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| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-inI applied for a new job this past week. I've been over my job for a while, however have stuck it out due to the pandemic, knowing there isn't much else out there. I submitted my resume and then they requested I do a test within 48hrs of submitting my application. So I did that after work one day, since I had no other choice. The test was incredibly hard, and I got a rejection email the very next day. I am disappointed however now I have done my resume up to submit it for that job, I'm going to k… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 05:19 AM |
| 3 | My reminder to live myself came yesterday! Thank you ladies for the inspiration ❤️OMG that is gorgeous!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/21 11:21 PM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-inI celebrated my 1 year single-versary last Thursday. I know this sounds lame, but it's been my goal since I broke up with my long term ex to be single for 1 whole year in my adult life. This is the longest stretch of time I've been single since I was 15 years old. Before my long term ex, I'd only ever go maybe 3 months maximum without being in a relationship. After him, I've done a lot of work on myself, and the longest was 9 months between relationships. And now, I finally did 1 whole year of b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/21 10:32 PM |
| 2 | LmaoHow 'bout hell nah | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 10:41 AM |
| 9 | The pandemic is making me take the company of my own for granted - posting this to remind myself that only I can give me lovely things I crave for. Throwback to the time I took the train for 1 hour in heels for pancakes and coffee alone 🥞 Never settling for "walking dates" againLooks devine! 😍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 09:17 AM |
| 4 | Saw this on Facebook earlier. These replies, omfg.Lol. I literally kicked a man out of my house on valentines day for not getting me anything or even acknowledging the day. He also said he "didn't know" if he wanted me to be his gf, which was honestly the main dealbreaker. But that convo only happened because of the lack of effort for v-day. I don't understand why so many men are like this? Last year the guy I had been with for ~6 months got me a DOZEN roses, brought me chinese food for dinner, chocolates for after dinner and a fun sex toy for … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 10:50 PM |
| 1 | Rejection is protectionI agree. I think he really is sad that he lost me, but it's his own fault. It's hard cause I'm sympathetic, but he did what he did and he said what he said. So he can just live with the consequences of his own actions. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 10:36 PM |
| 5 | Never settle for LVMLiterally. I'm scared that I am never going to find a man who actually meets what I am looking for, and it's not like I'm asking for much. Theres soooooooooo many shitty men around it's ridiculous. Even the ones I know in relationships are pretty undateable | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 09:06 AM |
| 2 | Rejection is protectionI know it's true, but I still feel so sad about what happened to me on valentines day. I just can't understand why he could treat me so good for 6 weeks then turn around and do that shit. He seems really regretful too, he even posted a public video of him singing a really sad song. He legit looked like he was gonna cry. SO THEN WHY DID HE DO WHAT HE DID. I am giving myself pep talks on the daily that I'll meet someone better & this was for the best but damn it's been hard to not be sad | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 06:57 AM |
| 3 | Walked out of diner on first date yesterday!Yassss queeen! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 11:57 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-InIf men have anything, it's always the audacity. The man I kicked out on valentines day has uploaded a video of him singing a very sad song, it is quite obviously about him losing me, and it's a song he KNOWS i love and we talked about during our 'situationship'. Am I supposed to feel bad? Boo hoo. Am I supposed to care? I did NOTHING wrong. It was all him. He just wants a pity party, a bit of sympathy, which honestly fits with how selfish he seems to be. Im glad he's as unhappy as he has made me… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 12:13 AM |
| 10 | How's your life/love life right now? What's on your mind these days?I'm coming up on a year of being single next month, it's the longest stretch of time I have been single since I was 15 years old (and I'm almost 30 now, so it's been a long time). I have no love life to speak of, and I'm hoping I will meet somebody fabulous soon. The quality of guys is definitely increasing, and I feel like I'm pretty close to finding the right guy for me. I just need him to come along because I am sooooo ready. I have done the inner work that needed to be done and know I'm in t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 12:16 AM |
| 90 | Valentine's Day Postmortem Discussion Thread: Did your man disappoint you on Valentine's Day? Comment your story below!I think I have a pretty good chance of winning most disappointing LVM for valentines day. I'll just preface this by saying I am in an area where there are no lockdowns atm so everything is open. Anywho. I had been seeing a guy for 6 weeks now. The day before valentines day he messaged me at 7am to say "good morning", took me to lunch which cost $65, came to a show with me and a bunch of my friends which was $50 per ticket, spent the night being all cuddly and holding my hand in public and acting… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 09:32 AM |
