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| 2 | The only disincentives women respond to are shame and or de-beautification. Therefore the criminal justice system is unfair because it applies male centric punishment to women.How do you explain Giles Corey? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/24 11:49 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: How often do you do the following chores?Some of the answers make me want to vomit. I can't imagine changing my sheets monthly or less often than that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/24 07:26 PM |
| 1 | Most of the men who have low standards have them low because they aren't desirable enough to have them high.I thought that was Ryan Reynolds. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/24 10:28 AM |
| 0 | Does modern dating and the cut throat social heirarchy breed emotional distance and encourage anti social personalities in men?What you seem to be missing is that women did not get the same freedoms of choice as men even though they worked as hard. They were not allowed to own the land they worked or the money they earned. It belonged to their husband or their male relatives. Women were given little agency or choice of their own. What do you think happened to women who were spoils of war? They weren't put on pedestals. They were raped, beaten, enslaved, tortured, and killed. Their fate wasn't better than the men forced … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/24 11:44 AM |
| 3 | Does modern dating and the cut throat social heirarchy breed emotional distance and encourage anti social personalities in men?Most women worked. I don't know where you all get this idea that women didn't. It wasn't until after WWII that the modern idea of a housewife began, and that was only for the middle class and up. Prior to that only the ultra privileged women didn't work. Women took in washing, were maids, dressmakers, factory workers, nurses, worked in the fields, built houses right alongside the men. The only job they didn't do was military because they weren't allowed, and even then, some women served. The who… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/24 11:28 AM |
| 2 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.Wow, "settle for scraps" yet, just up from here you are whining about how you don't want to be settled for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 05:59 PM |
| 1 | How many men here who fear an embarrassing rejection have actually experienced an embarrassing rejection? And women, have you ever rejected a man in a humiliating manner?Most guys who are "hung" aren't that good at sex. They think all they need is a big dick for it to be good. I don't know where you are getting this idea from. If a woman is going back for sex, it is because the guy is chill and good in bed even if they don't want a relationship with him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/24 05:11 PM |
| 4 | How many men here who fear an embarrassing rejection have actually experienced an embarrassing rejection? And women, have you ever rejected a man in a humiliating manner?Only when a man did not take no for an answer and would not leave me alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/24 05:05 PM |
| 1 | The idea that women put in more effort later on in the relationship isn't true.The ones that you hear about on To Catch a Predator. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/24 12:50 AM |
| 1 | How would you feel about a man using the women’s restroom and women using the men’s restroom if needed?Except not all men's rooms have changing tables. Is he supposed to put a baby on the floor to change them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/24 11:46 AM |
| 4 | 30 yr old, single women in mediocre jobs, shouldn't expect more than average.I am 42 and still waiting for my broom. Dang, maybe it didn't show up because I am married. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/24 11:44 AM |
| 1 | 30 yr old, single women in mediocre jobs, shouldn't expect more than average.You don't know many Gen Xers then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/24 11:29 AM |
| – | Why don't we talk more about "female sexuality"? Where has it gone?I do think that a better understanding of receptive desire would help men more than any pill strategies out there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/24 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Who is your favourite example of positive masculinity?Terry Crews, Dwayne Johnson, Lamar Burton, Mr. Rogers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/24 04:45 PM |
| 2 | Men are infinitely more forgiving towards women flaws yet women keep pretending men and women are on an even field with dating.But, but we are just too picky and have deeper problems. Sorry dude, if I couldn't find someone who will live up to the example set by my grandparents' marriage, I wouldn't have gotten married. I'm so glad I held out for exactly what I wanted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/24 02:27 AM |
| 2 | Men are infinitely more forgiving towards women flaws yet women keep pretending men and women are on an even field with dating.Or they can just remain happily single. It doesn't matter why the options are unappealing. It doesn't even mean anything is wrong with the options, just that they are not what the person wants. I am married, but I sure as heck didn't settle. I knew exactly what I wanted and have been married for 19 years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/24 12:36 AM |
| 4 | Men are infinitely more forgiving towards women flaws yet women keep pretending men and women are on an even field with dating.Or shocker they are just as happy being single. If I don't like my options, I am not going to settle. I will just keep going my own happy way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/24 11:26 PM |
| 2 | Men are infinitely more forgiving towards women flaws yet women keep pretending men and women are on an even field with dating.Why? If none of your options are appealing, it is better to just stay single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/24 10:56 PM |
