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Wait, what are you talking about? Woman can reject men after a few dates as well, what is this idea that men control relationships. Woman can ghost as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 04:12 AM
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A common complaint from women is that guys just want sex and they get pumped and dumped or the guy won't commit, so they aren't looking for anything serious and just trying to be a player. But, I think most men go into the dating scene with the idea that if they find the right girl they will commit to her. However, the vast majority of guys will not end it with a girl they don't think is relationship material, they will just continue whatever is going to have sex. Guys like sex, everyone know th…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 04:08 AM
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Yes i would date her and yes i think she has an attractive body type. Yes, she may have a little too much muscle for my ideal, but her overall fitness, and toned lean body easily overtakes that. I'd probably give her an 7.5/8.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 06:53 AM
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under this logic short people>>>>>>tall people, especially in the modern world. Tall people should be shamed into anorexia under your logic, correct?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 02:27 AM
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You can find a bit in the profile, through effort, what doing pictures, common interests, occupation. It's much harder than just swiping on attractive pics though, I'd agree. The issue is if you value personality/emotional intelligence, you're doing OLD incorrectly by swiping on the best faces, that's probably the reason why women constantly complain they get pumped and dumped by the guys they go out with.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 05:56 PM
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If this is true, then the most important thing is looks and not personality/emotional intelligence. Just be honest about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 05:50 PM
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So women say they highly value personality, emotional intelligence in a man they want. Fair enough, I get that. But then why are women on OLD ultra selective and the men who they swipe on happen to have the most handsome faces? Do women know something we don't? Are handsome faces correlated with high emotional intelligence and a good personality?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 05:38 PM
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For the advice that if you need to approach as a guy you've already lost (the assumption being the best guys are getting approached), I assume that the top guys will be getting approached by super low inhibition, extraverted girls a few levels below them. 9/10's will be getting approached by those types of 6-7/10, etc. But is a 9/10 woman really approaching 9/10 guys? That seems ridiculous. In reality, I would expect that all guys are really going to have to be approaching to get women on their …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 08:24 PM
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would you marry someone who was a virgin before they met you? And assume they were bad in bed, but willing to improve and eventually became decent in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 07:05 PM
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Modern dating is lowkey beat no cap
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 06:22 AM
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I love when women say that they don't do all these things for male attention (dress, makeup), but for themselves. Basically all of the motivation and why I do most of those things is to garner female attention. Working out, primarily to improve looks for female attention, food I eat, primarily to improve looks/health to attract female attention, the clothes I wear when going out are primarily to attract female attention, the career I have is primarily to attract female attention for a long-term …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 03:13 AM
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are you hypergamous?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 02:16 AM
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Everyone has bootstrap mentality takes on men's issues, because no one cares about most average/below-average men. They don't matter. Remember if you lose 99% of men in society, the 1% of men can just get all the woman pregnant, but if 99% of women die off, your society is completely fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 01:01 AM
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It was just an observation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 12:47 AM
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Most guys haven't historically reproduced. most guys just aren't good enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 12:22 AM
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Making friends with women is easy, or it's as easy as making friends with guys. Romance is a whole different ballgame. The expectations on what a woman wants from a friendship vs romance is completely different.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 10:44 PM
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I don't disagree? My issue with what you said is that you think having game necessitates being someone you aren't. If you have it as a natural, then fine. That's no issue, you don't have to be someone you aren't. If you don't, you have to fake it or learn it (which is insanely hard to do). So many just fake it. So for those that don't have it, many just choose to fake it. If you're faking then you're not rizzing, you're manipulating. I don't see why manipulation can't be a form of rizzing. Not a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 10:00 PM
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The best "game" is no game, it's just knowing how to communicate your value and seduce a woman. "no game" is game, it's just being a natural. If it feels fake then they're doing it wrong or trying too hard. Absolutely. The goal is to be gimmicky, gamey, and using "rizz" without looking like you're trying too hard. Toeing that line is the whole point of what game/rizz is. Some people just know how to do it cuz they are naturals, some get better and become good, some are bad at it. I think the ent…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 09:45 PM