| 21 | If size doesn't matter, why don't they make 3-inch dildos?I had it happen while we were just doing foreplay. He had just finished going down on me and I started to touch him to get him ready, but the whole time I was thinking '.... where's the rest of it' so I just kinda slowly pulled my hand away. Let him get me off with his hands and just kinda started cuddling instead of doing anything else. It was super awkward and when he left my house there was a weird vibe, like we both know there's an issue here but no one is saying it. I was actually going to … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 11:28 PM |
| 6 | Valentines Day is an Excellent Vetting Opportunity....don't let it go to waste!I'll be about 6 weeks in with a guy and I'm not going to drop one single hint and just see what he does - if I have to hint, I don't want it!!!!! I'm trying very hard with this guy to just sit back and drop no hints for anything- so far, he has exceeded my expectations time and time again. I hope he comes through for v-day too :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/21 04:44 AM |
| 44 | WHAT IS A “WALK DATE”?!Oh, yes, the good ol' walk date. Had many ask me on those when I was OLD , or 'wanna grab a drink'- the last guy who did that to me , I replied with "Sorry, i am only available on Saturday for a lunch date" and he said he wasn't going to be around on the weekend. he never contacted me again, so I deleted him off everything. I ended up giving up on OLD and deleted all of the apps. I hadn't dated anyone at all since JUL last year because no one was meeting my standards for even a first date. I've … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 06:56 AM |
| 8 | Emotional F*ckbois: The Subtlest Gaslighters of AllI only ever had one, and only lasted 4 months with him, but no relationship had ever fucked me up so much. I woke up angry or in tears every day for like 3 whole months of my life. So much damage that had to be undone, and takes so much more to open up to guys now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 06:32 AM |
| 59 | “yOuR wAy ToO qUiCk To JuDgE”Kids are my biggest dealbreaker ever, if I ever raise someones kids they will be my own | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 06:25 AM |
| 7 | If you ain't serious, send me on my way and I will thank you. Sadly, LVM love to string women along with the hope of something permanent. I'm good.I never used to send parapgraphs but I would get super mean with them. One guy in particular who springs to mind, we were casually seeing each other and I introduced him to a female friend and they both went and found each other on tinder and started messaging each other. I was livid. (mad at her too fyi cause she shouldnt have done it either). I sent him a very mean message, told him he's a typical fuckboy and I never wanna see him again. I wish I had just blocked him instead or just left him o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 10:56 PM |
| 66 | What's something that made you realize you're former partner was LVM?Honestly, it was my mum who made me realise. He was living with me at my mum's house for a while, and needless to say we didn't last long as a couple after that. She kept pointing out to me how lazy he was and didn't do anything around the house, how he would just stand there not offering to hold anything of a morning when I had my hands full and he had nothing to carry, how he wouldn't even make the bed while I was out of the house for 14 hours a day going to work + commuting. She kept telling … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 07:05 AM |
| 3 | Yall said we were getting rings...They're all pretty but that purple one is doing things for me! 😍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 06:50 AM |
| 1 | This is why standards are important. Having them and enforcing them.My jaw dropped at "yard sale" and I still haven't picked it up lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 10:12 AM |
| 11 | Just let him goUhmmmm just how DARE he?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 10:03 AM |
| 80 | LVM coerces woman into sex while sick and then calls her a disgusting pig when she voms on him. Because she was SICK.I was in disbelief when I read she was on top... uhmm she was sick with food poisoning and he still made her go on top? Wtf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 11:30 PM |
| 11 | I stopped being his mom and it pushed me to end the relationship.I left my last LTR for the same reason. He was so unmotivated and wanted me to be a mommy more than a gf. It's been lonely at times and it's been 3 years now, but I know it will be worth it one day when I meet the love of my life. And regardless, even if I end up with nobody, it's gonna be better than staying with someone I am constantly dragging through life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 08:45 AM |
| 8 | His friends are his friends. Your friends are yours. KEEP IT THAT WAY100%. My first & only narcissistic ex had NO friends, I found it strange... but didn't take me long to figure out why once his mask started to slip. He only managed to fool me for 4 months before I realised he was a narc (which, at the time, I didn't even know what a narc was as had never encountered one before). I got lucky! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 04:28 AM |
| 5 | NVM ex wanted me to choose between him and career in 2018. I chose career. Ending 2020 with 168k, halfway through my master's in CS, and just signed an offer letter with 400k of tech stocks vesting through 2025. NEVER sacrifice your career or education for ANYONE. (PS: He's still unemployed.)Yasssss queen!!!! I love that he's also still unemployed while you're thriving <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 03:20 AM |
