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It's probably the British voice.
/r/MGTOW09/01/19 03:33 AM
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Nah, youtube just demonetized any mgtow videos after the CNN interviewer by big john, besides most of my content is not exactly advertiser-friendly. it's just a hobby, my goal is to educate young men on female nature through my youtube channel.
/r/MGTOW10/12/18 06:44 PM
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This is for MGTOW, who still wishes to get involved with women, there are four levels of mgtow, I have a video outlining the 4 levels.
/r/MGTOW10/12/18 06:15 PM
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I do these videos for fun, I don't even have ads.
/r/MGTOW10/12/18 06:14 PM
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that one is a classic, I've added that to part 4 of 8
/r/MGTOW09/12/18 07:17 AM
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I'm bored = entertain me / dance monkey, I've added that one to part 4 of 8 I can't stand that one too
/r/MGTOW09/12/18 07:15 AM
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Manipulation is in their nature.
/r/MGTOW09/12/18 07:14 AM
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The moon and star is supposed to represent a sense of peace and tranquility, not religion. Thanks for watching!
/r/MGTOW13/11/18 08:40 PM
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This video isn't really aimed at guys like you, you seem to living your life to the fullest, you're like the first mgtow group which I support. The video is aimed at guys who are unhappy in their lives and blame women for it. Going your own way should not include you being angry and bitter at women everyday.
/r/MGTOW12/10/18 02:15 PM
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Look up memory rain on YouTube.
/r/MGTOW12/10/18 12:00 PM
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Give her your number and tell her to text you, if she doesn't text you then next her. Have an abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP28/04/18 01:45 PM
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I don't know if that counts or not, Well, if you stuck your dick in her vagina, i'm pretty sure it counts should I tell them about the hooker No I need to mention that I don't like to lie, I am usually pretty honest and direct. I'm pretty sure they're not going to bring up if your first time was with a hooker. If they ask who, tell them it's a secret, you never revel your n-count anyway.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 05:49 AM
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https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=TILbeG_VUP0 https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=_awEGStnshA
/r/askTRP03/03/18 10:21 PM
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It should be in the sidebar, it's basically a sequel to TMM.
/r/askTRP27/02/18 03:43 PM
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"I'm thinking about myself too"
/r/askTRP21/02/18 07:17 PM
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I've always seen it as a way for the pua to protect their ego from rejection. They tell themselves: " She didn't reject me, I was going there anyway besides she wasn't good enough for me anyway". I always Tell them " I'm free on x day, let's do x at x time". If she rejects me, that's fine, I move on to the next girl, I don't bullshit myself.
/r/askTRP30/01/18 02:29 PM
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That's not my article, I was just sharing it. Some people have different definition of smv. SMV can be = Looks + money+ status. SMV can = looks + money + status+ game. it all depends on who you ask. This article is assuming the first definition.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/18 03:11 PM
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Alpha Male Strategies He's new but he has put out a lot of good contents https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC0it1cu-mt_IcvLTQ4CWcHw
/r/askTRP16/01/18 06:14 AM
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She trying to bait you into becoming a beta orbiter or trying to get you to ask her out again/talk to her to receive validation. Don't fall for it, keep doing what you have been doing and ignore her. I might go as far as to say to block her so you don't get tempted to answer.
/r/askTRP25/12/17 08:30 PM
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It's not saying money is not important, it's saying money isn't a replacement for staying fit and having game.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/17 06:03 PM
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You don't have choose one or the other. Alongside money, fame and career success, you can have women if you add game into the mix.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/17 04:18 PM
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Only if you have these three things you can call yourself something like an Alpha, and then you don't even need to put that much effort in your game. I have to disagree with you a little bit. Having game is one of the components of being alpha in the context of a relationship/spinning plates, otherwise you're going to make the same mistakes as the beta without game.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/17 03:44 PM
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These links should be helpful: http://www.blackdragonblog.com/2016/07/28/the-12-steps-have-kids/ http://www.blackdragonblog.com/2015/02/19/how-to-move-in-with-a-woman/
/r/askTRP29/11/17 01:15 AM
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Once you've taken the redpill, there's no going back. Those people are just stuck in the denial phase.
