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The mere mention of gaming in an OLD profile is an immediate left swipe. There is something about male gamers, especially over 35, that I find completely unattractive. That being said, maybe I’m just super judgmental because I feel pretty much the same way about men that are super into sports. I don’t want to spend my weekends watching football and basketball games. I’m currently seeing someone who is obsessed with golf. The past two weekends, I have spent half the day Sunday watching golf. In t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 11:00 PM
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I absolutely live for this meme format.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 10:17 PM
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A promise ring? Is this 1860?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 03:09 PM
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I found it through a recommendation via another sub. I certainly don’t want to shut out women that need FDS, but I think it would be nice to have a safe space from incel scrotes and their masturbatory fantasies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 04:21 PM
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Is there a possibility that we can make this sub private? The thought of a scrotes rubbing their skinny little worms while reading our comments is hilarious, but also vomit inducing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 04:01 PM
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I’m sorry to hear you’re going through some shit too. Particularly the job sitch because it’s easier to find a man than it is to find the perfect job. I’m in full-on self care mode - yoga, meditation, bubble baths. My last grad school class starts today so I’ll be busy with that too. I hope you are taking care of you! Good luck on the job hunt!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 01:08 PM
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I know if you’re in FDS that you’re part of my tribe! 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 01:03 PM
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In fairness to men, acting like a spoiled frat boy has worked for them up until now. Women have largely accepted this behavior, swallowed their pride, and stuck with it. Women are finally seeing their own worth and pushing back and men don’t know how to deal. Congrats on ending it! You did the right thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 01:02 PM
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Congrats on the puppy! What kind? Name? We need details! I got a kitten a month ago and I love him like crazy but every morning around 5:30 he keeps trying to sleep in my face. Like, on it. Or with his nose touching mine. It’s really obnoxious and I wish he’d cut the shit!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 12:52 PM
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That would be amazing! Maybe post-COVID we can arrange some FDS meetups in different parts of the country! Or world. I have no idea how many countries are represented here in FDS but I hope it’s every last one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 12:49 PM
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I’m so sorry you went through that. It’s not just the breakups that hurt - the loss of a best friend and sex partner, it also hurts that these smooth brains think they’re so slick and that we’re too stupid to see through their lies. It’s the undermining of my intelligence that has upset me the most in this situation. Good for you go taking out that trash! I hope things are going well for you now!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 12:47 PM
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Thank you! I got a call about a job today so fingers crossed!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 02:42 AM
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A scrotation! Bahaha!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 11:32 PM
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I’ll celebrate yours for you! 🎆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 11:31 PM
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Thank you ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 11:30 PM
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He said it was Express. They don’t send texts from a 10 digit number. When I told him that he said it was someone else. He just bumbled through a bunch of bullshit answers and played dumb. On no planet was it not a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 10:25 PM
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This mindset is beautiful! Manifest!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 07:15 PM
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Thank you so much! You seem like a badass yourself! I love this group. You’re all just so amazing and supportive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 07:11 PM
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I do have things I love! I go to yoga 5 days a week, meditate twice a day, see friends, etc. I mainly meant no job and no boyfriend. Both things that can be rectified when the right opportunities present themselves!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 07:00 PM
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Clearly, he didn’t even pause the apps. Ha. Yes, you’re right. To some degree, I always knew it wasn’t going anywhere because of shady shit like this. I think he likes the attention he gets from the apps.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 06:23 PM
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Oh girl, I know exactly how you know!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 05:59 PM
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CONGRATULATIONS! That’s an inspiring story and I’m happy for you! I’m finishing up my MBA (last class starts tomorrow!) and applying to nursing school to get a second bachelors. Unfortunately, the boyfriend was supposed to write one of my recommendation letters for the nursing program (we worked together before dating so it was legitimate) and obviously that’s out the window.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 05:42 PM
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Thank you! Did your job situation work out? I’m so worried about finding another job with equal pay and benefits.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 05:26 PM
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“People with nothing to hide, hide nothing.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 05:25 PM
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I wish the same for you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 05:24 PM
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No, he started talking in circles. He said it was a store, then he said it was a new number from a family member but the area code didn’t match up. It was just all bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 05:21 PM
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A bunch of gaslighting. Being willing to die on his hill even though I had proof he was lying about something stupid. I just stopped responding.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 05:13 PM
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Agreed. My manifestation visualization definitely includes a beard and a flannel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 01:06 PM
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It’s looks like I’m the lone dissenting voice here! I love beards. HOWEVER, I love a well-groomed, short beard i.e. John Krasinski in Jack Ryan. Not this flea-ridden, unkempt ZZ Top bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 06:49 PM
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Just going to jot down “Do not fuck fair weather dick” real quick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 05:46 AM
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These are the same 45+ age bracket guys on Bumble who have selected “want someday” regarding children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 04:22 AM
