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entertainment, friends, shitposting
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 12:09 PM
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i’d say that having a preference or desire for a type = a recurring pattern of attraction across multiple people, sorry if that’s unclear but here, i mean for it to be understood that way
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 03:09 AM
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ick , goodbye i don’t date men who have any degree of a preference or desire for blonde white women and the clear open goonery is j weird anti social behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 11:56 PM
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these are gorgeous. i’d totally TOTALLY buy that green one with the sword
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 11:55 PM
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tbh yea it’s not ideal , i kinda enjoy feeling unconventional
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 01:14 AM
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me fuckin too with a beard? 😩 yum as fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 05:19 PM
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wdym exactly by “unfortunately taken” 💀🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 01:40 PM
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are u new
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 03:54 PM
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my husband told me he loved me in the first week of us dating
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 03:53 PM
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i feel attacked !
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 03:52 PM
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i’ll j pick up a new artistic form i like sex too much to give it up for the rest of my life
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 08:05 PM
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flared leggings are so flattering too, i love them
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 01:55 AM
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one of the mothers for my little peeps is goth. it really warmed my heart today when she said that she feels her baby probably connected with me so quickly because he feels at home and safe with me. (for context i’m a preschool teacher)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 01:53 AM
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huge whore, flair checks out
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 06:16 PM
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preach high libido people w low sociosexuality absolutely exist, myself included
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 10:39 PM
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I JUST SAW WHAT U SPOILERED LMAO SORRY 🖤
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 03:16 AM
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q4a: have you ever experienced a heartbreak that made you less trusting?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 02:02 AM
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omg birthday twin!!! happy freakin birthday, dude ! so many cancers on ppd
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 02:01 AM
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new motionless in white album was a really fun listen !!!! afraid of the dark is an absolute BANGER
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 12:07 AM
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i’ve outright told my guy that i wouldn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 06:58 PM
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above 10
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 10:04 PM
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that feels like it should be illegal 😭 but i’m glad u enjoyed yourself and weren’t harmed
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 10:01 PM
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congratulations ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ im so happy for you !
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 10:00 PM
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good shit !
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 01:40 AM
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Literally never. Like, in my life. I don’t get turned on by strangers. I have eyes, and I have a type, I can see when a guy is physically attractive. But the thought ends there - it’s “Oh, he’s cute, anyways whatever” Looks are not enough for me to want sex with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 12:19 AM
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i genuinely believe the time i got kidnapped set my marriage in motion we were only friends at the time, but i appreciated the way he called to check on me. i told him that one day a girl would be lucky to have him, described all his great qualities, and then tried to set him up with my best friend 💀 looking back though, those conversations were part of me realizing i had feelings for him as inconvenient as it was then, getting snatched off the streets and taken to my home town several states aw…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 10:08 PM
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every time i talk about who i think should be executed i end up with a reddit ban, i wont get baited into this again !
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 10:01 PM
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random sex with some random man? very but i wouldn’t enjoy that kinda experience
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 02:16 AM
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really keeping my hair and nails done are the biggest cost !
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 11:17 PM
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what look what you prefer to have and why doesn’t it fit your lifestyle?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 09:56 PM
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- nails: $75- 100 every 3-4 weeks. sometimes more when i get my toes done, but that’s not overly often as i do my toes myself at home sometimes - hair: $270 every 2 months - wardrobe: $100 - $200 every 2 months - perfume: $50 every 3 months - makeup and skincare $150 every few months i guess this could count as high maintenance, i enjoy investing in my appearance though and my husband enjoys supporting me 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 08:13 PM
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thank you, love ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 03:19 PM
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angel, what’s holding u back? go for it !
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 03:19 PM
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fantastic, i don’t want kids anyway 🙏 it’d be like a surprise gift lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 03:18 PM
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thank you 🖤🖤🖤
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 01:19 PM
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if it’s something you wanna do, you should just do it!! i grew up really religious, and it was frowned upon for both men and women, so i get the apprehension. but it’s just so much fun, and that made the possible judgement worth it . screw whoever judges you, their opinions don’t have to matter. as long as YOU love it, that’s what’s important.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 01:19 PM
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happy birthday to you too 🤍🤍 even if the surprise doesn’t go to plan (or maybe you’ve got a stellar surprise face and it works out perfectly !) i’m so very happy for you. enjoy your trip, and early congratulations to you both ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 12:19 PM
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my hair is finally indigo and to my thighs 🤩🤩🤩 i’m OBSESSED!!!! it wasn’t cheap, but investing in your look is so worth it to me and i’d encourage more ppl to do it ! the boost in confidence is absolutely worth it 💜💙 i wanted something really fun for my birthday and im so excited it turned out well and now my platforms are being delivered 😩😩 this day just keeps getting better
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 12:18 PM
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maybe when i was a teenager. i used to be active in online spaces and would always have a lil boo to flirt with, lol. as an adult looking to seriously date? no. looks are important to me - i wanna love someone’s personality AND the way they look, and certain things are a dealbreaker for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 12:04 PM
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are you someone who typically enjoys surprises ? does he like to try and surprise you? the lack of a surprise doesn’t have to be a bad thing if you guys are happy, yk? also when’s your birthday lmao mine’s on sunday
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 10:16 PM
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yay are you excited ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:33 PM
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you can wear a fun sexy fit and enjoy the real life experiences without posting it online for financial profit
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:32 PM
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super ick. break it off with him. good thing it’s early
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:30 PM
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where ? where do yall meet people like that
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:28 PM
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it’s commendable that you decided to stand up for your belief. happy to hear you must be out of the hospital too 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 02:15 AM
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what beliefs led you to getting booted ?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 11:48 PM
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While I understand some of the frustration, I think some commenters here are not fully engaging with the full premise of the post in a fully intellectually honest way. To be clear, there is a very big difference between a depressed and lonely man taking his life as he sees no way out of his pain versus an abuser who takes his life (often in front of his partner) with the end goal of causing her as much pain and guilt as possible. Threats of suicide are a common emotional abuse tactic employed by…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/07/26 11:35 PM
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*some women do, sure. but certainly not all. i could see it working especially with avoidant types, or immature women, but there’s also plenty of women who become more affectionate and expressive when they feel emotionally secure and safe 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 08:04 PM
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maybe you should log off?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 07:27 PM
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mentally healthy, thoughtful and expressive women do not hate romantic men. there are women who love doing nice things for a partner, and it’s nice to have those efforts returned. nonchalance breeds anxiety and who tf wants that
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 07:26 PM
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the point of bringing up sexual dimorphism wasn’t arbitrary. height is an innate, sexually dimorphic trait, driven by genetics, and preferences for it and other sexually dimorphic traits appear to be influenced, at least in part, by biology and our evolutionary history. n count isn’t an innate trait or a sexually dimorphic one. it’s a person’s behavioral history, and preferences surrounding it are comparatively more driven by culture (inb4 evo psych analysis - YES there perhaps is some evolution…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 06:36 PM
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ooh that’ll be fun
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 05:54 PM
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what color ? tomorrow i think im going dark indigo for mine
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 05:54 PM
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i honestly don’t care, just don’t be an asshole about it. slut shaming and using language like “dirty”, “used goods” or “whore” when you yourself have a high n count is shitty behavior outside of that though, i don’t see it as an inherently problematic preference. i will say, as someone with a low n count, i had a better experience with a guy who didn’t care compared to the guy who cared a lot. my data set is limited tho, and the issue is more the reasoning behind the preference than the prefere…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 12:53 PM
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LMAO i was also joking, its all good love 🙏🤍
