| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 271 | Yep | FDS SUCCESS! | samismyboy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/20 05:47 AM |
| 19 | Red flag? | SEEKING ADVICE | samismyboy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 05:13 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 16 | Anyone else have a pickmeisha for a mother, and therefore learned no female dating/life skills at all?When I was in my early 20's a guy was interested in me but I never had a good feeling about him. Something in my head just kept telling me to stay away from him. She gave me holy hell about it, constantly bringing up and saying it might be my only chance to be with someone in my church. Well, fast forward 6 months, he shoved his fist in the wall next to his girlfriends face. I always follow my feeling about people from now on! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 11:18 PM |
| 4 | Things men say cus they refuse to come to terms with the fact that they’re really attracted to other menThis has to be from some incel who couldn't get anyone | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 02:19 AM |
| 5 | There's a lot happening here, and none of it is good.wow... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/20 10:46 PM |
| 8 | YepI would have appreciated that much more | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/20 04:16 PM |
| 32 | Hey Incels, Chad probably got up and bathed today. Maybe even used lotion.And brushed his teeth | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 10:12 PM |
| 21 | Being my own boyfriend and getting myself late night dessert and coffeeJust heard the song Soulmate by Lizzo and I’ve decided it’s my theme for 2020. It’s all about being your own Soulmate. After 12 years of marriage and being divorced for 4 months. Unless The HVM comes along I’m it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 03:51 AM |
| 2 | Red flag?I think you have all just proven to me what I think I’ve known all along. I think I’ll just tell him I’m not ready to date and we can remain friends. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 09:30 PM |
| 7 | Red flag?I think you might be right. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 08:14 AM |
| 10 | Red flag?Generally you have a monitor for babies and toddlers but we stopped when our kids were old enough to get out of their beds to get us if there was a problem. About 5 years old. Otherwise I check on them before I go to bed and my “mommy radar” is always on, so I still wake up whenever I hear them come out of their rooms to go to the bathroom. Though, I can’t say my son hasn’t snuck in his iPad under his covers when he should be sleeping but what kid hasn’t? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 08:13 AM |
| 3 | Red flag?I believe its for keeping an eye on the kids. I should point out that he has all boys. we do have very different parenting styles and I have worried about that too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 06:30 AM |
| 1 | Red flag?Well if that was even a possibility... I'm pretty sure his kids are safe. I grew up with an abusive father and his children are fairly happy despite what they've been through with their parents. But yeah, my kids are my number one priority | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 06:22 AM |
| 2 | Red flag?I do worry about that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 06:16 AM |
| 15 | Red flag?I actually got the story of his divorce from my friend who was friends with his ex-wife. He is a lot more strict with his kids than I am. Doesn't allow them electronics. Only allows them to watch certain television programs. He has told me pretty much that during his marriage he had tried to be his kids "best friend" and he was having trouble making the transition to being the "Rule maker". So I wonder if he is just over compensating. My son was worried I was going to put a camera in his room, w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 06:10 AM |
| 6 | Husband wants wife to sit by herself all day instead of enjoying her free time on work tripWhat.an.asshole | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 05:47 AM |
| 14 | Friendly reminder that men are on such a high horse when it comes to beauty that their opinion shouldn’t matter to youThat subreddit is so wrong | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 02:19 AM |
| 6 | Working as a Postpartum Nurse has raised my standards tenfold. Here’s why.Ohell!! I’m a NICU nurse I relate to this post SO MUCH!!! My favorite are the moms that come to our unit at all hours of the night (mother/baby is 3rd floor NICU is 1st) to take care of the baby and the dad refuses to even change a diaper THEN tells her she’s breastfeeding wrong!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 07:01 AM |
| 2 | Stay picky, ladies!I’m in Roseville! I love it here! It’s a very family oriented area which I’d great for my kids not so much for meeting people. Originally from Gilroy. So the hot summers are a killer on me, I do miss the cool foggy mornings of the southern Bay Area. I love being so close to the mountains and great skiing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 08:20 AM |
| 6 | Stay picky, ladies!He works in a where house with no education and I’m a nurse. We live in Northern California and I’m in the same union as the Bay Area so I make Bay Area salaries, so yeah I make a good wage. Luckily we live north of Sacramento so housing prices aren’t as bad and I can own my own home with my kids. When we originally got married he was a stay at home dad and he was miserable. I tried to get him to go back to school but he refused that too. He has no desire to better himself but, luckily, he’s not… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/20 07:24 PM |
| 15 | Stay picky, ladies!He makes 1/10 what I make so if he wanted to take me to court for more he could have had a lot more. Luckily he just wanted out of the marriage. (Thank heavens). He was an awful husband but a good dad and my kids love him. I wanted to keep him in their lives. He also takes care of them while I’m at work every day and he does a good job of it. So I feel like I’m mainly paying for babysitting. I got married when I was 32 because I thought he was my last chance to have a family, it was a huge mista… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/20 02:47 AM |
| 21 | Stay picky, ladies!It could be worse, if he had taken me to court it would have been a lot more. We figured out the amount between ourselves. The problem with marrying a man who makes no money!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 11:39 PM |
| 63 | Stay picky, ladies!I testify to this!! Edit to say my 400$ a month spousal support that I pay testifies to this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 05:46 PM |
| 2 | Is shoving your girlfriend physical abuse?the legal definition of Battery in California is Battery is the intentional and unlawful use of force or violence against another—physical contact is involved here. If shoving would fit in the legal definition of battery than it is physical abuse and it will only get worse. stay as far from him as possible. The normal abuser cycle is to come back and fiercely apologize and make promises he will never keep or make you out to be imagining it all and then the abuse will start again and get worse ev… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 09:32 AM |
| 16 | Reminder to never tell them about past abuseThe only person your supposed to love is yourself | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 04:30 AM |
| 18 | High School Football player kills his pregnant girlfriend bec she didn’t get an abortion. #1 comment on Reddit? “I tHiNk mEn sHoUld be aBle to LegalLy Abort.” Honestly the scrotes are selfish and depraved beyond comprehension.great article about who's fault unwanted pregnancies are. https://humanparts.medium.com/men-cause-100-of-unwanted-pregnancies-eb0e8288a7e5 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/20 05:50 AM |
| 3 | Divorce is final on the 15th:Good for you!! As a child who lived in a home with DV I applaud you for making such a brave step for the safety of you and your child!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/20 10:12 PM |
| 9 | No more!Nope. About 25 years of physical, Mental and verbal abuse until he was finally arrested and forced into seeing a therapist. Since then its been mostly verbal abuse. They are still together 51 years later. They sleep on opposite sides of the house but they have been together for so long its now just habit. He also has colon cancer and without her retirement package he would lose his medical insurance and she would feel "guilty". About 5 years ago I quit telling her to get out and told her to stop… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/20 12:43 AM |
| 24 | No more!My Father tried to push my Mom out of a moving car when they were dating. She still married him. Damn! She needed this Sub!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 08:34 PM |
| 5 | Do you think men who grew up with lots of female relatives (sisters, aunts, etc.) tend to be less sexist?I don't know. My Ex has a wonderful relationship with his Mom and his sister. The problem with that was I was always compared to them. They could do no wrong and I did everything wrong. My father, on the other hand, is very sexist! A complete misogynist. My mother has been beat down by his abuse through the 50+ years they have been married. My brother is not sexist and I think that has a lot to do with the fact that we grew up hating my father. we have all made it our mission to not be or marry … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/20 03:59 AM |
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