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One issue is that in order to for a guy to do well in the early dating stages if he's not outrageously good looking is he has to be sorta gimicky, gamey, and "rizz" girls up to do well. Sure, it can work, but it ends up feeling sorta fake and not really conducive to actual forming a long-term relationship bond. The social skills needed in the early dating stages are completely different from the skills needed for a relationship which leads to many guys who could be solid LTR partners with bad sk…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 09:29 PM
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irrelevant or an easily mitigated downside.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 05:12 AM
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Not joining a frat when going to college is essentially the equivalent to self-harm. Having that kind of access to 18-22 year old women with social proof is legitimately priceless. I mean people pay out the ass for that shit post-college. People not joining because "they are buying friends" or because the dues are too much or because they won't like the people there are legitimately fucking idiots.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 03:52 AM
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Join a Frat
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 01:40 AM
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For the people that say they see average people with couples, in my social circles, I find average guys with partners found them through school, either high school or college. Average guys who didn't find a partner in either of those areas struggle heavily, with the other guys who found their partners in school telling me they would never under any circumstances break up because they see how bad the dating market looks like. For guys single post-college, it is like a wasteland of struggle, with …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 12:36 AM
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So there are a good chunk of men out there who have not found it to be a scam. A man in a relationship doesn't mean he thinks modern dating is not a scam. If I ever get in one, I will still think it's a scam, despite being in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 12:09 AM
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Modern dating is a scam for guys. You are being scammed. You are being grifted. Accept it. Bye
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 07:05 PM
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nah, the world would completely stagnate, society runs on male libido, without it everything would go to shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 09:44 PM
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Yeah, I can agree with that. The vast majority have ways they treat people based on what the relationship is and what stage it's in. You have separate standards for equal co-workers, bosses, family, grandparents, friends, partners, romantic prospects. The advice is still overall wrong though, because a romantic prospect for a man has to be treated in a specific way, and just saying "treat them normally" doesn't really make any sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 09:09 PM
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One of the dumbest pieces of advice about dating I've heard is "just treat women like normal people," which is blatantly ridiculous if you think about it for like two seconds. Women specifically do not want to be treated like a normal person in the early stages of romance/dating. Imagine if you were trying to start a platonic relationship with another guy and he wanted to be "chased." You paid for all of your activities together, initiated all contact, lead all conversations, planned all activit…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 08:03 PM
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I'm not saying i agree with the rhetoric, i'm just saying i get where it's coming from.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 05:21 AM
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try doing online dating as an average guy for six months and you will understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 02:49 AM
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I don't really give that many shits about n-count, maybe after 15-20, i'd start to care, but anything around there and below, I don't think I'd care. And realistically not many women have over that many
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 11:09 PM
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PPD women seem to think the dudes posting here about their problems are super ugly, complete social outcasts, super misgynostic towards women. In reality, the people posting here and others with the same issues will just come off IRL as normal dudes who may seem a little passive. It's not like we're talking about this shit in social situations with other women, that'd be absolutely ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 10:05 PM
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80/20 rule - Blaming their lack of success on women being too picky. The whole point of the 80/20 rule (if you're not Black Pilled) is to get into the top % where you will get woman to want and be attracted to you. You can still blame the lack of success on women being too picky but strive to improve and get into that top echelon of men. Women being pickier than men isn't some crazy idea, it's something you learn in biology 101. it's just a basic fact you accept and roll with as a men once you u…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 05:54 PM
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What parts of the manosphere don't preach self-improvement? I don't know any parts of the manosphere (other than blackpill, which, fair, you can have that one) that don't preach being more social, working out, being more healthy, getting a good career. Blackpill is the only one that is against it and that is because it is specifically a fatalist philosophy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 05:41 PM
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remember that dating as a average guy is effectively equivalent to lighting money on fire.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 05:14 PM
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Also, person refuses to make any changes to achieve their goal. You keep making this claim that the generalized man upset dating is refusing to make any changes to achieve their goal. That couldn't be farther from the truth. They are, they may not be taking all advice (because a lot of it is garbage), but they are trying to improve.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 04:52 PM
