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So isn’t there at least a way to keep it open but not allow any new posts? Just so people at least can use it as reference and learn?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/22 12:36 AM
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Hahaha 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/22 06:44 PM
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I don’t understand why the mods are doing this. Four years ago I was in an abusive relationship that was quite literally driving me insane. I was such a mess of a human being. My mental health was in the trash along with my self confidence. And one day, on a throwaway account, I made a post on r/relationships about my situation and a woman posted and said: “You need to level up” along with a link to this subreddit. That comment CHANGED MY LIFE. Without it, I would’ve been repeating the same mist…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/22 02:44 PM
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You’re like the guru I never had but desperately need. I definitely feel that this was forced on me because of the quarantine. Otherwise I’d never have him around for this long. We used to only see each other once a week or so.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 10:58 PM
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Thank you 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 09:09 PM
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It’s a two bedroom! Haha but yeah. I don’t understand his financials very well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 08:15 PM
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Yep, you’re likely right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 08:13 PM
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Unfortunately I have a feeling you’re right. I think I’ve accepted not going in because subconsciously I’m afraid it’ll be a pigsty because that is a huge deal breaker to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 08:10 PM
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Thank you dear! :) you’re right
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 07:24 PM
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You’d be surprised. He’s had successful businesses before, he has drive with his career, trust me. I’ve seen this first hand. He just somehow doesn’t mind living way way below his means. I don’t understand it at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 07:15 PM
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Thank you so much! I keep telling myself this. Because I also keep beating myself up for thinking bad things about him but then I remind myself that 99% of the time my intuition has been right. Why can’t I trust myself more?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 07:14 PM
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That’s what upsets me. He lives like a college freshman. The thing is I know for a fact he earns SIGNIFICANTLY more than I do. That almost makes it worse. If he was a struggling student or something trying to make ends meet. I’d be understanding.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 07:12 PM
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Thanks, I’m inclined to defend him now but I know you’re probably right. I’m surrounded by people who believe in 50/50 relationships and I thought it was good enough that he paid for everything when we went out, that he took me to nice, expensive restaurants, cooked for me. But this emergency situation is making me realize that he can’t help me in times of need. You know he always says if you need anything let me know and I never take him up on that so maybe it’s my fault but really how’s he gon…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 07:09 PM
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He hasn’t moved in with me. Sorry I might not have made this clear. He’s been staying 4-5 days of the week with me. He never really invited himself so I guess I’m to blame. It’s just that my apartment has way more amenities than his so it’s somewhat become a routine for him to be with me most days. While I do like having him around and he does cook for me and treats me well, I feel a bit pressured to have him over because I know my living arrangements offer way more comforts than his.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 07:00 PM
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“Heterosexual” yet he was browsing this sub...hmmmmmmmm
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 06:28 PM
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/r/ladybonersgw is where men post pictures. (It is obviously nsfw, beware) Subreddits with porn images directed towards women exist they’re just obviously nowhere near as popular.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 12:07 AM
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Thank you. You’re absolutely right. I was definitely craving intimacy and affection. I feel good around him. But yeah craving it this early and giving in as opposed to finding ways to distract myself seems like a bad idea. I will be more conscious of this in the future.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 04:02 PM
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Hah not a bad idea, actually. I’m actually busy this weekend so I might not be able to see him anyways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 04:00 PM
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Great advice, thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 03:58 PM
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You’re right. This is good advice. I should occupy my time with other stuff. Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 03:58 PM
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I've done the spreadsheets too! It's insane how they drive us crazy and make us question ourselves to the point of having to make a spreadsheet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 03:52 PM
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Oh my god thank you. Left an abusive relationship recently and still have to see him on a daily basis (not my choice). He’s been behaving so nice lately, I feel guilty for hating him. But I know he’s still the same asshole he was when I was with him. Seriously, thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 05:12 PM
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Yeah that’s how I interpreted it. Not that they were dating but that to her he was just a side thing to pass the time lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 06:09 PM
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I mean shit, i guess you’re right. In my head she was keeping him on the side and never saw him as something serious. But looking at it now yeah, you’re right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 06:09 PM
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Oh my god same. I have some debts that I legitimately forgot about because my ex consumed my life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 01:59 PM
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Thank you so much :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 04:47 AM
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15 years!!! That’s crazy I’m so sorry you had to deal with that for so long. I totally relate to the hobby thing. Which is why I don’t want to date yet. I feel like I’m not a well rounded person yet. I hope you find things you like !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 02:31 AM
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Yesss I need new friends. I have few and the ones I want just encourage me to drink and act stupid. I love them but I really would like to stop drinking alcohol for a long time and I have a feeling I will lose all my current friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 02:30 AM
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I am definitely going to do this as soon as I can. I’ve contacted a domestic abuse center that gives free therapy. I hope it’s a step in the right direction to healing the damage my ex did.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 02:28 AM
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This post reminds me of a rant about the “cool girl” in Gillian Flynn’s Gone Girl. I remember loving it when I read it. Here’s a link to it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 01:04 AM
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I’m definitely going to make a list of things that are important to me. Booking a solo trip is a great idea!! I’ve been wanting to do that but I’m scared lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 12:50 AM
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Thank you! This is what I wanted to read, someone else’s journey. I’m proud of you even if I don’t know you and I hope I can do as much as you have done for yourself :) I definitely want to get back to the gym. Sorry about your boobs lol but you’re healthier now! So there’s that. It happens. I actually had a breast augmentation because I lost 15 pounds and my boobs went bye bye. So I get you. I think being busy can be a good thing. It’s so much better than having nothing to do and waiting around…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 12:49 AM
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Yeah ever since joining this sub and delving into fds strategies, I can’t be around men without noticing how incredibly low value they are. (At least around me, I’ve yet to see someone worth a damn)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 06:57 PM
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My favorite quote from The Unbearable Lightness of Being by Milan Kundera is similar to this but longer: Making love with a woman and sleeping with a woman are two separate passions, not merely different but opposite. Love does not make itself felt in the desire for copulation (a desire that extends to an infinite number of women) but in the desire for shared sleep (a desire limited to one woman). Basically, guys will fuck anything but want to sleep next to only one woman. (I realize this isn’t …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 01:55 AM
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