sandbarsunday Archive

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5	Question For The Men: Would you date or marry or even consider a relationship with an FDS woman? Except that none of those women make anywhere close to 50k.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/21 11:53 AM
2	More or less for the Red Pill Men: How long is too long without sex in a relationship and will you seek it elsewhere? "Oh wait, I was thinking she didn't want to have sex with me. In reality, I totally forgot she just gave birth!" Great argument. Really knocked it out of the park. Jesus christ.....	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/21 04:07 PM
2	More or less for the Red Pill Men: How long is too long without sex in a relationship and will you seek it elsewhere? No. I did not say that. Sex that isnt enjoyable solves nothing. My point is that a relationship is not the status quo.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/21 01:12 PM
2	More or less for the Red Pill Men: How long is too long without sex in a relationship and will you seek it elsewhere? Totally fine. She's not going to be in a relationship though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/21 01:03 PM
1	So if 85% of us are sleeping with 10% of the men, then how come we don’t see lines of women waiting outside the doors of these men? Yes	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/21 09:56 PM
2	So if 85% of us are sleeping with 10% of the men, then how come we don’t see lines of women waiting outside the doors of these men? You are reaching too far	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/21 09:47 PM
4	So if 85% of us are sleeping with 10% of the men, then how come we don’t see lines of women waiting outside the doors of these men? As with many things, those who benefit have learned to keep their mouth shut about it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/21 09:26 PM
1	At what point does a mans acquired economic power overtake a womans inherited sexual power? burned out by capitalism, money for luxuries, entertainment, and vacations Hmm	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/21 11:34 AM
1	At what point does a mans acquired economic power overtake a womans inherited sexual power? Pretty sure you just found the answer	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/21 11:33 AM
1	Spinning plates is not cheating When I was in high school it felt like cheating. When i got to college and people weren't as concerned with labels it was a lot easier. It all comes down to how you communicate your intent. If you are communicating that you are exclusive and not being so, then I consider that cheating. These days people, imo, are much less likely to label themselves, so spinning plates with a clear conscience is easier	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/21 09:50 PM
2	If You Want Prostitution Illegal, What's Your Reason Behind It Is it really a “choice” when they have next to no options? More option than the men have from the same area.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/21 09:37 PM
5	If You Want Prostitution Illegal, What's Your Reason Behind It Robert kraft was local to me. "Underage sex trafficking" the police cried! Oh wait, they're all 40 and here legally.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/21 09:34 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread One thing the bahamians are smart about is not letting tourists/companies/locals muck up the water or beaches. Those are always beautiful. Otherwise you get Haiti. I remember sitting on my patio in south Florida waiting for 36 hours for Dorian to hit and instead it just sat over the bahamas forever. They got really unlucky with that one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/21 01:25 PM
0	Daily Community Chat Megathread Fomo?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/21 12:36 AM
5	One reason people hate the red pill is because society, especially women, have a desire to keep people in their tier/league. Everyone on top wants to keep people below them in their league. I'm a guy and I want incels and betas to stay in their lanes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/21 12:13 AM
5	Daily Community Chat Megathread I went on a short cruise to the bahamas. Place is still wrecked from hurricanes years ago, and now their tourism is decimated. Rough.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/21 12:06 AM
2	Libido drop following childbirth well said	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/21 11:00 PM
1	When is "put out or get out" appropriate? If one person in the relationship decides this is the best course of action, yes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/21 06:07 PM
1	When is "put out or get out" appropriate? I can, and I do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/21 04:15 PM
1	When is "put out or get out" appropriate? Actually no, What exactly are you disagreeing with? You believe a relationship is entitled?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/21 04:01 PM
2	When is "put out or get out" appropriate? Sure, but then if it happens then they are not in a position to be in a relationship. A relationship is not the default or status quo.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/21 03:04 PM
4	When is "put out or get out" appropriate? Sounds like they have some issues to work out before they are ready to have a relationship	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/21 01:49 PM
1	A reminder as to why a lot of women really hate porn would have a real problem dating a man who could only get hard and orgasm You should try out for the Olympics with a leap like that	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/21 03:05 PM
3	Why has the amount of sexless men 18-30 increased more than the amount of sexless women 18-30? It really fits our lifestyle....	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/21 02:09 AM
