sandwichandtortas Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
20	Who do you deal with your partner's high pressure jobs?		sandwichandtortas	/r/RedPillWomen	15/06/24 06:35 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Is this okay? No, it's not ok. That's assault. Physical touch should always be consensual. If you're feeling nervous or have second thoughts, it's always better to step back and walk away. A real man will never pressure you to do anything. The reason it's ok to submit and rely to your husband/long time boyfriend, is because you (and probably your loved ones that gave their blessing to the relationship) have already analyzed, vetted and trust your partner and their decisions to be good ones. You cannot put you…	/r/RedPillWomen	13/11/24 12:19 AM
1	Do you wear high heels if you around the same height as you’re boyfriend ? I'm biased because my 1.65m dad married my 1.76m mom, but I frankly don't care. My father says he's like Tom Cruise (when he was married to Nicole Kidman). They are a very conservative couple. I think masculinity comes from within, and I prefer my men to be manly in the ways that compete them (protection, provider, strong) rather than something given by nature they have no input too. My partner is my height, and he loves when I wear heels.	/r/RedPillWomen	12/11/24 11:34 PM
15	As a single woman, is this normal? Wondering if I have high expectations My partner has driven me one hour one way, waited for me in my car for two and a half hours, and back home because I had a work appointment in a shady part of town during midday, let alone at night. A real man will protect you and try to make your life easier, so I don't think its high expectations in that case.	/r/RedPillWomen	07/11/24 08:54 PM
4	How did you all approach pregnancy? I've already read a lot of wonderful advice regarding taking it slow and managing better logistics in your home, so I'll give you some tips regarding not looking like a blob: - Nice showers will make you look clean and presentable, smell nice, calm you and pamper you, so don't skip them. - Try to buy long, soft, comfy dresses instead of pants and atheisure. Fortunately colder months are ahead so you'll find lots of sweater dresses. For warmer times, cotton dresses, such as the Pippa dress from S…	/r/RedPillWomen	03/11/24 04:53 AM
15	Dating apps to meet men for marriage I met mine on tinder. It all depends on how you act: if you swipe right at the handsome bachelor whose profile is full of party or accept an invitation to his apartment on a Thursday at 11:00pm, chances are he isn't your better half. Take your time, don't rush to meet anyone, talk, vet and pay attention to what you're looking for: great universities, traveled, smiling, interesting bio, pictures with his family. I avoided any mention of alcohol (I do drink in moderation), drugs, parties, one nigh…	/r/RedPillWomen	26/09/24 06:31 AM
4	For those of you ladies who wear makeup I do, I really like how I look with makeup on. I have a daily routine I usually do on my way to work and takes a few minutes: Concealer in my undereye and nose, the same shade of my skin (usually Armani Powerfabric, as it is self setting so I don't need powder on top) Blush (stila convertible in peony) Brow gel (glossier brow gel) Mascara (Maybelline Sky High) Lipcolor (this I vary, but it's usually a tinted lipbalm or a soft lipstick that doesn't a lot of effort, such as Glossier Generation G i…	/r/RedPillWomen	20/09/24 03:40 PM
1	Should I withhold sex till marriage? Is the course Foccus? If not, you could look into it. Its a pre-marriage inventory endorsed by the Catholic church to evaluate compatibility, goals, values, finances, sex, etc. it may really help you.	/r/RedPillWomen	24/05/24 07:27 PM
9	Should the man travel first in long distance relationships? I concur, if they were friends or at least acquaintances with relatives in common, maybe the risk would be worth it. But going that far to meet a stranger? Way too risky.	/r/RedPillWomen	16/05/24 04:44 AM
3	Women, how do you find balance when there is so much on social media of women speaking badly of men or claiming they all cheat? And what are your thoughts on shera seven, she stays this.. I really don't believe all men cheat. Of course many do, but not all. My father, some uncles (not others, my dad had even told me who are the cheaters) and make friends are faithful, of course I won't put my hands on fire but everything in the way they live makes me trust their integrity. And men aren't dumb, they know when someone is just there for their money, and i believe they treat her accordingly. Once, a female patient of mine died after some time in the ICU. Her husband, who had been vis…	/r/RedPillWomen	14/04/24 08:08 PM
8	My Husband (43) of 7 Years Won't Remind me of Things I (43) Said I'd do By doing the contrary, things like "Ohhh look, daddy hasn't had time to do his laundry, lets help him doing it" and "let's get the living room tidy, so papa can relax and find all in order". Make her live in a place when everyone is actively doing things better and easier for the others, to spoil and be spoiled.	/r/RedPillWomen	09/08/23 12:36 AM
5	How can you cope with being a “low value” woman, or can you compensate for it in other ways? Sorry if it sounded like I was insulting the community, I don't and I identify with it. But I can't ignore that many people post extremist/men's red pill comments that denigrate women to a thing. I just wanted to reassure OP she isn't less than others. I'll be more thoughtful with the way I write.	/r/RedPillWomen	05/08/23 02:27 AM
6	Should I pick out his clothes? There are certain topics that traditionally men will rely on women because we're the "experts", and fashion is definitely one of them. (Hair styling, skincare, over the counter medication, laundry, food preservation are others.) Think of it as a CEO of a company and a plant engineer: the CEO is the boss, but he beeds to ask and rely on the knowledge of the subordinate that in certain aspects know more about a subject. I find what your boyfriend is doing is very considerate, as he wants to make a…	/r/RedPillWomen	18/07/23 06:31 PM
1	Women who love to wear dresses - what do you wear in the winter? There's some great "tights" that are made from polar fleece and then a black layer of cloth. They look great and are very warm. Amazon has a lot of these ones. With a knee length wool dress and boots I look feminine and feel comfortable.	/r/RedPillWomen	17/07/23 08:01 PM
2	Age difference in relationships I've never been attracted to someone not my age, every partner has been between 2 years younger and 2 older. I like being in the same stages of life.	/r/RedPillWomen	12/07/23 09:42 PM
3	Is still a real relationship? I hope so, because my SO and I live in separate continents. I think it depends on how often you see the other partner (the most we have been separated is 32 days), how often we chat/talk (daily and a long chat of 3-4 hours once or twice a week), and the goals of which one is moving where, boundaries and expectations are clear from the beginning.	/r/RedPillWomen	10/07/23 07:53 PM
2	Boyfriend traveling with a female friend without telling me. Is this wrong or I'm just being over? Same, maybe not a romantic affair but at least a "friend with benefits" relationship. I have many male friends and have gone a +1 to weddings and trips with them, but never while one of us was in a relationship. Yes, breaking this off will hurt OP, but staying will only hurt her more, he doesn't care about her and the "he never says sorry" also it's a very bad character indicator.	/r/RedPillWomen	28/06/23 03:26 PM
1	I'm all about compromising in a relationship, but I couldn't handle this one. Should have I done more? You need to read the book "how to break your addiction to a person" by Howard m Halpern. It can be found online in pdf form or bought in thrifts books dot com for less than 5usd. The relationship you had was completely abusive, and need to end those feelings and take care of your self asap. I send you the biggest hug in the world.	/r/RedPillWomen	08/03/23 02:54 AM