| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | Women have boudaries?!?!!! WTF?!!!! What is this ladies!!! Very bad! 😡 😡 👎also is this pick-me loser really gonna sit here and pretend like unreciprocated oral for MEN isnt the fucking norm??! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 06:55 PM |
| 10 | Author of “Cannibalism Play” Cosmo Article Responds.There is nothing, and I mean NOTHING, that the pro-kink crowd won't defend. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 08:08 PM |
| 55 | Top popular post of today on whisper lol my friend sent this to me 😂 now more women can discover this amazing group 💕Omg youve never seen this level on toxcicity?! No worries bud, just check out the Red Pill, MGTOW, and some incel fourms. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 09:31 AM |
| 35 | Violence against women is a-ok so long as a dude gets an erection from it!!1! 🤪#feminism #equality #womens empowerment | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 08:00 PM |
| 171 | "Boys are way better friends than girls" - I've never met a woman who has said this that ended up being a good friend and wasn't a Pickmeisha.If only these women who said this knew what all those boys actually thought of them and would say when they werent around :/ ive overheard such awful things boys would say about their supposed female "friends" when they werent around... which ones were hot and which werent, which ones they'd fuck, which ones they wanted nudes from... Male class-solidarity is so fucking strong. And no matter how hard women try, they'll never be accepted into it. Men will never respect them the same way they respe… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 08:04 PM |
| 217 | They Tried it, We Denied itOk but Psychology Today is such an awful pick-me filled website.... I remember once I saw an article saing women need to be more understanding of their partners when they cheat, and another saying BDSM and kink was healthy.... They really just let anyone write shit on that site huh.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 07:59 PM |
| 28 | Mic drop 👏👏 (i do believe this is a copy of the sound, and the girl on the left is mouthing the words i dont know enough about tiktok to work it out, sorry)Ok I think by now we should all know just how depreaved male seuxality is. The answer to why men like leaked nudes/ s*x tapes is becuase their sexuality is just fucking depraved and they don't really like consent. Men literally bond by looking at leaked nudes togther. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 12:14 PM |
| 1 | There really is no hope for the future generation of men....Anyone also hear about the increasing number of young girls under 18 getting labiaplasties? We're truly regressing.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 10:25 AM |
| 1 | There is no hope for the next generation of men.I'm just so upset honestly.... I have no words :((( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 07:53 PM |
| 29 | Proud of myselfLove hearing things like this. Happy for you !! <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 11:42 AM |
| 6 | Why you think (most) guys don't understand consent??Don't give them the benefit of the doubt. They know rape is bad. They dont care. In fact many of them like that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 10:10 AM |
| 1 | Woman asks rel_advice whether she has the right to be mad at her bf for not telling her that he has been with prostitutes before dating her. The answers will not deceive you. 🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢Agreed 100% | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 07:17 PM |
| 2 | Can we all stop caring if a woman hits the wall or notTHANK YOU!!! All that talk about how women dont 'hit the wall' just rubbed me the wrong way. Were human beings. Let us age. Theres nothing wrong with this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 02:29 PM |
| 6 | NSFW TRIGGER WARNING: Belle Delphine posts pics of herself being kidnapped and raped in a babydoll dress and Lolita shoes and continues to pretend she doesn’t see the connection to pedophilia.I have zero patience for these pick-mes. Yeah I get to an extent we should feel bad cuz they've been brainwashed by the patrirachy but at this point idc. They've ruined it for us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 05:10 PM |
| 6 | If you ever think about going back, draw him and write what you hate about him.OMG I LOVE THIS LMAOO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 02:12 PM |
| 2 | She really predicted the future ...I don't know when it started exactly but yes you'll always see celebrities and mainstream media like Teen Vogue or whatever the hell talk about how this stuff is healthy and empowering. And its the same when you go onto mainstream 'feminist' forums, like the ones here on Reddit or those really popular feminist Instagram pages. All of that is what the younger girls are seeing, nd learning to tolerate. While boys are seeing violent porn and also being told by society that there's nothing wrong wit… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 09:38 AM |
