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sansknickers/r/ExRedPill13/09/23 06:04 AM
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Fuck knows. Anything men feel insecure about they’ve got something to sell you for it. Something something power play, something something cuck, something something kick her to the curb. Bla bla bla.
/r/ExRedPill24/03/24 01:48 PM
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I can assure you not all men feel this way (apart from seeing teens as ideal sexual beings)
/r/ExRedPill09/10/23 05:50 AM
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No. But the be honest I don’t understand guys who chat with these girls and think the girls give a fuck about them back. Pay your money, feel you are seeing something not publicly available and blow your load. Buying them gifts is a little sad, but Simp is a bullshit word. r/Simps
/r/ExRedPill03/10/23 05:47 AM
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And what is your advice?
/r/ExRedPill21/09/23 01:29 PM
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Did they ASK for advice?
/r/ExRedPill21/09/23 11:51 AM
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Not much online, no. I don’t think they know or care and just wanna be in a relationship.
/r/ExRedPill21/09/23 07:55 AM
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No, women are in their 40s, dating men in their late 30s.
/r/ExRedPill21/09/23 05:56 AM
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Who?
/r/ExRedPill21/09/23 05:36 AM
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Oh, I know. I found the love of my life pursuing her best friend. However, saying you will only find love when you stop looking is pretty hopeless advice. Am I to pretend I don’t want it? Distract myself? I’ve tried that. Trying to ignore your will and desire leads to dangerous places. It usually leads to suppressed bitterness. Two years ago I was in peak physical condition, new career and didn’t even think about a relationship. Guess what? Still got ignored. “Ignore women and they’ll come runni…
/r/ExRedPill18/09/23 05:38 AM
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Their idea of a "successful man" is one who has sex with hundreds of girls and has lots of money. Well, that's not my issue. I would happily have married my first girlfriend. Money I have no interest in (which might an area where red pill is kinda on point, thought it's not their original thought: have no interest in money also means I'm a poorer provider and many girls today are interested in a very comfortable life style.) I've lived on next to no money in periods of my life and was MUCH happi…
/r/ExRedPill16/09/23 08:44 PM
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Read some Nietzsche
/r/ExRedPill16/09/23 08:34 PM
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I have hobbies. And a dog. And I’m teaching myself German. My days are full. Still pain because it all feels meaningless without Her.
/r/ExRedPill16/09/23 05:24 PM
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A relationship will not solve my need for love, but it won’t hurt. Dinner will not solve my hunger forever but it’s better than starving to death. It’s very true that this puts too much pressure on a relationship (however I know of others who have achieved it) and lead to relationships breaking down. But I don’t know how to solve that. If I was given a chance I would be less clingy and spend time alone to alleviate the pressure in the relationship. I guess. The idea of being in a social group se…
/r/ExRedPill15/09/23 06:40 PM
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The assessment was based on the way they dressed and acted. All childhood friends have changed their lives and lost interest in my friendship. My oldest friend is now a rabid red piller and covid denier (which has strained our relationship)
/r/ExRedPill15/09/23 05:29 PM
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Which assessment? Loneliness? Never been much into friendships and very much appreciate solitude. The loneliness is only in terms of female affection. To psychoanalyse: I grew up with a mother incapable of love (sociopath) so I guess I try to find a woman who will show me affection.
/r/ExRedPill15/09/23 05:13 PM
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Then what solution is there when rejection send me into crippling self-hatred every time? And it takes me months to recover? I’m still not convinced my feelings make me a chauvinist. Seems a little simplistic. But I guess there is no way I can impart how constant rejection turns to resentment. To make matters worse, every girl I’ve dated has technically liked me less and less the more she got to know me. That sounds fatalistic, and might be true of all relationships that end. But, to return to r…
/r/ExRedPill15/09/23 05:10 PM
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By “posh” I mean clearly wanting a nice middle class life of nice things. Lots of make up and shopping. I.e wanting a man who earns a lot and doesn’t care about the environment and a low-consumer lifestyle. The problem is I’m not good at approaching women and after moving have no friends. So clubs and bars are out (alcohol helps but I quit drinking because I’m unable to moderate my intake). Dating apps, ironically, is the only way I’ve ever gotten a date (both long term partners basically took t…
/r/ExRedPill15/09/23 05:05 PM
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Your solution is to just be sad all the time? A therapist once told me anxiety is better than depression, because anxiety has energy, depression is dead.
