saliabey Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
93	How I flipped the roles in my marriage.	SELF IMPROVEMENT	saliabey	/r/RedPillWomen	10/08/19 06:45 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
13	My boyfriend wants me to improve on being an effective helper and nurturer. I'm not quite sure what this means for a man. Hes telling you hes carrying the mental load. PAY ATTENTION to this man because men like this will NOT keep telling you over and over. Hes telling you to speak up Stop being a door mat Have a backbone Maybe correct him instead of just okay your right babe. Hes looking for a woman with SPIRIT. A fire inside that is lit for him & home. You seem not to have that or show it from his perspective. Be wise... he wont marry you asking you for things like this.	/r/RedPillWomen	18/07/20 08:35 AM
43	How to be feminine while you're with a short partner, by societal standards. What do you call a man under 6ft?? Just FRIENDS!!! HARDE HAR HAR HAR AMIRITE LADIES???? /s just... NO My guy is 5'6.............	/r/RedPillWomen	17/07/20 03:31 PM
2	How I flipped the roles in my marriage. Thank you. That was the whole reason I posted it. I admittedly made LOTS of mistakes and thankfully my husband loved me enough to see me through it. I was forced to take a hard look at myself and it shamed me how I was behaving. I know it's just the start but you have to start somewhere.	/r/RedPillWomen	10/08/19 11:33 PM
2	How I flipped the roles in my marriage. Damn this was something I felt so great about now I'm not so sure. But definitely gonna go enjoy my marriage. People crucify you if you are willing to say damn I've been awful let me change myself. People are like no your not changing let me give you crap over it.	/r/RedPillWomen	10/08/19 10:40 PM
1	How I flipped the roles in my marriage. I said I realized I fucked up. You want more juice? Sorry cant give it to you. But my husband and I are back together and stronger than ever after LOTS OF THERAPY. But deleting this post because of people who try to demonize you for making mistakes even when you learn from them. Thanks though.	/r/RedPillWomen	10/08/19 10:31 PM
5	How I flipped the roles in my marriage. I. Took. All . That. Training. Home. To . My . Family. .....k keyword = I . TOOOOK. MEANING = I BEHAVED ON MY OWN ACCORD. MEANING = I LEARNED HOW TO FUCTION IN ONE SETTING AND IT BLEED OVER. OR THE PART THAT SAID, IM IN THERAPY. OR THE PART THAT SAID I. ME WAS THE PROBLEM. Reading folks, its fundamental.	/r/RedPillWomen	10/08/19 04:33 PM
3	How I flipped the roles in my marriage. Where did you not see that I wasnt taking responsibility? I fully said that I brought my work home and was managing my house instead of being a wife. But your right random reader. No responsibility taken. I'm sorry that that's all you took out of what I said.	/r/RedPillWomen	10/08/19 03:51 PM
2	How I flipped the roles in my marriage. I'm glad someone freaking gets it. I'm sorry you cant quit your job. I miss my job but I realize that I need to reprogram my brain from needing to manage and control my relationship.	/r/RedPillWomen	10/08/19 02:30 PM
4	How I flipped the roles in my marriage. Yes colic is THE WORST. Yes I know it's not over and this is only the start. Again I want to say that my job is what taught me to treat people like they are inept babies. It wasnt always like this. It was a slow progression of me turning into this super bitch. Idk if that makes sense. I was always type A but having this job made me fill EGO. If that makes sense.	/r/RedPillWomen	10/08/19 01:29 PM
5	How I flipped the roles in my marriage. My husband is an excellent father. I say relaxed to reference that I am high strung and spontaneous. LOL. I mothered him because I had a job that literally taught me to treat people like they were slow. It didnt start out this way. It was a gradual progression which I didnt realize was happening.	/r/RedPillWomen	10/08/19 01:27 PM
3	How I flipped the roles in my marriage. Wow thank you for your story. I felt the same way. Like a horrible person. When really I just had too much stress. Nobody explained PPD at all. I assumed that because I wasnt holding a knife to my baby that I wasnt suffering from it but boy was I WRONG. Took me 4 months to bond with baby and I feel like I made that move because of the depression. My husband is an amazing guy and we do balance each other out but depression can make you go in your head and rewrite everything. Yes. You can change. …	/r/RedPillWomen	10/08/19 10:33 AM
6	How I flipped the roles in my marriage. Your assumption would be wrong as weve had plenty of talks about this and it's not manipulating him its teaching myself how to love my husband with no guidance growing up. Were open and honest and he knows me very well.	/r/RedPillWomen	10/08/19 09:16 AM
4	How I flipped the roles in my marriage. I know, I still cant believe it. We got married 3 weeks after meeting due to our religion and not being allowed to date so we had learning curves but I'm really happy with how far weve come. Sad it took all this to see that I was the issue.	/r/RedPillWomen	10/08/19 08:14 AM
3	Is He Lying? Human trafficking is REAL. Girl. No no no no no and HELLLLL NO. If he wants you.. tell him to come to the states since its "all expenses paid" hes using his money to lure. Be very fucking careful.	/r/RedPillWomen	09/08/19 09:26 AM