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| 1 | How do you punish an LTR that fell asleep when she was supposed to meet you?You're right. I read this guide on TRP and mistakenly thought I needed to "punish her" for her lack of respect towards me, but like you and everyone else have pointed out, it's me that's the problem here. I need to improve myself for my own good, and then the women and respect I want will come along. Your comment was a different way of looking at things, and I'm glad I saw it before I responded to her. She apologized profusely last night when she woke up a few hours later and all I said this mor… | /r/askTRP | 23/10/15 01:44 PM |
| -1 | How do you punish an LTR that fell asleep when she was supposed to meet you?You're right. Honestly, I'm angry at my parents for not giving me the tools I needed to survive socially growing up. I'm angry at all the sappy Hollywood movies and songs for telling me that I need to break my back for a girl. However, most of all, I'm angry at myself for wasting years living the beta mindset and not realizing that like people have said, I am the prize. I genuinely believe that, but I've been allowing myself to be walked over by people who don't value me. I didn't realize what I… | /r/askTRP | 23/10/15 01:35 PM |
| 1 | How do you punish an LTR that fell asleep when she was supposed to meet you?That to her, I wasn't worth making an effort to stay up for. That is a tough pill to swallow, but it's something I'm determined to learn from. It's never going to happen again. Onwards and upwards. | /r/askTRP | 23/10/15 06:39 AM |
| 0 | How do you punish an LTR that fell asleep when she was supposed to meet you?This is exactly what I needed to hear. I've been approaching this all wrong - I guess I thought I could control the situation to get her to be more invested in the relationship, but that's completely wrong. The real problem is I wasn't worth making an effort to stay up for. That hurts, but it's true. It's what I needed to hear so I can do what you and /u/Glennus626 said - become better so she wants me more. Thank you for your advice. | /r/askTRP | 23/10/15 06:36 AM |
| 0 | How do you punish an LTR that fell asleep when she was supposed to meet you?Something that wasn't clear in my OP is that we were gonna see each other, we were figuring out what the plan was. Aka who was coming over to who's place. Regardless, you are correct. I'll continue learning and not make a big deal of it. Thanks for the advice. | /r/askTRP | 23/10/15 06:22 AM |
| -2 | How do you punish an LTR that fell asleep when she was supposed to meet you?Ah, thought you meant move on from the girl. Also you're twisting my words. While I appreciate the advice, I'm not asking how to make myself more attractive. I'm asking for tips on how to reverse the crappy power balance in the relationship that I let occur. My goal is to become the captain of the ship, not to change myself so she sees me as the captain. | /r/askTRP | 23/10/15 04:29 AM |
| -1 | How do you punish an LTR that fell asleep when she was supposed to meet you?Yes, I am the prize. Agreed. I've come to internally realize this over the last month or so. But, I'm not currently where I should be in terms of physique and "game". So why not hang on to this girl who's good for sex till I increase my value and potentially see if anything improves? Her texts after waking up do indicate that she cares, and I'm going to give her one more chance, but I need to handle this in the correct RP way. | /r/askTRP | 23/10/15 04:06 AM |
| -3 | How do you punish an LTR that fell asleep when she was supposed to meet you?This is going to sound beta and maybe it is, but I'm not willing to quit on this just yet. It's only been a month and I believe I can nip this behavior in the bud. So for now my goal is to make her more excited to see me than I am to see her. Do you think that's possible? If yes, how? Edit: she just texted me, two hours later, saying "How much do you hate me...?" and followed it up with "I'm so sorry!! I fell asleep somehow and I really really am sorry" | /r/askTRP | 23/10/15 04:01 AM |
| 0 | Currently having an existential crisis on how I (20, M) should treat women - what's the best way to proceed for someone who does want an LTR with a girl but has so far (6 weeks, 10 official dates) treated her unlike a TRPer would?Date 2, 5, and 8 I think. It's definitely been 10 days or so since the last time, so I'm going to be more forceful now | /r/askTRP | 09/09/15 02:55 PM |
| 0 | Currently having an existential crisis on how I (20, M) should treat women - what's the best way to proceed for someone who does want an LTR with a girl but has so far (6 weeks, 10 official dates) treated her unlike a TRPer would?In your opinion, is TRP forever avoiding oneitis? Don't you think that at some point, it'll be more satisfying to have someone reliable to come home and more fulfilling than hookups? | /r/askTRP | 09/09/15 01:12 AM |
| 0 | Currently having an existential crisis on how I (20, M) should treat women - what's the best way to proceed for someone who does want an LTR with a girl but has so far (6 weeks, 10 official dates) treated her unlike a TRPer would?I know what you're saying, but my goal is to salvage this relationship. | /r/askTRP | 09/09/15 01:11 AM |