| – | Why do some people bend over backwards to find excuses for everything women do?Because she had a well documented mental illness. She had been in and out of the hospital for her illness. I am 100% against the death penalty for anyone bit especially when they have a documented history of mental illness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/24 05:48 PM |
| 5 | Women want to split housework and childrearing but don't want to compromise anywhere elseIt proves that more women are stuck shopping for a household than men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 11:47 PM |
| 5 | Women want to split housework and childrearing but don't want to compromise anywhere elseThat doesn't prove your point. It is just as likely it happens because they can afford to leave and not stay in a bad marriage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 11:47 PM |
| 3 | Women want to split housework and childrearing but don't want to compromise anywhere elseNo, it isn't worse because there is an overlap between married households and single households. Have you ever taken a statics course? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 10:02 PM |
| 12 | Women want to split housework and childrearing but don't want to compromise anywhere elseAbsolutely. This sub makes me so much happier in my relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 09:45 PM |
| 8 | Women want to split housework and childrearing but don't want to compromise anywhere elseOnly 54% of married men are the breadwinner according to the latest statistics. 29% are equal earners, and the remaining make less than their wife. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 09:42 PM |
| 9 | Women want to split housework and childrearing but don't want to compromise anywhere elseProof that all women expect men to make more money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 09:39 PM |
| 1 | Women want to split housework and childrearing but don't want to compromise anywhere elseThey are talking as part of each gender as a whole, so it makes sense. 89% of all women, single or not, & 41% of all men, single or not. If they were talking about a percentage of households, it would add up to 100%. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 09:31 PM |
| 7 | Makeup plays an enormous role in women’s upper hand and allows them to play several leagues up, many of them look unrecognizable without it.Worked for all the 70s and 80s glam rockers too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/23 06:15 PM |
| – | Affordable paternity tests should be a mandatory part of the birthing process CMVYou can opt out of that testing, and they do not run DNA. Not everyone wants their DNA or their child's DNA on file. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/23 07:43 AM |
| 7 | 60% of Millennial women are already nearly infertile. And 80% of childless women regret not having kids. Is this why more women are crying on TikTok than ever before?You literally said they were not feasible. They certainly were feasible. Most of the time it was an unexpected child when parents thought they were done. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/23 02:36 AM |
| – | Affordable paternity tests should be a mandatory part of the birthing process CMVA blood test is voluntary. You are not required to get a blood test unless there is a warrant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/23 02:34 AM |
| – | Affordable paternity tests should be a mandatory part of the birthing process CMVWe have a huge backlog of DNA testing in criminal investigations due to lack of infrastructure. To add a test for every child born, you would be taxing an already overburdened system. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/23 02:33 AM |
| – | Affordable paternity tests should be a mandatory part of the birthing process CMVYes, you actually can. Most people apply for a social security number for their child at birth, but you don't need to apply. There is no law forcing it. They can choose to live a nomad lifestyle and not pay taxes other than sales tax. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/23 02:29 AM |
| – | Affordable paternity tests should be a mandatory part of the birthing process CMVBecause not all men have that doubt. If you have that doubt, then you test. If a man doesn't have that doubt, why should they have to pay for testing and have their DNA on record. Not everyone wants to give up their DNA. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/23 02:04 AM |
| – | Affordable paternity tests should be a mandatory part of the birthing process CMVWhere do you practice? In most places, if not married, the man needs to sign an acknowledgment of paternity to be on the birth certificate. If they refuse, a court can order a DNA test to prove paternity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/23 01:58 AM |
| 2 | 60% of Millennial women are already nearly infertile. And 80% of childless women regret not having kids. Is this why more women are crying on TikTok than ever before?They use SSRIs for many women who cannot use HRT. They are also used for other mental health issues that have nothing to do with depression like OCD and anxiety. Many women do not want to pass these conditions on to potential children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/23 01:20 AM |
| 10 | 60% of Millennial women are already nearly infertile. And 80% of childless women regret not having kids. Is this why more women are crying on TikTok than ever before?Not even close to true. My grandfather was born when his mother was 42 and that was over 100 years ago. It wasn't uncommon considering the lack of birth control. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/23 01:10 AM |
| 8 | 60% of Millennial women are already nearly infertile. And 80% of childless women regret not having kids. Is this why more women are crying on TikTok than ever before?Exactly! They also thought women determined the sex of babies. Most of human history was extremely ignorant when it came to fertility and reproduction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/23 01:03 AM |
