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That’s even more confusing 😮
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 05:24 PM
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A lack of financial contribution does not make a partner useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 12:39 PM
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If the alternative is to die alone, I think calling these guys “losers” is unhelpful. How many times does a person overestimate themselves in other contexts and then corrects course? This is essentially what’s happening in this scenario but because of gender relations it seems we’re mucking up the water with misplaced moral judgements.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 08:08 PM
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Why is it bad? Seems pretty rational to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 01:50 PM
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Actually, what I’ve found is that men who are assholes and end up divorced tend to stay alone on account of being assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 12:14 PM
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I didn’t know sexual attraction was logical. Seems kind of a wild thing to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 07:34 PM
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None of us actually knows anything about this. We only have our own subjective experiences. We are all equally ignorant and wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 03:37 PM
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Gotta fight for the right to be a slob apparently
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 01:22 PM
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Almost 😉😆
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 12:08 PM
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I’m so curious what “men are supposed to do” means here
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 11:45 AM
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And the women who are agreeable end up used and discarded 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 11:44 AM
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Why does it matter? If a woman chooses a bear, now you know to stay away from that woman. Win for you, win for the woman.
/r/MensRights22/05/24 01:46 PM
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Delulu
/r/MensRights11/05/24 12:30 AM
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A woman’s only natural predator are men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 01:34 PM
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I assumed so. That’s why I brought up the examples of asking for directions or approaching a store attendant to ask where an item is in a store. I think it’s some sort of aversion to asking stemming from a perception that receiving help is “weakness.”
/r/MensRights08/01/24 10:55 PM
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I think you’re right. I think a lot of that is outside our individual control. But, something that is in my control is my capacity to encourage the men in my life to take better care of themselves. Right now, the biggest hurdle I have in getting the men in my life to go for a regular check up is even agreeing with me about the importance of checkups. Or, if they agree, they make no real effort to follow through. I feel like broken record and I know it’s ineffective to keep doing it this way but …
/r/MensRights08/01/24 09:22 PM
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I see, I think our difference in approaches here is that your perspective utilizes a gender binary and mine does not. I understand what you mean now. Do you feel that if there were more $$$ invested into “men’s diseases,” men would more consistently seek treatment?
/r/MensRights08/01/24 08:49 PM
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I’m not sure I understand. What is considered a woman’s disease? What is considered a man’s disease?
/r/MensRights08/01/24 08:34 PM
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Ever tried to get a man to go to the doctor? Or ask directions? Or ask a store attendant for help finding and item? I agree with your point, but I’m inclined to think it’s men neglecting their health in the form of having an aversion in asking for help which might account for a lot of that difference in medical spending. Acknowledgment that it might be a result of cultural expectations of what makes a man.
/r/MensRights08/01/24 03:34 PM
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Sometimes you have to. Lots of men choose to ignore “no.”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 01:38 AM
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It’s not called “the world’s oldest profession” for nothing
/r/MensRights17/12/23 08:00 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 06:50 AM
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I don’t think I understand. Responsible contraception includes abortion. Abortion is a legitimate tool for family planning. So is abstinence. Everybody should have equal access and exercise personal responsibility in family planning regardless of gender.
/r/MensRights16/12/23 05:23 AM
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I’m not sure what you mean, responsible contraception includes abortion. Abortion is a legitimate tool for family planning.
/r/MensRights16/12/23 05:19 AM
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I don’t think it is sexist to say that to women. Everybody who has sex should be responsible for their own contraception regardless of gender.
/r/MensRights16/12/23 02:12 AM
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It wasn’t obvious to me. I thought there was something I missed. I don’t agree with that take. Ultimately, the guy has the decision in whether or not to wrap it up. It’s not 100% fool-proof, but if more men exercised their right to contraception that would help solve the issue too.
/r/MensRights15/12/23 11:46 PM
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What life saving medical procedures are illegal for men to obtain in certain states?
/r/MensRights15/12/23 07:19 PM
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Y’all out here worrying about child support, abortion is a solution 😆
/r/MensRights15/12/23 02:49 AM
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I think that only works with a very narrow lens I.e monogamy.
/r/MensRights27/10/23 12:08 AM
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Weird to bring her feelings about her body count into it. She sounds like a trash human being for all of the reasons you mention except that.
