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What's a hotwife?? I explained more in my post: https://www.reddit.com/r/AllPillDebate/comments/1479qtc/my_husband_has_watched_me_in_too_many_gangbangs/
/r/AllPillDebate12/06/23 02:19 PM
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Your first mistake is listening to anything they say. A mouth full of dick is always the correct response. What does that response even mean? To clarify, I'm the feminist who's proud of her high body count that this post is about. Are you implying that sucking dick is something to be ashamed of?
/r/AllPillDebate11/06/23 11:55 PM
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"Why can't you answer how marrying a woman with a high body count would harm you? Is it just insecurity?" A feminist's response right here on this sub to being told no, they're not entitled to an answer to that question. As an added bonus, feminists love to use the word 'insecurity' against men. The very gender that's riddled with insecurities about their weight and social status and the eating disorders and a dozen other examples, has the routine cheek to accuse men of being insecure. It is to …
/r/AllPillDebate11/06/23 11:52 PM
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Do I even owe you an answer? You just can't take no for an answer, can you? Why can't you answer how marrying a woman with a high body count would harm you? Is it just insecurity?
/r/AllPillDebate10/06/23 03:52 AM
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I have, and it's not for me. You do you, 'k? Just one thing - has your husband ever fucked that many women in one sitting? Now you understand what female privilege is. But again, it's a free country. Enjoy! But don't disparage my right to not want jack shit to do with it. It's like I don't want anything to do with split pea soup - I ain't gonna beat you over the head for gangbangs or eating that disgusto soup. Just don't try to sell it to me! I ain't selling monogamy to you, at least not as an i…
/r/AllPillDebate10/06/23 03:35 AM
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That's sad, honestly. Your husband can't sexually satiate you so you hook up with chads while simps pay to watch 😂😂😂 Modern America is a dystopia. Chads? I've done things like blindfolded gangbangs and going to gloryholes. I've even met up with my OnlyFans "simps" and done fan blowbangs while my husband watched. Go ahead and slut-shame me but don't accuse me of having extremely high standards.
/r/AllPillDebate09/06/23 07:22 PM
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Plenty lol Like what? To clarify where I'm coming from, my husband and I have an open marriage and I have an OnlyFans.
/r/AllPillDebate09/06/23 06:41 PM
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backs away slowly Have you never heard of an open marriage?
/r/AllPillDebate09/06/23 06:27 PM
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How did you introduce it into the relationship? My husband and I have a hotwife marriage so it was something we wanted to try.
/r/AllPillDebate09/06/23 06:11 PM
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You don't have to be a chest pounding ape to display male sexuality, in fact male sensuality, seduction and flirting generally goes in the opposite direction. On the other hand nice guys tend to completely mask their sexualty and carefully avoid expressing sexual interest, desire, intimate playfulness, or masculine sexual energy. Quite a number of women are surprised when a nice guy friend takes her treating him like one of her GFs as sexual or romantic interest and suddenly tries to get with he…
/r/AllPillDebate09/06/23 06:13 AM
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Same reason why women don't like inexperienced men. Regardless I have a right to my preferences and you have a right to yours. Seems you don't want to respect mine, eh? You weren't lying when you said you are a feminist! I didn't say I don't respect your preferences. I'm just curious about why you think it's a bad thing if a woman has a high body count. My husband has watched me in too many gangbangs to count but he loves watching. Why do you think that is?
/r/AllPillDebate09/06/23 06:00 AM
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Was your husband a virgin when you got together? LOL just kidding srsly though, it's not surprising that you're in an open marriage, people of either gender with high n-counts are likely to sleep around during marriage. You at least were honest and formalized it. Also just because I said it's okay for a man or woman not to want to date someone with a huge partner count, why do you think that's saying you should be ashamed? Women quite often don't want to date male virgins (especially older ones)…
/r/AllPillDebate09/06/23 05:34 AM
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I can’t exactly read your mind but maybe you just want to experiment with other men or got bored with ur current one, as you said you “opened your marriage”. we’re not saying exceptions like you don’t exist, your just not common. hence dating for ethnic men is way harder So what if you're right that dating for ethnic men is harder? Dating is hard for everyone.
