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There is someone I follow on Quora who says that for him, sexual experience in a new partner is very important: he is not an entry-level lover. That's not to disparage virgins, but more to say that having someone experienced can have a lot of benefits. Ultimately what most matter in bed is that there is trust, safety and good communication. A count number won't guarantee or eliminate that. Look for someone you are compatible and have good chemistry, and forget stupid things like the number of pa…
/r/ExRedPill10/02/26 11:01 PM
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Validation is a hell of a drug. We all crave it because we are social animals, but like a drug, many people will go too far to just get a little. It's really difficult to balance the natural need to feel validated and to know when it's not worth it. I have no answer to this.
/r/ExRedPill05/07/25 12:42 PM
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When everyone around you tells you something, and then what you read tells you the same thing, it's really difficult to shake it off. As a social species, we subconsciously give a lot of weight to other people's opinions no matter how irrational or false they are, but that's how many atrocities and backward thinking has happened in human history. Let's take for example the aging thing. We think this is bad because with age, our energy and physical strength diminish. Our hair may turn gray and ou…
/r/ExRedPill08/02/25 01:11 PM
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I agree with you, but I think just saying this is not helpful. This guy has obviously only lived in their own shoes but talks like they know exactly what others experience. It's true that there are a lot of shallow "You are beautiful and perfect as you are girl!" but in reality there are a lot of "if you are not x, y and z you are not worthy of love" messages too. Men have those kind of things too "Just be yourself and you will have chics throwing at you tiger!" and "If you haven't done this or …
/r/ExRedPill09/04/24 10:56 PM
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There are no magical formula. What you can do is find what are your strengths and play them. Maybe you are not the social butterfly that gets all the attention in parties, but maybe you are a good listener and gives good insight. Maybe you cannot flirt, but you are easy to be around because you are safe and kind. Also, you can always work on your weaknesses to be a more rounded person. Work in yourself so you will be someone you will date. The only thing you have to keep in mind is you have to h…
/r/ExRedPill09/12/23 02:37 PM
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Only immature people (men or women) with fragile egos want a "yes-man" partner who will never tell them how stupid they are being, and that they don't need or have room for improvement. A good relationship will incentive you to always be a better person, and will help you overcome your faults. Having someone who is afraid to tell you what you may be doing wrong, or doesn't know better because of lack of experience isn't doing any favors to anyone. In fact, you are forfeiting one of the best thin…
/r/ExRedPill28/10/23 01:50 PM
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"given that women find these types of men attractive.. if i were more like these men mentally, i would be more desirable” As a woman, let me tell you that's patentably false. First, because we don't all like the same thing, even if there are some parts on the Internet that wish to think that relationships have this "one solution fits it all" condition, and that the somehow the pill has all the answers. Second, to be thought as no more than "walking bags of skin with a big ass and big tits can ma…
/r/ExRedPill03/08/23 11:21 AM
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That's pretty reasonable.
/r/ExRedPill03/01/23 12:54 AM
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Happy to hear that you beat depression! Please continue taking care of yourself. For me personally, an ideal long-term relationship has some of both flavors. Passive and boring is great for stability, and just add some pinches of unpredictability and adventurousness here and there to keep it interesting. But it always depends what are you exactly looking for. Nonetheless, I wish you tons of luck!