/r/askTRP12/08/17 03:10 PM
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Deleted the original comment by accident Original Comment: You're looking for a unicorn. I don't think it's possible for a woman to have all those qualities in today's age. Yes, I do agree with you. I don't think women like that exist in the west, if they do, they're incredibly rare.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/17 03:39 PM
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I am not Blackdragon nor am I affiliated with him. I haven't read the book myself. He does have one of those books on amazon with reviews: https://www.amazon.com/Unchained-Man-Alpha-Happy-Better/dp/098622202X/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1502379176&sr=8-1&keywords=unchained+man
/r/TheRedPill10/08/17 03:34 PM
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Is she not old, no/very low notch count, non-partier/doesn't have a gaggle of slutty friends, no/low social media whoring, from a good, in-tact family, religious (orthodox church-going, not "spiritual"), good health, not overly indebted, likes kids/has siblings, not a career slut? Lol you're looking for a unicorn. they don't exist.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/17 02:58 PM
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Then you fall into: "if this all seems like too much work, then just don’t move in with anyone. Have a serious OLTR you see often but who lives in at her own place. That’s always an option too." This article pertains to men who: "Though I know most men reading this will want to move in with a woman at some point in their lives, especially as they get older"
/r/TheRedPill10/08/17 02:25 PM
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is fresh out of an LTR, is now sitting next to me. There's obvious tension and we're making innuendos at each-other all the time. She's looking for new orbiters and you seem ripe for the pciking. It's fun. She's hot. Hamster slowly running Most of the guys at work are a combination of lame, thirsty, beta (or worse) and out of shape. I'm by no means the "hottest" guy in the office but I'd count myself among the top 20% purely in the context of my workplace. Hamster slowly picking up speed. I've a…
/r/askTRP08/08/17 06:42 PM
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So i had a female best friend So you were her top orbiter. Giving her attention and attention while you get nothing ok. We haven't met And she was your best friend We were like text buddies. So you were there texting her giving her validation and attention while she was fucking chad. She told me she loves me and will never leave me. LOL and you believed her. Pay attention to what a woman do and what not they say. Slowly, i started falling for her. Oneitis intensify Suddenly she told me that she …
/r/askTRP08/08/17 05:24 PM
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You should be moving the conversation to your desired goal. Always have a purpose to a text and never for the sake of talking, that should be done in person. Ask them to hang out and stop wasting time.
/r/seduction08/08/17 04:28 PM
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Because, she actually follows the advice don't shit where you eat, unlike some people....
/r/askTRP07/08/17 09:18 PM
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There is already a thread on thins: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/6rdcda/1_trending_video_on_youtube_today_is_titled_alpha/?utm_content=title&utm_medium=browse&utm_source=reddit&utm_name=TheRedPill Use the search bar first next time.
/r/askTRP07/08/17 07:23 PM
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Stop looking for easy answer, there isn't one. There is no secret, they learn through trial and error like the rest us. Most have alpha male characters due to the environment they are raised in. Now, go out there and practice and stop looking for easy answer.
/r/seduction05/08/17 03:17 PM
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we talk everyday and things are going amazing Mostly talk and text for logisitcs. we both will be going to different colleges (both in same city) but now i want to date her. gotten head 3 times, gone on 5-6 quality dates LDR do not work, this is your scarcity talking, enjoy while it last. Besides, you've never had sex with this girl and you're thinking about a relationship? Besides, you should have escalated to sex at this point. how do i continue my relationship w her in college? If you're goin…
/r/askTRP05/08/17 06:48 AM
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No, the woman should always bring up exclusivity, not you. OP, if you're doing everything right she should bring it up,
/r/askTRP05/08/17 06:42 AM
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Yeah, I don't disagree with you, but there can be too many distractions in a group setting and other guys trying to hit on the girl. You give yourself competition and make things harder for you to maintain her attention in that setting. that's not a problem in a one on one meeting, you (should) have her full attention, and eventually get her chasing you.
/r/seduction05/08/17 06:39 AM
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It depends on you and the girl. If she's already interested then it won't matter what you do, but if she's only mildly interested, it's best to do a one on one to further that interest and get her chasing. There can be too many distractions and guy friends cockblocking you in a group setting.
/r/seduction05/08/17 06:36 AM
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I was thinking of using Tinder and putting in my bio something along the lines of "photographer looking for practice on my portrait photography". I mean yeah, I also want to meet women. These statements contradicts each other. Either you want to use it to meet women or in a business sense. Do not use photography to hide your intentions. Don't rope these girls into believing you just want to take pictures, while you're looking to have sex or date. Choose one. Besides, what girl would let a strang…
/r/askTRP04/08/17 11:05 PM
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but her personal life is lacking (her younger brother recently got married and she is feeling the pressure). I don't think you alpha widowed her, she's approaching the wall and looking to settle down. Any advice from any of you gentleman that might have thrown a bone to your Alpha widows that are still worth your time? Focus on your life, she's not your problem nor do you it owe it to her to fix her life. If this were the other way around, would she do the same? Just keep it professional and onl…
/r/askTRP04/08/17 10:59 PM
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This is terrible advice, escalate and have sex with her. If you're good in bed, she'll relay that to her girlfriends which will give you social proof/preselection. They'll eventually start chasing you, wanting a piece of action. Don't cockblock yourself for a potential future of an unsure thing. Women want a man that other women wants to fuck and other men wants to be.
/r/seduction04/08/17 10:25 PM
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We just want to hang out and get to know each other, not go on a date I disagree with this, this is how you end up in the friendzone. By hanging out in a group context, you're signaling you don't have the guts to make your intention known and take the friend approach, which never works. when you hang out one on one, you can build tension, which eventually lead to sex. You save time by finding if you're compatible or not in one outing. By hanging out in groups, you're hiding your intentions.
