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| 4 | What does it mean when a guy shit tests you?What you've essentially done is hold up a mirror and he doesn't like what he sees. He can now see that it's possible to improve himself like you have, but instead of using you as inspiration, his ego is protecting him by trying to bring you back down to his level. This is called crabs in a bucket mentality. A true friend wouldn't feel this way, they would be happy for you. Ignore his critiques, make it awkward when he does, if he ever snaps out of it and starts to improve himself, encourage him.… | /r/askTRP | 10/04/21 01:37 AM |
| 9 | Is it possible to gain 1cm length with stretching ?If your growth plates have fused then you won't grow taller but you can become/appear taller. good posture (shoulders back, chin level to floor, don't slump) wear well fitted clothes (no baggy jeans or shirts) avoid horizontal stripes and contrasting colours between pants and top (white top and black pants break up your visual shape Vs all black which flows visually) nice pair of boots - don't go nuts with elevator shoes as it's too obvious but 1-2inches from a normal pair of nice boots is an ea… | /r/askTRP | 06/04/21 11:40 AM |
| 8 | How to get a girl if she's extremely introverted and has never been in a relationship?These girls can be rare and are usually sexually very inexperienced. I actually know one and can be real diamonds in the rough. They'll be timid to begin with. If a normal redpill LTR is 90% alpha and 10% beta then your dynamic with a girl like this should start off something like 60% alpha and 40% beta and scale back to normal from there. As for piquing their interest, it depends entirely on the girl, just be a masculine dude and have fun. | /r/askTRP | 02/04/21 12:31 AM |
| 1 | How do I identify what is holding me down the most? How do you gain motivation to even try and figure out your purpose?How are you planning to do that | /r/askTRP | 01/04/21 04:33 PM |
| 2 | How to react to bullying/attacks from other people?With regards to cheeky comebacks - it really is a skill you have to hone. My father was always quick witted and I've always talked shit with my boys so I had plenty of practice. Half the time it's more about how you deliver it. If you honestly can't think of anything in the moment - a default can be a short laugh, shake of the head and "you got me there dickhead" with a shit eating or even a genuine grin if it was a good roast. Generally sinking to their level just looks butthurt. If they've tak… | /r/askTRP | 01/04/21 04:32 PM |
| 4 | How do I identify what is holding me down the most? How do you gain motivation to even try and figure out your purpose?What is your plan? Be decisive in what you want to achieve in these coming months. Outline key areas you want to improve and then break down the smaller goals you need to achieve in order to see improvement in those areas. e.g. Start a website as an entrepreneurial project 1 hours a day learning java using 'X' resource 1 hour a day surveying rival websites and noting strengths/weaknesses etc etc etc - then create a schedule of how you can action these smaller goals You need structure and a plan.… | /r/askTRP | 01/04/21 02:09 AM |
| 8 | How to react to bullying/attacks from other people?Do you have bros you talk shit with? Just treat it the same as one of your boys roasting you - don't take it seriously. If they're roasting you, banter back. If they're rejecting you just laugh and walk away. What condition? Just ignore - have some frame dude Banter back - you need to show that you don't care about what she says, e.g. your dick is the smallest I've ever had -> "and yet here you are" with a shit eating grin. Obviously this is annoying but again gotta act like it doesn't phase you… | /r/askTRP | 01/04/21 02:02 AM |
| 2 | Anybody else got a female overweight problem where they live?Not sure what QLD is like but I'd say it heavily depends on the age of girsl and social circles. | /r/askTRP | 07/02/21 06:11 AM |
| 5 | Anybody else got a female overweight problem where they live?Where abouts in Aus are you? | /r/askTRP | 07/02/21 03:58 AM |
| 6 | How did you get into redpill?Dad subtley redpilled me and my brother, I fully connected the dots a year or so later and found this place. Smart fucker, had raised us our whole lives with the foundations (fitness, education, girls, social life) but wasn't untill I was 17ish when he officially redpilled us. | /r/askTRP | 06/02/21 09:38 AM |