| 48 | She really predicted the future ...I hope it will. I really do. But do any other young women just feel... robbed of genuine respect and intimacy? Like I feel sad that i had to grow up in the generation where this is the norm. Where porn and abusive sex and hookup culture and sending nudes is the norm. I really don’t wanna sound like that person, but I really don’t belong in this generation of young ppl. I just don’t agree w/ any of this stuff. At this point being celibate seems like the only reasonable answer. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 02:41 PM |
| 280 | She really predicted the future ...Deep down these women have got to know it isn't empowering. They just have to. Its the whole idea that men are going to continue to objectify us so lets just go with it as well and call it 'empowering'. No point in fighting back. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 11:25 AM |
| 69 | She really predicted the future ...Agreed. Such amazing women. I just get so upset to see their efforts and things they say being completely ignored and disregarded today. They just wanted the best for women, but if Dworkin was alive today she'd be shunned for being 'sex-negative prude' | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 11:24 AM |
| 66 | She really predicted the future ...I'm not sure who the author of this card is.. if anyone knows please let us know | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 10:29 AM |
| 1 | DisgustingThis is what porn's done to men. Just go ahead and do that to women out of nowhere. Its all normal for them now. Women really aren't humans to them anymore. I'm curious now, if there are any older women here who dated/had sex before internet porn was promoted and normalized like how it is today, were men acting this way during sex?? Like would they just choke you or spit on you randomly? Is that a common thing you women dealt with? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 08:57 PM |
| 4 | The teen boys at r/ memes want us to know FDS is THE WORST and should be sHuT DoWn. They cry out to god Reddit for help 😭🙏Where’s this energy for MGTOW or TRP or all those disgusting dehumanizing porn subs? If FDS is just the female version of TRP are men going to be angered with that group too? Or is just that men hate female-exclusive spaces? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 06:12 PM |
| 19 | Imagine if he'd spent all that time and energy on any other hobby or even cultivating relationships with other humans... what a wasteThat is normal in young men. the boys in my grade have openly admit to getting together to watch porn. they act like the men in this video too. theres no hope for young boys. Ive really just decided to never date/ have sex ever. Throughout all of high school I literally was unable to even have a crush on a boy, let alone get into a relationship. I still cant. the way they ALL openly talk about porn and sex. Swap nudes of girls behind their backs. I just cant... its so repulsive. I don't even wan… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 02:20 PM |
| 19 | *sigh* ...It’s the oldest exploitation of women | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 09:13 AM |
| 62 | *sigh* ...Vanilla (as an insult) for not wanting women to be violently abused and degraded.... im so tired ... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 04:16 AM |
| 68 | Imagine if he'd spent all that time and energy on any other hobby or even cultivating relationships with other humans... what a wasteUnfortunately this is the majority of young men, globally. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 03:41 AM |
| 79 | *sigh* ..."companionship" Lol that's funny... lets not sit here and pretend the men don't go there BECUASE they can do whatever they want to women for a price. They like that power they have over them. Its not innocent companionship. Seriously, just READ some of the confession of John's and why they go to brothels in the first place. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 10:18 PM |
| 11 | Yep, has happened many times.Same girl. One guy a few years ago randomly tried to act all buddy buddy w me, then of course later said he 'wanted something more'. When I said no politely, he threw a whole fit and tried to guilt trip me. Ugh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 09:14 PM |
| 11 | i could throw up. they really don’t care about us.To me, pick-mes and men are both a danger. Pick-mes will literally put you in harms way for some male validation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 08:29 PM |
| 6 | The most handmaiden bullshit I've ever readAnother woman: "i have been with my husband for 17 years and have cancer and am on estrogen blocking meds. i follow old dr. lauras dictum "dont wait til you're in the mood to do it, do it until you're in the mood". i never say no. not because duty, because i love my husband" I really have no words :(( "I never say no" jfc... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 01:38 PM |
| 89 | The most handmaiden bullshit I've ever readPick-mes in the replies: "here's the real hot take: cheating isn't the worst thing you can to to a person, by a long shot. Especially in the context of a 30 year marriage" and " People are mad at this but people also stubbornly refuse to accept how the world works so" " Withholding sex for months/years should be considered a form of abuse, IMO. " 🤡 Yeah anyways, how about we stop brainwashing women into accepting their husbands cheating on them bc they wouldn't put out!! Sex isn't a human right. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 08:40 PM |