/r/seduction04/08/17 10:19 PM
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The only this video gets right is that alphas can be contextually as shown by the board game scene.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/17 12:51 PM
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As someone with TPS, I understand. Well, that changes things, so this marriage is a business deal. Still, this marriage is a huge investment for you, so you be should vetting even more intensely before making this deal. If you see a lot red flags, I wouldn't go through with it. You should be vetting other women to make sure you get the best possible deal out this. This could backfire if you choose the wrong person, so be careful.
/r/askTRP03/08/17 05:36 PM
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Idk we she just decided off the bat that she is both looking for a relationship. You let her make all the decisions. It should be sex first then relationship second, not the other way around. You should be having sex and seeing her for a min of 3 months, before you decide if you want a relationship with this girl. Why do you want a relationship so fast? You dictate the term of the relationship not her. I'll try having sex with her this weekend. If she brings up the marriage thing again, then I w…
/r/askTRP03/08/17 04:22 PM
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The 3-4 dates were all within a week and did different things. You should have dates once a week. Max 2. Seeing her 3-4 times in a week show you have nothing else going on and that you are lacking options. Women like men who have options. You probably came off as clingy. After texting a decent amount (relatively) after the last date she barely replied the days to follow and now she doesn't reply at all. Always have a purpose for a text, never chit chat. Texting is for logistics. Any way to recov…
/r/askTRP03/08/17 04:03 PM
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I don't. I saw this as an easy opportunity to get a conversation going. Assume attraction, you don't need her approval to take action. What's wrong with trying out social media game? I get it that Tinder/social media is the platform for girls getting validation, and I haven't given any validation yet. I'm trying to play my cards right. There's nothing wrong with it, it can be a huge waste time when most of the time the women are there for attention and validation. You continuing to ask her out a…
/r/askTRP03/08/17 03:40 PM
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We had one sexual encounter and she brings up no sex before marriage So you're not having ex with her until marriage? then why is your gf?
/r/askTRP03/08/17 02:52 PM
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I follow posted a "Like 4 rate" type thing Why do you care for her approval? so I figured I'd fuck around and practice my game. Translation: "So I figured, I'd try to be her beta orbiter" She says I'm chill, cute, The bait to become her beta orbiter when I'm trying to setup a date (date, one-up, whatever you call getting ice cream) You off course take the bait. "But like I kinda want to get to know you abit better before... "Your smv isn't high enough for you to pull this off...." I think it's A…
/r/askTRP03/08/17 02:44 PM
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it's good for practice, you don't have to push for forward with it. Eventually it will be come second nature and you'll do it without thinking with attractive girls.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/17 11:09 AM
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Flirt with every girl, then later you can decide if you want to move further or not.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/17 01:16 AM
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Does this seem like a continued attempt to get me to give into friendship, over pursuance because she isn’t taking my rejection well and is trying to get me to soften my stance, or her realizing she may have fucked up now that I have taken back power and will only agree to my terms? I would say it's the first one, because a girl tried to fz me and I decline, she tried to invite to a carnival with her friend an I decline saying I was not looking for friendship. She said she would like me to be th…
/r/askTRP02/08/17 12:57 AM
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but we mostly got to know each other by chatting a lot, sometimes all night. Mistake #1, Texting is for logistics only, you have better things to do than chatting all night. You are now auditioning for the role of beta orbiter. We met 3 times and then kept chatting. Mistake # 2, you should have escalated all three times and have sex with her already but instead opted for the role of beta orbiter, congrats! While I know that "there's more fish in the sea", all the other girls I know are boring, w…
/r/askTRP01/08/17 10:56 PM
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I went down on her (first time and it wasn't fun) Do not go down on women who are not your gf I didn't have a condom, so we did it without protection Always have protection in the car. I had already cum inside her. Daddy!! I started to think how my life would be ruined if I had a kid right now (I'm 20) But seriously, where is your of responsibility, having sex with a stranger with no condom and cumming inside of her. What happens if she get pregnant? I went to the place she works right after she…
/r/seduction01/08/17 05:20 PM
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This chick slept in my house once, gave me fucking head. Women who are not ltr do not get to sleep over. After getting head, you should have subtly tell her to leave. It's not a slumber party. she told me she's very loyal to him her hamster at her best. won't do anything anymore. Shit test, invite her over and escalate. If she doesn't comply then next her. Her boyfriend is away for a month so I feel like she's using me. what? You're getting head and she's using the one using you...? I wanted to …
/r/askTRP01/08/17 05:01 PM
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I am 27, looking for a wife, I am tired of dating around. I want long term They probably sense this from you and are opting to leave...you should not go into dating already wanting a wife or long term. These are things you should want over time, maybe the women you're dating are not looking to settle down yet. Don't force things, let things flow naturally. As you progress into relationship, then you should proceed to decide wheter or not they're worthy of wife or ltr material. Don't that make de…
/r/seduction01/08/17 02:53 PM
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I don't think it's your looks, I think it's your fashion. If the clothes in the picture are what you normally wear, i'd say to try on a different style. What you have on doesn't scream confidence. Try to gain some muscles, it will give you the confidence you need, confidence goes a long way. Try reading books: Models by mark manson, No more mr. nice guy by robert glover, and the rational male by rollo tomassi.