| 0 | Currently having an existential crisis on how I (20, M) should treat women - what's the best way to proceed for someone who does want an LTR with a girl but has so far (6 weeks, 10 official dates) treated her unlike a TRPer would?I think you're completely right on #1. She literally told me she's felt like my girlfriend, she's just afraid that the label will change things between us. I'm giving her a week, and if she's not ready, this won't go anywhere. I think that's a fair compromise. Same goes for #2 - I think she lets me instigate because I'm the guy, and that's how she sees the relationship should be. 3 is the main reason I want to "fix" this. I was mentioning the popularity thing because she knows it and it basicall… | /r/askTRP | 09/09/15 01:10 AM |
| 0 | Currently having an existential crisis on how I (20, M) should treat women - what's the best way to proceed for someone who does want an LTR with a girl but has so far (6 weeks, 10 official dates) treated her unlike a TRPer would?Re 1 - I know her mental barrier thing is real. She literally said "let's give it a try" but I knew she's a little hesitant about the label so I told her to take a little bit of time because she's gotta WANT the relationship. She said she'll be ready in a week. If not, I'll stop seeing her. I don't think she's ridden the CC, I do think I'm probably being too beta. I'm gonna wait for her to text me now. How do you think I can regain the upper hand in the relationship in regards to the being the g… | /r/askTRP | 09/09/15 01:02 AM |
| 10 | Reddit Takes Down Post About Woman-on-Man Sexual AssaultThat's a satire subreddit. | /r/MensRights | 12/06/15 03:50 AM |
| 1 | Should I text her or wait for her text? She's definitely shown interest [texts in description]What would've been a better text to say to the "are you out" though? I mean she initiated, what would be an alpha response? | /r/askTRP | 08/02/15 02:07 AM |
| 1 | How can I tell a friend that I'm going on a date with the girl he likes?This was the best advice I got, thanks. He's gonna ask her out this week, and if she says yes, I'm gonna let them date without interfering. Thanks for the help. | /r/askTRP | 02/12/14 03:44 AM |
| 2 | How can I tell a friend that I'm going on a date with the girl he likes?I wised up and talked to him about it and gave him until Friday to ask her out, which he is going to do. If she says yes to him, I'm gonna back off and if not, then it's fair game. Either way, we're remaining friends - thanks for the advice. | /r/askTRP | 02/12/14 03:43 AM |
| -4 | How can I tell a friend that I'm going on a date with the girl he likes?I completely agree, but he wasn't gonna do anything, I gave him a chance and tried to help... AFTER he didn't do anything, I realized I like her so I acted on it. I may have fucked up, but I wouldn't do anything differently tbh. | /r/askTRP | 01/12/14 07:10 AM |
| 2 | I hooked up with a friend this weekend who's getting over a tough breakup, and she says she's not ready to commit "emotionally" right now - what does the TRP think I should do?Ok, got it. Thanks a lot for your advice. | /r/askTRP | 29/09/14 03:21 PM |
| 3 | I hooked up with a friend this weekend who's getting over a tough breakup, and she says she's not ready to commit "emotionally" right now - what does the TRP think I should do?You're absolutely correct, thanks for the honesty. I think this was a good wake up call for me, it was fun and everything but I'm gonna have to hit the gym hard and get my life in shape if I want more of what happened (with someone else, of course) | /r/askTRP | 29/09/14 03:20 PM |
| 2 | I hooked up with a friend this weekend who's getting over a tough breakup, and she says she's not ready to commit "emotionally" right now - what does the TRP think I should do?She did say she wanted me to text her when we were sober and then we'd see. She also said she didn't want me to be her rebound and put me through what the other guy put her through. Thoughts? Ngl, it was pretty beta of me to text her the next morning though. | /r/askTRP | 29/09/14 03:02 PM |
| 1 | I hooked up with a friend this weekend who's getting over a tough breakup, and she says she's not ready to commit "emotionally" right now - what does the TRP think I should do?"So... do you wanna go to the zoo next weekend" Literally first text morning after, it's because we talked about going to the zoo when sober and drunk her said she wanted sober me to ask her out ("I'll go on dates with you, but I'm not ready for dating" was something she said) | /r/askTRP | 29/09/14 02:49 PM |
| 1 | I hooked up with a friend this weekend who's getting over a tough breakup, and she says she's not ready to commit "emotionally" right now - what does the TRP think I should do?Do you really think this sounds like someone who has buyer's remorse and is uncomfortable talking to me? http://i.imgur.com/z8YK8y8.jpg Just trying to get a feel for the situation. | /r/askTRP | 29/09/14 02:34 PM |
| 1 | I hooked up with a friend this weekend who's getting over a tough breakup, and she says she's not ready to commit "emotionally" right now - what does the TRP think I should do?Hey man, is it cool if I dm you with the specific texts? What you said grounded me, and while it's harsh, you may be right and I wanna make sure. | /r/askTRP | 29/09/14 02:12 PM |
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