| 7 | The average corporate workerUncle Vas has the corporate land guide in the sidebar, would recommend. Ultimately follow the law of power; "think how you like but act like the others" Don't go AMOGing dudes or talking about rp shit. Work hard, network, negotiate. | /r/askTRP | 02/02/21 11:59 AM |
| 1 | How to react when LTR is wasting my time?Sounds like she lacks leadership, if she's really a good girl then guide her back to the correct path. | /r/askTRP | 31/01/21 01:28 AM |
| 2 | Asking a girl to come over to my place as first message on a dating app? (No time due to self-improvement)How long does it take to type a few messages to build rapport? I'm constantly improving myself and keeping busy but to take 1min out of my day when I have breaks to reply isn't hard. If you straight up ask her to come over, her ASD will likely trigger. You'll likely need to put in a bit of work (like meet up for drinks/chat a bit) in order to turn her into a regular plate that you can just invite straight over. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/21 12:31 AM |
| 3 | Which country would you pick as your home base, given the 7 criteria below?Australia ticks most of those boxes | /r/askTRP | 05/01/21 03:45 PM |
| 20 | Can women hate a guy but be really attracted to him at the same time?The men that women hate take up a place in their mind and usually cannot be tamed or controlled by them. This is far more attractive to her than the plain beta Joe that she doesn't think twice about. | /r/askTRP | 05/01/21 03:41 PM |
| 3 | 16 year old needing advice from some grown menI've seen plenty of ugly jacked dudes do well with women, especially if they're successful. You're at the start point in life, put in the work now and you'll kill it. | /r/askTRP | 22/11/20 11:18 AM |
| 1 | How do you deal with people who try to be dominant by asking you to do little things?"What did your last slave die of?" | /r/askTRP | 21/11/20 03:55 AM |
| 6 | Where do you compare yourself?I'm an attractive dude but everyone will get out-chaded one day. Run your own race and chase excellence and you'll do fine. 'comparison is the thief of joy' | /r/askTRP | 15/11/20 12:35 AM |
| 26 | LTR too busy to see meYeah your LTR, (if you've done it right) should always be keen to see you. Mine wants to see me every day and she has a busy schedule. If a girl wants to see you, she'll make it happen. Soft next bro. Good luck | /r/askTRP | 05/11/20 12:58 AM |
| 18 | What would you say in this situation?"at least buy me dinner first" | /r/askTRP | 27/10/20 04:36 PM |
| 10 | What Advice Would You Give to an 18 Year Old Who's Mission is To Be a 0.1 PercenterGet Computer science education/certification, get job, save and invest 50% of pay in index funds. Read about psychology to advance career and develop social network. Make new friends, organise social events, start new hobbies, plate girls. Get jacked, start MMA, take care of hair/skin/body. By 30 you'll be a 0.1 percenter, that's roughly my plan anyway. | /r/askTRP | 16/10/20 04:15 PM |
| 6 | Anyone else "bigger than average"-fat?At your age it wouldn't be too difficult to just start working out and your body will go through a slight recomp so I'd continue eating what you eat. In 6 months if you feel like you're fat, do a cut for a few months then start lean bulking with more attention to diet. | /r/askTRP | 07/10/20 02:35 PM |
| 5 | What are some small habits that you implemented in your life and had positive long-term effects?For cutting weight through IF; drinking one black coffee and lots of water when I wake up, this stops me from getting hungry and I can effectively fast till 11am. Intermittent fasting is pretty good and only took me this one slight adjustment. | /r/askTRP | 03/10/20 12:01 AM |
| 1 | Tips on men’s footwear ?Thursdayboots | /r/askTRP | 02/10/20 03:24 PM |
| 3 | my recently demoted LTR has activated a crazy mode I'd never experienced before. Not sure how to interpret or proceed.You have no other options so you're still fooling around with your batshit crazy ex. Also you broke up with her close to her epiphany phase, I'd be wary of her baby trapping you. | /r/askTRP | 28/09/20 12:46 AM |
| 17 | I have discovered, within myself, a profound fear of rejectionWhat makes a man is not the absence of fear, but the conquering of it. Consistently exposing yourself to rejection will help, start off small (I.e ask a stranger the time) and work up. | /r/askTRP | 26/09/20 12:03 AM |