| 2 | The projection is palpable; I've spent quarantine fixing my skin, working out, and taking college courses. Ya'll?Lol, if anything, I've lost weight in quarantine. But also, I get mistaken for being in my early 20's all the time, and I'm nearly 30. I have a male friend who is a year younger than me and easily looks 5 years older than me. What a joke. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 12:08 AM |
| 8 | Is it just me or would anyone else break up with this guy?Mmmmyep. I have become closer with my male friends' girlfriends than the males themselves. Last weekend, I went out for drinks with two girls I had met through two of my male friends, without the guy LOL. I don't understand this woman's behaviour, as a female friend you want to be extra sweet to make sure the new gf has nothing to worry about! Sounds sketchy as all hellllllll | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 08:47 AM |
| 1 | Hi Queens👑! This is the 3rd baking I am sharing here! Made a cake for myself to outgrow all the birthdays my absent, narcissist father never celebrated throughout these 21 years, as my therapy of nearly two years is coming to a smooth completion this year.Wow!!! That's amazing!!! Well done! :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 11:36 AM |
| 2 | Lol @ these men pretending to be women 😂 they really think we can’t tell 😭Its so painful. I was in pain for about a week when my last ex hit mine, how can anyone enjoy it being hit is beyond me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 09:44 AM |
| 4 | El cheapo LVM hand-makes crappy cheap gifts for partner but expects a PS5Can't he handmake her a present AND still buy her a gift? Lol scrote | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 09:00 AM |
| 21 | why we don't do hookups.. straight from the horse's mouthHehehe. A guy did this shit to me once, I actually had no romantic interest in him at the beginning, and just thought things would be fun. But he did all this weird stuff - gave me forehead kisses, told me he had always wanted to sleep with me, shared emotional stuff w/ me after sex however he would NEVER message me. A whole month went by and I hadn't heard from him (I never messaged him either), then it was his birthday, so I sent him a message to just say happy birthday. I thought that would s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 11:20 PM |
| 8 | Dating is like a box of chocolatesI've certainly had that chocolate before... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 10:24 AM |
| 23 | What in the fresh pick me hell is this?A proposal I'd have to ask for is a proposal I would not want...... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 07:40 AM |
| 7 | If it isn't working out, a true HVM will break up with you swiftly and respectfullyOr they know the woman is way outta their league and the best they were ever gonna get | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 11:12 AM |
| 19 | If you fw straight men “only ok” is hella generous.They all say that "Cum for me baby", oh another typical LVM phrase "You taste soooooo good" hahaah I swear they all say the same damn things | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 11:55 AM |
| 8 | How You End Up A Forever GF, Or A Reluctant FWB...STRAIGHT From The ANIMALS Mouth...Hahhaha yeah no one is buying his delusion that he's only had sex once cause he's out of every womans league , its actually a bit hilarious lets be honest | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 08:06 AM |
| 15 | How You End Up A Forever GF, Or A Reluctant FWB...STRAIGHT From The ANIMALS Mouth...Hhahaah Im a club goblin with a high body count , but bet Im still outta his league | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 08:00 AM |
| 6 | My wish for 2021 and beyond is that more women realise that they don’t have to put up with callous, selfish behaviour in their relationships.Hahahahaahah | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 07:49 AM |
| 1 | Petition Signed 😎 💅🏼Hhehe lol best comment | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 10:00 AM |
| 6 | Ladies Who Have Left Their & Stopped Paying Attention to LVM and NVM, How Has Your Life and Mental Health Changed?I've flourished since I left my 5 year relationship with a LVM. I moved to a new city, made soooo many new friends, have the most thriving social life, have managed to keep my job even through the pandemic, have saved even more money, am currently looking to buy a house and went on my first solo overseas trip. I've been in some.... interesting... relationships since then. One that destroyed my trust and made me aware that narcissists exist, and another that restored my faith in men and made me l… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 10:00 AM |
| 8 | I'm speechlessThis is something that I just won't tolerate, and I have notices SO many men doing this shit. Even just guys I am friends with on insta (some in relationships, some single). I was in a relationship for 5 years and never saw him follow any porn stars / girls in lingerie on insta, and certainly not like their photos! I got my first dose of it when I dated someone again after my long term relationship ended. We only lasted 4 months because he kept liking girls shit on insta, and I kept complaining … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 11:53 AM |
| 4 | Y’all- my heart goes out to those girls saying it’s fine 🤡Finally, a relevant thread to mention this guy I went on a date with last year who paid for our dinner using a gift card he got from his work heheeh. Aww. There was no second date. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 08:28 AM |
| 5 | How many men are on your blocked list?So I just counted how many people I have blocked on facebook and there's 125 people on there! Assume at least half, likely more, are male. :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 11:50 AM |