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 02:47 AM
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really my mere presence on ppd must mean that i’m larping about it all people in happy relationships can’t possibly spend time here
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 02:40 AM
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meh, i like them when they’re paired with a nice beard
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 01:24 AM
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besides all the boring cute sweet nicknames, mine would call me dickface cuz i like… yea
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 01:23 AM
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first?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 01:22 AM
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i think it’s perfectly fine for short women to prefer tall men and i find it kinda sad how some will moralize it and paint a woman to be a bad person simply for expressing a preference for tall men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 11:33 PM
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no, not really. your personality doesn’t fit that vibe
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 05:28 PM
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what are some other romantic gestures you’ve enjoyed doing ? what are your favorite ways to receive romance ?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 05:26 PM
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!! did you at least enjoy wearing the outfit you were looking forward to ? 🤍 i’m sure u looked beautiful
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 05:26 PM
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never asian men usually they start off with complimenting something im wearing last male to approach me was a young white guy at brunch who told me i looked like a movie star. 90% of the guys who approach me are black so that was kinda surprising ages typically 18/19 (ew) to 34ish honestly the same types of guys that i used to do really well with back when i did sales 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 05:25 PM
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she’s just not the right woman for him and that’s okay
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 03:27 PM
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i do think some people are too sensitive for it though, myself included. the concept of waiting for sex doesn’t have to be some moral directive. the thought process for myself and anyone i’d recommend it to is simply that some people can’t handle it. they get their feelings hurt, or make bad decisions when early sex is involved because 1 - some people have a tendency to get attached after sex and 2- there’s many such cases of people ignoring red flags and incompatibilities because of good sex cl…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 02:09 PM
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guilty
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 05:04 AM
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depends on your vibe - u like to party or u like to relax? i’m going to vegas rome is also incredible if you enjoy sight seeing
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 11:11 PM
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getting fingered or when he listens to my excited vision-building yaps w curiosity and offers opinions on my style or when he solves my problems for me
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 11:10 PM
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creative expression through fashion and art, drugs, hugs, a good meal i think im a very sensory experience-oriented person omg and a good bike ride
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 07:48 PM
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sex frequency in an LTR of once a month id genuinely lose my mind
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:04 PM
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to preface , i’m not shaming you. but just to offer a different perspective, you lose a lot of possibility of joy in your life if you only allow yourself to recognize an experience as “special” if it’s entirely unique and novel. sex doesn’t have to be mundane just because it’s been had before with someone else, and to think otherwise erases the inherent intimacy of sharing your body with another person. it’s just an extremely black and white way to frame it all. it’s perfectly fine to value bein…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 12:38 PM
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nice physique, the work you’ve put in is apparent
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:56 AM
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me 🖤
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 06:10 PM
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her skin is gorgeoussss
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 06:10 PM
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i think i want a nose piercing 🤔 it would look dope with my colorful hair
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 03:02 PM
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he wanted me, specifically. and had a very hard time letting me go.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 04:16 AM
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i’m ngl , the only situationship i’ve found myself in was with an ex who desperately wanted to be in a relationship while i was wishy washy about cutting him off. he bought me expensive gifts but also treated me poorly, and i had low self esteem. so i won’t say its always a girl who wants a relationship with a guy who doesn’t, even if sure, thats often the case. i’ve also had friends who enjoy the loose fun of being in a relationship, but dont want to be totally tied down. non committal types pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 04:12 AM
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aw i’m so happy for you 🤍🤍🤍 that’s gonna be stunning. i hope the process continues to go swimmingly for you !!!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 03:24 AM
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oh a bunch of them are fake, for sure. gotta be.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 01:55 AM
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aw that’ll be gorgeous !!! what are your colors? are you excited, enjoying the process ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 01:53 AM
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r/relationship_advice has been popping up on my feed and i find it amusing to see the “no shit” titles yk, the “my girlfriend beats me with a bat everytime i leave the toilet seat up, is this fixable?” anyways, my newest fave <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 01:52 AM
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oooh what’s your plan ??
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 01:20 AM
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fuckin hell i’m in the process rn and i hate it already it’s also kinda weird cuz i don’t really feel like my new name is “mine” yet. it feels foreign
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 10:14 PM
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i’m too picky 🤣🤣 i always pick my own gifts. i even picked my wedding ring lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 08:00 PM
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q4all: do you make a wishlist for your birthday? do you buy yourself a gift? i’m picking a gift i want my husband to buy for me and considering buying myself something nice too (a new ring ofc, for those who know me, im quite a jewelry enthusiast)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 07:52 PM
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yea you just won’t get it and that’s okay, it’s hard to explain. just because you don’t understand it as a man doesn’t make it any less true
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:51 PM
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that’s why people often say the behaviors behind the number matter more than the number itself
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:41 PM
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it’s good to let yourself live a little sometimes. great news for u is that world cup is the perfect time to do it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:40 PM
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i mean, maybe she’s just straight. preferring sex with men over sex with women doesn’t have to be that strange and complicated sexual orientation/preference and sexual behaviors in general aren’t really always about the easiest path to an orgasm, at least for women. the feeling of being filled is deeply pleasurable in itself
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:39 PM
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what do you provide to make this a safe choice for her
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 10:18 PM
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i completely disagree ! i enjoy it very very much, and find it to be a great sign of compatibility granted, ideally one person is leading. i like to look cute and be the assistant lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 10:17 PM
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unrelated but i’m gonna get drunk and watch obsession tn
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 02:06 AM
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noted !!!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 07:52 PM
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spiders can be quite beautiful but i just don’t like them around me fr 🥹
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 07:51 PM
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you’re brave 😩😩😩😩😩😩 omg i fear tarantula keeping would be a dealbreaker
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 07:51 PM
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when i was a kid , i’d trap them under a cup and wait til they’re dead to move their bodies but also, i will say i do appreciate bugs from a visual, anatomical perspective. i enjoy preserved specimens. just don’t like them crawling around in my space 🥹
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 07:50 PM
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i do love being 5’7 tbh. it’s fun putting on my platforms and being a total tower
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 07:48 PM
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lots of water 😩 and maybe some vodka but mostly water
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 05:37 PM
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i’ve always said that i’ve regretted never having experienced living alone, but genuinely idk wtf id do about bugs there was a MASSIVE spider in our room last night 😩 i swear if i was living alone i would have to move out. like yk what lil dude, you can have it i’m not capable of smashing bugs of that size
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 05:36 PM
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i caught it and i haven’t even seen the movie lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 12:42 AM
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yea that was such a fun watch !!! pathetic performance by that bosnian wall 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 02:08 AM
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that call in the US game suckss
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 01:33 AM
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be more specific - how so …. about what ?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 07:04 PM
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for me it’s ideal!!!!!! i can’t wait til my husband gets one
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 05:59 PM
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I’d be tall, athletic/fit, facially attractive, low neuroticism and socially aware, all decent traits for a man to have. my only issues would be that im introverted , but i still enjoy going out and partying so that helps and im highly agreeable. this could be my biggest sticking point, but hopefully the other traits carry or perhaps, being a man, i would’ve grown up to be less agreeable via socialization, idk
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 05:10 PM
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hopefully your return to activity is smoother than mine has been 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 01:22 PM
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plenty are good people 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 01:20 PM
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but why?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 01:19 PM
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start off with telling us what you think those qualities are, that mulan is alluding to
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 03:17 AM
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is it gory ?? i wanna watch but i HATE gore
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 03:16 AM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 03:15 AM
