salynch Archive

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3	Do most liberal women have sex outside relationships? From what I’ve heard from folks, the most common way this happens is that they get ghosted or dumped by a guy after sex, when they thought they were “getting into” a relationship. That or they realize shortly afterwards that they don’t like the guy’s personality, etc. While women do sometimes just want a summer fling or whatever, even that is basically a “short term” relationship. There are individual differences, but completely random hookups are generally less appealing	/r/ExRedPill	20/07/24 05:54 PM
1	I haven't seen any proof that physical attraction is subjective in any meaningful way In my experience, attractiveness does not work like a binary thing. I know you want to isolate this to physical attractiveness, but most women don’t treat even that as a purely aesthetic thing.	/r/ExRedPill	28/04/24 05:13 AM
-3	What do you think of transmaxxing? r/eggirl	/r/ExRedPill	05/11/23 07:15 PM
4	What do you think of transmaxxing? This is like horseshoe theory for 1) game theory absolutists who have become completely ungrounded from reality and 2) closeted “eggs” who are unable to rationalize the creeping sense of gender dysphoria with the misogyny they’ve absorbed from redpill creators, culture, etc.	/r/ExRedPill	05/11/23 07:12 PM
3	Lonely Single Men Exactly. More men should listen to what women say they want! This isn’t hard… at least, not harder than relationships are already hard. Thanks, er… u/daddyslittlefuckslut	/r/ExRedPill	01/11/23 09:17 PM
3	Lonely Single Men After looking at the Pew methodology page, the margin of error could account for this difference (2% up for men/2% down for women). The response rate was 84%, so there may be a self-selection effects to remember here, too. Also, this jibes with other research overall. 1/5 of women identify as bisexual… even among women who often date men, a lot of women who are single are also not dating men! Also, 50% of single women are over the age of 65, while 50% of single men are under the age of 18. A lot…	/r/ExRedPill	01/11/23 09:12 PM
5	Lonely Single Men A lot of this is just a bigger increase in loneliness tied to the atomization of Western society, a decline in localized human relationships, and an aging population. People spend more time online (or watching TV or gaming) and less time with the people who live near them, interacting IRL. Lots of social structures (local clubs, civic organizations, even churches, etc.) are in decline and get less interest from younger people. Families are smaller, so you are more lonely by default, because you …	/r/ExRedPill	01/11/23 08:59 PM
3	Who should the initiator in dating? I think there’s a kind of intermediate step (I won’t call it “courting” but that’s evocative of the idea) where you and the other person kind of feel each other out. You see if you both like talking, see if your personalities vibe, etc. This obviously takes on lots of different forms, but often is just a function of seeing if you like being around each other. Honestly, if you’re both choosing to be in the same space and do things together, then who’s to say who really “initiated” dating if you m…	/r/ExRedPill	31/05/23 06:20 PM
10	Sitting on the fence 49 yo male living in a very leftist city & state, starting to dislike wokeness & political correctness, tell me why the red pill is wrong & bad for me ?? I don’t even know where to begin, man. Red pill is a dumb approach to dating, but not sure how that conflates with… energy costs? Inflation? “Rainbow flag people” lol… you do you. It sounds like you’re just angry and bitter, not really interested in having a conversation or even dating, really.	/r/ExRedPill	21/03/22 05:18 AM
3	Is that the consequence of hypergamy? Maybe she lived somewhere without regular internet access?	/r/ExRedPill	19/03/22 08:34 PM
2	is my therapist right that women do like feminine looking men? The majority of women usually find feminine looking men to be more attractive, all other things being equal. Certainly true of feminine facial features.	/r/ExRedPill	08/03/22 04:31 AM
11	is my therapist right that women do like feminine looking men? Internet + selection bias. What you see online is generally not a representative representation of the real world.	/r/ExRedPill	08/03/22 04:27 AM
3	is my therapist right that women do like feminine looking men? Yeah, there are many well-known studies on this. I was forced to help my sister on one of her papers about this when I was a psych undergrad, lol. Just ignore the pseudoscientific mra crap, you’re more than fine if you have feminine facial features. Here’s the first example I found after two seconds on Google	/r/ExRedPill	08/03/22 04:26 AM
1	Being only 5ft pushes me into the dark corridors of Blackpill. I mean, you do you, right? But I sounds like you ah e a lot of self-hate to get over. The truth is that the things there is no unitary law of attraction that specifies who will find who attractive. In fact (hate to say it) you may benefit from a better understanding of what “selection” actually entails, when it comes to mating. I mean, using the term “degenerate” implies some weird, moralistic belief that you’re trying to shoehorn into some vague understanding of an animal/human behavior model.	/r/ExRedPill	24/02/22 12:25 AM