| 3 | Man gets caught looking at a woman in public, gets his face posted on TikTok with thousands now labeling him a "creep"You have never felt someone staring at you? Seriously? I don't know anyone who can't feel it. https://www.ndcn.ox.ac.uk/news/a-sixth-sense-how-we-can-tell-that-eyes-are-watching-us https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/the-narcissus-in-all-us/201102/how-you-know-eyes-are-watching-you https://exploringyourmind.com/why-can-you-sense-when-people-are-looking-at-you/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/23 12:19 AM |
| 4 | Man gets caught looking at a woman in public, gets his face posted on TikTok with thousands now labeling him a "creep"You can literally feel when someone stares at you. It is an intensely uncomfortable feeling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 11:48 PM |
| 1 | Man gets caught looking at a woman in public, gets his face posted on TikTok with thousands now labeling him a "creep"And OP expects people to care about the men being filmed. How is that any different? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 11:43 PM |
| 3 | What are some problems men face that isn’t caused by women?Women also want physical intimacy. We get it in different ways than just sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 12:53 AM |
| 4 | What are some problems men face that isn’t caused by women?For men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 12:30 AM |
| 2 | There is a active push to limit the scope of socially acceptable venues to approach a womanSo then, how would you meet any young women if there are none? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/23 01:17 AM |
| 4 | Why men are (rightfully) bitter.No, it was strict monogamy for women, and many men had mistresses. Don't act like men were paragons of virtue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 10:35 PM |
| 2 | Most of men's cluelessness in dating stems from fatherlessness and their mother's virtue signalling bad advice.Who said the man isn't attractive? I am married. I have male friends who are attractive who I give dating advice. Of course I don't see them as partner material since I already have a partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 05:04 PM |
| 5 | Why do women keep children by men who don’t want to be fathers ?My kids are 16 and 18. They are so much more expensive than they were as babies. My car insurance went up almost $400/month once they both got their licenses. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/23 11:04 AM |
| 0 | Women want to be loved, but they don't want to love.Then don't call it a life without love. A life without romance or without sex fine but to boil love down to just sex oe romance is disingenuous. The OP of this comment was not only talking about romance as she later clarified. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 06:40 PM |
| 2 | Women want to be loved, but they don't want to love.That only makes sense for the number of divorces dropping, not the percentage of divorces dropping. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 04:01 PM |
| -2 | Women want to be loved, but they don't want to love.Because that is the only form of love... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 03:55 PM |
| 1 | Age gap relationships end in divorcePair bonding doesn't exist in humans. That is basic biology. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 03:38 PM |
| – | There's a lot of stay at home wife/mom relationships, they just occur under the disguise of the woman having a fun job like a yoga/fitness instructor or running a shop.Most teachers do not leave school at 3 unless they are there at 6:30 and even then, they are usually there until at least 4. Also, summers off is bs. There are about 8 weeks of summer break for kids. Teachers are out about a week after the kids and go back a week earlier. It is used for meetings, classroom set up and take down, report cards, state reporting, and collaborating with other teachers and staff. They also have to get a certain amount of continuing education credits, which is normally … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 10:15 AM |
| – | There's a lot of stay at home wife/mom relationships, they just occur under the disguise of the woman having a fun job like a yoga/fitness instructor or running a shop.Teachers cannot take time off as needed... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 02:21 AM |
| – | There's a lot of stay at home wife/mom relationships, they just occur under the disguise of the woman having a fun job like a yoga/fitness instructor or running a shop.If you are lucky. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 02:11 AM |
| – | CMV: Say what you want about TRP, but it's messed up that nice, perfectly normal dudes struggle to get basic women while literal thugs and walking red flags slay with women just because they're overconfident.Being single is not a punishment. No one deserves or is owed a relationship. Most women would rather be single than be considered some sort of reward for "good" behavior. It is not my moral duty to reward someone for not being a killer. If the incentive of a reward is what is keeping someone from being a serial killer, they are not a good or moral person. Women who write to serial killers have a fantasy in their mind that the killer wouldn't hurt them because they are special. Desperation doesn'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 10:34 AM |
| – | CMV: Say what you want about TRP, but it's messed up that nice, perfectly normal dudes struggle to get basic women while literal thugs and walking red flags slay with women just because they're overconfident.Because I am not someone's reward. It is not my duty to make sure everyone gets a prize for doing what they are supposed to do. My husband is a great man. He also wouldn't have had a relationship with any woman that came along. Desperation is a turn-off and isn't a behavior that should be rewarded. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 03:06 AM |
| – | CMV: Say what you want about TRP, but it's messed up that nice, perfectly normal dudes struggle to get basic women while literal thugs and walking red flags slay with women just because they're overconfident.I forgot there are no female drug dealers or gang members... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 01:27 AM |