1	"Don’t ask a fish how to catch fish, ask the fisherman" is horrible advice and I’ll explain why It’s so bad for my mental health Maybe you need to take a break	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/21 04:19 PM
1	Gabby Petito Mega-Thread That would honestly be an unsatisfying ending That's probably the point	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/21 03:28 PM
5	Gabby Petito Mega-Thread He is still not charged with her murder. they charged him with some bullshit financial crime. Which means they're grasping at straws. Not necessarily. Police often do this on high profile (and just standard murder cases). It allows them to hold the suspect in a cell while they gather more evidence and they don't have to tip their hand about what they already have. This is especially important when you have people that are on the outside that might help get rid of evidence. Further, if they charg…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/21 03:27 PM
1	Why should a woman choose to date a man she knows is using porn? wash their dick after sex I'm not sure you understand how this works	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/21 03:00 PM
2	Why should a woman choose to date a man she knows is using porn? I think we all know the answer to this	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/21 12:28 PM
1	Sex too soon True, she is getting a bit old.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/21 10:52 AM
-1	Men tend to be delusional about their sexual attractiveness no she’s not playing hard to get. Eh, I've had multiple occasions where I got the cold shoulder and then later heard the girl is obsessing over me and won't shut up about it to her friends. Usually the truth comes out right around margarita number 2.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/21 12:35 AM
3	Men tend to be delusional about their sexual attractiveness Because he is a robot	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/21 12:21 AM
1	Men tend to be delusional about their sexual attractiveness Yeah. I have an anecdotal example. Oh, I wonder what this is about. In my old dnd group Nevermind	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/21 12:05 AM
1	Plausible Deniability Does he have right-wing material? What are you expecting? 'Alt-right quarterly'?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/21 11:46 AM
1	Why do billionaires dumpster dive? Maybe they can handle a lot of cocaine and party all night instead of having to pay the butler to continuously dropping off overdosed girls at the hospital. Rich people party hard.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/21 07:28 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread I'm going to agree on the boat	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/21 02:40 PM
4	CMV: Women's choices do not make sense to men because most men do not understand women's sexuality. He's not a 10 to you. You just graded him as a 3. Can't argue with that	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/21 12:00 PM
13	CMV: Women's choices do not make sense to men because most men do not understand women's sexuality. But when redpill people say it, it's "mean"	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/21 10:26 AM
0	"Pornsickness" is exclusively a concern of undesirable women Lol it FDS had a sound, I just heard it Heavy breathing and chair legs quivering	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/21 01:23 PM
3	What does the romantic life of a betabux look like? Did I make a claim?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/21 02:14 PM
1	What does the romantic life of a betabux look like? Then call the whole thing off and they can stay in whatever country they came from	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/21 11:51 AM
2	What does the romantic life of a betabux look like? You're citing a 'reality' TV show? Really?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/21 11:50 AM
1	CMV: most men are secretly attracted to fat women Are you still here?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/21 06:17 PM
2	CMV: most men are secretly attracted to fat women No.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/21 11:26 AM
4	CMV: most men are secretly attracted to fat women "Most men" Your words.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/21 02:34 AM
3	CMV: most men are secretly attracted to fat women I know what I like and what I don't. I don't like fat women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/21 02:21 AM
8	CMV: most men are secretly attracted to fat women No, just no.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/21 02:11 AM
–	You are not getting sex because people don't want to have sex with you, the rest is just noise Ew, no	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/21 06:21 PM
–	Low Sexual Desire Is A Healthy Response To Lacklustre Sex Gross	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/21 01:14 AM
2	The new show 'Sex/Life' is one of the top shows on Netflix worldwide (US, UK, AUS, etc) since it's release. Is the extreme popularity of this show with its female audience, similar to best sellers like Twilight, 50 Shades of Grey and other media, yet another example of open hypergamy? I did not say that alpha widows are not unsatisfied. I said that unsatisfied was not the term I used in my original comment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/21 07:59 PM
4	The new show 'Sex/Life' is one of the top shows on Netflix worldwide (US, UK, AUS, etc) since it's release. Is the extreme popularity of this show with its female audience, similar to best sellers like Twilight, 50 Shades of Grey and other media, yet another example of open hypergamy? Unsatisfied is not the term I used.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/21 03:10 PM
6	The new show 'Sex/Life' is one of the top shows on Netflix worldwide (US, UK, AUS, etc) since it's release. Is the extreme popularity of this show with its female audience, similar to best sellers like Twilight, 50 Shades of Grey and other media, yet another example of open hypergamy? Wow. I'm literally not surprised.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/21 02:25 AM
