Relationship. Relationship can be both emotionally and sexually satisfying. Random women you don't connect with ain't it. Edit: just wanted to add once I stopped watching porn I don't crave sex as much, so further on wanting relationships.
Here's how that "advice" works based on my own experience When I talk to females - not even thinking about dating them and the convo's going well, I'm having no desperation or neediness. I'm not trying to get them but by keeping the convo fun and entertaining I seem like a guy she'd want to continue talking to. Unless I'm wrong, that's how it works. Props to ya for putting in effort and getting the ladies though.