| – | CMV: Say what you want about TRP, but it's messed up that nice, perfectly normal dudes struggle to get basic women while literal thugs and walking red flags slay with women just because they're overconfident.Just what every woman wants to hear. The desperation is a turn off. We don't want a man who thinks we are all interchangeable or that any woman will do. We want a man that wants us as an individual. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 12:42 AM |
| 4 | This sub really needs to stop calling men who struggle in dating "socially inept"I didn't answer your questions because they didn't apply at all. I supported my husband when he started his business. He supported me when we had children. We both planned and had things like parental leave, savings, etc. I wouldn't expect him to cover all our expenses due to childbirth. I did cover all his expenses when he had ACL replacement and a year latter when he broke his back. Just like he supported me when I broke my shoulder and when I had surgery. I wanted a man as ambitious as I am s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 09:49 PM |
| 2 | This sub really needs to stop calling men who struggle in dating "socially inept"So because I believe in helping someone recover from an eating disorder, I can't be ambitious? Interesting theory. I didn't date down. I held out for what I wanted in a man, and I got it. If I hadn't met him, I would have stayed single and been perfectly happy. There is no reason to date down for women. We don't need marriage to be happy. A good marriage can add to our happiness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 09:43 PM |
| 3 | This sub really needs to stop calling men who struggle in dating "socially inept"I am married and there have been times when one or the other made less or have supported the other. . There are many well paying jobs. My husband is a tradesman and I work in insurance. We both make decent money. You seem to not understand what is actually being said and you make up your own interpretation of what I posted. I never said anything about height, high status, or a higher education level. My husband's job is blue collar, he has less education, and is 5'7. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 08:30 PM |
| 1 | This sub really needs to stop calling men who struggle in dating "socially inept"Why wouldn't a woman want her man to have ambition, motivation, and drive, if the woman possess those qualities? If I have a well paying job, I expect my man to as well. I am not expecting him to support me. I am expecting him to be an equal partner. You are acting like expecting men to be on the same level earnings wise and with life goals is this unreasonable expectation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 07:34 PM |
| 3 | CMV : You could make the most academically in depth and heartfelt argument in the world about mens lack of sex and relationships, but it doesn’t override needing a WILLING woman to give that to themNot going to happen. I like being outspoken and so does my daughter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 07:24 PM |
| 8 | CMV : You could make the most academically in depth and heartfelt argument in the world about mens lack of sex and relationships, but it doesn’t override needing a WILLING woman to give that to themFuck that. Why would a woman want to do that when we are happy how we are? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 07:23 PM |
| 1 | Describe the "modern man"Lol, I think I will trust my friends who are literally like my brothers since we grow up together over the word of a random guy on the internet. We are mostly all married now and sometimes it is me and the guys, sometimes it is couples, and sometimes the guys hang with my husband. Same with husband's friends who are women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/23 03:30 PM |
| 2 | Describe the "modern man"Yes and yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/23 12:38 AM |
| 1 | Describe the "modern man"Except you are taking my micro example and making it macro. Not all men are experts at home repair. I know more than a few that should never be allowed around tools. There are also plenty of women in construction. Equality in a relationship is not the same as equality between the sexes in general. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/23 07:46 PM |
| 1 | Describe the "modern man"No, because each can have situations where they are the better person to make decisions. That is equality. One person isn't likely to be better at everything in the relationship. For example when it comes to home repairs, I will defer to my husband since he works in construction. For cars, he will defer to me since I work in insurance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/23 05:05 PM |
| 2 | Describe the "modern man"Been with my husband 23 years and married almost 19. We have a similar relationship. I make more and carry our heath insurance and fund our retirement. We have two teenagers. He is a great partner. We both do housework, yardwork, and childcare. I hate mopping so he does it, he hates vacuuming so it is my job. He enjoys mowing but I keep the garden up. We both weedwhack. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/23 05:01 PM |
| 1 | Would you rather be a tall, good looking (high functioning) autistic guy or a short unattractive neurotypical guyI am Gen X and I asked my husband out. My teen son was asked out by his ex-girlfriend and my daughter asked 3 of the 4 guys she has dated out. We all live in the US. It really isn't uncommon. Both my husband and son are short. 5'6 & 5'5". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/23 04:23 PM |
| – | Most of the posters on this sub prove that women only exist to men if they are a 6/10 +What is attractive to men and what is attractive to women are different. If you were to go for men you would probably get about the same amount of interest or more than your cousin. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/23 11:10 PM |