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That’s easier to do when you’re with someone you share common interests with. It's really not, and this might represent a fundamental disconnect that women don't really get. The personality is what allows the men to be successful at the active parts of dating, of which the men is required to do in the modern west. Some people, especially women, seem to think that if you just take two people with similar interests and who pass each other's looks thresholds, romance/sex just happens. But that igno…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 01:20 AM
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I am not red pilled and any of the strategy I use that aligns with it is a part of the red pill advice that is effectively common sense. The red pill is irrelevant to this conversation. Your advice is fine, but not the end all be all. The way to succeed in dating isn’t exactly rocket science, it’s just not always feasible to execute. I cannot make my face look like Brad Pitt’s despite me knowing that having a face like his is useful for dating. I know that having a charismatic, assertive persona…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 11:03 PM
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You didn’t prove anything. I socialize a lot and have a great career and nothing happens for me. And I will continue to work on those because I know they are important. As a guy you need to to know the right spots to take initiative, how to escalate tension, how to keep convos going that are actually interesting. I’m just saying your advice, while good, isn’t the end all be all. It’s just the start of the journey for a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 10:46 PM
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Sure those are good and useful, but you just can’t do that. You need to the looks threshold of whoever you are trying to woo and have a confident, assertive, charming, and charismatic personality (and if you don’t have it naturally, fake it as best you can). Men are the active participants in dating, so they actually need to actually learn skills to attract women. Women can just go places to socialise and stuff will happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 10:40 PM
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What are these accessible solutions you speak of?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 10:21 PM
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What was the joke?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 06:41 PM
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It was about me, but you changed it with your “who needs that” comment implying as a general statement that sex is not necessary to a fulfilling life. Seeing how you feel about that is a perfectly reasonable response and your dodge tells me all I need to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 06:04 PM
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Are you ok giving up sex and using only sex toys by yourself the rest of your life?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 06:01 PM
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I’m not sure. I’d want to have sex with a woman just to see what it feels like first.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 05:50 PM
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I have a pretty high quality fleshlight that is really nice. The nuts are definitely better than my right hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 05:46 PM
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T is good if you have the attractiveness to actually get a partner. If you don’t, it kinda sucks, cuz you have these raging hormones to have sex but you just can’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 05:43 PM
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Might as well just hope the drop in my T levels over time lessens my desire for romantic and sexual intimacy, so I just don’t care for it anymore. Go full monk mode.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 05:33 PM
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I'd just be alone for the rest of my life. I have to use OLD.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 02:57 PM
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Sounds like these guys aren’t even chads, it’s just average black dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 10:02 PM
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Dating as a man is effectively putting money on fire.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 02:07 AM
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I would to get called a "Chad" by a woman, even as a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 05:25 AM
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Women get "the ick" over the most benign shit, and it is accepted by everybody at all times. However, men getting "the ick" over n-count is deemed unacceptable for some reason? I don't even care that much about n-count, but the double standards are too tough to ignore.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 03:40 AM
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I would love to experience one myself just to see what it is like.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 06:33 PM
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Men have the overall hardest thing to do. Strengh training to gain muscle is the most taxing and takes the longest to do out of all of this. You need multiple one hour sessions per week and you are ultra fatigues after finishing. You can take steroids but that just ruins your health long-term.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 04:02 AM
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The whole point of this sub is to discuss modern dating dynamics that includes discussing general behaviors among people, including men and women. Sure, not all men and women are the exact same with the exact same personality, but we should be able to discuss generalizable behaviors seen in the dating market among men and woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 10:46 PM
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A man would go in with the mindset that he would LTR the right girl. However, a guy will not next a girl if he thinks she is not LTR material, but he still wants to have sex with her. He will keep whatever the relationship is going to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 10:19 PM