/r/seduction28/07/17 10:48 PM
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i don't have much to lose in asking her out another time. Yes, you do, every time you ask her out and she has to say no, you start to come off more desperate and needy. She's going to sense you have no options. We don't text much actually, 5-6 messages a week and mostly things like "how the exam went". Texting is a waste of time of it's not setting up a meet. Not this one. I know her ex, they stayed together 3 years. Study is 100% the priority all the times for her, if she isn't on par, she cuts…
/r/seduction27/07/17 01:05 PM
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(note that at that time i was more beta than alfa, i'm now fully alpha now but a lot better) Someone who's alpha doesn't need to say they're alpha, their actions will show, and your actions in this post shows otherwise. I want to underline that this isn't one-itis, i see other girls and she isn't super special for me, but she's the hottest girl available to me right now. This is oneitis, stop lying to yourself. However nothing special happened cause we both needed to study hard, no time for anyt…
/r/seduction27/07/17 12:11 PM
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Look man I'm not going to bullshit you about lifting etc, I don't have the answer to what is going to make you happy, everyone is different. but I know for a fact that getting laid isn't going to solve your problems. You just think it will, it won't. Stop worrying about women for a while, and try to find what makes you happy.
/r/askTRP27/07/17 12:09 AM
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You have bigger issues than just getting laid. If you have to make that big of a sacrifice to get laid, you're doing something wrong. Women aren't going to fix your problems, never be dependent on them for your happiness. What happens when they leave you, then what? Learn to be happy without them first, otherwise you're just going to run into more problems.
/r/askTRP26/07/17 11:57 PM
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soft next for now, in the meantime read the damn sidebar as you should know Texting is for logistics only, you were too available.
/r/askTRP26/07/17 07:36 PM
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Hard next 4 months. I think you meant soft next. Hard next are permanent. Soft next has a time.
/r/askTRP26/07/17 06:18 PM
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"Wow, what a relief. I was thinking the same thing but was searching for the best way to break it to you. Ok then, see ya around." sounds to try hard. just reply "ok" and hard next.
/r/askTRP26/07/17 06:17 PM
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I think you mean Ex-Gf says she's hanging out with her ex bf.
/r/askTRP26/07/17 05:55 PM
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Hmm, I think you mistakenly typed gf instead of plate.
/r/askTRP26/07/17 05:50 PM
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i sort of wish i'd never redpilled because i preferred the ignorance. "don't wish things were easier, wish you were better" literally comparing everything from her hobbies and charity work to her physique with every other girl it's nuts. She's not special, you just think she is. Time has a way of distorting your memory of someone. She's not as good as you remembered, you're just remembering all good things about her and ignoring the bad. It's very likely if you got her back, you would question y…
/r/askTRP25/07/17 02:52 PM
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" What Women Want When They Test Men: How to Decode Female Behavior, Pass a Woman’s Tests, and Attract Women Through Authenticity" by Bruce Bryans. It's a very good book on shit test.
/r/seduction25/07/17 02:00 PM
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So commit to her so other men don't Fuck her,and Fuck around on the side u til you're happy you've got the best option and sewed your oats. This is the male AFBB. Why give commitment to a woman whose not worthy? seems contradictory to me. If he can fuck her without giving commitment he should. Why would he get into an ltr just to cheat, seems dumb to me. If he has an abundance mentality, he shouldn't care that she's fucking other men, she's not his, just his turn. LTRing a woman so she doesn't f…
/r/askTRP25/07/17 01:58 PM
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The real question is if I'll manipulate her in that way. I'll say no. I actually care about her and wish her the best. And every rational part of me says, no, i shouldn't give her real LTR status because shes not worthy of it And the Beta has already given her his commitment... she just wants me more. Looks like you're very conflicted, I can't make those decisions for you. Just take some time to think about it and do what's best for you and not for her. I believe you already know what you want t…
/r/askTRP25/07/17 01:51 PM
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If you have already fucked dozens of girls, there's nothing else you can do but give times. Ik it's cliche but time does heal all wounds. I believe the pain comes from thinking you'll never a girl like her or better than her which isn't true. There are thousands of girls like her and better than her. You haven't met them yet. Just keep approaching and improving.