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i find the muscle soreness after being active to be oddly satisfying. the pain feels like proof that i did something good for my health. that being said, the noticeably increased soreness from being active after being practically sedentary for four days straight is kinda brutal. it’s like i wanna stretch, but idek where to start when so much of my body hurts. i imagine the heat wave is exacerbating it though, because i should NOT have lost this much progress that quickly
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 03:15 AM
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i went, i was suicidal and very depressed during my college years
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 12:53 AM
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i mean, assuming he’s at least 5’9 that’s fine. short is a no for me i like the combo of lean, lithe woman x big, strong broad guy. plus, face >>>> body to me edit i’m surprised id be downvoted for this ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 11:31 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 11:26 PM
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i swear some men on public transportation are so inconsiderate why are you spreading your long ass arms all over the place, spreading your legs everywhere, either with zero awareness or consideration for the people around you or simply expecting everyone else to shrink themselves to accommodate why are you blasting music on a speaker during rush hour and my pet PEEVE , WHY ARE YOU SMOKING ITS SO RUDE AND GROSS
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 11:26 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:28 PM
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i don’t want kids, and don’t want casual. for me, the commitment of marriage leads to deeper trust and vulnerability, and from that, a desire for even greater sexual exploration 🔥❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 07:33 PM
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do any of yall remember livestrong bracelets, “i love boobies” and lokai bracelets did u have one ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 11:26 PM
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give an example
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 09:01 PM
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I’m not sure why that would be the case. I don’t go into friendships aiming for a relationship, I just naturally am more likely to develop deep feelings/open up to someone if I’ve had some form of an emotional connection with them first.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 06:28 PM
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you’d be surprised. but anyways, agree to disagree i suppose. i would infer she probably sucks to be around, but the term abuse just isn’t something i’ll ever assume.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 12:35 AM
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thank you 🤍🤍
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 12:26 AM
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thanks ! 🙏 the guy cold approached me while i was working actually, i used to work a very public facing job. we had a conversation about a product, he asked for my number, i told him i don’t give my number out while im on the clock. he circled back when i was off the clock and i gave it to him
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 12:26 AM
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i’m 26 i’ve been in 2 LTRs: - dated my first bf from 19-21. we met in a large friend group, he was the “leader” of the group, very masculine, alpha dominant male type, made me feel special to be the exception he treated with care. bad idea, the relationship ended up very toxic and very abusive, emotionally, physically and financially. - 21, i briefly dated a guy who cold approached me, he was really cute and my type. things ended quickly when he wanted to escalate physically quicker than i was c…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 12:01 AM
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okay 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 11:38 PM
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i believe a sense of hatred or disdain towards the opposite sex is ingrained and accepted in our society to a degree that outright abuse is not. people like this often pedestalize their partners and frame them as “the exception”.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 11:34 PM
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no, not without examples of specific abusive behaviors. and i think assuming so without actual examples can be harmful, or at the very least, water down the meaning of the word. abuse is not a term i think should be thrown around or taken lightly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 11:26 PM
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what here indicates to you that she is abusive
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 10:52 PM
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got married a few days ago, starting a new job next monday. big life changes 🥹 wbu? and yeah, tbh it feels like one of those reddit rage bait situations. i’ve never actually heard of it irl but then again im also kinda unclear on how common it is for women to shit test men outside of reddit rage bait stories
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 11:44 PM
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ooooh two parts? and very different experiences! very cool!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 11:03 PM
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is the concept of “if she wouldn’t accept a ring pop proposal, she’s not the one” a shit test?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 11:01 PM
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yessss i’m very excited for mine !! where’d you go for yours?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 09:32 PM
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thankfully i was able to fit it in ;) in the afternoon before the real party started cuz after? man idek how i made it through the door lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 09:32 PM
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i did, on saturday 🥹🤍 thank you !
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 06:57 PM
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i was blacked out lmao i couldn’t have even tho i wanted to
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 05:39 PM
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i wonder how common it is for ppl to not have sex on their wedding night. by the time you’re back in a bed it’s late, you’re probably wasted and exhausted that’s why u need to incorporate a “rest time” early in the day after the ceremony 🥂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 05:34 PM
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my bestie is a scorpio/aries/aries. she’s super fiery and i love her for it embrace your crazy !
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 09:17 PM
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this is a classic !!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 10:15 PM
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i’m dead lol. who else is supposed to pay for my stuff ?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 10:15 PM
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face > body as long as the body is tall enough i’m into bigger builds
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 10:14 PM
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real skinny is so in
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 10:12 PM
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i’d love a stud ! since you got it so young i’d assume the healing wasn’t bad ?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 10:07 PM
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you’re going to get a lot of comments from nerdy reddit women who like and prefer nerds, but i don’t think that’s a mainstream preference. i’m not interested in nerds, personally. they’re often associated with being introverted and anti social, with interests that don’t overlap with mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 10:05 PM
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tooo tall ew
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 01:13 AM
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perfect height honestly average height
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 12:17 AM
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if i had spent more of my 20s single i definitely would’ve been a club rat
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 12:13 AM
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that’s way too ripped for me 🥹🫠 like wayyy way way too ripped
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 12:18 AM
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what makes a guy “hypermasculine” to you i am very into strong, protective, bearded, hairy all that yum as fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 11:55 PM
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i feel like this is def one of those situations where what’s cheating to you might not be cheating to someone else, and that’s perfectly valid and okay just gotta find someone who naturally tends towards being as sexually conservative as you
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 08:13 PM
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the right woman will appreciate it! i think it’s cute and a fun date idea
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 08:05 PM
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it hurt when it came from someone whose opinion i cared about, yea never hurt when it came from strangers tho
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 06:33 PM
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she was being sarcastic
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 06:29 PM
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ask her her preferences!!!! some girls are quite picky
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 10:20 AM
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oooh good luck queen , i hope it goes well! is it a first date ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 02:09 AM
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me cranking shit up to 83 in the winter
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 02:08 AM
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i was watching a tiktok of a 26 year old asian woman living in mississippi, mother of 5 kids when tf would i have even had time to have 5 kids i don’t get it. imagine yourself as a mother rn ?? 2 kids, 5?!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 01:58 AM
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why? idk much about anime as a broad genre but the few that i’ve seen have been at least, good and at most, genuinely fantastic fullmetal alchemist brotherhood is probably the best cinematic story i’ve ever seen
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 04:20 AM
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meh, i don’t have posts on my page but i did post stories sometimes my posts would sometimes have my man’s plate clearly placed across from mine, or his hand cheers’ing my drink i’ve never posted him fully fr but i don’t see a reason to when i barely even post myself
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 04:19 AM
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Ask For It, by magnolia park: I don't wanna wait for too long I just wanna taste, I can't stop, baby Better tell your friends to go home I need you to myself right now, baby Let's not pretend That you don't want my hands around your neck And all the things I do to make you wet So ask for it, ask for it Put you on this bed and make you Ask for it, ask for it Girl, you feel so good when your crawl under my skin I wanna show you how to move, just let me in So ask for it, ask for it Put you on this …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 05:15 PM
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i knew a girl who was like that for years. very pretty, just didn’t care to bother with dating. preferred to party with her girl friends dealing with guys was viewed as unnecessary stress
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 07:10 PM
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almost 😳
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 04:32 PM
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ooooh what design for your nails ? and do you have trusted lash techs all over the world? ik for some women they have specific people they go to over and over again
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 04:32 PM
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wholesome 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 04:23 AM
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im curious what u did that set off bot allegations
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 04:22 AM
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sound like a fantastic saturday , esp when you’re child free !