| 3 | It appears that women don't want menYou really need to work on your reading comprehension then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/23 05:28 PM |
| 5 | It appears that women don't want menWomen having preferences doesn't pose a danger to men. Men being violent poses a danger to women. They are not equivalent because only one of those arguments poses a danger. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/23 03:37 PM |
| 1 | I'm convinced that about 5-10% of men ruin it for everyoneOr we just will have to explain to you the institution racism that is a major part of the criminal justice system. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/23 09:33 PM |
| 12 | A lot of women are writing off perfectly good men because they do not have a college degree.Most studies find the higher your education level the more liberal you are so it can also be an easy way to weed out people who do not align with your values. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/03/23 12:06 AM |
| 1 | Women's rights Vs. Women's responsibilitiesI know in UT an unmarried man has to get on a registry to have any rights when the child is born. Otherwise, the mother can put the child up for adoption with no legal recourse for the father. That is the only state where I have heard anything like that though. It is definitely not common. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/23 01:50 AM |
| 11 | CMV : Women are so militant and unforgiving with guys they're dating because they’re almost 100 percent confident “their perfect man” is waiting for them in the futureI am with the perfect man for me and have been for years. He isn't objectively perfect but he is exactly what I want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/23 10:31 PM |
| 9 | CMV : Women are so militant and unforgiving with guys they're dating because they’re almost 100 percent confident “their perfect man” is waiting for them in the futureThose are also used to manage things like OCD, PTSD, or GAD. Neither of those things have to do with depression. Just because they are called anti-depressants doesn't mean they are used for other purposes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/23 10:27 PM |
| 3 | are a smaller percentage of men considered attractive compared to women?Source? All the most recent research refutes your claim. They are also not how the majority of relationships start. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/23 12:05 PM |
| 3 | are a smaller percentage of men considered attractive compared to women?If that is true why are so few women on dating apps? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/23 03:22 AM |
| 6 | Most young men are single. Most young women are not. Why?And yet single women without children are consistently the happiest group. It is almost like the stress of taking care of others is not good for mental health. So single women who tend to have a good social network are also the happiest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/23 10:47 PM |
| 2 | Most young men are single. Most young women are not. Why?They may not magically disappear but they do figure things out. Their brains develop more and hormones level out. All this helps with the feelings of stress and depression. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/23 10:25 PM |
| 7 | Most young men are single. Most young women are not. Why?You are creating a false dichotomy. Women being prescribed antidepressants does not equal a mental breakdown nor does it mean they do no have healthy, supportive relationships with other people. It means they are seeking help before the issues become too bad. Mental health care has had a stigma around it for years and it is no longer stigmatized. Depression does not actually equal unhappy either. People can be happy with how their life is going and still have clinical depression. It is a chemica… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/23 10:23 PM |
| 6 | Most young men are single. Most young women are not. Why?A romantic relationship is not the only type of relationship. Women are forming close, healthy, supportive friendships and have less need for a romantic relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/23 10:18 PM |
| 1 | Most young men are single. Most young women are not. Why?Physical health is a totally different issue. Mental health is because more people are getting help. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/23 10:17 PM |
| 8 | Most young men are single. Most young women are not. Why?So people, especially women, are now more likely to take care of their mental health. There are numerous reasons for the rates being so far apart in men and women including men being less likely to seek help. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/23 06:45 PM |
| 13 | Most young men are single. Most young women are not. Why?It is a common trope but I know very few woman who have that issue in reality especially past high school. I have probably 15-20 female friends that I could call on at any time for support and help. That is not at all uncommon among the adult women I know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/23 06:43 PM |
| 5 | Most young men are single. Most young women are not. Why?Depression is a chemical imbalance. We also aren't more depressed. We are more likely to get help for it than we did in the past instead of self medicating. Have you never heard of "mother's little helper"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/23 06:41 PM |
| 7 | Most young men are single. Most young women are not. Why?Women are building healthy and supportive human relationships. They just aren't building them with men, and that is ok. Most women who are single have a large social group they can turn to for support. That is healthy. You do not need a sexual relationship or to live with another person to be healthy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/23 05:49 PM |
| 3 | Could "baby trapping" be underreported and much more common than we think?You don't have an exit if there is something blocking it. That is like someone locking all the doors shut, boarding up windows, and setting a house on fire but it isn't murder because you had an exit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/23 01:17 AM |