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Reading this reminded me of something happened when I was 15. I’m 39 now. This guy that I really liked, but had only met a few times, threw a shoe at me and physically pushed me out of the cab of his truck and onto the ground because I wouldn’t have sex with him. In a truck. In my friend’s driveway. I was a virgin. Of course, this was after he aggressively felt me up without any consent whatsoever even as I was pushing him away because it was way too much, too soon. I’m sure he pulled similar sh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 03:49 AM
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Old saggy balls? No thanks. I’m 39 and I can barely find a guy my age with a full head of hair. I’m definitely not trying to date much older men. Edit: My first gold on a post about saggy balls! I love Reddit. Thank you, kind stranger!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 11:34 PM
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Solid advice right here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 01:57 PM
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I hope it was his friends or family and not yours, at the very least!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 05:55 PM
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That’s a hard no for me. My ex-husband used to stay up all night, every night playing WoW or something and it was so unattractive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 04:08 AM
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My esthetician types “kkk” and I deeply want to tell her it’s no way to run her business.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 10:48 PM
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I think about this every time I find myself being all but forced to watch football. What is it about that sport that men find so fucking interesting? Meeting a guy who isn’t obsessed with football is nearly a statistical impossibility.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 10:44 PM
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Laughed hysterically and sent it to two of my girlfriends!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 03:57 AM
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If it looks like a duck and walks like a duck...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 04:43 PM
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My mom calls men “dick thinkers” at every opportunity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 08:33 PM
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Can he though? Can he?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 07:14 PM
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Build-a-Boo. I’m officially dead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 07:12 PM
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It can really hurt to get confirmation that an ex has moved on, even if they’re a LVM and you know you’re better off. What I remind myself in these situations is that the new girl has just inherited all of that bullshit. She’s not getting a shiny and new version of him. That girl is going to find herself in a directionless situationship in the same way that you did. A pile of shit is a pile of shit, no matter who holds the deed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 12:41 PM
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Not a fan of inside dogs? Don’t 99% of dogs live inside unless they’re working farm dogs or something? Good luck (no) to that dude!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 12:35 PM
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God, this is depressing to read!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 02:38 AM
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I sure wish I had chosen a different word.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 08:59 PM
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I’m not sure if I believe withholding sex causes men to commit. I want someone to commit to ME as a person, not someone who’s telling me what I want to hear so I’ll sleep with them. That being said, next time around I am going to give it a shot and see if I get a better result.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 08:52 PM
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One of them regularly. The other one only once.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 08:33 PM
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I feel the same about men with necklaces or chains on. Hard no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 11:42 PM
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He, quite literally, asked her the question so that he could respond to it himself. No interest in her preferences whatsoever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 03:45 PM
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“Mend my special blankie”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 02:50 PM
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Precisely. I am 100% sure this is a guy who would demand sex and blow jobs daily but couldn’t find a clitoris with a map and a headlamp.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 12:12 PM
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It is not just you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 11:45 AM
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The only thing this list is missing is “tuck me in and read me a bedtime story.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 11:26 AM
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Jokes are funniest when they’re based in reality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 03:14 PM
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Seventh Circle
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 01:23 PM
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Breakup bangs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 02:06 PM
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A friend of mine slept with a guy who told her that he had two children and a vasectomy. Turns out he had three kids with two different women and had a future appointment for a vasectomy. She dated him for 7 years and he was, unsurprisingly, a complete piece of shit for the duration.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 02:16 PM
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I am seeing someone else. I think you’re right - I did overstep by asking that and I put him in a shitty position by doing so. However, had he asked me, I would have been honest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 05:44 AM
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Other than this, there haven’t been any red flags in his communication whatsoever. The date plans are satisfactory. I didn’t feel like anything was even remotely off until this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 05:39 AM
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Yes, I am seeing someone else and no, he didn’t ask. I’m honestly not sure why I asked him and I certainly won’t ask anyone in the future. If he had told me that he was talking to/seeing people, I would have been fine with that. I’m just not sure if it’s a red flag that he said he wasn’t but is clearly seeking to. I just don’t want to be lied to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 05:35 AM
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THIS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 11:49 PM
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We hardly knew ye.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 08:00 PM
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Hopefully he will come around once he realizes he’s getting low quality or very few matches. I lucked out because my friend was lamenting the OLD scene and his lack of matches. It gave me the perfect opportunity to offer constructive feedback about his pictures.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 01:43 AM
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A guy friend of mine (40) had multiple pictures of himself from his early twenties on his dating profile. I talked him into removing them. He genuinely didn’t seem to realize how off putting it was. Mind boggling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 01:09 AM
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Don’t touch his bum, sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 11:45 PM
