salvataz Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	Been at this for 11 years If nothing else at least you’re living your own damn life	/r/seduction	05/11/25 11:20 PM
2	What is the difference between toxic masculinity and high value men? Everybody wants good relationships with other people. I think what you mean to say is that if you have a good relationship with yourself you're more likely to be capable of good relationships with other people. Which is also great, but the question I am asking is, which women are able to align their actions with their stated values when it comes to dating toxic men? There are also lots of intelligent people with whom the education system doesn't know what to do with. I am very intelligent but it…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/22 04:08 AM
1	What is the difference between toxic masculinity and high value men? I appreciate you saying that. When you say "intelligent", do you mean well educated? And is there a common field of study among your sample group?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/22 03:28 AM
5	What is the difference between toxic masculinity and high value men? I think I might have a better chance in another country entirely, with a more mature culture. Instead of listing all the places I've been, where would you suggest that I look? Where can I find women who are genuinely not interested in assholes? Or, at least, if they are attracted to assholes, have the discipline to stay away from them while proactively trying to give good men a chance? If you have a place or an idea or a method that I have not tried, I promise you I will try it and report back. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/22 01:05 AM
4	What is the difference between toxic masculinity and high value men? You're not hearing me. When I am shitty to women, that's the only time women are attracted to me. That's why it's hard to ignore the idea that women like assholes and don't like nice men. (And therefore hard to believe women when they say that they want nice men who are emotionally communicative) If it weren't for that observation, I would think that this entire red pill thing was complete baloney.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/22 12:21 AM
7	What is the difference between toxic masculinity and high value men? There's an entire community of men who feel this way that's large enough to have a name. Maybe they all have a similar problem that manifests itself in similar ways, including the kind of women that they are attracted to. Maybe they seek familiarity in women who are uninterested in them because that's the way their mothers were to them. And maybe it's those kind of women flock to to abusive men. Would certainly explain the fathers of these men. And maybe when these men get sick and tired enough …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/22 12:13 AM
5	What is the difference between toxic masculinity and high value men? I can only speak for my experience. When I am angry and callous, I get dates. When I'm not, I don't.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/22 11:52 PM
7	What is the difference between toxic masculinity and high value men? That's the problem. They often say one thing and do another. (All women say they want a nice man who is open with their emotions, but so many men who are nice and open with their emotions can't get dates)	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/22 11:48 PM
1	I figured it out I'm not sure how else to explain it tbh. I've definitely been really nervous with girls in the past. But the worst knee shaking experience I ever had was actually talking with a male celebrity. I was like 12. But after that I really started thinking about it, and looking at celebrities as people, who they were right where they stood. I learned that the only real difference between them and I was that their profession has the side effect of everyone recognizing their face. They're just people, li…	/r/seduction	29/12/16 12:20 PM
2	I figured it out Hey, sorry for the late response. I only check Reddit like once a week. I totally understand and I'm actually kind of jealous. I would try these things. 1) Going with the roller coaster concept, when you're nervous you just make yourself get on the damn roller coaster, despite your shaking nervousness. And the next time you ride it gets better. The idea here is to just really be vulnerable with yourself and the woman. Don't try to hide or mask it. Don't try to not feel it. Feel it. Accept it. An…	/r/seduction	25/12/16 09:11 AM
3	[FR] First approach ever. I never felt so proud of myself. Preaching to the choir, bro. I feel you. I'm sure you've heard it before, but consider developing an abundance mindset. Always getting new numbers, meeting new girls, etc. But be thankful for the good stuff, and consider keeping the number. Remember that part in the Forty Year Old Virgin when Steve carells character asked when he should call the girl, and his friend said, "When's the next Olympics?" Well, as a sort of experiment, I like to take a few notes and keep the contact info of the more m…	/r/seduction	25/12/16 08:16 AM
1	I have a very strong desire for external validation and can't seem to shake it Dude, respect. That was a great article. I don't say that lightly. Effectively concise. This helps a lot. Thank you.	/r/seduction	18/12/16 07:37 PM
28	I figured it out Take that fear and let it instead be your excitement. Like learning to love roller coasters or scary movies. I think what you are referring to is literally the thrill of sexual tension. Don't suppress or run away from it. Do that scary thing you're not sure about. Enjoy the following suspense in anticipation rather than insecurity. "I can't wait to see what she writes back" vs "oh shit I'm a dumbass, she's not saying anything, blaggghh". You don't want to end up with a girlfriend that was easy b…	/r/seduction	18/12/16 07:26 PM
2	[FR] First approach ever. I never felt so proud of myself. Hey thanks for filling us in. I agree with Hantoki-- you're in the clear. Just pull the trigger. What has happened since this? If nothing, consider this text: "Hey, I'm going to xyz tomorrow. Meet me there?" (Or whatever day if the week) Can be anything you want to do or already have going on. Or it could just be a local bar or coffee shop. I'm really happy for you, man.	/r/seduction	18/12/16 07:09 PM
2	[FR] First approach ever. I never felt so proud of myself. Now you're being vague and different, ;). Jk. For the future, it sounds like that may have been a good opportunity for subtle sexual innuendos. James Bond style. I kind of like it when they do that because it may work to increase the sexual tension, and the only game I like is the "only ask questions and never answer any question directly unless the answer is a 'no' " game. Would you mind posting what exactly was said? Maybe we can workshop some ideas for you. Change your perspective a bit.	/r/seduction	13/12/16 09:43 AM
3	[FR] First approach ever. I never felt so proud of myself. What did you do to blow it?	/r/seduction	12/12/16 05:02 AM