| 2 | This is why we block.Usually I block all of my exs, so I've never really had any of them come back and message me. But there was a guy I was seeing casually, he was rude in the way he told me he wasn't available one time when I tried to arrange us to hang out once, so I replied and said "okay then.... maybe we should go back to being friends, and can you please give my things I left at your place to our mutual friend, I will collect them off him" . He never replied and I just left it and I never spoke to him again l… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 10:48 AM |
| 5 | It was my birthday yesterday. Treated myself by making a romantic red velvet cake from scratch😊 it was a quarantine birthday but being self-partnered was the best thing that could have happened.So cute!!! Happy birthday! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 09:53 AM |
| 40 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered November 9 2020God, I miss sex. That is all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 09:41 AM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered November 9 2020Im not sure they exist, especially where I live... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 09:26 AM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered November 9 2020OMG this happened to me too once when I posted a weight loss progress pic haha. My post actually got removed due to the amount of scrotes commenting DISGUSTING things on there - like "yeah baby let me see those cheeks" cause I had a pic from the back also. I was in shock tbh, not exactly the "well done keep up the good work" comments I was HOPING for.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 08:56 AM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered November 9 2020Usually if they're interested they set up a new date ASAP, I would just keep looking elsewhere, and probably block him or outright tell him I'm not interested anymore, because he sounds like he is going to keep dangling the carrot by talking to you - who knows what his motives are, but for sure by now he would have tried to set something else up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 08:48 AM |
| 3 | I debated whether to post this. On one hand, I’m glad she’s exploring a variety of sexual techniques outside of PIV sex, but on the other hand it’s sad she just gave up on PIV orgasms like it’s impossible and not at all the fault of or responsibility of dudes she sleeps with. Dick Size Matters yeah?I've never really had one either, had many men try, my most recent ex would get upset that he coudn't get me there without me helping, lol. He was well endowed. I have to stimulate my clit to be able to climax during PIV sex. I wonder if it's a control thing on my part cause even if the guy rubs my clit during I can't reach climax. Studies show that most women cannot reach orgasm through penetration alone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 10:57 PM |
| 12 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered November 9 2020I've been single for 8 months now, I'm in a really good headspace right now, and did a lot of therapy during my last relationship to get over my insecurities in a relationship. I feel like I am ready to meet 'the one', but I am finding it so hard to meet anyone at all! I re-downloaded bumble again last week, and have deleted it again already. There was just no one on there I'd even want to meet up with. It feels like I will never meet a guy, and I don't understand why it is so hard. I am a very … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 08:06 AM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered August 20 2020Omfg... I am SO done with this scrote! He ended up messaging me a time or two with random memes and I just ignored, then he sent me a message saying "Can we please talk" so I replied with "There isn't much to say. Being insulted, argued with or gaslit everytime I'm around someone doesn't feel good" And he sent me this absolute paragraph which was partly an appology, but mainly just him defending himself and denying that he ever 'gaslit' me. I just said "Okay. I'm going out with some friends now.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 12:02 AM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered August 20 2020I have just kinda ghosted my LVM friend and I feel a bit bad about it. But I just cannot stand the way he has been acting lately, and I can't take this kind of treatment from any of my friends. Ive been friends with him for approx. 2 years now, I would usually only see him breifly at the bar after work in a group setting and he would only ever stay an hour or so, maximum. However, since COVID hit, he has been wanting to hang out with me and some other friends at peoples houses, and now he is sho… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 12:55 PM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered August 20 2020It feels like there is just no men who I'd even want to date around right now. I've only met one guy in the past 6 months of me being single I'd even consider dating, and that didn't end well. Getting frustrated about the lack of decent men around. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 06:25 AM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 30 2020It's been almost a week and I cant stop thinking about this situation.. i only just found this subreddit now, so yes I did break the rule of not being sexual before 3 months / exclusivity.I was seeing a guy for around 3 weeks, he was a total gentleman. Took me on dates ,pulled chairs out for me, opened doors, wanted to see me 2x a week, always drove to me, always asked me out , was always the first one to message me, always paid, was very sweet but not overly so, never tried to come back to my a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 11:56 PM |
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