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wait you think we are spouting this shit in real life lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 08:44 PM
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Goal is to lift, take care of skin, live a healthy lifestyle, and walletmax, then in 30s become a beta bux, but one that is decent looking enough so that she is attracted enough to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 03:54 AM
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Your scale is cap my man
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 10:38 PM
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The rating encompasses everything including their weight. a skinny 6 and a fat 6 generally means the fattie has some other traits over the skinny 6 (better face overall, better breats/ass). It evens out to being the same overall attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 10:25 PM
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True, rating systems are subjective and different for each person, so it can be hard to decipher. I will say that for truerateme, their system is artificially deflated in comparison to most people, because their system is specifically a normal distribution (look at the sidebar). So, if a 5 is average, that means that 68% of ratings fall within the range of 4-6, and a 6 is in the approximately 84th percentile of attractiveness. That is really attractive (in the top 20% in fact), and most guys wou…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 09:51 PM
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PPD women out here acting like we're all here trying to get casual sex with 8+/10 women, when i'm out here trying to find a relationship with 6-7/10 women who I am compatible with and nexting woman that are too hot (8+/10)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 09:42 PM
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Sure his chin is bad but have you walked around and looked at your average 30’s man. It doesn’t look great. He is not very below average. Very below average is effectively reserved for fat faces or faces that are just deformed in some way.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 02:25 AM
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Andrew tate isn’t bad looking though. He’s tall and jacked. His face is ok, but the bald looks suits him fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 02:09 AM
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So I'm just pointing out a man can do the same, just use grinder to "enjoy yourself, be validated and have a good time". A man will do one of those three if they just log onto grindr/go to a gay bar, be validated. A straight man is not going to enjoy themselves or have a good time just putting themselves out there so that gay man (who they are exclusively not attracted to) can validate them. They could enjoy themself at a gay bar if they are there with friends, but not exclusively to have gay me…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 01:45 AM
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Isn't that effectively stating that woman will find very few men attractive and illustrate the main issue? How could the comparison of men using grindr with women on night outs with attention from other men even work without that assumption?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 12:51 AM
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finasteride, hairloss drug
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 12:26 AM
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i am on fin actually and have a sorta bad hairline, though not horrible mostly due to the fin.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 12:24 AM
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I have a tinder date this weekend, hope I don't fuck it up like I usually do
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 11:27 PM
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Only if they're being assholes. Again, only if they're being entitled little shits. Just being sad about failing in romance doesn't make someone an asshole/entitled. Part of this subreddit is basically venting about issues people have with romance. But purely venting by itself is not bad, because they are not necessarily expressing that they are entitled to anything whatsoever. Except I said this after mentioning that studies show that ugliness must not hurt their romantic endeavors since most m…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 11:24 PM
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My biggest weaknesses are inactive social life and bad dating personality (introversion, shy, lack of charisma, wit), but not a bad general personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 10:49 PM
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Uh huh
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 09:20 PM
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Damn that's some RP shit, you know most guys will bald as they age, right? Especially if you are dating caucasion men. Take your finasteride fellas.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 09:16 PM
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Consistently dismissing and downplaying men's emotions and failure to obtain romantic companionship (who cares? why should I care?) with the advice to just improve. The advice the RP and you give on how to do that may not be exactly the same, but the basic idea is there.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 08:59 PM
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lilith is kinda RP, no cap.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 07:17 PM
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Who says theyre not? Most people fuck people they desire sexually. So who cares? How do you know most do? And even if I accept most do, it's not all. And that's what were talking about here. Those relationships. You know most people in the USA have healthcare, and, in fact, most people like their healthcare? Most people in the US have housing and are not starving. Since most people have these things, do you think politicians should suspend policy/discussion related to healthcare, food insecurity…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 06:06 PM
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People want to be sexually desired by their romantic partners. Men and Women. This is very basic. In my hypothetical relationship with this ugly girl, do you recommend me or anyone in a similar relationship to tell this girl that I am not attracted her but I can still do the deed adequately? I mean we're both getting laid, right? What's the harm in telling her?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 05:40 PM