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 03:46 AM
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are u at least better than when you first got into the hospital ? i had a kidney infection years ago, they’re not fun at all
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 03:46 AM
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what are yall up to tn
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 02:50 AM
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like who 🤔 off the top of my head ik fall out boy is from here, but i feel like they’re more mainstream pop punk chicago is VERY segregated i will say. i live in the south side, where it’s mainly rap, hip hop and r&b
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 10:00 PM
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more dresses and skirts, always part of me wants to try more casual vibes and buy some shorts but i j love how dresses and skirts look on me
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 06:50 PM
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nope
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 06:48 PM
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idk any girls my age that listen to alt music like i do , i imagine part of that has to do w location
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 06:08 PM
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tbh i’m most of these things but idk a single girl my age that listens to the same type of music as me. the drugs part is my personal “red flag” here (i drink casually, and vape on occasion) but i know more sober people than alt people. you’d be better off looking at events that alt people frequent and going from there, but as an introvert ik i personally don’t really go to events, and i certainly wouldn’t go intending to meet someone new.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 06:06 PM
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why? if anything those might be the easiest
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 06:01 PM
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i’m glad u had an enjoyable experience 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 11:32 AM
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u get it !! you’re doing the lords work ash, one band at a time 🙏 that’d be so cool if u got to wear their shirts and stuff with pride , like “yea it’s a cool shirt, my husband is in the band”. that’s such a flex ❤️‍🔥
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 07:03 PM
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i hate how so many cool graphics are on the backs of tees and hoodies !!!! why the fuck is that the trend ?!? it’s always a boring ass front with like a little logo on the upper side or a couple words in the middle or even WORSE a blank front and an expansive awesome graphic on the back i hate it 😩😭 1, when the art is cool, I, the wearer, wanna see it !!! and 2, my braids go past my waist ! they cover whatever cool stuff is on the back !!! im trying to find band tees for some of my favorite arti…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 06:42 PM
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what is hood femininity
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 06:16 PM
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i hope we die together. my plan is that if we both make it to 75 we both off ourselves in some cool fun way
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 05:20 PM
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noooo. i’m so sorry to hear that. i hope you get better soon!!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 12:26 AM
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stacy widowed
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 06:22 PM
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there’s the whole theory saying you should like someone’s natural scent, which i do agree with. that’s not a problem i suffer from 🤍🙏 perfume is just a special interest of mine, kinda like a hobby. i get joy out of curation, and he finds the little extra things i do hot, just like he still thinks im hot after a full day at work ❤️‍🔥
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 10:55 PM
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i used to say my “max allowed” n count in a partner was 5 or 10, can’t remember exactly. but i had a limit. that plus no casual sex. i grew up very strictly religious, my n count is 2 and i have never/would never do casual sex myself but in all honesty, when my relationship started i didn’t ask for the exact number until we were practically a year in. and having been friends first, i knew some of his stories, so i knew he’d done casual before, and honestly didn’t care. his count is a lot higher …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 10:52 PM
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same with men - a good scent can be quite a head turner. when a lot of guys are NPCs it can make someone memorable i’ve noticed men really really like vanilla. ik my guy’s favorite fragrance profile, and i coordinate a scent vibe with my outfit at home sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 10:26 PM
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that’s a great question. i think im gonna ask for a chainmail necklace. or maybe a ring
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 10:24 PM
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i think having a set time line can be kinda odd, and could make someone question your intentions/priorities as a woman. i’m all for women waiting for sex until they’re 100% ready and content with the decision, and for some women that takes longer than others. the right man will respect your physical boundaries. but it doesn’t have to be a set checklist. i prefer to wait 🤷🏽‍♀️ sex makes me feel more attached to a guy, and going all the way too early would cloud my judgement. plus i found it to be…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 10:22 PM
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ooooh i can only imagine that smells incredible. what are you making ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 05:43 PM
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i’m overly horny tbh. very high libido i also deal with a lot of shame surrounding sex. kinda a tough combo, but that’s more about me and my upbringing than him
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 05:42 PM
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<image> lol at my low physical age 🤣 i wonder if that relates to how active i am i’m 26 so i’ll take it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 04:14 PM
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ik me personally there’s certain things i only wanted to do after marriage 🫠🫠
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 04:07 AM
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and honestly i enjoy the contrast. the “looks like she’d kill you but is super sweet”. i think it’s a beautiful thing to confront your preconceived notions, i try and do that myself at least. decoupling appearance from what’s on the inside yk and also swords and spikes are just FUN!!! my style goal for this year is to master my casual vibe. a tomboy look can be a great look!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 03:42 AM
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i do think there’s something to be said about how a man can make a woman feel safe comfortable enough to want to be more experimental sexually when i feel safe with a man it makes me want to do even more with him
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 03:26 AM
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i’m not sure how either kink would be abuse if both parties are consenting and enjoying it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 08:39 PM
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which i don’t really get lol. a kiss is WAY different from sex to me 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 04:24 AM
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my “archetype” visually is alternative. sometimes bratz glam, sometimes spooky grunge chill. i’m aware it’s offputting to some, and i’m quite fine with that. i find openness attractive, and appreciation of individuality. my look also isn’t built with the goal of attracting a man - it’s an expression of who i am, me, on the inside. my personality though isn’t necessarily congruent with what one would assume, and i’m okay with that too. both my personality and my looks attract a certain type of gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 01:15 AM
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i don’t see any problems women in their 30s probably have more stable finances and personal identities anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 12:46 AM
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oh okay yea. i’m 26, my friends are in the 21-28 range
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 12:27 AM
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idkkkkkk i’ve seen it. i find my circles are kinda mixed - degreed vs those without, and i find vibes sometimes trump resume
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 12:18 AM
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lol someone who matches your strategy is a MUST! errands quickly become grating when one party feels rushed/has to rush the other person
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 12:17 AM
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this is suchhh a vibe. i love how you described that, i can picture it. music going in the background do you like to drive? or do you always prefer passenger princess’ing?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 12:16 AM
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i’m someone that some people would assume has a high n count i … - dress revealing - hung around popular kids and athletes - partied a LOT in college, enjoyed kissing randoms for funsies - still like to party lol, love clubbing (i wish i went more !) - enjoy a fun night out with the girlies - love to take shots, enjoy drugs and yet (?) my n count is 2 my fiance never asked my body count, really i asked him first and when i told him mine he was a bit surprised. but his count is also quite a bit h…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 12:14 AM
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running errands together is lowkey a compatibility test to me i hate running errands usually but with the right person i’ve found it to be kinda fun. you can almost make a date of it - get food, grab some legos to do together later, buy each other some little gifts
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 10:41 PM
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how did you even find a club like this
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 09:37 PM
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are u ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 02:44 AM
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omg cheers babes ! whatcha having tonight? i’m taking shots
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 02:44 AM
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2 dates?! okay that’s fast as fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 01:21 AM
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oooh okay what’s your ideal “talking phase” for me, we were friends first, dated for 2.5 weeks before he asked me to be his gf
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 12:58 AM
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i would never date a short guy, yea. i’m 5’7 i don’t like overly tall guys either tho. i hate feeling towered over. 5’9 - 5’11 is perfect
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 07:49 PM
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why would it be ? it’s not my ideal at all
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 07:29 PM
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he’s neurotic aF
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 07:24 PM
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oo where are yall going
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 03:18 PM
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funny enough, i’m actually very introverted. i just like to party and dress up lol but my preference is to date extro normie men who also like to party, and those types are not virgins at 26 plus i feel like a virgin is less likely to be comfy with / support the way i dress
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 11:47 PM
