in your age group, that engage in your hobbies, that are in the same cycle "life stage" as you are. You are right in the sense that it's challenging to find younger women who are not so focused on surrounding themselves with attention seeking and signaling to everyone that they're, hey, available, right over here ---> with florescent flashing lights overhead and a…	/r/RedPillWomen	31/12/16 09:51 AM
1	Let's talk about Passion. I agree, it is rather normal to have them because if you were not sexually attracted to other people of your "type" from time to time, that would be considered abstention from aesthetics, wouldn't it? I believe at least most people are built to appreciate beautiful things, and it's important to understand our base nature so that we understand where things like "intuition" and "gut instinct" comes from. "Amant Infirmitate," in philosophical terms, love sickness that could lead to death.	/r/RedPillWomen	31/12/16 03:47 AM
1	Let's talk about Passion. Edit: I actually wanted to rephrase and ask some more questions, after rereading your response. 1.) Why do you believe your son's father is a loser? Do you have a relationship with him to the degree that you can discuss things like parenting strategy, or is it all scorched earth? 2.) Do you know his family? Are his parents supportive of his legal/personal relationship with you, as a father to your child and their grandchildren? Are your parents still in the picture, and do they have a relationsh…	/r/RedPillWomen	31/12/16 02:58 AM
1	Let's talk about Passion. All right, I'll give it my best shot. I was asking if you were serious because I tend to be long-winded when I'm not paying attention, so please bear with me on that. So the question is, "What you can do once you become an alpha widow?" If you're asking how to restore the passion in an existing relationship, that's a very different question than if you're asking how to meet someone and "not make the same mistake twice." Hmm, this may also apply to the thread poster if she doesn't hate me by now.…	/r/RedPillWomen	31/12/16 02:48 AM
1	Let's talk about Passion. I could have just as easily blamed my parents and sat around feeling sorry for myself, but I didn't. No one was going to "marginalize" me and keep me from conquering my goals. Honestly, good for you. That is extremely impressive coming from the kind of background you've had. It takes nerves of steel and great self-discipline to leave behind your family's legacy and achieve that level of formal education even with a supportive background. Although I think we do agree, I was pointing out that once…	/r/RedPillWomen	31/12/16 01:54 AM
2	Subbed here a few weeks ago, and have already seen incredible improvements. SO grateful to have found this! Oh god, r/incels. Haha. Yeah, confirmed... No, you know what, go there once. Everyone needs to see it once.	/r/RedPillWomen	30/12/16 07:43 PM
2	I have a project idea for someone! 36 x 24 x 36 I think became popular after... Nelly? Was it? What song was that? Anyway, I'm kind of an artist so the "golden ratios" are very familiar to me. Symmetry in the face and all that. I think makeup contouring as seen on Tumblr and the like are practically photoshop in real life. I'm not sure there'd be widespread interest or not, but I might participate in it if I saw a survey like that posted. It might be interesting to see if it could be done with a competitive-yet-supportive spirit …	/r/RedPillWomen	30/12/16 07:38 PM
1	I have a project idea for someone! May I make a suggestion? There are several plastic surgeons that post before and after pictures of cosmetic surgeries on their website portfolios. I had a weird fascination with the human/female body when I was in high school, and it was really amazing to me to see how many different shapes, sizes and colors a woman's body could come in. What was even more interesting were all the different ways women focused on qualifying their attractiveness. If you want an interesting experience, look at befo…	/r/RedPillWomen	30/12/16 07:16 PM
3	Let's talk about Passion. It's not feminism/shitty parents. If you ever delve into the world of philosophy, psychology, economics, government programs and the wonderful world of "progressive" ideology, you might change your mind about that. Even if you magically woke up and knew all the answers one day, you still have to set foot in a world that's built on foundation and tradition that marginalizes large groups of society for the sake and benefit of all. "People kill each other over what they believe happens to them when…	/r/RedPillWomen	30/12/16 07:03 PM
4	Let's talk about Passion. In all practical application, it's a message I feel is lost in this next generation. There is nothing wrong with being financially, emotionally, physically independent as a woman until you find the right man, but on that token, we can't forget the origin story of humanity evolving from living in villages of about 50 members, with barbarians and armies that ransacked villages, that stole women, raped them and got them pregnant for the cultural assimilation/child rearing for the next generation of…	/r/RedPillWomen	30/12/16 01:27 PM
2	Let's talk about Passion. Your flair says engaged. Is this a serious question?	/r/RedPillWomen	30/12/16 01:03 PM
3	PTSD and comfort tests. u/UnrefinedFacade nailed it, journaling will also help you practice expressing your emotions in a constructive / easy to understand way. It will help retrain your brain that expressing emotions is welcome and acceptable, and through practice you'll find it easier to articulate them concisely in face-to-face conversations. A thousand upvotes.	/r/RedPillWomen	30/12/16 10:36 AM
3	Relationship issue and training your man? I'm going to jump on this and give you some advice, too. Attachment theory is the idea that from childhood, we're taught by our parents our worth and value as human beings. When people talk about internalizing your abuser, that means in your head, you have a version of your parents that yell at you not to do the things that would have driven them to hurt or abandon you in real life, because it's safer to be yelled at by a version of an abuser, then to be physically attacked and killed by that ab…	/r/RedPillWomen	30/12/16 10:15 AM
2	Let's talk about Passion. Well... this is my first shot at this. I'm a philosopher and not 100% RP, but let's see how I do with the upvotes... lol. The one thing I am not clear on is why you only see your son "every week" instead of every day. I'm a big fan of evolutionary biology and stoicism as a philosophy, the science is rather, well, questionable. The primary goal of most women in general is to find a man, have babies, and keep the man. That's it. That's like, your sole job if you want to provide a masculine role mo…	/r/RedPillWomen	30/12/16 09:22 AM