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I could have sex with a woman I think is ugly. Just getting laid doesn't mean they think the guys are attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 05:21 PM
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Is being not photogenic but attractive in real life a thing? Or is it cope for a person who doesn't get many matches in OLD?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 05:54 AM
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I am perpetually edged
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 12:16 AM
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You are 100% that it is somewhat due to men, but it is their biological desires causing it(high testosterone leading to huge sexual desires, instinct to sleep around because less investment is required in pregnancy). Woman have the opposite issue, so they are pickier for biological reasons. It’s all biology applied to a modern world
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 12:04 AM
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I am going to value intelligence, good impulse control, and ability to delay gratification highly as traits for a woman I want to have children with. Those are traits that are suited to success in the modern world and I want my children to have the best chance for fitness.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 11:54 PM
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Well, you would expect woman to have higher bf just based on fat distribution in their bodies. How much higher are mean body fat percentages in woman than men in the usa?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 09:40 PM
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Is there any statistical difference between the amount of men and women that are fat? I thought there were similar amounts or men were slightly more overweight overall. So the fat people are just a wash anyway, they cancel each other out.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 09:24 PM
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I’m not red pilled myself, mostly because what I believe TRP to be has has very narrow applications. I don’t consider TRP a philosophy or an ideology but just an amoral sexual strategy for men to improve their chance of having casual sex with woman. And ugly people being in relationships does not falsify TRP in any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 08:02 PM
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The obsession with finding a trad wife here is kind of beat. I don’t want my wife to be some doormat who is fully dependent on me. Legit unattractive as fuck. Woman aren’t the only ones who feel that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 07:29 PM
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TRP still will admit in the idea that SMV and RMV differ. Ugly people getting into relationships doesn’t discount TRP. You just walking by and seeing people doesn’t tell you the state of the relationship (if anyone feels like they are settling, are they happy)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 06:59 PM
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That's not even the red pill or anything like that. You learn it in biology 101. Sperm is cheap, but eggs are valuable.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 01:53 AM
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You're close to correct, but not exactly. Past reproductive age, it's not easy. They lose value. Woman's eggs are what make them valuable. Period.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 12:35 AM
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It’s actually not bad to have a little rejection. It keeps you honest and not too arrogant. It is constant rejection from dating that most men get that is crippling.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 11:23 PM
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Anyone ever tried playing OLD moneyball? Essentially the idea is that across the male population, attention will be given to specific woman based on generalized objective definitions of beauty. However, most people probably have specific subjective traits that they rate higher than the general population. If you try as best you can to swipe on those subjective traits AND not swipe on people you know will objectively be highly prized, you may be able to find people who are still attractive to you…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 10:03 PM
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Most people pair up with people similar to them, same socio economic background, religion, race, I dare say even looks. I would love to do this and have no problem with it. I can't even do that though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 08:08 PM
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Depends on what your number is, and how much you think the guy cares. There are many that don't care that much and some who obviously do. I am a late 20's male virgin and I have been told here to lie about it. Remember that the RP is an amoral strategy specifically about maximizing success with woman. It is not for woman in any way, so the RP people here will not say to a woman to lie about n-count. If you think that saying a lower N-count will help you, i'd say go for it. I'm not advocating mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 07:18 PM
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Do you find guys ask your n-count? It is very easy to lie about it or just not disclose it. It would be hard to lie about the existence of relationships you had, but random ONS you could, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 07:03 PM
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I think my most fundamental issue is that I struggle to develop connections with people, men or women. I haven't truly developed a serious male friend since I was in high school. The thing is i'm not seriously looking for friends as I have a solid core that I like. The issue is since I am looking for a female romantic companion, that issue looks like it is woman centered, when it is really not at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 05:30 PM
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I don't have a choice. It's miserable, but I have to use it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 04:49 PM
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OLD is like pulling teeth