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date one of the other women who don’t care. not me. or get hotter 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 11:30 PM
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i’ve always found it interesting that some porn watchers literally want to fuck the person they’re seeing on screen whereas others prefer to superimpose the face and idea of their one person onto the scene they’re viewing
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 11:22 PM
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definitely an immediate no from me i doubt our lifestyles would be compatible, i don’t wanna deal with the baggage, and even though my n count is pretty low, there’d almost certainly be an overall experience gap that i’m not interested in navigating
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 11:05 PM
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if you think there’s a chance he’s interested, and you’ve observed him to be of good character, make a move
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 07:13 PM
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what are examples of attention seeking behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 06:53 PM
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i made a new instagram specifically so i could avoid seeing all those people i sorta reinvented myself in 2021 after my mental health fell apart. seeing people from my past really just brings up bad feelings for me, and a lot of unhealthy comparison
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 06:26 PM
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we used to do reveals, i’ve posted myself before. i also have a post on my page that’s up some people are average, some people are above, some are below
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 05:14 PM
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assuming both involve sex , would you rather have a NSA booty call or a relationship? difference being love and emotional commitment
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 11:30 AM
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happy anniversary 🤍 glad to hear you had a great time !! props to you for supporting an artist 🩷❤️‍🔥
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 05:21 PM
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i applaud men for getting the treatment they need, but i’d also say that dating someone w mental health issues is not for the weak. i hope you eventually find someone who can support you on your journey, but i don’t think there’s anything wrong w a woman deciding she doesn’t want to take that on. regardless, i hope your journey goes well and you see improvement. maybe your life will look totally diff a year from now, that can be really exciting
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 05:19 PM
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bulk
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 11:56 PM
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this is some girls bf where i don’t really see the appeal but she’s head over heels for him
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 11:37 PM
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he’d be considered hot imo
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 11:36 PM
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what’s your flair mean? what does husband material mean to you and why do you feel you fit it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 11:36 PM
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ahhh okay. that makes a lot of sense. i really liked how you framed that it’s genuinely not something i think about in how i go about my day - i view my kids as people yk? they just happen to be quite short, but they’re full of ideas and preferences and opinions that shouldn’t be discarded just because they’re small. the idea of people taking advantage of that not only sickens me but shocks me. like how could you even be so cruel.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 11:26 PM
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how attractive is it for a person you’re dating to be “good with kids”? how important is it ? are there underlying traits that it’s getting at? and how do you even assess that - i’m sure there’s plenty of people who pm never interact with kids as grown adults like ik clearly, as a preschool teacher, i’m good with kids, but the idea of this being some sort of green flag is kinda amusing to me considering i don’t even want kids of my own.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 11:07 PM
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i’m not the one saying these things
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 09:45 PM
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depends on what your specific issue is and what type of heel you’re working with if your issue is balance, practice helps if your issue is faulty ankles, practice ime doesn’t help much. i prefer block heels for this reason
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 05:37 PM
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this conversation falls apart when people aren’t able to settle on a shared definition of need would you say present parents are a need? parental love?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 02:01 PM
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no fr like where’s the romance , man
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 12:34 PM
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AYE now okay as one of the self admitted girlies who prefers to wait for sex , something that i find always gets missed in those convos is that sexual desire can exist WAY before sexual readiness. im a very sensitive girl and ik this about myself. sex also makes me more attached to someone, and once im in love/attached, i love hard. me wanting to wait is more about protecting myself than lack of desire - once ive crossed that threshold w someone, im very HL, hence the flair lol but im also aware…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 12:28 PM
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so many guys here talk about a relationship as just something to suffer through, a route to get what they really want, which is JUST sex, and only sex. something they’d rather have no strings attached, no emotional intimacy involved. do people not want to be in love ? i get the whole idea of how “validating” NSA sex is, and there’s nothing wrong with wanting just that. but there’s also a lot of beauty and enjoyment in bonding with someone, feeling safe with them, laughing together, and sharing e…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 12:01 PM
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i’m a sucker for beautiful eyes
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 02:50 AM
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oh wow, i’ve loved this song for so long, not knowing it was a cover !
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 06:55 PM
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what’s bad about dating only one person at a time?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 05:38 PM
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what do you mean by crush? what specifically are you experiencing- do you want to sleep w him?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 05:37 PM
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people often like to know when they’re spending time around someone their partner has slept with
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 10:37 AM
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🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 01:32 AM
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cold approach is approaching a complete stranger warm approach is approaching someone you already share some sort of connection/context with, ex an acquaintance, friend or friend of a friend
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 01:11 AM
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! what’s ur mission?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 01:03 AM
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i warm approached, and tbh i’d encourage other women to do the same. just vet the guy first
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 12:57 AM
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yes it has! like 6 months ago, i texted him an outfit id seen on pinterest and asked him if he’d be comfy w me wearing something similar. he said honestly, no. okay cool now, i always try on my outfits for him when ive gone shopping. this instance was like any other, i was preparing for a girls night out with my friends. i was trying on fit ideas and i had the idea to put that outfit together and see what he’d say when he sees it actually on my body. i tried it on, and asked if he’d be comfy w m…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 11:37 PM
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things i wear are always very flattering and well put together lol. my fiance loves having a hot girl on his arm 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 11:29 PM
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i dress in a pretty eye catching way , revealing and also alternative, and i embrace the fact that people make assumptions. for one thing, dressing alternative communicates certain views, like being anti racism, anti homophobia, pro individualism, and i’m proud to signal these views. but i also embrace the fact that my attire creates contrast - i may appear cold and intimidating, but im really warm and gentle. i also know i may look easy to some, but im very comfortable asserting my sexual bound…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 11:03 PM
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don’t date us then.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 10:47 PM
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B, i can’t date a 5’7 man
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 10:46 PM
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because i know my man respects and encourages my self expression, im much more willing to be open to his opinion if he said something i was wearing was more revealing than he’s comfortable with. i do like to show skin, and im not compatible with a man who prefers a modest woman. i grew up with self expression being policed, my first relationship was controlling, and since leaving all that behind, ive really enjoyed embracing who i am and what i like to see on myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 10:43 PM
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bruh i need to get a life
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 04:42 AM
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first again?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 04:18 AM
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first?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 03:10 AM
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how much would someone have to pay you to drink a straight glass of plain milk id say $25
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 02:12 AM
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rage bait iirc median age for men and women is like 27/28 makes sense w age of first marriage getting later
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 11:36 AM
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meh, i’d say it’s more a friend giving the “approval” of “oh i know him, he’s cool” which is less about social status hierarchy and more about confirming this person isn’t a psycho piece of shit pre selection yes, on the basis of being likable, not prestige
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 03:32 AM
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ah okay. i’m sorry you went through that in your childhood. i hope you have/eventually get the opportunity to build a different sort of home life for you and your future family i will say tho, sometimes a bad experience ends up being a lesson learned. that’s the human experience, in all its messiness. making bad decisions in your teens and young twenties is for some, part of growing up. i agree, ideally those decisions don’t go on to directly harm innocent children, who never asked to be put in …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 03:26 AM
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is the fate of the children really your main gripe with it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 03:10 AM