/r/askTRP25/07/17 01:47 PM
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What are you thoughts on me salvaging this? You can give her commitment which she'll happily take and cut off the beta orbiter, if you are as alpha as you say you are. Do this only if you feel that she's worthy enough of the ltr status, and not because you fear losing her Or Continue fucking her until the beta gives her commitment, which she'll eventually leave you for. She may come back, when the beta proves unsatisfactory. Don't wait for her though, you should be out fucking other women. Shoul…
/r/askTRP25/07/17 08:11 AM
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we were messaging for weeks What was the point of this? Do not say it was to get to know her better, that should be done in person, not over text. Texting is for logistics only there was a situation which made me feel she's trying to friendzone me you're already there, since you haven't bothered to ask her out yet. so i've told her that i am not going to be her girl friend with a vagina and the only people i want to talk to with no strings attached are my male mates, then made my intentions clea…
/r/askTRP25/07/17 07:41 AM
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This post contradicts itself. We agreed to be committed without the label. Then she's a plate... Broke up with her because I went through the phone and saw the logistical lie about where she was. Then she's your gf... I think you wanted a plate that's only committed to you..It doesn't work like that. When you don't offer commitment, don't get mad when she goes looking for it somewhere else. Accept she's going to see other guys when you don't offer commitment, it's part of being a plate. As long …
/r/askTRP25/07/17 07:28 AM
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I believe she's testing you to see what your intentions are. This an excerpt from a book but it applies to your situation: Insist that, “No. I don’t want to meet up with friends with you. But I do want to meet you at X place, at X time, on X date. Just the two of us.” Only one of two things can happen: She’ll realize that you’re assertive, know what you want, and are confident enough to walk away from a win-lose situation, which could trigger her attraction for you and make her want to take you …
/r/seduction24/07/17 06:54 PM
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is she just playing us both? What should I do? She's a woman, she off course enjoys the attention from the two of you. She's keeping her options open as should you, go and talk to other women.
/r/askTRP23/07/17 09:25 PM
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I think the reason most men get into LTRs comes from a place of scarcity mindset and laziness, they get into LTRs so they have a steady supply of pussy. Also same reason they move in together. They rationalized as less chance of STDs, which is bullshit, being an LTR does not negate STDs. If some of these men could fuck a different girl every week, I highly doubt that they would be in LTRs.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/17 01:49 AM
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Signs he's still operating under the feminine matrix, he's using you to gain approval from the female peers. He doesn't realize that he's only hurting himself in the process. I would keep my distance from this so called "friend", looks like crab in the barrel mentality. Real friends lift you up, not down.
/r/askTRP20/07/17 01:21 AM
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Why does it matter what we think? If that's your preference, then go right ahead and smash. You need to work on not giving a fuck if you're even asking this question.
/r/askTRP20/07/17 12:26 AM
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No, never compromise who you are for the sake of pussy.
/r/askTRP17/07/17 05:36 PM
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Sounds like you're just making excuses rather than taking action.
/r/askTRP16/07/17 06:51 PM
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She isn't really my oneitis, more like the girl I want the most. What's the difference? I know her since 5th grade. Might be too late, could be in the friendzone already. She already cancelled on me once, because she was going to a party. if she was into you, she would have suggested another time. "Haha, let's write and play some videogames first, because I have to pack some stuff for holidays on friday". Translation : "lol I have no intention on going out with you, but I do like the attention a…
/r/askTRP16/07/17 06:49 PM
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If you're trying to have sex with her then try it, what do you have to lose? If you're trying to have a relationship then it is best to move on, LDRs do not work.
/r/askTRP16/07/17 06:42 PM
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This an excerpt from a book but it applies to your situation: Insist that, “No. I don’t want to meet up with friends with you. But I do want to meet you at X place, at X time, on X date. Just the two of us.” Only one of two things can happen: She’ll realize that you’re assertive, know what you want, and are confident enough to walk away from a win-lose situation, which could trigger her attraction for you and make her want to take you up on your offer, or… She’ll reject the offer and go about he…
/r/askTRP16/07/17 06:14 PM
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The best type of conditioning is where people fight against their own self-interest. TRP is trying to undo this conditioning, and people are fighting against it.
/r/askTRP06/07/17 03:17 PM
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Any thoughts on finding that balance? Honestly, the best thing you can do is practice, overtime you'll get better.
/r/askTRP06/07/17 03:14 PM
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Am I over analyzing this shit Yes I was embarrassed and would never let that happen again, and pretty much dropped it. Stop apologizing, it's pathetic. Just move on when something like that happens. I really don't like board games. Then don't play board games, you are a grown ass, don't do anything you don't want to do. Better yet, be a leader in the group and say we're playing beer pong. have I been to alot of strip clubs. " Off course, where do you think I am going after I drop you off" Wow yo…
/r/askTRP06/07/17 06:25 AM
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the thing is there's not a better looking girl with none of the drama, even if there was I absolutely wouldn't leave because I have very real and deep feelings for my girlfriend. There are thousands if not millions of girls like her or better, as I said, you have to be willing to let her go first. we've got so many similarities and common interests which would be like 1/1000 in finding in another girl That's the problem, you think think she's unique and special and that blinds from making the de…
/r/askTRP06/07/17 04:49 AM
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I'm asking for your advice other than leaving the relationship seems pointless to give you advice if you're only going to accept what you want to hear. My advice is to move on. things can be fixed in many circumstances and there's many worse than ours. yeah there are, most of these relationships are toxics and people refuse to leave. she's my first LTR It's hard to let go of our first, but it's time to move forward man. Let me ask you this, would you stay in this relationship if you had another …
/r/askTRP06/07/17 04:23 AM
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You did the right thing, this deserves a hard next.
/r/askTRP06/07/17 03:42 AM
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Nope, her job is to spread her legs for you, how you get to that point is entirely reliant on you.