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 04:35 PM
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Is a guy more likely to start a relationship with a women from seeing the cute/pretty/sweet side of her first or seeing the hot/sexy/desirable side of her first. Sexy/hot first, I would say.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 03:24 AM
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I think the question is this. Is height just a box to check for woman or are they legitimately attracted to it as a trait? I think it depends on the woman soca bit of both.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 07:36 PM
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Who do the 10 woman have casual sex with lol? The 12 men?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 07:00 PM
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Getting usa voters on board isn’t about logic. Voters don’t make decisions on politics about logic (see trump). I think everyone can agree that a law enforcing a paternity tests has basically a zero chance % of passing. The idea is to engage with the the hypothetical and understand what underpins the beliefs about why you are pro or anti paternity tests. The anti side is just very weak, specifically arguments used in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 05:49 PM
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What are you talking about I am slaving away at my white collar job making six figures, working out six times a week, eating pretty healthy, have a skincare routine and still get jack shit. Slaving away in dating apps doesn’t really take that long. Hinge and bumble are both capped on likes per day if you don’t pay anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 04:17 PM
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i agree with this. The only other important thing to know that isn't really mainstream is that sperm is cheap and eggs are valuable, which basically is the overriding biological reason for most of the behavior seen in modern dating. Most everything can be explained through that lens or just a few logical conclusions from it. And I learned that in biology 101, not the TRP subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 07:00 AM
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The anti-paternity test arguments are purely emotional and pretty trash overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 06:14 AM
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6/6/6 doesn't mean shit. It fully discounts face and hair
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 03:46 AM
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I always understood a Chad to be an exceptionally attractive man, not just a guy who is attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 02:59 AM
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I'd literally be where I am right now as a 28 year old virgin than where that guy is. Absolutely devastating situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 02:14 AM
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I have looked into this but a sugar baby is really expensive compared to an escort. Don't you have to pay hundreds for each date+give gifts? I make six figures, but I pay a lot for my living situation in a HCOL area, so I don't really wanna be spending like $1k+ on a sugar baby per month. Do you know ways to get a cheaper sugar baby situation?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 01:46 AM
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Your flair says you balded, early, did you try finasteride?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 06:44 PM
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My goal as a 28 year old virgin is to wallet max, be a beta bux in my mid thirties, and find some nice slightly post wall women to marry that I attract from my financial security. Hopefully we end up loving each other through human pair bonding chemicals and can have a good long term romantic partnership.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 06:40 PM
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Ross has a very above average hairline and hair though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 04:44 PM
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Both genders to this btw. It is just something that reasonable people will do when assessing their compatibility with relationship prospects. I've heard many woman talk about a guy being "too hot" to date because they are more likely to cheat/keep long-term. All your post really boils down to is people realizing they are not the most attractive person in the world and basing their possible relationship partners on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 03:10 AM
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I 100% consider lots of super attractive girls out of my league and don't bother pursuing for lots of reasons (not worth it due to unlikelihood for it to work, IF it worked, she'd be more likely to leave/cheat). So yes, I would say that I am looking for a girl who is not super attractive to attract too much attention but still kinda cute. And I do feel for the woman if she is unhappy about that, but I am not really sure what I am supposed to do about it. I know my worth and it is not high, but I…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 01:45 AM
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The competition for female attention in all areas is unlike anything that has ever existed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 06:00 PM
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When do men hit the wall? I'm already 28 and have failed hard and am afraid I will hit it soon
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 08:45 PM
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So why should women care “how psychologically damaging constant rejection and failure with the opposite sex can be”? Because women are empathetic and care about issues men face? Wouldn't woman want to know if a lot of men are developing psychological issues from romantic issues? Especially if a woman ends up in a relationship with one who had struggled in the past (which will be a lot for sure) and the man has insecurities about their past. To me, you're espousing a pretty negative view of woman…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 06:15 PM
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shit is depressing as fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 01:39 AM
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For OLD, if a girl says no to a date over the weekend because of work but offers no alternative, is it over?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 01:28 AM