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Good for you! You absolutely made the right decision. I think we can all gain strength from choosing not to respond to LVM who pull this crap. You can look back on it and realize that you may have stuck around too long or ignored some red flags, but in the end, you learned a lesson and didn’t invest any more energy into a dead-end human being.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 10:33 AM
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Please join the awesome sisterhood over at r/entwives if you haven’t already! 💚
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 10:04 PM
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Casually scissoring!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 12:18 AM
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Please don’t do this to yourself. Yes, cutting yourself off from him will hurt. However, it’s better to do it on your terms now, dignity intact, then get crushed later on when he drops you like a hot stone for another woman. He has already told you that you aren’t the one. You will not change his mind. Put yourself first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 01:02 AM
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This should be a HARD no, as far as I’m concerned, “Let’s see where this goes” is code for “I’m keeping my options open.” The same as “Let’s take things slow” from a guy you’ve already slept with is code for “I’m going to sleep with you and other people.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 12:56 AM
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Yikes. This made me sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 09:46 PM
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My ex-husband and I chose a completely new last name when we got married. We have a daughter and we both kept the name after we got divorced 11 years ago. A lot of people think it’s strange that we did that, but it felt right to us at the time!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 11:03 PM
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I dated someone who I think was HVM in most regards, but LVM in some important aspects of our relationship. For example, he had a real problem with letting me know he was going to be home late from work. It just bothered him on some level to have to check in with me about that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 09:58 PM
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What is a Zoomer?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 10:49 PM
2

I recently got a late night “Happy birthday” text from a number not stored in my phone. I said “Thanks! Who is this?” and got left on read. Some dusty ass out there is butthurt that I didn’t save his number. Sorry, bro. You should have made an attempt to be memorable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 04:35 PM
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I just laughed out loud at that response. Hilarious!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 04:13 PM
3

An ex texted me and asked if I would peg him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 02:11 AM
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Your mom was a true Queen! I’m sorry for your loss.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 01:38 PM
2

The University of Life AKA School of Hard Knocks. Huge red flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 05:29 PM
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I’m a redhead (see username) and it’s a quality that EVERY man I have ever dated has commented on as being a positive. This guy has his head way up his ass if he thinks being a ginger is a turn off for most guys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 12:51 AM
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I’ve been laughing at this for 10 minutes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 12:24 AM
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It’s good to know I’m not the only one feeling this way right now. I engaged in a bit of Pickme behavior on Friday. It got me what I wanted in the short term, but the long term outcome is the same. Feeling very disappointed in myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 01:03 AM
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Me (38f) puking in my mouth a little bit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 10:25 PM
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There’s no accounting for taste. Some people like chubby bodies, others like thin bodies, some like blondes, some like brunettes... he could just be someone who is more physically attracted to a more mature body type. Who he cheated on you with, and her age and body type, really is irrelevant. It’s the cheating that’s the issue. I’m sorry he hurt you, truly.
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/20 05:58 PM
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I think you confused my comment with that of someone else you’re bickering with. That was my first comment, so you didn’t ask me any questions nor did I dodge any.
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/20 05:28 AM
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There are plenty of 43 year olds that look a hell of a lot better than a lot of 25 year olds. If this woman takes care of herself physically she may look phenomenal. No need to assume OP’s guy cheated with Betty White.
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/20 05:15 AM
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What about for health reasons or due to alcoholism?
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/19 09:49 PM
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What if someone doesn’t drink?
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/19 06:49 PM
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Married at 22. Divorced at 27.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/18 08:42 PM
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Run, do not walk, to the nearest exit.
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/18 03:01 AM
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My ex also initiated the divorce. The reason? She had a sexual affair with her own first cousin. You’d think a man would have to be insane to maintain a relationship with someone who violated their trust and caused them public embarrassment in that way, right? Apparently some bonds are bizarrely unbreakable. Editing to add: He swore up and down that she was controlling, a social climber and that he was a miserable shell of himself while they were married.
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/18 03:12 AM
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This is a red flag. My ex-boyfriend of 5 years allowed this type of communication from his ex-wife for the duration of our relationship. He was unable and/or unwilling to set boundaries with her and it was nearly the only issue we ever argued about. Nine months ago we reached an impasse and ended our relationship. I moved out and moved on. (And up!) He and his ex-wife are back together.
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/18 03:02 AM
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Whaaaaaat? While I fully agree with the notion that OP needs to be “marriage material” in order to find the right person, the notion that if she keeps a clean house and makes tasty meals that a confirmed bachelor will change his tune is not something I’d want to hold my breath over if I were her. Those things are all fine and well IF she’s investing in a person who wants to get married. Otherwise, she’s just wasting her time. And what if she’s a slob? Or a shitty cook? Shitty cooks get married a…
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/18 02:47 AM
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As my Nana said, “When you burn your ass, you’ve got to sit on the blister.”
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/18 02:21 AM
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I’m 5’4” and my boyfriend is 6’3”. I have no height preference beyond “taller than me in socks” so his height is totally wasted on me! It’s a new relationship so I’m still completely surprised by how much effort it is to hug him or kiss him standing up.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/18 06:50 AM
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