/r/askTRP06/07/17 03:39 AM
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You do not date her, she's at best a plate. "if it doesn't work out she'll find someone else" Sounds she has an abundance mentality, you need to have it too It's almost as if guys in her life are like a revolving door. who cares? she's not yours, it's just your turn. Enjoy your turn while it last. So, what do you in this situation? Do you just sleep with her and move on? Does dating her seem like a lost cause (which is what I want)? In your case, I wouldn't do anything. sounds like you have onei…
/r/askTRP06/07/17 03:36 AM
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with the name of "Boruto0990", probably hentai with tentacle monsters.
/r/askTRP04/07/17 07:40 AM
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Because It's all in their head, it's a buffer, they've rationalize the reason they can't get women is because they're indian (Something they can't change), when in fact it's just an excuse not to work hard on improving. They rather give up and make an excuse than put in the hard work like the rest of us. If they truly want help, the sidebar is this way ---------------------> Start at the beginning like everyone else.
/r/askTRP04/07/17 06:03 AM
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Run barry, run.
/r/askTRP04/07/17 12:10 AM
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"Why? I have you to do that for me"
/r/askTRP03/07/17 06:44 AM
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I disagree with mostly everyone, I think you did the right thing by not saving her a seat, If she wants a seat then she should get here on time like everyone else, what makes her so special? because she's a woman? too many guys are willing go out their way just for a shot at a girl. It's the way you did it that was wrong. You should have used amused mastery like " Sure, I'll put it on top of my do to list" with a sarcastic smirk or something like that. Just keep practicing.
/r/askTRP02/07/17 10:42 PM
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Would "You already know my answer" work better?
/r/askTRP09/05/17 02:27 PM
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If she's really interested, she'll reach out, trust me. But 2 times is the maximum times you should try, if it's still not happening, time to move on.
/r/seduction09/03/17 02:22 AM
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I met this girl the other day i asked her to go out and then she made an excuse and said she had some stomach pain problems. She's not interested, women who are interested will give you an alternate time she's available, if they can't make it.
/r/seduction09/03/17 01:09 AM
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You should be asking her out instead wasting time texting. Texting should always have a purpose, never text for the sake of texting.
/r/seduction08/03/17 09:05 PM
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In the example you gave she wasn't sure what she wanted because you weren't clear with your intentions and were not constantly escalating. We were bowling and I was using kino and escalating and she was very receptive, which also made me wondered when she said that if I should use the word date in the future.
/r/askTRP07/03/17 08:51 PM
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Are you saying asking to hang out is hiding your intention?
/r/askTRP07/03/17 08:49 PM
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obviously anorexic and at the doctor for problems associated with anorexia. Red Flag # 1 She gave me her email and said she doesn't answer phone. Red flag # 2. What's is this the 90's? who doesn't use their phone? Are you actually going to email her and ask out? Really? She was not interested, this is a nice way of letting you down. Come on man. Yet I really liked her. I really don't want to fuck this up. Why do you like her? why has she done to deserve that? Read the first link in the side bar …
/r/askTRP07/03/17 06:43 PM
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No, it isn't, that's how you don't put them on a pedestal and get oneitis.
/r/seduction28/02/17 01:34 PM
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Ignore the text then in a couple days text: " I'm going to x place at x time on x day, join me".
/r/askTRP27/02/17 02:26 PM
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Because guys like you put them on a pedestal. btw how Indian are you?
/r/askTRP25/02/17 05:45 AM
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We're both 20yrs old. Thanks for the input.
/r/askTRP13/02/17 04:54 AM
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No, but it could be a sign of scarcity mindset. From my own experience, I tend to start finding my female "friends" attractive when I'm not to talking to other women. It's just easier since I already know them and don't have to go to the process of approaching. Try to go on more dates with HB7s+ and see if you still feel the same way. If not, then it is scarcity mindset. It could also be you have an emotional connection with her, something you're not getting from HB8s. If you had an emotional co…
/r/seduction26/01/17 02:04 AM
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Message at 5 pm and she says she is busy. and then I messaged once more at 8 pm with another busy response. She gets home at 9.30 pm and responds with 'just got home' 'what are you up to' and I reply; 'at home' 'come'. Then no response. You got really desperate and needy towards the end, you acted like a man who had no options but to wait for this girl all day long. It's huge turn off to know that you are at her beck and call. Then left for another city and we have been talking for 3 weeks. Also…
/r/askTRP25/01/17 02:16 PM
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Started to talking to HB 1 month back. Jesus, Did you read the whole sentence? I swear people have the shortest attention span. he clearly meant he has been talking to hb for 1 month.. he just forgot the comma. Started to talking to HB, 1 month back.
/r/askTRP25/01/17 02:07 PM
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too wordy, looks likes he's trying way too hard. Just reply "thanks" then proceed to do your thing and whenever you're ready to hang out, text her again.
/r/askTRP21/01/17 02:21 PM
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This is the literal shitting where you eat lol. In all seriousness, if you see her outside of work or when she's leaving work, you could chat her up, otherwise I wouldn't bother with it. She is being paid to be nice to you, hence why she's being friendly, I wouldn't put a lot thought about the interactions with this girl, I'm pretty sure she gets hit on alot. You're probably started to find her attractive and got oneitis due to scarcity mindset, I would just focus on other women.