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So that's it? The dating market will just be bad for as long as the current paradigm of gender equality persists? I guess that's ok, because I am for increased freedom and legal, political, cultural equality for woman. I guess a shit dating market is just a sad side effect of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 07:49 PM
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I know they do, but it is not to the same degree as men, on average. There are levels to the discrepancy that leads to worse psychological outcomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 07:30 PM
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Me: Have you thought about narrowing your search based on compatibility and type? Sure, but is that really the best advice? I'm not going to tell you to fuck off, i'm going to have a reasonable discussion about the advice you just gave. For combability, how do I know what a woman's personality is like before meeting them? I have to do some level of approaching or swiping on them on an app to actual begin an interaction. So I still have to swipe/approach and face the most likely rejection before …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 07:22 PM
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I don't think women realize how psychologically damaging constant rejection and failure with the opposite sex can be. And men are just expected to actively be pursuing by cold approaching, warm approaching, swiping on apps, with minimal success rates until they find "the one" and through all of that be fine mentally. And on top of that, men are expected to be the stoic, unemotional gender, which makes the issue even worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 07:04 PM
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Thanks, but was 80/20 really debunked? That was like the iron law of TRP, I thought. Everything revolves around female hypergamy in order for it to work at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 06:34 PM
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So 20% of dudes are not Chad, right? I thought that was the 80/20 thing, that woman dates the 20% chad dudes. I'm not really up on the TRP sayings. If chad is supposed to be super rare, there are like very few chads, like way less than 1%.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 06:30 PM
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nah most chads are like 6'0-6'2, 6'4' is too rare, and the many 6'4+ guys are really gangly looking (like myself).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 06:27 PM
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This discussion thread is more interesting. It’s more exciting to share ideas and argue than talk about the same self improvement stuff people talk about and effectively everyone knows about, especially if you’re on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 05:12 PM
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It's sad being tall and fit, but realizing that your looksmatch is an obese single mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 04:54 PM
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Don't women attempt suicide more but do it in way where they are more likely to survive?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 03:01 AM
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Dating is so much easier for woman, but data shows that woman are unhappier than men to a statistically significant level. What is the cause of this and what are they doing so wrong, at the population level?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 02:28 AM
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True, beauty is subjective. And I won’t deny I have a looks threshold, but I doubt it is what you would picture as a Stacy. Though I can’t really prove it to you
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 09:51 PM
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How attractive is a Stacy to you? Like how hot are we talking?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 09:23 PM
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How do you approach girls at a festival/club setting where it's loud and there's dancing? It's always weird, do you just go up to a girl and start dancing? They can't hear you as the music is way too loud
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 05:58 AM
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How do you do that? Do you cold approach in public?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 05:36 AM
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Online Dating as a male is the worst non-violent experience you can have in a modern, developed country.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 04:55 AM
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certain college campuses have a lot more women than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 01:36 AM
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No, what is ruining dating is the fact that women are more willing to exit the dating market if they don't like it than men are. Men are competing with other men and a woman's single life. Women in the western world have careers which means they need a man less for support. This fact along with women having lower sex drive mean women really don't need men as much anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 11:55 PM
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The tips might just not be good
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 05:27 PM
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We only see the guy's face from the profile (he doesn't look amazingly attractive), but where and how does this guy find 50 super attractive white girls to go on a date with him? That's my takeaway from this video lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 05:23 PM
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mother
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 05:24 PM
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What do you guys think about the asian FOBs on OLD? I generally match with ones that are hotter than my western women matches, I just can't form a connection with them and their english is normally kinda trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 04:07 AM
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Is there such a thing as a good casual dating personality and a good LTR personality or is that just cope?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 03:35 AM