| 38 | My LTR stopped doing nice things to me in public. How can I address this?You don't address it directly, that would be autistic and she'll play dumb. You need to solve the root cause, which is that you are UNATTRACTIVE to her. What you need to do is: improve your smv (lift, dress well, socially confident) improve your frame (both in and out of your relationship) spend more time without her doing things you enjoy (hobbies, sports, friends, networking) All of this will foster a baseline level of DREAD. This is not to fix her or your relationship, it's to fix you. She wi… | /r/askTRP | 25/09/20 09:25 AM |
| 2 | How do you get a girl to lose weight?Practical advice? Go on a cut and lean out yourself, her seeing you tightening up on your diet and forgoing heavy meals while she continues eating may cause her to notice her eating habits. Covert subcommunication that conveys your dislike of the weight gain. Could even just be checking out a slimmer girl when you watch a movie together or accidentally grabbing a bit of her belly during sex. This is how women communicate. Continuous level of dread. You should be a high value man, muscular, caree… | /r/askTRP | 21/09/20 12:42 AM |
| 5 | How to be more "fun"?You're too serious, relax and let loose more often | /r/askTRP | 19/09/20 08:43 AM |
| 3 | Is this okay?Damn dude, she wants a monster, you're not small yourself haha My understanding is that you don't need to be huge to dominate a girl, you need to dominate her mind. Would recommend reading the sex god method. Good luck! | /r/askTRP | 18/09/20 08:20 AM |
| 1 | Is this okay?How big are you and how big is the extension? I would only do it if you're really lacking size tbh. | /r/askTRP | 18/09/20 07:32 AM |
| 1 | How to rebuild frame about threesomes with LTR?I read your earlier post and I am in a very similar situation to you LTR wise. I think you accepting the MFM threesome idea was a tricky mistake to make and it's compounded by the fact that you've had your fun with FMF threesomes and now it's her turn. I don't have any advice other than to ask do you want to see your LTR get fucked by another dude? The answer to that will determine your next actions. | /r/askTRP | 09/09/20 10:29 AM |
| 12 | Seems like no matter how much you ask a woman to do something, they say "yes", but never do it. How do you personally get a woman in your life (or just in general life) to follow up with diong a simple, reasonble request (reasonable, but irritating if they don't follow up)?When someone I don't respect asks me to do something, I'm far less likely to do it. Now amplify that x10 for a woman being asked by a man she doesn't respect. | /r/askTRP | 08/09/20 04:06 PM |
| 1 | Continue cutting or can I start a bulk?Personally I would continue cutting for another 10-15lbs or so and then see, then slowly lean Bulk back up to 170ish. Up to you though. Make sure to keep working hard, getting plenty of protein and sleep/rest while you cut. | /r/askTRP | 08/09/20 04:03 PM |
| 5 | how to properly mix comfort into an LTR?I like to encourage her positive behaviour that requires more effort than a normal thot is going to put in, e.g Praising her for cooking me a new interesting meal that requires time and effort. This instills in her that she provides value that is above the default requirement of sex that any girl can provide. In doing this, it makes her feel more security in her value that she provides to you. It also makes it easy when you get the "is sex all you want" shit test -> course not babe, you cook a g… | /r/askTRP | 07/09/20 03:21 PM |
| 29 | GF wouldn't send me nudes, she 'used to do it'They make rules for betas and break rules for alphas dude | /r/askTRP | 06/09/20 10:43 AM |
| 2 | Meeting women during the Covid lockdown (or in general)I see a lot of good looking women (mid-late twenties) in grocery stores on weeknights and weekends. Otherwise what's your social circle like? Don't have much experience with OLD but it can't hurt if you're top 20%? The way I see picking up girls is like your income, multiple streams coming from different places gives you variety and abundance. | /r/askTRP | 06/09/20 10:08 AM |
| 1 | How do I answer this question?Only on Tuesdays | /r/askTRP | 05/09/20 04:40 AM |
| 2 | Should I send a DTF Hail Mary text?I mean yeah you'll probably be stronger than girls sure. But I'm similar height with 20lb on you and I feel lean and athletic, I play sport. Also, girls don't really care about how strong you actually are, it's more about how strong you look. | /r/askTRP | 04/09/20 03:08 AM |
| 6 | Should I send a DTF Hail Mary text?Sounds like she'd toss you around Staying light for sports is bullshit unless you're a professional jockey | /r/askTRP | 04/09/20 12:47 AM |