| 2 | I refuse to shave the rug...I agree with this. I'm only 5 ft tall, skinny (with a flat chest/ass) and have a baby face. I fucking hate it so much. I hate looking like a child. I certainly am never going to shave down there on top of all of this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 03:55 PM |
| 17 | Most men my age are permanently undateable because of porn. Yes, permanently.Made me cry as well :(( Abt to get a bit personal, but I haven't had sex yet. Im not in any rush to do so either. But sometimes I get so jealous of the older generation, where sex for them was new exciting and special. Where they would be learning about it with their partners. I feel so sad. Knowing more than likely, if not 100%, i'll never find a guy who wasnt raised on porn. Sex isnt special for them anymore. Its not new or exciting. They've seen the most vile sexual acts being done already. T… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 03:12 PM |
| 56 | When even men like Bill Maher can acknowledge and criticize the abusive,rapey and misogynistic nature of modern porn, what's the excuse of the rest of the scores that play stupid?If a guy watches/supports him, I would take that as a red flag | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 07:13 PM |
| 112 | This just makes me so sad :((It's so distressing seeing other girls my age do things like this. And you can't even talk to them about it because they start telling you that you suffer from 'internalized misogyny'. Like pls I just want yall to think critically about this whole 'sex work is empowering' idea. I just don't want them to fall victim to this shit, its a terrible feeling :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 09:01 PM |
| 7 | Male 'feminists'Yeah, that's true. I think what I was trying to say was that a lot of mainstream feminists just say they want to be equal to men. So men watch porn, we should start watching porn too!! Men do this, so now let's also do it bc it will help us become equal. But wanting to be equal is different from wanting to be liberated from the patrirachy. When men hear women want to be equal, they still think that means their rights are going to be suppressed. Basically, even the slightest request for better tr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 03:24 PM |
| 86 | Male 'feminists'I agree. Also, I'll never understand how men GENUINELY believe that today's 'feminism' is trying to make women superior to men?? And how if women say that want to be liberated from the patriarchy, all of a sudden that means men are going to suffer. It does bring up an interesting point in my opinion. All men benefit from the patriarchy, so of course, they're going to freak out when women start to fight back. To them, all those privileges feel threatened now that some women finally starting to wa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 08:00 PM |
| 10 | As a teen, this sub has made me rethink everythingThis makes me so happy to read! I'm so glad to know there are other girls my age out there who are putting their foot down. So proud of you!!! 💖 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 08:00 PM |
| 7 | Liberal feminism in a nutshellYou can start off looking more into Andrea Dworkin, Gail Dines, and Catherine MacKinnon. I'm still kind of a newbie to this school of thought too, but so far those 3 authors have really been a great help :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 11:11 AM |
| 16 | Liberal feminism in a nutshellWow, that was very interesting to read. It makes me sad to say that I agree :( I truly feel like 'pick-me' socialization runs so deep in women, and a lot of them can't fathom de-centralizing men from their lives/ beliefs. I used to think eventually maybe these choice feminists would wake up and see what's happening. I mean, all those countless stories about how PornHub uploads abuse and r*pe videos. I would think people would start to take a more anti-porn stance and see that it was NEVER meant … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 09:40 AM |
| 51 | Liberal feminism in a nutshellIt's so crazy to me how they will always ignore the blatant abuse and degradation going on and jump straight to "but they're consenting adults!!1!" Like ok and? no one even said yall weren't consenting in the first place? that's not even a part of the argument?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 10:20 PM |
| 36 | Liberal feminism in a nutshellTerrible subreddit for anyone who isn't a choice/liberal feminist imo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 10:18 PM |
| 88 | Liberal feminism in a nutshellAgreed. And many things you stated above (such as porn/ sex-work, kinks) are still harmful to the rest of us women who don't agree with them. Since lib feminism has gone so mainstream, it is literally a DEATH WISH to criticize porn, sex work, and kinks. We're now the sex-negative and closed-minded judgemental ones ... for questioning why the abuse of women has become so normalized and encouraged... ok | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 07:38 PM |