| 1 | Q4Women who (claim to) have higher wage than their male partners: is there a catch?I make more. There is no catch, he is self-employed but I make more than his business does, I carry the insurance as well, no trust fund, we own our home that we bought together. We have been together 23 years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/23 03:43 AM |
| 11 | If a woman has to recondition and force herself to find you attractive the relationship is doomed from the startMedicare is something people pay for while they are younger so it is there when they get older. You said in another comment you are Canadian. You have universal healthcare so of course you aren't worried about healthcare once you can no longer work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/23 01:08 AM |
| 1 | if dating is so dangerous for women why do they do it at all?Same for me. If anything happens to my husband, I will be staying single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 09:57 PM |
| 1 | if dating is so dangerous for women why do they do it at all?That is not how any of it works but don't let facts stand in your way... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 09:56 PM |
| 2 | Entitled sex starved men, sex is not a resource. It’s like asking women to let you eat them just because you’re starvingYou literally said "You are very much entitled to be upset." If you were talking about the men being upset it should have been "They". Even if you are using the general version of you in that sentence it would put me into the group that is upset. It makes no sense to be referring to men as you when I am woman. You also implied the same by saying you can't take away my feelings on the matter. It may be you lack clarity in your writing... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/23 01:08 AM |
| 2 | Entitled sex starved men, sex is not a resource. It’s like asking women to let you eat them just because you’re starvingI am not upset. You need to work on your reading comprehension. I was pointing out the hypocrisy of saying not all men when you are literally part of the issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/23 12:45 AM |
| 3 | Entitled sex starved men, sex is not a resource. It’s like asking women to let you eat them just because you’re starvingThere is no entitlement. I don't care if you speak up or not. I care when you cry "not all men" when women complain about men. You are not entitled to be upset about being lumped in with assholes when you hang with assholes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/23 12:05 AM |
| 5 | Entitled sex starved men, sex is not a resource. It’s like asking women to let you eat them just because you’re starvingFeel free to not speak up but don't be surprised when you get lumped in with the assholes. You can't yell not all men if you stand silent when other men act up because you are part of the problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/23 11:37 PM |
| 1 | Purge week makes it all clearThen some women may reconsider. However, since women no longer need to be married to own property or have a bank account, marriage is looking less appealing. If anything happens to my marriage, I will happily be single. I make enough money to support myself, my kids, and my animals. It isn't worth the headache of dealing with dating for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/23 11:26 PM |
| 2 | Purge week makes it all clearYou still haven't explained why you feel society owes you a wife... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/23 01:36 PM |
| 3 | Purge week makes it all clearEveryone with a job spends their life producing objects. As for a support system, society has a duty to make sure that everyone is clothed, fed, and housed; which our society happens to suck at. I pay farmers and doctors for their services. I don't expect them to hand me anything. I also pay a fair amount of taxes and expect the government to use them to support those who have less than I do. I supply emotional labor to my friends and family. They do the same for me. I don't feel I am owed frien… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/23 07:17 AM |
| 6 | Purge week makes it all clearYes, but a society can only provide objects and a support system. A wife/husband is not an object. You can't expect society to step in and hand you a wife because you want one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/23 01:21 AM |
| 6 | Purge week makes it all clearOr they no longer need to marry for money and so they don't. Also, no woman wants to work full-time, pay 50% of the bills, and then do the majority of household chores and parenting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 11:56 PM |
| 6 | Purge week makes it all clearIt isn't society's job to provide you with a wife. A woman is not an object that can be provided and this type of thinking is why many men are single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 11:54 PM |
| 3 | The rise of the lone woman holding other women accountable, JustPearlyThings, illustrates that Redpill beliefs resonate with A LOT of men and that most women aren't interested in engaging in good faith in dating related discussionThese have been rampant for the last 100+ years. It is only recently that people have been treated for these issues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/22 02:55 AM |
| 2 | How are women supposed to solve the sexlessness issue?You are toxic because you are being manipulative. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/22 06:11 PM |
| 1 | How are women supposed to solve the sexlessness issue?And it would actually be worse because you know better and you are choosing to be toxic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/22 06:09 PM |
| 2 | An unfortunate case of wife saying no to abortion at the cost of her life. Husband has no say and will be left with two kids to raise.He can give that child up for adoption. | /r/MensRights | 22/10/22 06:28 PM |