| 3 | Should I send a DTF Hail Mary text?Dont send text 5'10 140lbs is light, hope you're lifting bruh | /r/askTRP | 04/09/20 12:42 AM |
| 4 | DEER & DAREIf you go to the main trp sub and search "deer" the original post will be the first result | /r/askTRP | 04/09/20 12:39 AM |
| 3 | What would you consider low sex drive?I hope I'm like you in 10 years, good shit brotha | /r/askTRP | 03/09/20 02:23 PM |
| 3 | What would you consider low sex drive?Shit dude that sleep sounds pretty rough, wouldn't be suprised if that was your problem. Fixing sleep will probably fix test as well but get it checked after anyway, it's interesting to know at the least. I'm same height and similar weight, are you in shape? | /r/askTRP | 03/09/20 02:21 PM |
| 14 | What would you consider low sex drive?Sleep plays a huge part in your sex drive and overall health. I have the urge to fuck twice a day but I'm 22, how old are you? What's your test levels at? | /r/askTRP | 03/09/20 01:19 PM |
| 9 | Going to her on a first dateShe invited you over to a free house at night and you're complaining? Don't overthink dude you're probs gunna smash if you don't fuck it up. | /r/askTRP | 03/09/20 12:20 AM |
| 6 | I got left by ex for another dudeWhat the other guy said, become the best version of yourself and know it was her loss. | /r/askTRP | 02/09/20 11:51 PM |
| 1 | GF rejected sex today.This ^ | /r/askTRP | 02/09/20 02:57 PM |
| 2 | “You’re never romantic with me” - shit test or comfort test?Imo that sub has more wisdom and experience than here but it depends on your goals, for a LTR defs go through their sidebar. | /r/askTRP | 31/08/20 12:09 AM |
| 3 | “You’re never romantic with me” - shit test or comfort test?Those two sound like shitty comfort tests. I'd recommend heading over the MRP sub, they discuss LTR strategies a lot more. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/20 11:22 PM |
| 67 | Why girls don’t escalate?Women are terrified of rejection and want that responsibility to be upon men. Instead they will give you opportunities to escalate. Sack up big fella | /r/askTRP | 30/08/20 11:15 PM |
| 1 | LTR keeps saying that I don't listen to her. Advice on how I handled it."I feel like you don't listen to me" "what was that?" | /r/askTRP | 29/08/20 12:45 PM |
| 3 | Tips for first date in 10 years.That thirst will translate to your behaviour and vibe if you don't control it. You'll be fine dude, there will be many more women after her | /r/askTRP | 29/08/20 12:40 PM |
| 192 | Have you done hookers?A wise man once said: "if it floats, flies or fucks... Its better to rent rather than buy" | /r/askTRP | 29/08/20 09:35 AM |
| 5 | Tips for first date in 10 years.Don't put so much pressure on this date since it's your first one back. There will many more so don't worry if you blow it. | /r/askTRP | 29/08/20 09:32 AM |
| 14 | How can I improve my looks?At very least: Bulk up more then do a small cut after get a styled haircut improve posture Additionally: get nicer fitting clothes good cologne smile a bit | /r/askTRP | 28/08/20 09:54 PM |
| 1 | What are things I can do on the side to make money?Not quite a direct answer to your question: I've been in your shoes, smashing my study and doing internships. Generally the return on investment is higher in focusing your energy on your current career path than picking up side hustles which will take up more of your time. | /r/askTRP | 28/08/20 06:17 AM |
| 1 | If a plate directly asks what your vulnerabilities are, do you think this is a good thing?What part? | /r/askTRP | 28/08/20 06:09 AM |
| 3 | If a plate directly asks what your vulnerabilities are, do you think this is a good thing?Yeah AA and change the subject is probably the best strat. Its in a woman's nature to 'figure out' her man using her 'feminine intuition'. I wouldn't say its a good sign, just standard behaviour. | /r/askTRP | 28/08/20 06:09 AM |
| 1 | What to say when she asks why you broke up with your ex?"For asking too many dumb questions" | /r/askTRP | 28/08/20 05:34 AM |
| 60 | What to say when she asks why you broke up with your ex?"For asking too many dumb questions" | /r/askTRP | 28/08/20 05:26 AM |
| 22 | If a plate directly asks what your vulnerabilities are, do you think this is a good thing?Vulnerabilities: sucker for a good steak and a blowjob, in that order. If she's a plate then she hasn't really earned the right to get to know you that intimately imo. | /r/askTRP | 28/08/20 05:24 AM |