2	Being only 5ft pushes me into the dark corridors of Blackpill. I know two dudes that both are very short (like 5’1” or so) and married taller, hot women. The shorter of the two guys married someone who was like 5’11” or close to that.	/r/ExRedPill	23/02/22 06:13 PM
3	Being only 5ft pushes me into the dark corridors of Blackpill. This is kind of not what I’ve seen. I know several dudes who are shorter than the (very hot) women they married. I know this sounds like pretty basic advice, but idk your age or whatever, so I’ll share this: being comfortable with yourself is the first step to being comfortable socializing around others. The more you fixate on your height, it’ll become like a mental block that you think about during other interactions. If you don’t care about your height, most other people won’t either.	/r/ExRedPill	23/02/22 06:10 PM
6	My gf recently told me that men who are “Hoes” are dicks and don’t respect women but at the same time I wonder why those men have such high body counts if women don’t like men like that. Yeah, it’s that, plus the “bad boys” that are top of mind for you might be 1) exceptions to the general rule (out of ten, one is particularly attractive or whatever), 2) lying about their body counts in the first place. I find 2) is pretty common, lol, and as you get older you realize that bad sex with a greater number of strangers isn’t actually something that is worth aspiring to.	/r/ExRedPill	24/01/22 06:50 PM
3	The red pills, see Islam as a solution and that many will embrace the Muslim faith for feminism, how true is this? and also I see that the red pills and mgtow, promote Islam a lot, I wonder why they promote Islam so much? Some people just have an affinity for all kinds of online radicalization, maybe? Edit: Nothing against Islam or Muslims (I have several Muslim friends). I just know some of the weird “convert a heathen online” dynamic kind of oddly reminds me of how some people got into online PUA “culture.”	/r/ExRedPill	31/08/21 04:17 AM
2	Can Any Males In Here Offer Some Advice To Me? Yeah, 100% agree. Being able to own your own mistakes is a key sign of maturity & showing you can change. I’d argue that any sort of jargon just shouldn’t be used in normal human conversation, lol, so I wouldn’t use the word “deprogramming,” but the overall point is well-taken.	/r/ExRedPill	29/07/21 05:35 PM
2	Can Any Males In Here Offer Some Advice To Me? As a psyche major, can confirm. Redpill stuff is just bad pop psychology + multilevel marketing. When you believe the redpill stuff, you’re super confident b/c you think you have this view of the world that explains everything, but like all cults, the reality is that you’re just somebody else’s sucker. I think the first thing to do is stop reading redpill stuff online. It’s dumb, and if you keep consuming it, your confirmation bias is obviously going to keep you from seeing the world differently…	/r/ExRedPill	27/07/21 06:38 AM
8	A PUA guy tell me that after 150,000 approaches I can get laid with any women in the world even when I looked exactly like quasimodo jaba the hut or smeagol.This sounds really fishy. He doesn’t tell you how weird and lonely you’ll feel after hitting on 149,999 strangers, though.	/r/ExRedPill	21/05/20 12:08 AM
4	Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. He’s advocating for idiocy in the marketplace of ideas. People who think they can self-treat STIs has got to be a contributing factor to how STIs spread.	/r/ExRedPill	03/05/20 07:14 PM
5	Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. Sounds like he knows how to use a condom about as properly as he’s able to use a soldering iron.	/r/ExRedPill	03/05/20 07:12 PM
3	Opening up to Women Therapy is good! Also, be prepared to get upset and feel vulnerable once you share your real feelings. Vulnerability is a sign of intimacy. In my experience, vulnerability and sharing your feelings are super attractive to most women (or at least, the ones who are interested in a long-term relationship). I think you just have to try it out and see what you learn from it. Also, it’s normal for people to misunderstand how you feel at first or for how you feel to change after talking through your fe…	/r/ExRedPill	01/05/20 05:06 AM
2	Are RP relationships redeemable? FWIW my wife fully intended for me to be a one night stand. That was 15 years ago.	/r/ExRedPill	31/01/20 07:17 PM
4	Had a nasty fight with my girl heavily influenced by TRP insecurities; could use some advice FWIW, fights like this are a pretty normal part of many relationships. There are lots of differences between folks and YMMV based on your relationship with your gf vs. my experiences. My best advice: Feeing bad and wanting to make things right is normal and the right things to do. This sounds like any one of the ~100 of the fights/arguments I have had with my exes or my wife. You are doing the best you can, and try to talk about the what happened without going negative or letting your feelings (…	/r/ExRedPill	29/01/20 03:27 AM