/r/MensRights22/10/23 01:49 PM
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For every broke old guy with a young woman is a broke old woman with a young dude. I made my comment assuming we were going to focus on the most common types of age-gap relationships which are old rich men and young women sometimes girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:46 AM
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You’re forgetting that old men need money to have young girlfriends. It’s never been about consent, it’s always been about exploiting positions of power.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 04:26 PM
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First, I'd like to say that I've really enjoyed our conversation. It has given me an opportunity to grapple with some tough questions and I appreciate your responses. Thank you for this good-faith discourse! I believe that an older man successful in his vocation but unsuccessful romantically seeking a relationship with a younger woman is still exploitative because the power dynamics are in his favor due not only to life experience, but also by having more economic, vocational, and financial stab…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 09:44 PM
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I think we need to make an important point of clarification here: when I talk about experience, I'm talking about life experience. I get the impression that when you talk about experience, you're referencing sexual experience. This is a huge difference in the way we approach things. I do not prioritize sexual experience to the degree that you do. I personally, don't believe sexual experience matters much. I understand that people who have little or no sexual experience can be intimidated by thos…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 03:20 PM
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I think these are good points. I'm going to do my best to address them. We'll see if what I'm saying makes sense or if I'm overlooking something. For clarification, I'm using "older man" to mean 35yrs+ old man, and "younger woman" to mean 25yrs (or less) old woman. ​ For most men on here I would say it's a lack of experience with women themselves Do you mean that these differences in expectations and perspectives prevent men from dating successfully within their cohort? Because if an older man n…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 09:52 PM
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I am very interested in your perspective. What reasons could a man past the age of 30 have for dating someone 25 or younger that are not influenced by how the inherent dynamics of power and control are favorable to him over the other party? I understand your argument about grooming, I prefer to think of it in terms of exploitation anyway. I’ll use those terms from here on out. I do have a lot of experience with older men who want to date younger women. My personal belief is that generally, all m…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 08:33 PM
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I would describe grooming as behavior towards someone that predisposes and prepares them for exploitation.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 08:05 PM
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I think that’s a good conversation to have but it feels a bit like ordering a taco and it comes with everything but the meat. Kind of changes things in a way that makes me wonder how practical the conversation is. I’ve been in sex work the majority of my life, so my thoughts are heavily colored by that experience. This is sort of the way I assess it: people (regardless of sex or gender) 25 and younger are off limits for people 30+ under all circumstances bc (in my very subjective opinion) that i…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 06:27 PM
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I think this approach fails to take grooming into consideration.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 05:56 PM
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We all know engineering is a field dominated by men. I was talking about engineering. The majority of people in engineering, who we all know are men because engineering is a male-dominated field, don’t know how to play nice.
/r/MensRights09/11/22 03:14 PM
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I’m glad we agree that our experiences are not the average experience. Medicine having been a male-dominated field in stem as the basis for our approach for how/why to motivate female enrollment is useful but not the end-all-be all that I feel you are implying. It’s not “it was this way for X so it has to be the same for Y.” X and Y (medicine and engineering) are different. They have many similarities but also many differences. I’m only remarking that the differences in the two may mean that we …
/r/MensRights09/11/22 01:03 AM
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Obviously.
/r/MensRights08/11/22 11:25 PM
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I am not making shit up. I have a different experience than you do. We can both have different experiences of reality that are accurate. I.E just because you have never seen or heard of something that I have does not mean that thing is made up. It means you haven’t heard of or seen it. The conversation about medicine is a red herring. Medicine is one field encompassed in STEM. We can use female recruiting in medicine to help inform us about female recruiting but that does not mean all female rec…
/r/MensRights08/11/22 11:23 PM
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I will absolutely take your word and assessment on what DJRhymLight has said beyond the comment I responded to. I haven’t seen anything else and won’t comment on DJRhymLight’s other posts or comments because I have not seen them. My comment was in agreement and support of the comment this thread is attached to. Nothing more.
/r/MensRights08/11/22 11:18 PM
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All people need each other. Everyone is entitled to human respect and dignity. People who feel they are entitled to more than that should work to get passed that.
/r/MensRights08/11/22 11:14 PM
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That’s fair, you are entitled to believe whatever you want.
/r/MensRights08/11/22 07:01 PM
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I think it’s pretty obvious that this is a silly argument.
/r/MensRights08/11/22 06:59 PM
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Im not sure how they are supporting anti-male discrimination. They didn’t even reference the article in the post. They’re talking about social factors that contribute to why there are less women in engineering.
/r/MensRights08/11/22 05:06 PM
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I disagree. Plenty of women want to be engineers but after spending time with men who are engineers decide it’s better for their long-term health and well-being to do something else because the toll it takes on a woman to be in a room full of male engineers is unreasonable. I think it is getting much better with time and slowly more women will be a part of those spaces. It’s not about capacity to do engineering, it’s about the capacity to deal with constant bullying from colleagues.
/r/MensRights08/11/22 05:03 PM
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Idk why you’re getting downvoted. This is an accurate representation of reality. Women don’t go into engineering because engineering is full of men who don’t understand how to play nice.
/r/MensRights08/11/22 03:30 PM
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