| 2 | As a 5'9.5" 21M, am I considered 'short' by ONS/dating standards?The actual height doesn't give off the impression of short. It's a combination of build, posture and confidence. Girls can't tell how tall you are, it about how you make them FEEL. Girls won't care if you're muscular, have the broad shouldered slim waist combo, and good posture. Wear nice boots if you want a boost. Source: same height as you, early 20s | /r/askTRP | 28/08/20 04:15 AM |
| 3 | What keeps you in your current LTR?Respect - most important imo Motivates me to do well/succeed Hot af Great sex Fantastic cook Great family Conservative/not attention seeking Smart and motivated to do well Good with money | /r/askTRP | 19/08/20 02:55 PM |
| 1 | Advice for a 20YOIn terms of getting the most out of your twenties, go travel the world, no one ever regrets travelling too much | /r/askTRP | 19/08/20 01:15 AM |
| 4 | Is it impossible for women to be in a monogamous relationship as this study says? Can this explain why women start 80% of divorces here? is Boredom inevitable for women?I enjoy your writing here more than most. I'd love to pick your brain more about your LTR, being in one myself. Also a favorite patrice quote of mine. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/20 03:50 PM |
| 5 | I found out I’m low t at 20 years old from my doctor 274ng and she said it’s in “normal range”Diet has been good all my life, parents always fed me plenty of vegetables, meat, fish, fruit - junk food was a rare treat. Always sleep at least 8 hours. Always do some sort of physical activity during the week - football, soccer, surf, lift, walk etc contrary to the nofap guys I usually strangle the snake or fuck at least once a day take vitamin C and D as well as magnesium pretty much every day, have a weekly pill box but for vitamins lol drink Black coffee every morning and generally fast ti… | /r/askTRP | 21/07/20 01:51 AM |
| 1 | I found out I’m low t at 20 years old from my doctor 274ng and she said it’s in “normal range”Always been confident and athletic but I think that's more a product of my upbringing and the situations I've placed myself in over the years (worked retail to improve people skills, played sports since I was 5, socialise heaps). I'm not overly hairy or super masculine (more of a pretty-boy) but my libido has always been very high and have always built muscle well. Last two readings were 915 and 980 which is getting near the point where its too high I think? | /r/askTRP | 21/07/20 01:45 AM |
| 11 | I found out I’m low t at 20 years old from my doctor 274ng and she said it’s in “normal range”Definitely see a male or different doc, I'm 22 and fluctuate in the 900s. Get your exercise, sleep and diet in check as well, that should bring you up a bit. | /r/askTRP | 20/07/20 01:46 AM |
| 1 | Anyone completed University in Australia?Aussie uni student here Don't do uni just for the social life, it's not worth the debt. Uni here is not like amercia, my experience even as a social guy is that you have to put more effort into making friends at uni and it heavily depends on the course, the associated clubs and your contact hours. If you do choose to go to uni, make sure its for a degree that you're going to stick with, has good job opportunities and isn't boring. Then be in at least one club/society at all times, go to the ball… | /r/askTRP | 23/06/20 12:05 AM |
| 23 | LTR being a huge bitch due to me being busy. Time to end?A LTR will naturally demand more of your time and that's fair, she's a LTR after all. Her response when you are too busy should be more along the lines of comfort tests rather than bitchiness like you've said though. You have two options: Next her - easier option as you are only 7 months in and she's displaying some red flags with this behaviour Work on it - if you think she's worth some effort, head over to the married redpill sub and read the sidebar there - this will help moreso than the trp … | /r/askTRP | 17/06/20 08:41 AM |
| 2 | What to do next, got most of my life sorted?Yeah maybe draft up what you want to achieve 1 year, 5 year and 10 years ahead. Then work back from that, breaking down each long term goal into the micro goals. I did something similar years ago and it's worked well. I would recommend a social sports team for physical. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/20 02:03 PM |