/r/AllPillDebate09/06/23 05:22 AM
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80% or so. I misspoke saying exclusively. It’s a large majority of diagnoses. Mental illness is another reason for excessive promiscuity in women, which often happens to intersect with trauma (especially in the case of things like BPD). I’m not really interested in getting into the nitty gritty of your kinks with you, that’s not what this discussion is about. That’s your business. What I’m saying is that having many sexual partners is outlier behavior for women and should not be promoted by thos…
/r/AllPillDebate09/06/23 05:17 AM
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Borderline personality disorder is exclusively caused by trauma. I am speaking in general terms. I’ve already said it’s not an issue of morality to make that choice for yourself, it’s just probably not going to serve you well emotionally in the long run. I’m not into convincing unsuspecting young women that fucking as many men as possible will enhance their lives or their health or their ability to navigate relationships. It’s untrue. My BPD wasn't caused by trauma. What do you mean by it not se…
/r/AllPillDebate09/06/23 05:00 AM
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Sounds like a combo of nymphomania, exhibitionism, and/or some iteration of a mental illness related to hypersexuality like a personality disorder, which is… usually caused by trauma. I have never met a woman with a really high body count or a wild sex life who had a totally balanced life in other areas. I’m not saying it’s immoral, I’m just saying that most of the time it is a coping mechanism and ends up being harmful in the long run rather than helpful. There’s no evidence that women were des…
/r/AllPillDebate09/06/23 04:48 AM
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https://www.icpsr.umich.edu/web/ICPSR/studies/36347 https://academic.oup.com/sf/article-abstract/89/3/807/2235576?redirectedFrom=fulltext&login=false those two studies outlines interracial rejection rates for races (notice a pattern?): East Indian (95%) > Middle Eastern (94%) > Asian (92%) > Black (87%) > Latino (69%) > White (42%) little bit more context: “The women who only wanted to date men of their own race were: 65% of white women, 45% of black women, 16.5% of Latino women, and 6% of Asian…
/r/AllPillDebate09/06/23 04:38 AM
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I'm the most extroverted person I know but I wouldn't say I'm the most attractive woman (I have some insecurities). I think it's a mostly accurate generalization, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 04:31 AM
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https://www.npr.org/sections/codeswitch/2013/11/30/247530095/are-you-interested-dating-odds-favor-white-men-asian-women just 1 example. and why does it matter? it doesn’t have to matter to you. if you don’t get it then you probably won’t get it. in other words: this sub isn’t for you. Isn't this sub for debate? You can provide all the statistics you want but it's still true that LOTS of women prefer ethnic men.
/r/AllPillDebate09/06/23 04:19 AM
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I mean. Numbers don’t lie. How does literal data and percentages not prove to you what we’re saying? If stats show that ethnic men are more likely to be single than white and latino men, how does that not imply that they are less desirable in the SMV? Let's assume you're right. So what? Why does it matter? There are still lots of women who prefer ethnic men.
/r/AllPillDebate09/06/23 04:01 AM
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Sure, it’s possible. It’s unlikely, but it’s possible. Why do you think it's unlikely? What are your thoughts on the theory that we actually are biologically designed to be promiscuous? Look up the theory about why we moan during sex. As for hookups, my husband usually watches when I hook up with men (we're into hotwifing) but it's NEVER about validation. I always think of myself as the lucky one who gets way more out of it than the man does.
/r/AllPillDebate09/06/23 03:55 AM
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Looks are the resume and personality is the interview skills. Without a good resume there is no interview. Do you think all women are like that? How do you feel about women who've done things like blindfolded gangbangs? I've even been to gloryholes.
/r/AllPillDebate09/06/23 03:45 AM
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Stats show that most ethnic men are single How does that prove it's hard for ethnic men to get laid? I personally prefer ethnic men by a LOT. It's actually the main reason why my husband and I opened our marriage. How does that fit in with your theory?