| 2 | An unfortunate case of wife saying no to abortion at the cost of her life. Husband has no say and will be left with two kids to raise.There are no good answers in this situation. No matter what happens it is fucked and the kid(s) lose. Even if the woman got an abortion you still have a toddler losing their mom to cancer. Stage 4 is a death sentence. | /r/MensRights | 22/10/22 05:33 PM |
| 4 | An unfortunate case of wife saying no to abortion at the cost of her life. Husband has no say and will be left with two kids to raise.It would be way more fucked to put both kids up for adoption. The two year old has already bonded with him. Putting her up for adoption would cause a ton of trauma especially since she will just have lost her mother. Developmentally it is one of the worst things that could happen to a two year old. Putting the infant up for adoption is much less traumatic because of the age. | /r/MensRights | 22/10/22 12:13 PM |
| 1 | An unfortunate case of wife saying no to abortion at the cost of her life. Husband has no say and will be left with two kids to raise.He isn't stuck with the baby. He can put the child up for adoption. | /r/MensRights | 22/10/22 01:31 AM |
| 1 | Women need to stop justifying their life choices and have funTreatment wise it is quite possible that they have it the worst. It could be that women are more likely to get help for depression and if they do attempt suicide use methods that are less likely to be lethal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 04:25 PM |
| 1 | Women need to stop justifying their life choices and have funOr she dated a lot of people that she didn't sleep with. That also happens. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 02:52 AM |
| 1 | Women need to stop justifying their life choices and have funWhat makes you think a woman would commit suicide because she is ugly? Most women are fine being single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 01:11 AM |
| 2 | Men need to stop justifying why they don't want to date women with high body countsYou said earlier that it wasn't sexist because you found men with high body counts gross too now you are back tracking. So either you are sexist or gross. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/22 10:14 PM |
| 2 | Men need to stop justifying why they don't want to date women with high body countsSo by your logic you are gross because you have a high body count. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/22 09:40 PM |
| 1 | I sent 100 applications as a man and a woman. It's MUCH better being a womanYeah. I am against any discrimination but room sharing is an whole different beast. The FHA doesn't apply to apartments that have 4 or fewer units when the landlord lives on premises either in most states. I don't agree with that though. | /r/MensRights | 14/09/22 11:43 AM |
| 1 | I sent 100 applications as a man and a woman. It's MUCH better being a womanYes. Look up the laws for when the landlord lives in the same place. I am not for anyone being forced to rent a room on their place to someone they aren't comfortable with. It is no different than if a man didn't want a female roommate because of the worry of false allegations. "In a ruling issued in February 2012, the federal appeals court reversed, ruling that the service was not liable because federal fair housing law does not apply to the selection of roommates. The court reasoned that the F… | /r/MensRights | 14/09/22 11:21 AM |
| 0 | I sent 100 applications as a man and a woman. It's MUCH better being a womanThere is a legal difference between renting an apartment and renting a room in a place you occupy. | /r/MensRights | 13/09/22 05:01 PM |
| 1 | If standards are 'on the floor' for men, how high is the floor?Why don't you replace the rings so it doesn't burn oil? A vehicle can have high mileage and not burn oil if it is properly maintained. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 02:11 AM |
| 3 | What are the benefits to dating a red pill man?I most likely would be the one dealing with it since he sleeps much more soundly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/22 02:09 AM |
| 3 | Parental DNA test for all newly born childrenMost places in the US babies aren't having genetic testing unless they are at high risk. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/22 10:33 PM |
| 13 | Statutory rape victim forced to pay child support now that he is of age.I agree with this except in many states male rapists do have parental rights. It is, sadly, quite common. | /r/MensRights | 11/11/21 12:33 AM |
| 2 | Husbands’ lack of full-time employment is associated with higher risk of divorce, but neither wives’ full-time employment nor wives’ share of household labor is associated with divorce risk.You implied you meant romantic love when you talk about a woman coming into your life. If you mean love in general than cultivate it. Form friendships, volunteer, do things that make you loveable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/21 02:20 PM |
| 0 | Husbands’ lack of full-time employment is associated with higher risk of divorce, but neither wives’ full-time employment nor wives’ share of household labor is associated with divorce risk.Sure, maybe in your world. I have my grandma's rings and we had less than 20 people at our wedding. 20+ years later, we are still together. Several of our friends are the same. I guess it is who you surround yourself with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/21 11:51 AM |
| 2 | Husbands’ lack of full-time employment is associated with higher risk of divorce, but neither wives’ full-time employment nor wives’ share of household labor is associated with divorce risk.No one automatically deserves a partner. You need to be able to be a partner to have one. I am not talking about earning, I am talking about being a stable person. My husband has had long periods of unemployment. I am still with him. Why? Because he is a good partner, great father, and I love him. It is hard to love someone who adds nothing positive to your life. If you are emotionally unavailable and negative, you will not attract a good partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/21 11:46 AM |