| 4 | What to do next, got most of my life sorted?Get one physical, mental and spiritual hobby each. Read into investing and reread the sidebar. Physical hobbies could include: soccer, football, hiking, cycling, mountainbiking, golf, tennis, surfing, snowboarding, MMA, jui jitsu, boxing etc. Do shit. Mental hobbies could include: reading, investing, learning another language, purpusing a degree/studying, learning to code, writing about a topic you're passionate about etc. Learn/think about shit. Spiritual hobbies: learning a new instrument, pai… | /r/askTRP | 10/06/20 09:40 AM |
| 1 | Is there a YT channel/book/blog which teaches about investment from scratch?Have a look into a blog called 'Mr money mustache' | /r/askTRP | 31/05/20 07:20 AM |
| 21 | Songs with red pill themes?Skepta's album 'ignorance is bliss' is the most redpill album I've heard to date. Even has the lyric "when you realise she's not your girl it's just your turn" in one of his songs which is a redpill quote of fame. | /r/askTRP | 21/05/20 02:06 PM |
| 3 | This might be a dumb ass question: but what's the point of reading "millionaire / wealth creation mindset" books if you don't have or now how to make money in the first place?You read those books to get out of the defeatist mindset that you are currently in. I understand your struggle, I was not dealt the best financial hand in life growing up. But right now at a low income, the best investment you can make is in yourself. Gaining education, skills and a good mindset will put you in the right direction. From there it's just a snowball rolling down a hill to financial success. I earn close to minimum wage while studying but still put away some money into passive inves… | /r/askTRP | 21/05/20 01:02 PM |
| 5 | How to see my self as equal to men bigger or better than me in ways?That confidence and self assuredness will come with working on yourself and gaining value, you'll realise you have worth when you have built yourself into something more. In the meantime, just realise you're on the way there, and that in itself proves you already have value. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/20 04:04 PM |
| 32 | Why would an ex hit you up when she’s engaged to be married?You probably alpha widowed her, you were 'the one that got away'. Likely eccenuated by the early marriage. My guess is if you invited her over and gave her some plausible deniability, she'd hamster away some sucky sucky fucky fucky. | /r/askTRP | 09/05/20 02:16 AM |
| 3 | OmLaLa on YouTube - “ Enlightened Alpha: On How Women Listen”Read your stuff after it was years old, glad to now have the opportunity to experience some wisdom live👌 | /r/TheRedPill | 08/05/20 07:35 AM |
| 11 | How do you win arguments with a LTR over miscommunication?1: Firstly, have a LTR that doesn't blow up at small miscommunications. Respect should be there. 2: If it does happen, always DARE, never DEER. In the sidebar (or mrp sidebar if its not in trp one). 3: If she's still pissy, don't talk to her for a bit. My time is too valuable to be spent squabbling, she should savour her time with you. All of these require you to have frame, get some bruh | /r/askTRP | 02/05/20 04:50 PM |
| 1 | Subreddit recommendationAll subs: Financialindependence Finance Fitness Bodyweightfitness Gainit Malefasionadvice Myskincareaddiction Malehairadvice Iwanttolearn Cooking Slowcooking 1dayskill | /r/askTRP | 20/04/20 12:24 AM |
| 7 | Help my younger broCan lead a horse to water but can't make it drink. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/20 03:36 PM |
| 2 | What foods to eat when trying to gain weightProtein shake - milk, oats, blueberries, banana, yoghurt, whey powder if you want it. Lots of meat, veggies, eggs, nuts, fruit, fish. Not too much heavy carbs/bread/grains. Best to make meals in bulk for the week and have prepared snacks (nuts, tuna cans, fruit). Would recommend slow-cooking (there's a subreddit too). Eating is harder than lifting when you're trying to bulk imo. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/20 08:59 AM |
| 2 | When did sapiens live in tribes?Would recommend the book "sapiens" by yuval nosh harari. It gives a great overview of our evolution and there's a few chapters on tribal/pre-agricultural society. As for numbers, it was roughly in between around 100 000 years ago till around 12 000 years ago. | /r/askTRP | 16/03/20 04:24 PM |