/r/ExRedPill03/01/23 12:00 AM
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I saw your edit after I finished posting. Per my understanding, by dangerous you mean wild and unpredictable right? My advice still remain, do what feels better for you, as long as it's mostly for you own well-being and not others. And yeah contradictory advice is everywhere. As you said, one thing could work for some people but not for others. That's why you need to have good judgment when you ponder advice and just don't swallow it right away. Does the described situation encompass yours? Is t…
/r/ExRedPill02/01/23 11:45 PM
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You are right in the sense that broad scope advice is usually misguided or just plain wrong. All that internet advice may look complex when in reality is silly and contradictory. Life does not have rules, even if some people are yelling the opposite with too much confidence. That said, there are some guidelines that may improve your chances for specific outcomes. I cannot speak about a man's journey, but in general taking care of your mental and physical health is a good step to have a good life…
/r/ExRedPill02/01/23 11:06 PM
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I mean making men chase isn’t necessarily the concept of dating other guys. It’s the concept of making men work harder for your affection in order to make themselves look less easy and more of a catch. And when I say easy don’t mean necessarily promiscuous but more in the sense that she doesn’t just go out with any old guy and that she’s actively invested in you. Sounds complex and frustrating. But the main idea is the reverse in that that men will lose interest once they have "won" you (got you…
/r/ExRedPill22/05/19 02:39 AM
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Huh. Curiously I remember reading elsewhere that as a girl you shouldn't make think your male date/boyfriend/whatever that you are not interested in other men while dating (even exclusively) because men love chase and when they see that they have totally "caught" you, they will lose interest and instead leave you for their next prey. To be honest both of those ideas are complete bullshit and probably helping to perpute the cycle of stupid games and giving false feedback. As you see, ridiculous t…
/r/ExRedPill22/05/19 01:45 AM
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I am now curious, what does TRP says about male infidelity? Is it natural and biological as apparently female infidelity is? On another note, it is possible that women will try to have a more active social life when they feel the most attractive. I think it has to do with the fact that society puts value in women through their beautiness, and they want to feel valued. This does not necessarily mean infidelity, even if that's what this paper is trying to correlate (I only read the abstract so may…
/r/ExRedPill20/05/19 10:30 AM
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It's normal deciding to go slow if you think it's becoming too intense. If you think expressing your emotions is too much, it's ok to talk about it. One thing for sure, you will have to be open and not hid how you really feel sooner or later if you want to be happy with a SO, be hers or someone else. I may know how you feel. I am not scared about being perceived as weak if I show him my affection, but maybe I will be perceived as clingy. Still I do my best to show him my appreciation and love, a…
/r/ExRedPill20/03/19 02:51 AM
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You are scared about being emotional. It's understandable. You can retreat and close that door or you can embrace it. Maybe one option is more comfortable for now, maybe it's more safe, but I have heard being open with your feelings and having someone to share them is awesome. You still have to find the correct girl, and it seems you have found her. See if that's truth, and if not, her loss. My boyfriend is much more open to me that I am to him. I have never seen him cry, but I don't think that …
/r/ExRedPill19/03/19 03:58 PM
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What you want is good and healthy but it takes work, that's why many people fail. You need to put yourself out, be yourself instead of this weird concept of 'alpha' because being someone else is exhausting and you don't want to be exhausted around your SO. Also be genuine with your hobbies, maybe you will attract someone who shares your interests. And yes, what you want exist, but there are no guarantees that you will find it at first. That's why you need to get out and try. Maybe you will find …
/r/ExRedPill18/03/19 12:27 AM
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Nop. The biggest turn off for a woman is personality, not looks. Looks, however, could be the thing that may help you getting a first date. Do not trick yourself, looks probably is not your problem.
/r/ExRedPill04/03/19 01:17 AM
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I don't think telling them to leave is any good. Au contraire, they need to stay and learn more. This should be a welcoming and friendly community if we actually want to help.
/r/ExRedPill06/01/19 10:43 PM
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you break your arms
/r/ExRedPill06/01/19 10:26 PM
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The Red Pill thing genuinely intrigues me. I do not subscribe to any of their ideas, not necessarily for the content (which I admit I eyeroll), but because of their fallacies and how they still manage to convince people. Psychology, manipulation and radicalization are topics that interest me, mostly to understand how I could be manipulated too, even if it is for something that has nothing to do with TRP (methods tend to be the same for any other movements). This sub also helps me to understand h…
/r/ExRedPill07/08/18 04:36 PM
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