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You really think his face is 50th percentile of men in his age group? I'd guess it is higher than that. Dude isn't a model or anything, but he is definitely not a 5 facially, he has an above average face IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 02:46 AM
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That is one issue i have. I am really tall and work out, but it is hard to tell through clothes, especially because i have to wear clothes a bit baggier given how tall I am. Lots of girls say they like the leaner, cut look but that is not easy to see a lot of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 06:47 PM
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Q4W: I see most women say here that one prerequisite is a fit body, but i'm not sure if the minimum is a dad bod or tyler durden in fight club. Which of the pictures shown below would you consider to be a fit body type that fits your perquisites? Obviously none is a fine answer. Consider before/afters separately. https://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2016/09/12/12/383DBCEB00000578-3758935-image-a-93_1473679117106.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 05:59 PM
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Looks beat status and money until the very, very top percentiles where status beats looks. All else equal, the man with the highest status beats the best looking man. Status and power are too intoxicating and cannot be replicated. This shouldn't be controversial.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 08:17 AM
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This goes for men too, I have multiple female friends who have commented to me “he’s too hot for me to hold on to.”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 12:42 AM
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I wish my hinge profile lit up as much as my LinkedIn. I have recruiters (even some hot ones) slipping in my dm’s all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 12:37 AM
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I might have misinterpreted your claim, I thought you were saying looks were the only thing that matters, which is cap to me. Saying looks is the most important, I’d agree. That’s barely red pill though
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 12:07 AM
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What conclusion am I supposed to take from this study according to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 12:01 AM
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cap.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 11:43 PM
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human sexual relationships is not a solved idea
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 11:41 PM
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Is becoming a passport bro just the best move if you’re a bit more well off and can’t get any?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 10:08 PM
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Imagine unironically using the term TDS lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 10:06 PM
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You don’t owe anyone here complaining anything and none of the guys here complaining are owed anything. One tip I will give to woman is to be a bit more proactive in your interest. I went on a first date with a girl and tbh she was pretty dull like I am during beginning dates. She showed no romantic interest at all and I guess expected me to do all romantic escalation with zero hints from her. But then she said she was willing to go on a second date afterwards? And on that one she actually split…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 08:43 PM
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Woman are not repulsed by me. I have no issues interacting with woman in a non romantic context, I have lots of female friends and work with tons of woman. I have positive interactions and never have had any indications of being a creep or them being repulsed. I just do not understand how to create desire through engagement while on a date in woman or understand how and when to escalate to romance with dates. I have been on many but they have all fizzled out.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 08:21 PM
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I hear a common option if you are not a looker is to use your personality, but what if your personality is not great as well, specifically you have a bad casual dating personality? It’s not like everyone is born with quick wit, charm, charisma, and that ability to make woman feel special and want to be around you. Don’t get me wrong, I’ve seen it happen with guys who are not lookers, so I know it exists. Problem is those qualities aren’t something you can just get and even with practice it’s ver…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 08:03 PM
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I’m not sure I understand how that philosophy is in any way consistent with reality and the modern western economy. The us is like an 80% GDP service economy. What about these traditional male indoor jobs like finance/law/tech/engineering, are those real jobs or just beta bux jobs?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 07:12 PM
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If the person you’re arguing with is claiming that grade school teachers are a useless job then they’ve lost the plot and it’s probably not worth continuing the discussion with them IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 06:39 PM
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Male school teachers are actually based. There is a need for more male role models for young boys in childhood. That is even something commonly talked about in the Manosphere, so I don’t see why male school teachers would be considered bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 06:27 PM
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I actually agree with this, but it illustrates why OLD is ultimately so awful for men. They cannot show these things through a profile and the vast majority of men are not going to get a “yes ill bang” off six pictures. And since so much of dating these days is about OLD, a lot of men are gonna have trouble.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 06:20 PM
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I am high earning 6’5 low bf and decent muscle and cannot get woman
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 07:15 AM
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