| 200 | Liberal feminism in a nutshell"the investment in “choice” is why third wave feminism failed lmao. so often our “choices” perfectly align w white patriarchal teachings/values bc thats the system that oppresses us. it’s that deeply ingrained. any focus on individual liberation is a farce and a waste of time" "look @ the sex positivity movement for example. isnt it convenient that encouraging women to “play” men by prioritizing casual sex over relationships perfectly complements men’s obsession w accessing women’s bodies, dehum… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 06:26 PM |
| 10 | ... Huh?This was from a video where a girl was saying why she wont date men who watch porn. ''iT iS pReTtY LoGiCaL ThO!1!'' | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 04:44 PM |
| 9 | 'Sex work is work' doesn't prove anythingI agree with this. No matter what, sex work will always be the exploitation and abuse of women, and will never be empowering. I honestly am so disgusted that it's even a thing today. I just hate the concept of it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 08:39 PM |
| 108 | 'Sex work is work' doesn't prove anythingI think that women who are genuinely there by their own choice make up a very small percentage. I'd say a lot of women were trafficked or really had no other choice. Also, I would say in retail, you're still generally safer than working in prostitution. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 10:42 AM |
| 38 | (Why I stopped watching porn | Ran Gavrieli | TEDxJaffa) 20 million views and worth the 15 minutesI love how he discusses how porn is the degradation/ objectification of women. SO many guys who stop watching porn only do it for their own health benefits. They don't care at all to show some empathy to their fellow humans. They'll even argue that it isn't degrading to women. I know men who stand with women/ show empathy are doing the bare minimum, but because it's so rare, I greatly appreciate it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 09:19 AM |
| 16 | Saw this comment on a pro-BDSM YouTube video. So close to approaching the point, yet still so far away.I agree. Us as women are always ready to call out patriarchal systems, but how come we back down when it comes to religion or more specifically Islam? These religions need to addressed and scrutinized as well. Also in regards to Islam, it has never really been reformed and is still widely practiced exactly by the book. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 05:04 PM |
| 5 | Saw this comment on a pro-BDSM YouTube video. So close to approaching the point, yet still so far away.Ah, I see where you're coming from now. To be honest, how I see it, the majority of men, Muslims or not, are not good. As rare as it may be, there are still men who aren't Muslims who aren't into BDSM or that stuff. As for arguing with men about this, my only advice is DONT. Literally, just don't even bother to talk to them about it. Once you find out where they stand, ignore them, and drop them. Arguing with men like that is a waste of time. I feel your struggle girl :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 02:46 PM |
| 35 | Saw this comment on a pro-BDSM YouTube video. So close to approaching the point, yet still so far away.Sorry, but the fact that beating is allowed in the first place is disgusting. I don't care if there's 'requirements' before getting to the beating stage. Still messed up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 02:07 PM |
| 93 | Saw this comment on a pro-BDSM YouTube video. So close to approaching the point, yet still so far away."Some male doms are just like 'I just like hitting women', like get some therapy" Only some..? I'm pretty sure every single male dom is a dom because he likes hitting you sis.. The male doms who admit they just like hitting women arent even hiding it. The rest simply aren't saying it as explicitly. But I can promise you EVERY single male dom likes hitting women. I mean what else is he doing as a dom then????? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 01:50 PM |
| 88 | Saw this comment on a pro-BDSM YouTube video. So close to approaching the point, yet still so far away.Yeah IDK, I wouldn't go back to a patriarchal religion just because they don't allow anal. A lot of those 'good' Muslim men are still raging misogynists. Abrahamic religions are inherently patriarchal in my opinion. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 01:39 PM |
| 22 | Yikes.I honestly STRONGLY believe liberal feminism is just a coping mechanism for the constant exploitation/ degradation of women. It's just the sad acceptance that men will forever degrade women, so now, women should just comply and degrade themselves too under the guise of empowerment. It's not empowering. And the lib fems are too cowardly to call men out for their behavior. I saw this quote that pretty much sums lib feminism up (can't remember where I found it): "Liberal feminists aren't fighting t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 08:59 PM |
| 138 | Yikes.But then the FBI would be canceled for kink-shaming !!1! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 04:26 PM |
| 339 | Yikes.Kinks like this are so harmful. If you take out sex from age play, you're left with pedophilia. If you take out sex from CNC, you're left with rape. If you take it out of BDSM, you're left with domestic violence. These kinks are literally just the sexualization of abusive, criminal behavior. But it's okay though because the adults consented 😍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 02:30 PM |