| 7 | Older female coworker who is on the same level as me frequently tries to give me 'orders' and generally speaks to me like a child. Ignore?Sounds like an insufferable person. I would definitely continue to be neutral (don't lose your shit) and ignore her requests unless it was something you were planning to do anyway. If you are of equal rank and started at the same time, it sounds crazy for her to be bossing you around. Next thing would be to get on good terms with your superiors/managers. You need to demonstrate that you're killing it with your work. Never mention this woman to them unless they bring her up, eventually they'll re… | /r/askTRP | 11/03/20 01:55 AM |
| 4 | Got the hots for my girlfriend's mom, how do i decide who to go for?Definitely break up with your gf and fuck the milf, then you're daddy to both women. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/20 01:59 AM |
| 1 | Dealing with frame tests in cold approach?I can definitely see your point, and maybe my first comment will be more profound once you get the ball rolling and experience a few rejections. It reminds me of a time myself and my friend learned to skateboard together. We both watched a YouTube video prior to starting so we knew the basics. However, when came the time to start, he approached it cautiously and refused to try manouvers if he thought he might fall. I, on the other hand, knew that failure was inevitable if I were to improve. I fe… | /r/askTRP | 05/03/20 03:51 PM |
| 7 | Dealing with frame tests in cold approach?Hard to give you a list of responses or 'one liners' as that won't really fix the root of the problem. The solution is to have a carefree, not give a fuck, abundant mindset. This should make the frame tests easier but the underlying result is that any one interaction with a girl doesn't matter, as you have an attitude that communicates abundance of options. | /r/askTRP | 05/03/20 11:10 AM |
| 11 | On and Off LTR babe asked for a breakShe sounds crazy and played games with you. You sound like you have no options. I think you should move on, Sidebar is to the right - - > | /r/askTRP | 03/03/20 10:35 PM |
| 3 | Successful people of TRP, what were the steps you took to get where you’re at?Things that have contributed to my relative success so far: Setting, breaking down and tracking goals that you want to achieve. Starting with top level goals and then breaking down what you can do to achieve them monthly, weekly and daily. Surrounding yourself with people smarter than you. In doing this I've consistently learned from those around me and as I improve, I find even smarter people to interact with. Lifting, cliché I know. But lifting started as one of the first goals I undertook tha… | /r/askTRP | 04/02/20 12:58 AM |
| 7 | How to “start a business” with little skills?Starting a business with little skils is like saying you want to get girls without being attractive. You need to provide some value in order for someone to pay you. Start working on hobbies and identify if one of them can be monetised. Otherwise, identify gaps in the market where a certain skill/product is needed and then fill that gap. Better to do something that you have an interest in or you'll fizzle out. | /r/askTRP | 03/02/20 11:49 PM |
| 3 | Are there any other podcasts that are like patrice o'neals?Tom leykis could be considered related, he's a bit more mgtow style but does have some entertaining talk radio bits | /r/askTRP | 03/02/20 11:44 PM |
| 1 | 1 Piece of adviceThat's good to hear, don't stop! I would first start by reading the books 'No more Mr nice guy' and 'when I say no I feel guilty'. Growing out of nice guy habits is very tricky, but realise it won't happen overnight, but with consistent small steps forward you will make progress no matter what. I'm a strong believer of the best strong male friendships are forged through enduring tough/important/emotional times together. This is why men in the army form long lasting bonds, why my university frien… | /r/askTRP | 21/01/20 08:30 AM |
| 1 | Any short men who are good with women?I'm 5'9 which is average and I used to get the same feeling. However, my best friend is around the 5'7 and 5'8 height and has a strong 'don't give a fuck' mentality. He was the first person I knew to have a threesome (two 8s), he does fine. Hes been great to observe. Its all about the frame and mindset. Put on some muscle, maybe grow a bit of beard if it suits and you're Gucci. | /r/askTRP | 21/01/20 03:12 AM |
| 1 | 1 Piece of adviceTalk to everyone. This will improve your conversational skills, your social skills and you will naturally build a social circle the more you do it. Couple this with becoming a regular at locations (gym, yoga class, bjj gym, cafe, library study spot, skatepark, surf spot etc). The more people see you, the more you will integrate and be liked. Would recommend supplementing this with reading how to win friends and influence people. But if you're too lazy for that (you shouldn't be), focus on remain… | /r/askTRP | 20/01/20 10:44 PM |
