saltandvin3gar Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
39	Therapy lines that are used for manipulation My ex saw a therapist when we were together. One day after therapy he said, "you know, my therapist told me that we are all supposed to be responsible for our own feelings" with a smirk on his face. He was trying to imply that when he emotionally abused me, upset me and made me cry, I should stop blaming him because I was responsible for my own feelings. The worthless, NV, abusive scrote just could not admit he was a POS. You either had to take his abuse and never complain or have a response and…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/02/22 01:27 PM
63	Thankful I Found FDS! You are an incredibly intelligent woman for figuring this out at 19. It took me years to learn the truth about men (around 26 years old and endless stories of abusive relationships until I woke up). You should be really proud of yourself for developing the mindset you have now!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/02/22 12:20 AM
44	this woman is a “love coach” she’s literally paid to say shit like this and scrotes are all over this shit 🤣 Couldn't agree more with this. Sick of seeing these women who are making money off of telling women to be "more feminine". There's nothing wrong with being more feminine, but I'm not going to do it so that some scrote can come along and start exploiting/abusing/humiliating me, which is what most of these "love coaches" seem to be encouraging. They are completely blind to the reality of what ACTUALLY happens to feminine women in this world, their advice is actually dangerous. I am feminine when I…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/02/22 01:55 AM
46	LVM f*cked around, found out. I LOVE the bit where she left him at the sushi store. Ugh, just chefs kiss 😍	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/02/22 12:04 PM
13	Relationships with men as a reflection of relationship with parents Are we the same person? Everything you described is what I've been through both with my parents and in relationships. I cut my parents off a few years ago when I had an inevitable mental breakdown, realising I couldn't keep repeating the same patterns in my relationships because of how they raised me. I had to change my whole life and break free of the way I was conditioned. It was painful but it was the best thing I've ever done for myself.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/12/21 04:21 AM
9	Which one of you is this about Oh my god this is gold.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/11/21 12:39 PM
20	How long to wait for men to reply? (Busy career-oriented men) 3 days is more than enough. I would have personally blocked and deleted after waiting 1 day. Also, I'd never give any man the benefit of the doubt, for any reason.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/11/21 10:32 AM
42	Please don’t idealise men from other cultures HVM are such a scarcity in every culture. This is very true and applies to Australian men. Dehumanising women is just the norm. No one questions it. Being a macho, obnoxious, sexist, racist, alcoholic, useless pig is applauded and praised in this culture. Men will straight up laugh in your face and humiliate you and anyone watching will applaud him like he is some kind of hero. I don't have a single friend who hasn't had her life completely destroyed by dating or marrying men in this country. No…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/11/21 01:21 PM
4	We deserved to be protected. We deserved to be stood up for. We deserved to be treated with respect and kindness. First time commenting in this sub.. Thankyou girl. Needed to read that.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/10/21 02:13 PM