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i’m ngl i observe that a lottt of women would rather date a guy they’re familiar with - a friend, a friend of a friend, hell, even re date an ex over finding a completely new stranger probs part of why some situations drag on WAY beyond their expiration date
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 01:50 AM
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btw congratulations on graduating!!!!!! did u go to a nice restaurant or do anything fun to celebrate ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 11:25 PM
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natural, yea probably not. but the way social media has infiltrated the lives and habits of young people has definitely made relationship posting pretty normal atp, as in average, typical, expected. there’s a whole phenomenon of couples going “instagram official” and everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 11:24 PM
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another what?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 11:06 PM
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what’s wrong with wanting to share your happiness with the world? it’s pretty normalized to want to share your life online, and for some people, sharing their relationship is a natural part of that
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 11:01 PM
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no, because like OP said, i’m not sexually attracted to women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 11:22 AM
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how long have you been w your husband? how’d you create that dynamic?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 02:16 AM
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so this past week was teacher appreciation week, and today is obviously mother’s day 🩷 i have a lot of admiration for moms who are also in care industries and education - it’s a beautiful thing to devote your time to caring for others in both your home and professional life
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 05:46 PM
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honestly as someone who is way too close to this reality, i agree
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 05:23 PM
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i feel like it’s normal to notice repeated faces though. has nothing to do with finding the person attractive or interesting or intriguing , i’d notice if we got a different mail guy delivering to our building and he’s at least 45+ and balding. it’s just pattern recognition is having someone notice your mere existence a big deal to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 12:25 AM
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this is the type of thing i’d say and think absolutely nothing of it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 11:54 PM
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sociosexuality creates way more controversy than libido. being HL doesn’t mean you date around
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 06:21 PM
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my friends talk about their dating lives all the time, and their gripes with the people they’re seeing. i guess it’s a normal discussion topic amongst 20 something year old women here, especially since none of my peers are married
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 06:20 PM
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ppd definitely does skew different from the norm in that aspect. ik personally, there’s not a single one of my peers that has a dating “history” like mine, but also i live in a major city overall ppd women tend to be way more sexually conservative, introverted, anxious and neurotic than the average young woman IRL. you could say the same about the men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 05:26 PM
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strong odds are , she’s your 90th or something similar
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 03:55 PM
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iirc the majority of unwanted pregnancies are happening within romantic relationships, not due to casual sex just because you’re in a relationship doesn’t mean you are currently in a good place to have a kid
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 02:57 AM
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haha it’s funny how often guys report similar experiences as you - not realizing until much later when a girl is hitting on them. probably because of women’s tendency to be less direct 😅 and maybe you’re right , women do often find it attractive when a guy isn’t overly desperate for her, but i imagine it’s a tight line to walk. show interest, but not too much, not overly pushy too soon … it’s good you’re seemingly able to just do it naturally 😆 i’m glad to hear you’re enjoying your relationship …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 11:36 AM
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full transparency actually, i don’t want to give the impression that my family life was something that it wasn’t. my parents were never outright abusive, just not really truly loving, and deeply religious. love was something to earn. i think i’ve just come to prefer relationships with people who see me for who i actually am, without the pressure to seek approval. thankfully i end up well received, but i don’t like to have to overthink
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 11:30 AM
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not really, it’s more about my struggle to value and enjoy certain kinds of connections. or maybe actually, idk. with family i feel an obligation to earn love and seek approval
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 11:19 AM
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not to me, i enjoy time with just us
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 03:15 AM
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as someone who’s not close w their family, and struggles w enjoying those types of interactions, i actually prefer someone who has some level of distance with their family too. truth be told, i don’t wanna spend every holiday with in laws, i don’t wanna have to form a bunch of new relationships that’ll end up being unnatural to me. for better or for worse, i place the most value on chosen family, not blood bonds. my ideal holiday is just me and my guy, and no one else. i try tho, and ik a good f…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 11:16 PM
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i didn’t know u were poly! how’s it going? is this the girl u said u were building a connection with a few months back?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 06:53 PM
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answering the last question in a separate comment since i had a bit more to say yes, i do think sex and dating are important. not in a “this is everything in life” way, but in a very real, human-development kind of way. my romantic relationships have shaped me a lot. they’ve taught me what i like and don’t like, helped me understand myself better, and pushed me to grow. they’ve built my confidence and, at times, forced me to be strong in ways i wouldn’t have been otherwise. especially in my curr…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 05:49 PM
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i had my first kiss when i was 18. i wasnt allowed to date in high school, and my friends made fun of me for it, so when i went to college i wanted to get it over with. kissed a random guy at a party first relationship was from when i was 19 to 21. he sucked and was abusive, and it sent me into a deep depression, but i learned and grew from it. when i was 21 i briefly dated a guy who cold approached me, but broke things off when he wanted sex earlier than i did. around my 22nd birthday i caught …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 05:48 PM
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ah okay i see what you’re saying. i think these are a few differences in type tho that women have, and i see pieces of these examples in the answers given. a type doesn’t have to be OVERLY specific. as long as there’s a couple distinguishing features facial hair vs no facial hair blonde vs dark features, eye color long hair vs clean cut slender vs broad shoulders an athletic build is the conventional preference but some women prefer men huskier tattoos vs none (think the alt/musician niche) nerd…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 12:10 PM
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a fellow eyebrow enjoyer !!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 11:43 AM
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this is the exact kinda guy i could see fitting into your lifestyle (with what ik of it, of course) and that’s awesome
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 11:43 AM
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is this supposed to be ground breaking most people would prefer to date someone they find hot. like sense of humor is important to me, 100%. but also ik im certainly not dating someone ugly just bc they’re funny
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 11:42 AM
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i haven’t done it often, i’m normally fine with a regular tv show or even nothing playing but , there was one specific occasion where i had a certain song on, and it created a really intense associated memory. i think it’s kinda cool tbh, the way music can be tied to a memory. now i cant listen to the song without being transported back to that moment
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 11:40 AM
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ig we’ll see
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 01:51 AM
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huuuuge bears fan lol. i got him his first jersey for christmas, ive bedazzled lighters for him in bears colors… tbh i dont give a rats ass about football but i find his passion for it really endearing, probably bc it’s a “classic american masculine” interest idk does your gf fit your type 👀👀
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 01:51 AM
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q4all: what’s your type ? i’ll go first 👀 for me a guy that’s bearded, dark features, brown eyes, thick brows 😋 broad wide build, strong, large hands. a bear :) streetwear style, love a good baseball cap and a light chain 🫶🏾 5’9- 6 ft (i like overall taller than me but my height or even shorter when i have my platform boots on) extroverted, protective, likes to party a bit, street smart, football loving
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 01:13 AM
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women (yea yea yea, not all, but a lot) are typesexual not only do they often have a type that they stick to but a lot of women will choose a 6 who’s their type over an 8 who’s not
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 06:15 PM
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what’s weird about it, to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 06:13 PM
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sorry to hijack but whyy are there so many INxx’s lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 01:41 AM
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i’m isfp, he’s estj isfp is described as artistic, aesthetically driven, reserved, fiercely independent, and gentle estj is described as pragmatic, organized, reliable, excelling at leading/planning, direct, hardworking, and committed to stability i think we balance each other well
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 11:31 PM
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zero
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 06:38 PM
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a shot would be more effective 1
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 10:26 PM
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i asked, when it came up as a question on a dating show we were watching together. but we were already a year into our relationship and living together my previous partner though obsessed over that kinda thing, and even asked my “kiss count”. he was also an insecure type
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 05:28 PM
