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I've taken the test a few times, and I usually test INTP, but have on occasion tested INTJ. Seems those 2 are quite common here.
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/14 09:37 PM
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Oh yes. I actually love cooking, it's one of my favorite things to do.
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/14 08:16 PM
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When I was younger my grandmother lived with us and she cooked, but she wasn't much of a teacher. I actually never had to pick up after myself because my grandma would do it for us and my mom didn't really ever make us. After that my mom married my stepdad and we ate a lot of boxed food and fast food. I also don't really consider microwaved hotdogs and a can of chili 'cooking.' Spaghettios, Boxed macaroni, ramen, etc. I guess I will say she could fry up ground beef without burning it most of the…
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/14 11:28 PM
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My mom did that, too. Though she didn't know how to do any of those things and insisted I didn't either. To this day she cannot cook. I ended up teaching myself when I moved out. Set off the fire alarm so many times!
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/14 09:37 PM
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An hourglass is about balance between the hips and bust, if your bust measurement is that large, your hips and bust are not in balance. Plus, a 5 inch difference between your waist and hips is not really that big of a difference. Hourglasses typically have closer to a 10 inch difference with a bust measurement very close to that of the hips. You can say you're an hourglass all day long but taking advice meant for women who have a balanced silhouette will get you nowhere. That being said, look up…
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/14 04:59 PM
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With your measurements, you sound more like an inverted triangle than an hourglass. A 32gg would have you measuring 10+ inches more in your bust than your hips. Even with a defined waist, dressing for an hourglass figure will make you look extremely top heavy. The only way you are an hourglass is if that 29 in is actually your waist, and your hips are at least 38 inches. There are a trillion guides to dressing your body type. You're going to want your clothes to be darker and fitted on top to av…
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/14 04:35 AM
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Interesting. I should probably get a good SPF for my face before I go on vacation next week! Thank you for sharing!
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/14 04:26 PM
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I remove my make up with organic grape seed oil and then cleanse with origins brand saw palmetto cleaner morning and night, then moisturize with their coffee bean cream afterwards, plus a couple drops of Tamanu oil at night. I do a clay charcoal mask once a week as well. I've tried oil cleansing with with a few different oils and it just isn't enough for my acne. My foundation has SPF in it. Edit: I'm looking to add a chemical exfoliant, too! I've only been doing this routine a couple weeks befo…
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/14 01:29 AM
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Buy a garter belt and thigh highs. Wear it the next time you go out. Show him/ let him know at the beginning of the night, but no earlier than that. Trust me. Pigtails. I have a pair of color contacts waiting for the right moment, lol.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/14 05:47 PM
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I actually came here to say Michael Kors! I'm the unfortunate owner of wide feet, so I have no choice but brands that come in a wide. I bought some because I needed a pair of basic black heels in a wide and they were the only ones on Nordstrom's website that were simple, higher than 2 inches, wide, and not a few hundred dollars. Edit: forgot to add they're more comfortable than most of my shoes. Well, besides the usual heel ache after wearing them for several hours.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/14 05:23 PM
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I finally have something beautiful to contribute! Rose Petal Jam. Just in time for Easter, too! Absolutely divine on ginger snaps. I'm making some lavender lemonade too, but it won't be complete until the morning of. Made some strawberry butter, as well, like they have at Neiman's. Made about a pound of that, so I'm gifting out as much as I can. :) That quilt is gorgeous as well as the table runner.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/14 03:30 AM
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I have to agree, It is far more often that I see an overweight woman with an attractive man, than the other way around. I do see many more people who are heavy set with someone else who is as well, but I really can't remember the last time I saw an attractive women with a heavy set man, unless he was wearing a tailored suit, well groomed, and sitting at a restaurant that's $70+ a plate.
