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| 2 | Your greatest moment of triumph so far in seduction?I'm not saying you need to analyze every approach immediately, I agree with you on analyzing trends through experience. But he was implying that he failed 17 times and didn't care at all. I'm saying that you do need to care, and focus positively on what needs to be improved on. Not caring about why you fail or that you did fail will just lead to more failure. But learning from your failures is what will lead to success, not just brushing it off like it never happened. | /r/seduction | 02/05/13 03:23 AM |
| 24 | Your greatest moment of triumph so far in seduction?As much as not giving a fuck is a good strategy, a successful PUA will take a step back and think about every interaction and question why it didn't work and what can be improved on. Do you think Michael Jordan would miss 17 free throws and be like "mehh.." and keep shooting the same? Or do you think he would figure out what he was doing wrong, work on it, and perfect his game? | /r/seduction | 30/04/13 10:05 PM |
| 1 | Not Giving a FuckDisregard all fucks, motherfucker! | /r/seduction | 24/02/13 11:35 PM |
| 9 | Getting a Date Through Facebook - With Previous Contact.Honestly, the trick is to not over-think it. If you have interest in a girl then just talk to her. Send her a message and talk about something you guys have in common and build rapport with her. Then just invite her to come do something with you. Doesn't need to be a huge date, just tell her to come grab smoothies with you or get sushi or whatever. The trick is to just do it. Be straightforward and confident in yourself. Assume that she already wants to come hang out with you and it's just a mat… | /r/seduction | 24/02/13 02:18 AM |
| 2 | Seddit, do you run game on fat girls?The thing is, once you become more comfortable with yourself, you are not actually "gaming" anyone. Its about being social and confident in those social skills and your ability to be social with everyone. Guys, girls, fat, skinny, short, tall, whatever just be friendly and engaging with whoever you are interacting with. There is so much more to a person's looks and I have met plenty of larger women who are amazing, interesting people. Sure you may not want to advance sexually with them but hell,… | /r/seduction | 23/02/13 03:09 AM |
| 10 | Need help with what could be the best shot I have to lose my virginity before high school endsMan, the opportunities here are endless. You're going on a trip which means two positive things: 1) You can be whoever the fuck you want to be. You want to be like the stud who gets whichever girl he wants? Then think like him, act like him, and BECOME him. Forget whatever your social status is and pretend that you are the most popular guy there. Meet as many people as you can, guys and girls, and show genuine interest in their lives. By this, I don't mean to say to a girl "oh, hey you're hot!".… | /r/seduction | 22/02/13 12:28 AM |
| 3 | I was reading a thread a few days ago that was extremely helpful. Is anyone able to help me find it?Here you go. It's also on the sidebar, under Guides and then shit tests. | /r/seduction | 22/02/13 12:02 AM |
| 3 | Pickup Principle: The Signal of Opportunity (with a mini FR)How old are you? If you don't mind me asking. | /r/seduction | 21/02/13 09:23 PM |
| 3 | "Why'd you give me your number so easily" "Cos you were straightforward"Although looks may play a factor, what makes him attractive is the confidence he exerts. His ability to be straightforward shows that he knows what he wants and the fact that he doesn't second guess himself demonstrates that he's confident in getting that. These are the qualities that the women are attracted to and that is why they give him their numbers. | /r/seduction | 20/02/13 09:19 PM |
| 23 | Realistically, how much effort/time is ok to spend on one girl?I think that is a mistake that many guys make, that they focus all of their time on to one girl. Instead focus on making as many relationships with exciting people, whether they are girls or guys and make an effort to make meaningful connections with them and invite them to hang out. You will build your social circle up with an abundance of women and that is the key. Once you are no longer worried about "losing" that girl you are crushing on and stop chasing her, the girls will start coming to y… | /r/seduction | 17/02/13 08:41 PM |
| 2 | What was your big breakthrough moment?I read the question and was trying to think of how to answer it and damn, this nails it spot on. You're no longer doing things because you're trying to pick up women. You just be comfortable with yourself and social with everyone and the women will come to you. The ones who turn you down, mehh they're the ones who will be missing out. | /r/seduction | 15/12/12 10:29 PM |
| 1 | I've come to a realization about the "nice guy syndrome"Ok buddy, good luck picking up girls with your delusional mind set. There is clearly an issue with guys who claim they are nice not getting any women. I made several points explaining this buy you just haven't read what I have typed clearly enough to see it. That's cool just tell them to keep doing what they are doing wrong so they continue to have zero success. No need to fix something that's broken, just keep telling yourself that it's right. That makes a lot of sense. And for the record I'm n… | /r/seduction | 07/12/12 02:53 AM |
| 1 | I've come to a realization about the "nice guy syndrome"I find it ridiculous you would think that after the person I was replying to was satisfied with my response. Condescension was not my intention. You were clearly implying that he was unable to properly read what you had typed and that was why he was in disagreement. Whether it was your intention or not that is very condescending. What specifically did I say that made you think I support the latter? You said "Wait, wait, wait. Let me get you straight. Nice guys are compassionate and attentive bec… | /r/seduction | 07/12/12 12:01 AM |
| 1 | I've come to a realization about the "nice guy syndrome"I've clearly read all of the posts in this thread, and what he says makes complete sense and what he is saying is not the same as what you said. you just haven't read what I have typed clearly enough to see it I find it ridiculous that you would say something so condescending. You seem to still be under the assumption that if you are nice to a girl, whether you state your intentions or not, she will like you. And this is complete horseshit and the reason of failure for these so called "nice guys… | /r/seduction | 06/12/12 01:30 AM |
| 1 | Confidence for Beginners: Part 2Girls don't hook up with every guy that hits on them because a) They may not be physically attracted to the guy. Just because someone enjoys sex doesn't mean they will do it with everyone. And b) It demonstrates lower value. Trust me, women are just as horny as men, they just don't want to appear "easy" to their friends and peers. If a guy hooks up with many women, he's congratulated and called a player, while a women is often humiliated and called a "slut", something devastating to their reputa… | /r/seduction | 14/11/12 08:48 AM |
| 2 | Got invited to keg party by a person I just meet, but...Honestly man, you need to just relax and not over analyze the situation. You're going to a party, not asking some woman to marry you. Just go, dress casually, be friendly, and most importantly be yourself. Don't be shy, introduce yourself to people, tell them you're new to the area, ask about other places to visit close by, and you can even ask some of them to show you around town. Also, you should ask the guy who invited you to introduce you to some of his friends. Be outgoing, spontaneous, and… | /r/seduction | 12/04/12 10:02 PM |
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