3	The new show 'Sex/Life' is one of the top shows on Netflix worldwide (US, UK, AUS, etc) since it's release. Is the extreme popularity of this show with its female audience, similar to best sellers like Twilight, 50 Shades of Grey and other media, yet another example of open hypergamy? But what about me?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/21 12:42 AM
2	The new show 'Sex/Life' is one of the top shows on Netflix worldwide (US, UK, AUS, etc) since it's release. Is the extreme popularity of this show with its female audience, similar to best sellers like Twilight, 50 Shades of Grey and other media, yet another example of open hypergamy? Yes,exactly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/21 12:36 AM
29	The new show 'Sex/Life' is one of the top shows on Netflix worldwide (US, UK, AUS, etc) since it's release. Is the extreme popularity of this show with its female audience, similar to best sellers like Twilight, 50 Shades of Grey and other media, yet another example of open hypergamy? Remember when blue pillers used to say stuff like 'alpha widow? That's insane. That doesn't happen.' Now there's a Netflix show all about it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/21 12:35 AM
0	It's ok for a man to change his mind about wanting a relationship after he has sex with you, you are not entitled to commitment and people have the right to change their minds. You're no better than the men you criticize here. They're not getting sex or marriage	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/21 06:25 PM
1	The real reason some women hate Porn No	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/21 02:22 AM
1	Men have a preference for younger women? No	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/21 01:30 AM
1	Using game to "get" women is dehumanizing, a waste of everyone's time, and childish. It needs to stop. Like a dog that got into the garbage, you think hiding behind the couch means you haven't been caught.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/21 04:36 PM
1	Using game to "get" women is dehumanizing, a waste of everyone's time, and childish. It needs to stop. You aren't making point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/21 04:08 PM
1	Using game to "get" women is dehumanizing, a waste of everyone's time, and childish. It needs to stop. Is that what I said?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/21 03:58 PM
1	The real reason some women hate Porn I said it too	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/21 03:25 PM
2	What adds to n-count, in your opinion? I think penetrative sex counts. No, really?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/21 12:54 PM
1	What policies would you introduce to incentivise fathers to take parental leave and better support women to chase their career? Good for them	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/21 11:36 AM
5	Using game to "get" women is dehumanizing, a waste of everyone's time, and childish. It needs to stop. Someone agreeing to sex with you under false pretenses is exactly just like fraud, including theft. Are selfies that try to hide the fact that a girl is fat fraud?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/21 11:00 AM
1	Using game to "get" women is dehumanizing, a waste of everyone's time, and childish. It needs to stop. she doesn’t want to have casual sex. Using tactics and strategies to get her into bed anyway So she does want to have casual sex under the right circumstances. The guy can't make the decision for her.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/21 10:55 AM
3	Using game to "get" women is dehumanizing, a waste of everyone's time, and childish. It needs to stop. Those women don't have any money	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/21 10:40 AM
1	What policies would you introduce to incentivise fathers to take parental leave and better support women to chase their career? Oh, that will go over well	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/21 10:37 AM
1	What policies would you introduce to incentivise fathers to take parental leave and better support women to chase their career? Give people fully paid leave for a year. Only people that own companies and have employees can do this. Otherwise it's not yours to give.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/21 10:35 AM
–	I think it’s true- the more successful you are as a woman, the more you expect for men. It’s easier to just stay single We know. You mentiom it every other comment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/21 09:58 PM
–	I think it’s true- the more successful you are as a woman, the more you expect for men. It’s easier to just stay single It's the pnw so that wouldn't surprise me. Only so many vegan bookstore co-ops your friends are starting I can hear about before I get a phone call and 'something just came up. BTW, the number I can handle is zero.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/21 09:55 PM
–	I think it’s true- the more successful you are as a woman, the more you expect for men. It’s easier to just stay single Ew	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/21 09:53 PM
–	I think it’s true- the more successful you are as a woman, the more you expect for men. It’s easier to just stay single It's a high cost of living area	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/21 09:46 PM
–	I think it’s true- the more successful you are as a woman, the more you expect for men. It’s easier to just stay single Sounds like being alone might be a good long term plan for you, but most people enjoy the company of the opposite sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/21 09:43 PM