/r/askTRP21/01/17 01:32 AM
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How do I close this wound I gave her in an RP way that allows me to keep things open for future possibilities? You don't, you just move on with your life. That's the RP way. Don't give yourself false hope with "future possibilities", you probably want to keep her as an option in case you can't find anyone else to date, that's the wrong mindset. Besides you should never go back with an ex under no circumstances, focus on other aspect of your life and move forward. Talk to other women, there are p…
/r/askTRP16/01/17 04:48 AM
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Are you telling me that girls might reject you now, but take some real interest down the line? Don't give yourself false hope. Yes, it does happen, but you shouldn't only be friends with them hoping that happens. That's just oneitis in disguise. Be friends with them only because you want to and find them interesting as a person.
/r/seduction16/01/17 12:00 AM
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It sounds too much like oneitis and you have her on a pedestal, I could be wrong. I honestly think you're one of her beta orbiters who she lets go farther than the rest because you used to fuck her. Why are you spending so much time and effort with this chick you're not fucking?. My advice is to ghost for 5-7 days then ask to her hangout then try escalate, if she rejects it again, then move on. There are plenty of women out there, why are you wasting your time on this one?
/r/askTRP14/01/17 01:14 PM
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I'm going to PM you a link to a comment I'm thinking of. What's the link?
/r/askTRP07/01/17 03:56 AM
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It means stop being a pussy, and make a move already. You won't know till you try. Best of Luck!
/r/askTRP04/12/16 10:01 PM
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They get the D, that's all the gift they need.
/r/askTRP03/12/16 01:28 AM
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i feel like being a man is chasing after what you want and not stopping until you get it ? Partly true, but when it becomes an obsession, you need to walk away. Being a man is also knowing when to walk away.
/r/askTRP01/12/16 11:32 AM
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Did you try out for the spider-man in captain america: civil war? haha jk You should lift and update your fashion.
/r/askTRP27/11/16 11:07 PM
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So I've been red pill for a while now, even unknowingly red pilled through high school and college. Should I still keep her in my thoughts, should I keep this idea that one day we could have a future together? These statements contradict each other, if you were red pill you would know there is no such thing as the "one" or a "unicorn". You should forget about her and move on. If something happens in the future then that's great, if not, then at least you didn't put a hold on your dating hoping f…
/r/askTRP27/11/16 10:50 PM
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Yes, they might, but the girls they match you with will never be prettier/more successful/better than them. In fact some of them might sabotage when you get someone better than them. You're better off finding a chick on your own. Best of Luck!
/r/askTRP24/11/16 08:58 PM
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You just end it....who cares what she thinks if you're no longer having sex with her. Just move on to other chick.
/r/askTRP16/11/16 10:04 PM
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So this is not a 'this is my oneitis, how do i get her' type shit. I am well versed in red pill theory ( although still have a long way to go practically as evidenced by previous posts) These two statements and your story contradicts each other. This is oneitis, stop wasting time and move on. Best of Luck!
/r/askTRP16/11/16 01:53 PM
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In fact, it seems as though she more receptive to me than before. Red flag # 1 she said she is considering marrying her boyfriend and is very happy with her relationship Red flag # 2 She asked for a back rub, which I obliged her. Red flag # 3 Most recently, after I told her this past weekend how I feel, she's come spent a bunch of time in my room watching movies with me on my bed. Red flag # 4 I want her to consciously make the decision to end it with her boyfriend, without me having to say anyt…
/r/seduction16/11/16 06:09 AM
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No, going out there and living your life is an indicator of social value, someone who is important might have better things to do then be on facebook. Stop worrying social media nonsense and go out there and live your life.
/r/seduction16/11/16 05:57 AM
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No, go out there and interact with real people. Good Luck!
/r/seduction12/11/16 06:00 PM
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Fully leave it/her for good, or only escalate for the bang if she really presses for it? Is it worth it? Leave it for good, it's not worth the time or energy. She already has resisted three times. She's just looking to string you along for validation/attention.Move on and focus on other women. Good luck!
/r/askTRP28/10/16 05:58 PM
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Models by Mark Manson. No mr. Nice guy by Robert Glover. There's also a lot of good stuff in the sidebar.
/r/seduction22/10/16 10:24 PM
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You don't....You stay away from it. Never stick your dick in crazy.
/r/askTRP22/10/16 04:45 PM
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I cant seem to convey the cocky funny through text and basically Im just terrible at texting. If I was to talk to them on the phone or in person I'm a lot better because they can hear my tone of voice If that's true why not just call them instead? It seems like the best options for you. Don't text them if you don't want to, and use it to set up dates.
/r/askTRP22/10/16 03:02 AM
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It might not work since you're still complete stranger, but I say go for it, and see what happens. If things don't work out, don't dwell on it, and move on.