/r/AllPillDebate09/06/23 03:43 AM
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With regards to hooking up, women aren’t getting much out of hookups with men except for validation, for one. Women are not biologically designed to be sexually promiscuous. Our programming, so to speak, tells us to be selective and conservative. Behavior that falls outside this is telling of something else, usually trauma. It affects women’s ability to form long-lasting and trusting relationships and I have seen this firsthand; I’m a lesbian. With regards to sex positivity, the liberation and t…
/r/AllPillDebate09/06/23 03:41 AM
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You gave your husband a chance because of his looks before you got to know and like his personality. Nope! We started out as just friends. Even for my fuckbuddies (we have an open marriage), it's not just about the guy's looks. Do you really think personality means nothing?
/r/AllPillDebate09/06/23 03:31 AM
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Yet that is exactly what blue and red p*llers said for a very long time. I believe physical appearance (height, looks, race) is the only thing that matters. So, you think personality doesn't matter at all? Why do you think I love my husband? Just because of his looks?
/r/AllPillDebate09/06/23 03:27 AM
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Lol, you're complaining that you need to make women cum? They have to make you cum, right? Also, most women don't just lie there, they usually enjoy sex quite a bit. Exactly! Why do the guys here make the most ridiculous claims?
/r/AllPillDebate09/06/23 03:25 AM
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Yep. I am a feminist who frequently criticizes the sex positivity movement and hookup culture, particularly for women’s part. Maybe I have noticed its effects more? I only date women and have definitely noticed it negatively affecting sexual relationships with them. As a sex-positive feminist, I'm curious. What criticisms do you have about the sex-positivity movement and hookup culture?
/r/AllPillDebate09/06/23 03:23 AM
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Also, most female "MRAs" end up starting an OnlyFans after they grow popular. They aren't your "allies". They either want your genes or your money What exactly is wrong with a woman starting an OnlyFans?
/r/AllPillDebate09/06/23 03:22 AM
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Whoever has the power, and pussy has the power. Woman controls access to sex and sex is the main drive for relationship. So yeah, women My sex drive is WAY higher than my husband's. How does that fit in with your theory?
/r/AllPillDebate09/06/23 03:21 AM
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This is what can happen when a guy acts so neutered and nice and inoffensive that he becomes one of the girls in her mind. Assuming there was one bed, she got into the bed with him in her undies because that is what she would do with her girlfriends. She did not perceive him as a sexual being at all. Do you really think that's true? I've had lots of guy friends who you'd probably say were "neutered" but I never forgot they were also sexual beings. My husband also isn't the macho type at all but …
/r/AllPillDebate09/06/23 03:17 AM
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Especially that. Not too many people in the real world look kindly upon subscribers to that shitshow. Slut shaming is an incredibly complicated issue. It started out as a legit atrocity (using a woman's promiscuity to acquit a legit rapist) and has been expanded by feminist nutjobs to include anyone who doesn't want to date a woman ran through by 50 dudes. It has devolved from actual justice to fucking entitlement. Neither my wife nor me agree with accepting the latter. But I'll slut shame a dud…
/r/AllPillDebate09/06/23 03:10 AM
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Embrace being pegged by slutty female narcissists it's over. What exactly is wrong with pegging? I've done it a few times with my husband and we both enjoyed it. If someone enjoys it, why do you care?
/r/AllPillDebate09/06/23 02:49 AM
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Why wouldn't she? Even your "How many guys here have never DM'd anyone or subscribed to any OnlyFans/etc?" post? How do you feel about slut-shaming? Do you support it?
/r/AllPillDebate09/06/23 02:43 AM
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Like I said my wife approached me first. How would your wife feel about your comments here? Would she agree with you? Just curious.
/r/AllPillDebate09/06/23 02:37 AM
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Especially ethnic men. We got to put in work just to get the CHANCE to get laid. It’s brutal. Do you have anything to back that up? Is this an incel subreddit? I found this place by going through someone's comments and some of the posts here are ridiculous lol.
/r/AllPillDebate09/06/23 02:34 AM
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I couldn't agree more! My husband and I have an open marriage and he's done lots of things that people would call bi. I think heteroflexibility is more accurate, though. We love doing "cum kisses" (look it up if you're curious) but he doesn't consider himself to be bi.
/r/AllPillDebate09/06/23 02:10 AM
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