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/14 07:52 PM
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Its disappointing that the shaming is so overt, but she's doing porn while at university. Her being outed was obviously one of the consequences, and in an interview I read that she did she was aware of the environment surrounding sex at her school and at many other universities around the country. I really can't figure out what she thought was going to happen if somebody she knew saw it. However, the level of it is pretty childish, but she put herself out there and made it worse by trying to hid…
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/14 05:45 PM
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It really should. I mean, I'm no doctor, but the whole situation you're in sounds absolutely ludicrous.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/14 04:11 PM
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Lady here, pregnancy tests don't show up positive until about 2 weeks after ovulation, with many women it can be 3 weeks. While there is a small chance her body could be pumping out crazy hCg, its unlikely.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/14 06:47 PM
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There are pluses and drawbacks to any choice. Growing up as a girl, its nearly impossible to NOT have the drawbacks of having children young beaten into you. What people go so far as to shelter girls from is that biologically speaking, their early to mid twenties will be the easiest time in their lives to become pregnant, carry the pregnancy and care for young children.
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/14 08:18 PM
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Hormonal birth control also inhibits the sex drive of lots of women.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/14 11:42 PM
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I'm over at RPW, but I've seen this discussed in more feminism-oriented subreddits and the consensus is almost completely positive. The general consensus, even among feminists, is actually, "FINALLY! WE DON'T SHOULDER ALL THE RESPONSIBILITY!" I personally, cannot wait, and am really interested in possible side effects. Hormonal BC really does have its downsides, especially in a committed LTR, and I know its really rare, but I've actually had a couple friends who had issues with IUDs. I really do…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/14 11:39 PM
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I've always taken a bit of an issue with the whole 'don't judge' mindset. It just seems counter-intuitive to me. Yes, one should always keep an open mind and not let your judgement blind you, but our brains automatically make judgments for a reason. You should always give someone a chance to prove your first impression wrong, but first impressions are considered important for a reason and I think its smart to be mindful of how people come off until they prove you otherwise. Often times I find th…
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/14 07:32 PM
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Yeah, I think I force fed myself the red pill after watching my mom turn my awesome stepdad coming out of a bad marriage into a house trained pet who gets yelled into submission regularly, over the last 10 years. He just kind of shrugs it off but its pathetic the way she treats him. I've lost all respect for her, especially recently, its like she's become a different person. She used to really respect him, and now she'll complain that he never helps out or anything, but I go stay with them and h…
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/14 05:36 PM
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reddit is basically beta heaven.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/14 11:45 PM
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People kind of seem to disagree, I personally think its okay to bring your wit to the table if you got it. That being said, you should tread lightly and NOT steal the show, even if you think everyone will love it. danabanana9 is right, in that being comical is competitive for men, and a man isn't going to want to constantly compete with with his girlfriend every time you guys are around other people, even if he appreciates your humor, it comes off as emasculating in front of others.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/14 11:42 PM
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A side note on the wrestling, if you're wrestling with guy friends often, it could possibly be a huge turn off, or seen as a 'red flag.' I would have a huge issue with my SO wrestling a female friend, and I imagine that street runs both ways. I don't think an alpha guy looking for exclusivity is going to go for a girl who regularly puts herself in such a close and tense physical situation with her guy friends. I wrestled guys sometimes for fun in high school. Even if YOU don't feel anything inhe…
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/14 11:35 PM
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Excuses only sound good to the one saying them! This last year I've finally stopped trying to be happy with my miserable self and started to MAKE MYSELF into someone I LIKE AND RESPECT. Changing ways you've been set in, or things you were raised to believe is challenging, but its not impossible.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/14 11:24 PM
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http://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/1x1284/if_any_of_you_hens_find_trp_to_be_a_little_too/ I would wager its mostly men who've just found out about the red pill, or dudes that have been burned by the worst of the worst. I personally agree that it's a bit upsetting, but many women are seriously entitled bitches who emasculate the men in their lives. I literally see it almost everywhere.