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physical touch is 1000% my primary love language. all of them are important, but i truly feel most centered when my partner and i connect physically- sex is part of that for me, yes, but it’s also hugs, handholding, even just sitting so we can touch each other. i love to just be squeezed and held. it makes me feel safe. to be clear though, i also find sex to be an incredibly crucial way to connect. i could not happily be in a sexless relationship. it’s a great stress reliever for me, an expressi…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 05:36 PM
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no and FUCK no my fear of pregnancy runs so deep that seeing pregnant women unfortunately makes me nauseous
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 02:34 AM
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honestly, men that talk to me are normally trying to hit on me, but women often stop me to compliment me on my looks or my outfit
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 08:24 PM
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i’m so fucking sad i cant go out and party today it EATS ME UP INSIDE i’m home alone doing my hair all day while my man goes out with his friends 🥹 i’m planning a girls day out for next month. mini skirts and sunshine…. ugh summer can’t come soon enough!!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 03:49 PM
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i’m 5’7, i most prefer 5’9 - 5’11
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 11:33 PM
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blue has by farrr been my favorite hair color. i think i might continue to stick with it then again i always say that and end up switching it in my ideal universe there’d be body avatar / doubling tech so i could have multiple avatars with different looks and styles 🥹 i’d love to have an avi w pink hair, but it wouldn’t really vibe w skin tone /: alas
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 12:35 PM
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Every woman want a six feet guy yes. yes you did.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 05:49 PM
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a few corrections: not every woman wants a 6 ft tall guy not being attracted to you doesn’t = hate there are women who date and love and even prefer short men, even if they’re in the minority a lot of women simply prefer a man that’s of average height minimum and also taller than them. doable, since the low end of average is 5’8.5 and the average woman is like 5’4 a couple reasons to answer your q: - short men are in the minority - dating apps exaggerate height preferences that oftentimes are wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 05:39 PM
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no, never. i don’t wanna fuck girls. it’s quite simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 11:13 PM
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grunge/overall alternative i can’t break out the leather, harnesses, corsets and thigh highs at work, really - my work style consists of oversized sweaters, flare leggings and my crocs decked out in pearls and spikes (think the simone rocha collab? if you’ve seen it) but i stick to nearly exclusively black, grey and white. lots of alt/spooky motifs - skeletons, skulls, swords, moths, spiders, snakes. sometimes i mix in a celestial vibe. lot of jewelry too, i go for a dark romantic alt maximalist…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 12:33 AM
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what’s your enneagram and mbti? what’s your opinion on people who say their results constantly change?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 08:11 PM
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55k nothing crazy, just make more than me
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 08:10 PM
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i’m bedazzling mini patron bottles for the girls that are going on my wedding trip. they’re turning out so cute and celebratory also finishing up a painting are u gonna paint your copies?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 02:38 AM
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i love that !!! look good feel good is so real!!!!! i think more people need to invest in some self care cuz it can do a lot for your headspace
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 10:00 PM
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lol, u wish
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 11:45 AM
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i do! if i was at home id post it - it’s basically just a skull i dont drink coffee, but i have quite a few mugs since they’re common gifts for teachers. i use them to hold my jewelry 🖤
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 11:32 AM
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the recent q4w post is great proof imo that women on this sub don’t necessarily represent the average woman, at least not under 35. a lot of those answers come from women who are either borderline asexual or at the very least, low libido. wanting a sexual relationship doesn’t make you HL, as many women in that thread implied or even directly said. and romantic relationships don’t require an absolutely perfect partner to be enjoyable. humans aren’t perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 11:30 AM
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more than every once in awhile, yes it would make me feel rejected and disconnected
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 02:48 AM
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fuck no. i have a sex drive. that would eventually lead to resentment, plus sex is important to me for fostering emotional and physical closeness.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 12:18 AM
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i don’t meet many alt women where i’m at, but from what i understand, oftentimes they’re way friendlier than they may look! “scary” on the outside but very sweet on the inside. the goth subculture is widely understood to value kindness, acceptance of others and inclusivity 🫶🏾🖤
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 11:13 PM
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nah, even though i haven’t had many relationships they progressively got better, significantly
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 06:50 PM
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never tried one, my personality and vibe is best suited for IRL
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 06:50 PM
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i don’t have much of a relationship with my dad. so naturally, i’d ask my husband, who loves me and actually knows and understands my wants and needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 02:06 AM
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i made the first move on my now fiancé. we started off as coworkers, and had a solid friendship for a good 7 months. i was more or less entangled with my ex, so even though i had the immediate “oh he’s handsome” thought when i saw him, i didn’t see or pursue him as an option. over time i realized he was not only my physical type, but also had a lot of qualities that would make him an amazing partner. dependable, protective, very funny, charismatic … just a person i really enjoyed being around. w…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 06:57 PM
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genuinely did not know that the MOH thing would be such a big deal?? i don’t even have a wedding party. there are no bridesmaids. there is no MOH ! there is no actual wedding ! it’s just a celebratory group trip 😭 fuckin hell did people get upset about u not going a super formal route?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 04:35 AM
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my sister is predictably being so fucking annoying about my wedding and also i don’t understand why women often do this thing where i ASK them their opinion about something they say “it’s fine! i don’t mind 😊” and then they SECRETLY MIND like that’s literally why i asked !!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 11:07 PM
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rigatoni alla vodka vv simple, vv good
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 10:34 PM
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So if you’re dating someone for 2 years and never had the exclusivity talk, you’re free to fuck other people and it’s not cheating? i would never be this stupid in the first place. we had the exclusivity talk within the first week or two. i also addressed this point in my last paragraph. additionally, at the very least, once you have a conversation about being boyfriend/girlfriend, exclusivity is assumed from that point. “dating” aimlessly for 2 years is silly. That’s BS. I don’t buy into non-ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 11:04 PM
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then they should be having that talk. that’s why communication is critical, especially if you met on an app. exclusivity isn’t the default either, that’s why people should use their words and make expectations clear. having idealistic expectations and not communicating like an adult is how you get your feelings hurt. it’s not cheating, by definition. its arguably only dishonesty if you said something to imply you weren’t seeing other people, while behaving differently. or i guess perhaps if you’…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 10:19 PM
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if they weren’t even exclusive, it’s not cheating
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 10:09 PM
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why the fuck would she tell him that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 09:55 PM
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awwwww! i’m partial to little black cats, but they’re both incredibly cute
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 10:05 PM
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idk why i asked this
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 04:11 AM
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what kinks do yall judge
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 02:12 AM
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there’s a noticeable boost in satisfaction from dating someone you like and are attracted to vs dating someone you like and are attracted to, who’s also very clearly your ideal type (physically)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 01:33 AM
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i’ve been the girl that caught feelings for a friend and made a move, but it wasn’t after years. i made a (drunken) sexual pass at him on a night out w friends
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 01:30 AM
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what’s ur most preferred smoking method
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 01:10 AM
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gosh she’s so gorgeous here
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 11:27 PM
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80-120 for just my nails a pedicure is like 35-50 on top
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 03:27 PM
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since deciding not to have kids, i feel so much more excited about my future. like the possibilities feel endless
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 03:27 PM
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why do guys love spider-man so much it’s great, i’m watching it now but guys REALLY love it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 02:49 AM
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no occasion, just casual lunch date and adventure to the post office i like to wear certain things that result in me often being overdressed
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 02:14 AM
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cuz what do i even say to THAT ? 🤣🤣🤣 they’re an accessory! but that’s all
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 01:45 AM
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ahh, i understand. i’m a flat footed girly which ig has its pros and cons thoughts on new rocks? i can only afford dupes 🥹
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 01:38 AM
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phineas and ferb lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 01:37 AM
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thank you !