| 4 | Husbands’ lack of full-time employment is associated with higher risk of divorce, but neither wives’ full-time employment nor wives’ share of household labor is associated with divorce risk.That is probably true. Who needs that much negativity. I prefer someone who will be my partner instead of one who is always waiting for the other shoe to drop and for me to leave. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/21 11:38 PM |
| 19 | Husbands’ lack of full-time employment is associated with higher risk of divorce, but neither wives’ full-time employment nor wives’ share of household labor is associated with divorce risk.It isn't worth it. These guys will never believe it. I have been with my husband for over 20 years. Been through a ton of shit, mostly his, and I am still here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/21 11:10 PM |
| 11 | Masculinity is not toxic, the lack of masculinity is.So it is somehow the mother's fault that the father sucks? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/21 09:08 PM |
| 5 | Masculinity is not toxic, the lack of masculinity is.Elliot Rodgers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/21 09:02 PM |
| 10 | Masculinity is not toxic, the lack of masculinity is.Eric Harris and Dylan Kelbold were from two parent households. Eric's father was in the military. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/21 09:00 PM |
| 1 | I hate how being a male limits what room you can rentIt is also legal if the person is looking for a roommate. As long as the person placing the ad lives in the house, they can have gender requirements for roommates. | /r/MensRights | 30/07/21 08:22 PM |
| 1 | If you believe a liar, doesn't that mean there was no rape!?No, I don't think people should lie under oath. Look at how many rape cases never go to trial and how many serial rapists are not caught until they escalate to murder. Neither one is ok. Unfortunately, that is the world we live in. Unless we all want to consent to cameras in every area of life including private bedrooms, this is the way our justice system will determine these cases. | /r/MensRights | 28/07/21 09:59 PM |
| 1 | If you believe a liar, doesn't that mean there was no rape!?Because testimony is proof. That is how the justice system works. It takes a convincing testimony to get twelve people to not only believe that a crime occurred but that the defendant was the perpetrator of the crime. That is why most rape cases are never even brought to trial. | /r/MensRights | 28/07/21 09:32 PM |
| 2 | If you believe a liar, doesn't that mean there was no rape!?Somewhat. There is a lot of difference between believing a woman when she comes forward and actually sending someone to jail for rape. | /r/MensRights | 28/07/21 09:29 PM |
| 0 | If you believe a liar, doesn't that mean there was no rape!?There is no way to prove 100% that a rape occurred unless someone stands by watching the entire rape or it somehow ends up on video. The justice system doesn't call for 100% proof. It calls for beyond a reasonable doubt. After listening to all testimony, it is up to a jury to decide if they believe a rape happened and if the defendant was the perpetrator of that rape. | /r/MensRights | 28/07/21 09:27 PM |
| 0 | If you believe a liar, doesn't that mean there was no rape!?She isn't. That is up to the jury to determine. It is literally part of their duty to the court. The beyond a reasonable doubt comes down to who they believe. | /r/MensRights | 28/07/21 07:58 PM |
| 0 | If you believe a liar, doesn't that mean there was no rape!?Because that is how our justice system works. A jury is expected to determine credibility and which testimony holds more weight. If you have ever been on a jury there is an entire speech by the judge about it. Sworn testimony is proof in the US. | /r/MensRights | 28/07/21 07:37 PM |
| 0 | If you believe a liar, doesn't that mean there was no rape!?Unless the jury finds the victim credible and the decedent uncredible. That is how cases where tried for years and how most cases are still proven. | /r/MensRights | 28/07/21 07:12 PM |
| 3 | If you believe a liar, doesn't that mean there was no rape!?The testimony is evidence on both sides. Then the jury determines who is more credible. There is rarely any other evidence of rape, just evidence of sex. Rape doesn't necessarily cause bruising or tearing and even consensual sex can cause both. | /r/MensRights | 28/07/21 06:42 PM |
| 4 | 'America's daughters shouldn't be drafted against their will': Conservatives blast proposal that would require women to register for the military draft alongside menI didn't realize most conservatives are feminists. | /r/MensRights | 26/07/21 01:15 AM |
| 55 | 'America's daughters shouldn't be drafted against their will': Conservatives blast proposal that would require women to register for the military draft alongside menMost conservatives aren't for equal rights either. | /r/MensRights | 26/07/21 01:11 AM |
| 4 | I want to get over RedPill but I cannot help but think there is some truth to itThat is your assumption that she would find his personality sexier. There are plenty of women who don't find that persona sexy. Even if they find the person sexy, women aren't going to throw themselves at him while in a good relationship. That isn't how it works. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/02/21 11:57 PM |
| 5 | I want to get over RedPill but I cannot help but think there is some truth to itHighly educated women also get horny. There is nothing wrong with casual sex for either gender. Are you expecting any woman you date to be a virgin? If a woman is in a good relationship, she isn't going to get bored and have sex with some random guy. If you are in a relationship and see a hot woman, are you going to cheat? It is no different for women. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/02/21 10:33 PM |
| 3 | I want to get over RedPill but I cannot help but think there is some truth to itWhy do you think she was falling head over heels for him? She probably just wanted sex. People mature and grow. What they want out of life and relationships change. You can't compare it to food choices. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/02/21 10:22 PM |
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