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I don’t think it’s a problem… unless you’re intentionally misleading women who are clear that they want a relationship. If it’s mutual and consensual, it’s fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 10:30 PM
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same… I’ve had two sex partners that weren’t my boyfriend and I wanted it to develop into that. Once I realized I was tricked and it wasn’t what they wanted I never spoke to them again 🤪
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 07:41 PM
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I’m a 4. Never done casual… just knew in my gut it’s not something I’m comfortable with. Never had a ONS. 27 F.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 07:20 PM
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I’m sorry I think the pair bonding shit TRP invents out of thin air is bullshit. If a woman OR a man has slept with a ton of people and you are uncomfortable with that, it’s your right to pursue a partner with more similar values when it comes to sex. Saying it’s an “only female problem” and men can sleep with whoever they want and settle down with a perfect virgin when they’re ready feels misogynistic to me. I’m a female who has only had sex in committed relationships with the exceptions of lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 03:48 PM
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I don’t think most women are trying to fool themselves into believing they are good looking. I truly don’t think there’s that huge of a dip when a woman hits 25 or even 30…. Especially compared to men. Yes, women want quality men. The quality men I’ve met aren’t THAT concerned with age. I understand a 30 year old man not wanting to start a family with someone who is forty, but I’ve never had a man blink over the fact I’m 27 and not 25. In fact my ex boyfriend is with someone who’s 36 right now. …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 10:07 PM
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So you shouldn’t commit to a woman above 25? Just because she’s over 25? I mean you do you, but if a man is that thick headed over a number than I honestly wouldn’t want to be with him anyways. I haven’t had a sudden decrease in men wanting to be with me, date me, or commit once I turned 26. It’s been pretty stable.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 08:56 PM
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I think we live very different types of lives… but if that’s what the type of men you are with desire, then great! Honestly, good for them lol. If they don’t want to be with someone above 25, they wouldn’t really be the type of guy I would date or go after anyways, seeing than I’m almost 28.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 08:07 PM
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I think research shows women can have healthy children into their forties. I think the wall is an oppressive term which shouldn’t be used, but yes… if a man wants a family, he probably shouldn’t look at dating a woman above 40… but truthfully every situation is different. I personally wouldn’t date a man who doesn’t want to be with me because I’m 27 and not 25. If two years makes that much of a difference than he likely would be the type of man who would cheat with a younger woman once I age. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 08:06 PM
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I’m not saying there’s no wall. I’m saying it’s not as simple as “look for women under 25 because once they hit 25 there’s no value left.” If a man is in his thirties and really wants a family, yes, he should probably not date a 65 year old. He should likely go for women 25-35 in my opinion. It’s important to note, I think, that stats show marrying younger than 25 can be dangerous, as well and leads to higher divorce rates. But to say women hit an arbitrary wall at 25 only benefits red pilled me…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 07:54 PM
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65 is a hell of a lot different than 25… lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 07:43 PM
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I respectfully disagree. From my experience, men are much less picky than women. They will sleep with a wide variety of women because they have less choices. I’ve talked to plenty of men who are willing and happy to date women in their thirties if they are kind, stable, and in shape. There’s plenty of celebrity couples where hot young guys are dating older women 35+. I don’t think the answer is always “go younger” especially if your goal is to settle down and be in a stable relationship. I know …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 05:14 PM
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Hit the wall at thirty? Yikes. Is this sub full of RedPill dudes? I’m in my twenties but I’ve never had a boyfriend who I considered high value tell me that he thinks women are worthless once they hit 25-30. I know early twenties women who look in their forties due to a lot of Botox and similarly women in their forties who look great and aged very well. The wall is a lieeee.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 04:04 PM
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27 here with a masters and stable job and income. My boyfriend is 30 and he’s been with both women younger and quite a bit older than me 🤣 I guess my fear w/ that mindset is… everyone ages. Everyone. So if a man is so concerned with daring a woman because she’s in her twenties and is attractive - what’s gonna happen when they age? Is a guy just going to keep looking for someone younger and attractive? If the difference between twenties and thirties is SO huge to a man then I would be concerned h…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 09:58 PM
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So what are you supposed to do when your wife ages? Just keep leaving her for someone younger and having a lot of children? 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 09:50 PM
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🙌🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 12:57 AM
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Ive never had one. I can’t imagine waking up next to someone I don’t know after letting them have my body. 🤪 nooo thank you. But if that’s your jam go for it. The idea just makes me uncomfortable lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 03:31 PM
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I’ve always waited at least a month but I’m not the norm 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 11:51 PM
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I’ve never had a ONS. I had two more casual situation-ships that I was hoping might turn into more but never did. I have found I don’t like casual sex or sex outside of a relationship but if other women do - more power to them!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 11:48 PM
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Completely agree. I thought it was really weird too when last night he said he wanted to have relationships with all of these women and contacted all of them afterward. Weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 11:35 PM
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Idk. According to my current boyfriend he said he tried to make it long term with all the one night stands and hang out after and they never responded. Curious what you think of that? 🌚
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 11:05 PM
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I agree with you! What if a female has a preference for a lower N count because she has a lower one? 🐱 I usually only hear about men wanting lower N count women but not the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 10:23 PM
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Agree with this completely! I’ve had a hard time finding a partner with the same amount of experience as me… that would be my ideal. But alas 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 10:20 PM
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I have had a low count of partners compared to the boyfriends I’ve had. It’s mostly because I’ve been in 3-4 year relationships during my early twenties and have never had a one night stand because they don’t interest me. Whereas my count is 9 - my last four boyfriends have been with 15-20 + women or more. I think it depends on context - like… is the person a virgin for religious reasons? Do they have a low count because they have been in fewer, but longer term relationships? For me sleeping wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 10:18 PM
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I guess I’m a weirdo. I am a woman who spent most of her 20s in long term 3-4 year relationships. Every guy I’ve dated has had a body count around twice of mine. I struggle with the same issue - I feel like these guys probably had a one night stand hotter than me but what can I do 🤣 I’ve never had a one night stand and just hit my late twenties.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 03:08 PM
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