| 5 | Rant about guys my ageGirl, same :( And on top of that, I live in a more conservative country, so the guys are even more closed-minded and sexist. But honestly, after knowing what these boys around me are really like, I've lost so much attraction/ desire to be in a relationship while I'm still young. I've decided to work really hard in school and get good enough grades to get a Masters, and just spend time/travel with my friends. I don't want to focus attention on guys, I'm just too disappointed in them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 03:34 PM |
| 6 | Im so tired of this shit, it’s like these girls have no purpose outside of sexually gratifying their partner, being the “cool gf” is their personality. It’s so pathetic, what’s worse is the number of likes and the comment section full of Pick Ames agreeing???Thanks, I do appreciate it <3 It really sucks being surrounded by this culture 24/7, but I still try to be positive, even though it's pretty difficult. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 12:57 PM |
| 11 | Im so tired of this shit, it’s like these girls have no purpose outside of sexually gratifying their partner, being the “cool gf” is their personality. It’s so pathetic, what’s worse is the number of likes and the comment section full of Pick Ames agreeing???So true. Have you heard of the Bois Locker Room talk incident that happened back in May? So fucking disturbing. They took (non-inappropriate) images of girls and made deepfakes. They also of course shared nudes and CASUALLY discussed gang-raping girls at their school. Honestly, all teen boys are like that. All over the world. Those boys just happened to get exposed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 12:54 PM |
| 46 | Im so tired of this shit, it’s like these girls have no purpose outside of sexually gratifying their partner, being the “cool gf” is their personality. It’s so pathetic, what’s worse is the number of likes and the comment section full of Pick Ames agreeing???Being a senior in high school right now, it actually breaks my heart to see girls my age on Instagram and Tik Tok acting like this. All of them have adopted the lib fem stuff. Sending nudes is cool. BDSM is so hot! I want him to choke me! Porn is fine. "Haha, I'm seriously going to start an Only Fans". I'm so sad for teenage girls. And terrified of the teenage boys I'm growing up with. I wish young girls would realize how boys are these days. Kinda off topic, but something that changed how I vie… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 07:19 PM |
| 10 | What will the next social change look like?Do you think that it's only going to get worse from here for women? We're fed up with the huge amount of LVM, and yet that huge amount refuses to work on themselves or help out around the house. So perhaps that situation would cause fewer women to focus on dating, and more LVM being rejected? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 11:18 AM |
| 2 | "I'm kinda sad that I didn't live in a culture where scrotes could groom and sexually exploit me in my developmental years.... anyway I'm gonna get that empowerment by prostituting myself (for free) in my 20s" 🙄 I'M DONE WITH THIS LIBFEM BSHookup culture has honestly never made sense to me. Why would people want to have sex with a stranger they met a few minutes ago, or with someone who doesn't even know your name. There is a lot at risk too, like getting an STD, or just your general safety being at risk. No judgment, but it's quite strange to see how normalized its become. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 09:23 PM |
| 23 | I'm grateful to my (male) friend who got me to stop being a pickme!As a Gen Z'er myself, I'm worried about the men Gen Z boys will one day become. They grew up with the hardcore fast access porn, they grew up in the age of getting nudes from girls and swapping them around with their 'bros', so many of them love making insensitive jokes/ have a 'dark' sense of humor. Even though now a lot of social issues have been brought to light I see a lot of Gen Z guys choosing to dismiss them. Obviously, I can't speak for all Gen Z guys, but this is just what I've seen. I … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 09:26 PM |
| 3 | Saw this on my fb feed this morning. Had a good laugh and thought I’d share.Unlike those women who wear Gucci, I love video games. Bet you can't steal this! Kinda sad that I know a few girls who are actually like this lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 06:34 PM |
| 3 | OnlyFans is sex work and pornography — stop calling it ‘empowering’Yeah, I guess I do agree on that. I just think some other aspects of the article are really important. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 11:00 AM |
| 21 | OnlyFans is sex work and pornography — stop calling it ‘empowering’Some quotes that I thought were worth highlighting - "Lucy gained more than 180,000 followers and is apparently making $10,000 a month. For her money, she dresses as a young schoolgirl, and videos herself calling for “daddy” while sucking a baby’s dummy. To some, this will be seen as a harmless fantasy but what is actually happening is the normalization of very abusive sexual behavior. " " Pornography is just prostitution with a camera, and OF is both prostitution and pornography. It is part of … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 08:34 AM |
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