/r/ExRedPill15/09/23 02:25 PM
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Ok. This section was meant to be antagonistic but I gotta admit that I’m realising that feeling “wronged” is a weird place my head has gone. So imma definitely gonna chew on that one for a while. Damn good point. 1-0. But regardless, I will not agree I somehow see women as non-human. Im not angry when my dog doesn’t return my love for instance. I am angry precisely BECAUSE they are human. They have free will and their will is never directed towards me. Not because I am entitled to it, but someho…
/r/ExRedPill15/09/23 02:07 PM
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What?
/r/ExRedPill15/09/23 01:59 PM
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Fine. I shouldn’t have used black as an example. I put my hands up. What I am talking about is a SENSE of never being seen as a being of equal value, of being seen as a mistake. If someone not worthy of affection, respect or desire.
/r/ExRedPill15/09/23 01:57 PM
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Im not saying they are comparable, I’m saying the pain is comparable in terms of a sense of being seen as lesser humans.
/r/ExRedPill15/09/23 01:54 PM
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How is that messed up?
/r/ExRedPill15/09/23 01:22 PM
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I don’t deserve this person or that person specifically, but I do deserve love, right? Not saying I’m entitled to it. Love, sex and relationships are not RARE things. How is someone rejected by every woman meant to feel then? Ignore it? Pretend it’s fine? Be happy alone? Watch every friend and family member in long term relationship while I go home and lay alone in my bed masturbating and not care? Be pitied by everyone. Surely the hatred comes from them? Every woman who considers me sub human. …
/r/ExRedPill15/09/23 11:45 AM
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I don’t quite see that conclusion. I think the pain turned into rage at some point because there was too much of it. And it is not «some», it is all women (so far). If a Black person sees only white people get a job, is he not entitled to be upset? Of course women are human and they decide who they want to be with. But when they all find me not good enough it’s hard to keep feeling fine about it. Or do I not deserve love?
/r/ExRedPill15/09/23 11:16 AM
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I have avoidant personality disorder which explains a lot of my fear of rejection but also my feeling of being sub-human and avoiding talking to people so they don’t have to be subjected to such a biting person COUPLED with a crippling need for a special connection with someone. As for therapy: I hear you, but I’m done. Therapy has helped a lot, my last therapist helped a lot with my depression, but between the money and taking time off work and seeing 6-7 therapists I’m done with therapy. Three…
/r/ExRedPill15/09/23 05:44 AM
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Tried dog classes but all the girls were in long-term relationships and super “posh”.
/r/ExRedPill15/09/23 05:33 AM
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Good question. Maybe because I grew up with an abusive mother and feel I don’t deserve anything else?
/r/ExRedPill15/09/23 04:05 AM
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It would be silly, but people are entitled to their opinions. And I'll put my hands up that it was a stupid reaction, and an emotional one. And it's NO excuse and I dont expect sympathy, but if you feel like women are sleeping with every other guy out there (I know they are not!), walking around half-naked in the summer heat, being the one guy no girls wants to even talk to makes those kinds of attitudes and usernames painful. Even taunting. I have no time for people who identify as "incels", be…
/r/ExRedPill14/09/23 07:23 PM
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Just Tinder
/r/ExRedPill14/09/23 04:42 PM
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Yup, got a dog a year ago. Helped a LOT the first six months. Somebody to hold that didn’t leave me. Lol. But the effects kinda wore off.
/r/ExRedPill14/09/23 04:12 PM
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Never said anything to oppose that. How am I saying women are not human? Am I not allowed to feel pain when women tell me I’m not good enough for them? To see them throw themselves at other men and mock my loneliness? The pain comes from wanting to give love and being denied it.
/r/ExRedPill14/09/23 11:06 AM
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I’ve been in and out of therapy since I was 16 and it’s one hour of me sharing and be told “that sounds painful”. I’ve gained more from reading the Stoics than any therapy. BUT whenever I make great strides and improve, ONE rejection undoes all that work. Problem is: if ALL you get is rejection no amount of nice words is gonna make that hurt change. Of course rejection hurts. Every failed job interview hurts. But when you get a job all that pain is worth it. With women it is JUST pain. Just endl…
/r/ExRedPill14/09/23 07:44 AM
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Surely the solution is to not reject them and they won’t go all crazy? Only kidding. Kinda… I’ve never been abusive in any relationship but rejection causes one of two reactions: lashing out or suicidal thoughts.
/r/ExRedPill14/09/23 06:44 AM
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I did NOT threaten anyone. But when she dumped me I sent her a passive aggressive rant she correctly called out as emotional blackmail. (Basically: sorry I wasn’t good enough for you. Sorry for wasting your time. I was an idiot thinking you could care about me. My family thinks I’m a screwup and if I was with you my dying mother would think at least I could do ONE thing right.)
/r/ExRedPill14/09/23 05:53 AM
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I’m trying SO hard not to be angry. I wanna love people. But my love is not wanted, by anyone.