| 64 | Whats with all this blackpill crap?Easier to make excuses and whine than to shape up and compete | /r/askTRP | 20/01/20 10:15 PM |
| 1 | Do you reccommend Rational Male: Preventative Medicine? If not, what's good to read after finishing the first Rational Male book?Cheers! I actually read sperm wars and found it quite fascinating, will definitely grab a pdf of the red queen👌 | /r/askTRP | 20/01/20 07:20 PM |
| 2 | Do you reccommend Rational Male: Preventative Medicine? If not, what's good to read after finishing the first Rational Male book?I'd be interested in those science and evo sexual selection books. | /r/askTRP | 20/01/20 10:50 AM |
| 2 | Books that are actually worth buying?Would recommend audio books, so efficient. Finance: rich dad poor dad the intelligent investor think and grow rich 4 hour work week People: How to win friends and influence people 48 Laws of power Never eat alone Redpill: The rational male Book of pook Way of the superior man The way of men Tactical guide to women Misc: Sapiens The power of now The art of war Buy at least one from each category and read from start to finish before starting another. Enjoy x | /r/askTRP | 19/01/20 10:24 AM |
| 2 | What did you wish you knew when you were 20?Although I'm barely older than you, I travel frequently in uni holidays and older graduated students say that's the thing they wish the did more of. See the world when you're young before you get settle into smashing your career. | /r/askTRP | 15/01/20 09:15 AM |
| 5 | What kind off music y'all listen too?Skepta - has a literal redpill lyric "when you realise she wasn't your girl it was just your turn" | /r/askTRP | 14/01/20 10:29 AM |
| 3 | Should I laugh this off or get a new friend? Banter went too far imoBeing able to dish it out but not take it is a strong indicator that you're a beta puss | /r/askTRP | 14/01/20 03:04 AM |
| 2 | Good Finance Literacy ResourcesBooks: The intelligent investor Rich dad poor dad Think and grow rich Websites: Visit personalfinance, financial independence, FIRE subreddits. YouTube channels - eg nate o'brien finance bloggers - eg Mr money mustache | /r/askTRP | 08/01/20 11:54 PM |
| 4 | Things to do with the boys?Poker night with my boys has become a regular and fun night to catch up and shoot the shit. As long as you have a poker set, tell everyone to come over with $10-20 and drinks/snacks. Always a good time. | /r/askTRP | 08/01/20 05:21 AM |
| 8 | For those that are in LTR or getting married, what’s your relationship like from a TRP POV?In a 4 year LTR in my 20s. From my experience maintaining high status has given me success: Keep yourself in shape - gym takes precendence usually, she was annoyed at first but now she asks me how my pump is. Hang out with your bros and be social - important to maintain a network of friends during the relationship and constantly grow your circle. focus on your studies/work - busy schedule and killing it with results at work/uni. That's my current purpose outside of hobbies. hobbies/extracurricul… | /r/askTRP | 08/01/20 12:43 AM |
| 2 | RP Father's - How far will you go to teach financial independence?I am a younger guy (21) so maybe I can relate more to your son's position. My father is smart with his money, in contrast my mother is terrible and upon reflection, he consistently raised me to become like him with finances. I remember several years ago when my father told me a story about his first financial lesson when he still lived at home at 18. My grandfather sat him down and instructed him to show him his end of year pay summary. My father was then told to compare his total year earnings … | /r/askMRP | 07/01/20 05:40 AM |
| 2 | Looking for advice on how to reach one’s daily eating calorie goals when trying to gain weightEat less large meals and consistently eat 5-6 smaller high quality meals throughout the day. Track with myfitnesspal. Snack on peanut butter sandwiches, nut bars, fruit with protein yoghurt, in addition to your big shakes. My go to meals are slow cooked curries/meats, mexican meat&bean&rice, meat&salad sandwiches/wraps, stir fry chicken&rice/noodles etc. Most of them meal prepped in advance. Check out the slowcooking, mealprep, cooking and gainit subs. Source: Leanbulked 10kg in the last year | /r/askTRP | 07/01/20 04:08 AM |
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