1	If you’re of average genetic physical looks and are “incel,” the actual “black pill” is that you are involuntarily romantically uninvolved because of your divergent personality and malsocialization. Agreed. If you don't have a big social network, then every interaction to you is going to manifest as a cold approach. Cold approaches are rarely successful except for very attractive people. They falsely conclude that only extremely attractive guys have any success talking to women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/21 04:47 PM
2	Woman don't consider overweight and obese woman to have as negative of a sexual marketplace value as men. Punching down looks bad on both genders	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/21 01:18 PM
–	Its easier for women to settle than men Who said anything about being entitled to anything?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/21 05:56 PM
–	Its easier for women to settle than men Hard disagree. Settling may be balancing different attractions, but not negotiating them. I can prioritize being skinny and healthy over being fat. I can choose to eat chicken and vegetables over eating cake because I am more attracted to being skinny than I am to being happy from food, but I will never be able to force my body to enjoy settling for vegetables the way I'd enjoy eating cake.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/21 05:08 PM
–	Its easier for women to settle than men "I think curvy women are hotter" No you don't. You just know they are more agreeable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/21 01:44 PM
–	Its easier for women to settle than men You can't negotiate attraction. You can't just swap which standards you are prioritizing. If you are trying to plan out your life and what features you think might make you more happy in the long run, sure, you can move money or status to the top of the list, but you can't trick your brain into thinking that you are viscerally attracted to those features. That doesn't mean people don't try, but they are fooling themselves.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/21 01:42 PM
1	Women have insanely narrow standards when it comes to PHYSICAL ATTRACTION Uh huh	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/21 11:32 AM
1	Women have insanely narrow standards when it comes to PHYSICAL ATTRACTION Uh huh	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/21 11:12 AM
1	Women have insanely narrow standards when it comes to PHYSICAL ATTRACTION Thats what every woman with low libido says.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/21 10:54 AM
1	Women have insanely narrow standards when it comes to PHYSICAL ATTRACTION That's okay. Some women have low libido.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/21 08:15 PM
2	Women have insanely narrow standards when it comes to PHYSICAL ATTRACTION Plenty of people get married out of convenience or arrangement, enough so that I wouldn't say that because people are married that the chances are good they were attracted to each other at one point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/21 08:15 PM
1	Women have insanely narrow standards when it comes to PHYSICAL ATTRACTION Head over to fanfiction.net No thank you	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/21 06:50 PM
2	Women have insanely narrow standards when it comes to PHYSICAL ATTRACTION Depends on the alternatives. Soccer players aren't big framed compared to football players, but compared to eastern men they are huge.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/21 06:49 PM
2	Women have insanely narrow standards when it comes to PHYSICAL ATTRACTION I think that is a bit of a leap	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/21 06:44 PM
5	Women have insanely narrow standards when it comes to PHYSICAL ATTRACTION It's something I've never experienced and most likely will never do. Some women just have low libido.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/21 06:18 PM
9	The same way women shouldn’t settle for bums. Men shouldn’t settle for women who don’t give them regular enthusiastic sex. Go to relationship advice and post "I don't feel my girlfriend is enthusiastic about sex with me. I think it's best if I leave". Go on. I'll wait.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/21 12:37 AM
1	Why blame women for hypergamy? False	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/21 10:07 AM
6	Why blame women for hypergamy? This is true about many aspects of trp. I've seen so many shifts from "this isn't true about women, you guys are nuts" to "yeah its true but so what?"	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/21 10:02 AM
1	Do we need political and economic change in order to et social change to happen? Ew	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/21 02:14 PM
0	Call Boys: Turns out men and women aren’t all that different after all Agreed	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/21 12:05 AM
2	[Q4ALL]Do you believe average/below average people overstate how easy dating is for hot people in their gender? Pretty women will still have a hard time locking down a man with serious money. Depends if he is smart enough to know when someone is just after his money. Some people are smart about it. Others....not so much.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/21 07:44 PM
0	Western women are the overwhelming object of interest of this subreddit, yet are a less significant demographic with each moment that passes, and will matter much less as time goes on That said, mate, I know some Brazillian women. Maybe it's the 'immigrant effect', but they're a hell of a lot easier company than homegrown American women. They can absolutely be better company, sure. The problem is you can't get more than a short conversation before "you have money, yes? We get married and I stay in your country okay?" Yes, I am exaggerating a bit, but it's still pretty bad. Full disclosure I live in an area of the US that has a large population of Brazilians that just might ha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/21 06:41 PM