/r/ExRedPill14/09/23 05:50 AM
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But can you also understand that a username that is “fuckslut” can bring on some pain in someone who is sexually rejected by every woman he approaches? This girl identifies as a fuckslut but I know she wouldn’t even look at me twice.
/r/ExRedPill14/09/23 05:49 AM
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The flipside is that you cannot argue that ALL relationships are bad. I’m not saying it’s a cure-all. But it’s ten times better being lonely. I was in a 10 year abusive relationship with a certified schizo (I stayed because I had no other relationship opportunities). When she dumped me I was so relieved. But after three years i don’t enjoy the freedom as much. What do I want? To be understood and seen. To go through the day knowing I will go to sleep with someone I trust and who supports me (and…
/r/ExRedPill14/09/23 05:47 AM
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Hooking up is hopeless since no woman wants to be near me. Even had to resort to fuxking guys in gay bars. And also: not all settled couples are miserable.
/r/ExRedPill14/09/23 02:59 AM
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careers and hobbies and many friends
/r/ExRedPill14/09/23 02:58 AM
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Most women have had men who become extremely attached like this so early on ignore their boundaries and make them very uncomfortable or even act threatening when they try to break things off. I’m not saying you are doing this yup, I did this... not proud
/r/ExRedPill14/09/23 02:56 AM
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Sounds like youre attracted to the wrong type of women...
/r/ExRedPill14/09/23 02:53 AM
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of course
/r/ExRedPill13/09/23 06:56 PM
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which I appreciated
/r/ExRedPill13/09/23 06:51 PM
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it's her username....
/r/ExRedPill13/09/23 05:41 PM
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What?
/r/ExRedPill13/09/23 05:23 PM
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Seen a therapist off and on since I was 16. Most of them give up. You cant cure the need for a connection with someone else with words or drugs.
/r/ExRedPill13/09/23 04:15 PM
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Thanks. Makes total sense. But it’s also what I am already doing. Sadly the more rejection I get, the less I believe in myself (and the more I am told by women I need to have more confidence! Hah!) I also tend to fall in love on the first date. This is not a big deal since I never get any dates anyway, but still. The three dates I’ve been on I’ll admit I was pushy, wanting to know the next day how she felt it went. Answer was twice, and I quote, she was kinda disappointed to meet me in person. S…
/r/ExRedPill13/09/23 01:23 PM
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How am I red pilled?
/r/ExRedPill13/09/23 12:15 PM
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Probably true. But they are happy and im lonely.
/r/ExRedPill13/09/23 11:52 AM
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And redpill men sniff out those women. Just like some sniff out little fucksluts 😉
/r/ExRedPill13/09/23 11:45 AM
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I am asking this. How else do I explain why they stay? It’s either that they like being treated like shit or they look past it and focus on the good.
/r/ExRedPill13/09/23 11:38 AM
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Im sure you also know how insecure some women can get, especially pushing 40. They’ll take some shit, in small doses, to avoid going back on the meat market at 42. No?
/r/ExRedPill13/09/23 11:33 AM
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Good points. Can you move inside my head please?
/r/ExRedPill13/09/23 11:22 AM
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In my case I think they will stay together, but mainly because the women they are with are sweet and caring and find their red pill stuff signs of insecurity. Sadly these men will keep thinking that these women stay with them because they are alphas and the women even let them pretend to be in charge (both friends always lower their voices when talking red pill so they’re partners won’t overhear)
/r/ExRedPill13/09/23 11:21 AM
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I do. Lots. But it doesn’t cure loneliness or the need for physical contact.
/r/ExRedPill13/09/23 10:51 AM
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Nothing. It’s doomer stuff. But it’s hard to defend my position when I have nothing to show for it. When red pill friends are in relationships and im a 35 year old incel, how do I defend it? I say I “follow my heart” to them. But this post is about the doubts. Get rejected by every woman you meet and you become lonely, scared and bitter…
/r/ExRedPill13/09/23 10:51 AM
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Redpill targets sad singletons like me
/r/ExRedPill13/09/23 10:35 AM
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To be honest, im afraid if I stop the frustration would make me aggressive. Or inappropriate with women…
/r/ExRedPill13/09/23 10:00 AM
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What’s wrong with masturbation? It’s one of my hobbies 😉
/r/ExRedPill13/09/23 09:47 AM
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That’s NOT gonna help. That would make me more sexually frustrated.
/r/ExRedPill13/09/23 09:42 AM
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Semen retention???
/r/ExRedPill13/09/23 09:36 AM
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/r/ExRedPill13/09/23 09:26 AM
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