/r/seduction20/10/16 07:29 AM
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What can we tell tell you? the dating world The world ain't all sunshine and rainbows. It's a very mean and nasty place... and I don´t care how tough you are, it will beat you to your knees and keep you there permanently, if you let it. You, me or nobody, is gonna hit as hard as these women. But it ain't about how many times you can get flaked, ghosted or rejected... It's about how many times you can get flaked, ghosted or rejected and keep moving forward... how much you can take, and keep movin…
/r/askTRP20/10/16 04:59 AM
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We only exchanged a few messages till she stopped responding (after I gave her a response that didn't ask her a question). I personally think it's a waste of time. If she was interested, she would have tried to continue the conversation. Besides, put yourself in your her postion, if some random girl message you fb would you be incline to continue the conversation? But after looking at her profile I realize that she is definitely my type You can't possibly know that just by looking at her picture…
/r/seduction20/10/16 04:40 AM
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That's the health care field in a nutshell, It's all about playing politics lol. It's the only way to survive. I'm actually a PN going to RN school soon, thanks tho.
/r/askTRP19/10/16 03:45 AM
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Nah, you should never lower your standard just for some pussy, if the man wasn't feeling then he shouldn't force himself. Just because she's a plate doesn't mean he should ignore the things he didn't like, if the fucking is no longer fun, then it's time to leave regardless if she still wants it. It's about You not her.
/r/askTRP19/10/16 01:19 AM
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as a college student, TRP hes served me well but I am in need of advice. I hooked up with this girl a few times while out and she was clearly very attracted but we never really addressed it because we are in the same friend group. Why do you mean by 'hook up' in this context. I don't think you mean casual sex, which is the known definition. As for you question, who cares about the other guy, he's not her boyfriend, make a move.
/r/askTRP18/10/16 02:55 PM
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You're right, thanks for the advice.
/r/askTRP18/10/16 08:17 AM
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I usually do that when I'm not picking her up. My situation in the post usually happens when I'm picking the girl up, it wouldn't work. thanks tho. any other advice?
/r/askTRP18/10/16 07:54 AM
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As a former male student nurse, clinical was the worst part for me. There are so many people you have to suck up to. What I would do when they test me and I didn't know the answer, I would say " I actually don't know, could you please tell me?" then they would go on to tell me, then I would pretend to value what they were saying and make them feel important. That would keep them off my back for the rest of the day. Most people in those jobs want to feel important and make you feel inferior, just…
/r/askTRP18/10/16 06:24 AM
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Ok, thanks for the advice.
/r/askTRP18/10/16 05:48 AM
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Ok, Thanks for the advice.
/r/askTRP18/10/16 05:48 AM
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I wouldn't accept a job base on the prospect meeting women over a career I can advance in. Work and women should be separated. Ever hear the saying " Don't mix business with pleasure".
/r/askTRP18/10/16 05:45 AM
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If I were OP I wouldn't engage with this girl unless she broke up with the boyfriend. She would go on the back burner. I'm firm believer that if a woman willing to cheat with you, then she might eventually cheat on you. But I do see your point, she could be serious or not about OP. Only time will tell.
/r/seduction17/10/16 06:16 AM
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They want the same perks as a man while keeping the perks of being a woman, so you're not going see them paying for a meal on a date with a guy anytime soon.
/r/askTRP17/10/16 04:10 AM
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Possibly it's the new environment? if you don't now, then we don't know either....we're not mind readers. I suggest reading "models" by mark mason and " How to win and influence people" Best of Luck!
/r/seduction15/10/16 09:24 AM
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Just make your response dry or better yet, just don't answer the text. She hoping for a reaction, when you no longer answer or don't put as much effort in text, she'll eventually get the hint you don't like being lead on. when that happens, she'll try to get a reaction in person, when you see in person, keep it casual, don't make an effort to have a conversation with her. Just keep it to a greeting level.
/r/seduction15/10/16 12:07 AM
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This girl is using you for validation and as a back up plan. You don't want to be any woman second option. You're better than that. Don't ever believe when a woman says if you were she were this or that or if you were this, she would be dating you, it's complete bs. It's false hope to keep you orbiting/keep coming back. Besides would you really want to date a girl who acts like that while she has a boyfriend? one day that boyfriend could be you. My advice is to cut off contacts with this girl an…
/r/seduction14/10/16 08:51 PM
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Just reply " It's all good" then move on with your life man.
/r/askTRP13/10/16 04:52 PM
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Ok, I understand, then just ask out for coffee. I can't tell you when to go for kino, since every girl is different. Just go for it when it feels right, like if she says something funny, just touch her arms or something. Just pay attention to her body language and you'll know when to go for kino.
/r/seduction13/10/16 04:08 AM
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I believe you should ask to hang out and see what she says. If she says no and keep giving vague answers, then I would move on. What do you have to have to lose? If she says yes, then I would do an activity like bowling or something of the sort. I don't think coffee is a good idea since you said she's boring, it's just going to be you two talking. it might get awkward. Bowling would allow room for kino and have some fun to get her to loosened up. Good luck !
/r/seduction13/10/16 03:36 AM
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(Is this where I fucked up? Was this a "fuck me" sign?) I'm curious, what are fuck me signs?
/r/seduction11/10/16 02:24 PM
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