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/14 01:13 AM
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INTP. Complete Introvert. Moderate preference Of intuition and thinking over sensing and feeling, respectively. Slight preference of perceiving over judging. I've taken this test lots of times and this is pretty much always my result, though the P has been a J but it was only once. I feel like it very much so represents who I am. My fiance has to be E_FJ. Looking at a chart, we are either incompatible or he's a good supervisor for me, lol. He seems to need a lot more reassurance than I do or des…
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/14 05:20 PM
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You're welcome. :)
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/14 11:52 PM
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I'm an INTP. I'm very quiet and naturally sit back and mostly listen to what others say. One thing rpw keeps reiterating is to keep your composure in regards to alcohol, but I've found that with my personality I have to be right on the line of too much to be any sort of fun with people I don't know very well. If this really doesn't work for you, disregard. I just know that when I'm in a group of people I don't know too well and I'm sober, I can easily go all night just listening to others and I'…
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/14 10:48 PM
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Getting back into the swing of housework. I'm expecting, and I'm just coming out of the first trimester and I'm starting to feel like myself again, FINALLY. Speaking of which, I need to get my butt up and play catch up with the dilapidated mess of a home which is the house in which my family resides :/. I'm also going to try to focus on my art again. I've been so tired and sick, I haven't felt it at all. Also, looking half-way decent when my fiance gets home. Yesterday was the first time I've tr…
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/14 06:48 PM
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Me too, girl. I had female friends, but we've drifted apart or they became bad influences and blurred what I really wanted by being so insistent on what they wanted for me.
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/14 02:14 AM
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Not really a tradition, but Vday kinda serves as an anniversary to the start of us being a couple. It was so cheesy, he asked me if I'd be his valentine and gave me a sweet little hand-made card, and I have been ever since. We don't do anything special, just maybe something small, or heart-felt. This year I got him a little metal pin that has to do with his artist nickname. He wears a hat everyday with metal pins on it, anyway I found one on ebay for cheap, free shipping, and even though it was …
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/14 12:08 AM
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Oh I agree with your sentiment about it not being 'off,' I was mostly just saying that in response to what was posted above, since it seemed she was insinuating that situation would upset her or that it should upset her when receiving a gift from someone shouldn't EVER be considered a red flag. My fiancé is quite the artist and honestly things he makes himself blow anything he could buy me out of the water. I actually save things like cards kind of by default, but I do still have it, ;).
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/14 03:22 AM
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The thing is, those 'tests' mentioned are all thoughtful ideas. Why would a hand made card or flowers picked from outside make a woman run? I'm somewhat new to this subreddit, but the common thread amongst the women that post here is a distaste for the spoiled attitude most women have in relation to men. I guess it would feel off if you spent a good amount of money and he bought you a candy bar, however, having been in that exact situation on Valentine's day with a man I love that I would go on …
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/14 02:26 AM
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Yes, Yes, and yes. I'm engaged right now and we are doing 1 ring for me, and 1 for him. We've found rings we absolutely love, seriously I wouldn't trade mine for a 10k ring, and we're buying both for less than $800, and that's actually an over estimate. I have never understood the whole engagement ring and proposal deal, or the ridiculous money people spend on weddings.
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/14 01:50 AM
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I'll admit, kids do change things. You may be more tired, and not in the mood as often, but if anything, after having children our sex life has just gotten better. I may not want to have sex nearly as often as before, but its gotten incredibly better. I think women have a hard time feeling sexy when they have to be a mom most of the day, so when confronted with the idea, its hard to turn mommy mode off. If you have a good sex life now, there's no reason that has to change, except at first, becau…
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/14 10:31 PM
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A thousand times this. I'm young yet and have made more than my fair share of mistakes because I've continued to deny what will truly make me happy. When you do things out of love, instead of selfishness, everything falls into place.
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/14 10:19 PM
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Don't worry too much about the age difference unless it MAKES a difference. If you love being around him, its just that simple. People will always want to tell you you're wrong if what you're doing is different from the status quo. And its VERY possible to be intelligent and feminine. If your brains make you feel masculine, work on framing how you say things to be more graceful. Young, fashionable, funny AND smart? Sounds to me like the total package.
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/14 10:13 PM
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I agree. With short hair, I feel like I HAVE to style it, where as with longer hair it can usually look fine with a good brushing.
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/14 07:51 PM
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