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 01:37 AM
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a girl can learn to use this to her advantage
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 01:36 AM
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none, but also i haven’t really dated at all
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 01:36 AM
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fuck no. i was a very different person back then i moved states
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 01:35 AM
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do u think they’d be decent for walking around? since they don’t really have a major heel, mainly just a platform i’m surprised say they’re long on you, iirc you’re tall, no? i’m 5’7
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 12:15 AM
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u/greatsmashplayer
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 12:12 AM
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thank u ms bunny queen 😘🩷
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 12:12 AM
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so are mine !!! camel 300s?? i LOVE THEM. i’m looking to get the shaker 374 ones for my vegas trip later this year - do u own those by any chance ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 12:06 AM
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something something too violent, focused on teen drama and dating for context i also wasn’t allowed to watch spongebob, wizards of waverly place, or hannah montana
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 12:03 AM
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🩷🥹🪞
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 11:59 PM
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angel !!! check out demonia - they offer wide calf options!!! and thank u 🩷
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 11:58 PM
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3 or 4 😝 very fun
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 11:42 PM
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A MOMENT FOR THE BOOTS 😩😩 they make me so tall i wasn’t able to get the best photos today, bummer, but the boots totally slay. they make me feel like kim possible (even tho i wasn’t allowed to watch that show growing up, haha) <image> also went to the post office and mailed something for the first time , so i feel quite accomplished 😌 lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 11:08 PM
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you’ve never heard of a body scrub ? i could recommend u some, they make your skin quite soft
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 02:11 PM
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oh please. you’re not the one in a relationship with me, he is, and he loves the way i take care of myself 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 02:10 PM
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no, i genuinely really like watching movies with a partner. ideally it’s not always just a move for sex. and tbh, if we’re only recently dating, i may want to have sex but not actually feel comfortable just yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 02:09 PM
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see you get it !!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 01:21 PM
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i take very long showers, and when i get out, i have a whole routine that i do, lotion, fixing my hair etc. i like to be uninterrupted, i listen to tiktoks, its me time. i don’t mind when my fiance comes in while im showering, i shower for a long ass time. but once i’m out, give me 15 min ALONE over and over again he’d wait until im out and doing my routine to have to come in and pee as if he didn’t have 45 min prior to do all that and it drove me insane 😭 we’ve talked about it, i’ve given him s…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 02:33 AM
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oooh idk shit about nintendo 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 01:39 AM
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sounds like a really great night 🩷🩷 did you like the movie ? i wanna go see it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 01:38 AM
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i normally don’t mind light pda but these two people are trying to crawl into each others skin at 7 am at the train station 😭 a guy literally pulled out a camera and filmed them and they didn’t care
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 11:44 AM
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congratulations mama !!!!! i hope that since posting you’ve been able to get some rest
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 12:00 AM
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i’m a preschool teacher lol , and actually plan to never have kids i love my little angels, all 8 of them, but i also love my childfree saturday nights 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 11:59 PM
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CONGRATULATIONS 🤍🤍🤍 do u have plans to celebrate ???
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 11:14 PM
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today i introduced my two year olds to kesha, it was great lol they really liked timber 🤣 i used to have a blast partying to that song hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 10:41 PM
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what’s the ideal timeline for you? there’s a lot of factors at play sometimes there’s a sense of “when you know, you know” friends to lovers vs dating off an app … speed of comfort will differ if you’ve known someone longer some people just catch strong feelings faster than other people multi dating probably often —> slower commitment as you’re actively weighing other present options
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 09:24 PM
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how much of a difference is considered significant?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 10:07 PM
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this made me lol i love it
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 10:06 PM
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a little bit, sometimes 😅 but at the same time, it happens often and i get that im the common denominator 🤣 + at least when ppl lean in i can tell they at least care to hear what im saying
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 09:59 PM
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haha it’s funny, my bestie is like you and your moms side, in terms of voices. so it’s def not a total rule or anything 🤣 i get the vibe your partner is a quiet type, is that true? my fiancé is vv loud lol but he tries to at least speak a bit quieter w me 🥹
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 06:29 PM
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if that’s the case, the guy who’s waiting shouldn’t be exclusively dating her i prefer to wait, but i also only date one person at a time, and expect that person to be dating me exclusively while waiting as well
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 05:28 PM
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guys are just so fucking loud. omg. i’m not complaining exactly, mostly i find it amusing lol we got a new male teacher at the school and it blows my mind how his speaking voice and the way he laughs are just so much louder than everyone else. unfortunately my natural speaking voice is really quiet, and people often have to lean in to hear me in busy places 🥹 i end up repeating myself a lot. i just can’t fathom naturally being at a loud volume all the time - i swear even the way guys just move a…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 12:27 PM
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i think prioritizing maintaining your appearance is an important part of this as well
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 11:51 AM
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you’re talking about the female version of the madonna whore complex ? really for a lot of women, there’s a level of comfort and trust required for certain kinks, like bdsm
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 11:41 AM
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absolutely!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 11:30 AM
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congrats !! i’m glad it went well 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 11:29 AM
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those fees add up soo quick 😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 11:28 AM
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i’m engaged to my best friend and perfect match, i feel very lucky
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 10:22 AM
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repeated interactions with my fiancé’s close friend aren’t equivalent to the passing thoughts of a stranger i’ll never see again, and that’s a lazy comparison. out of all the contradictory shit i could’ve said this is a poor attempt at a gotcha 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 03:13 AM
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i’m not one to adopt pointless problems, and im not confrontational i can either 1. start an issue with a random stranger OR 2. ignore and focus on having fun w my man and im j more likely to go the second route i like sexual attention from my man and i like neutral compliments from anyone. typically girls are quite nice and i enjoy that
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 03:09 AM
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idc to police peoples thoughts. as long as they don’t make their private thoughts my problem by disrespecting me (which honestly has only happened once), i don’t care lust, judge, not my problem 🤗 i’m gonna do what i want, fuck it! if you dress in an extreme way, you kinda have to expect to catch some looks and glances. staring is generally considered rude tho
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 01:33 AM
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heartbreaking really
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 12:28 AM
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i grew up low tier upper middle class both my parents were chemical engineers but my mom was a SAHM for a good 12ish years of my childhood we didn’t travel for funsies but i traveled a lot for sports
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 12:28 AM
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we used to have so many reveals !
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 05:49 PM
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it’s an ego boost for some guys! at the end of the day, you’re the guy she comes home with and is crazy about.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 05:30 PM
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i like to look at myself in the mirror, lol my outfits are a fun way to express myself, to feel powerful and confident. putting a look together is a fun hobby of mine, and i enjoy highlighting my best features. also, compliments are fun! it makes me feel good when women stop me and hype me up. and my man enjoys having a hot girl on his arm 🩷 and i love how much he loves looking at me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 05:29 PM
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so if i’m 5 years in and still feel this way + more then that’s a good sign 🙏🩷 yea we’ve seen each other at low points but he gives me butterflies even still
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 02:46 PM
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my friend cancelled today’s plans !!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 02:32 PM
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i play! i took lessons for only about 8 years or so but when i was anxious in college i used to play for hours in the practice rooms in my dorm basement. i miss it 🥺 what a great feeling, being reunited, i’m so happy for you 🩷
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 02:31 PM
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how long is the honeymoon phase supposed to last ?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 02:29 PM
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tingling good burning bad
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 04:04 AM
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if you’re gonna date a man you have to date a man who makes you laugh and makes you feel safe and ALSO gives you pussy tingles when you look at him
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 03:11 AM
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i have 2 social outings planned for this weekend that i agreed to weeks ago and i regret it 🥹 after a long hard week at work i really would’ve preferred to spend the weekend at home w my music and my art
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 12:57 PM
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meh, it’s just whimsical and fun
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 11:55 AM
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i don’t see an issue
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 01:42 AM
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how 😂😂 is it not normal to get gifts for your birthday
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 01:42 AM
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it can be really fun with the right group of people, with good music. it does help if you show up with some drinks in you first though - showing up sober is a horrible (and yes, expensive) idea if you’re at a spot w good music you don’t have to be chatting the whole time, you can vibe and dance talking is more possible if you show up early ime
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 03:00 AM
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no, i said: “i’m just naturally a very warm person” “baseline kindness” “baseline level of politeness and kindness” i’ve been clear that my baseline is politeness and kindness. natural disposition doesn’t equal baseline. for example, just because a person’s natural instinct is to hug everyone upon first meeting, doesn’t mean that’s their baseline - social acclimation teaches people to ask first / offer a more chilled greeting. if we all acted 100% on our natural dispositions society would fall a…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 02:06 AM
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We simply disagree. The disparity in treatment toward different men who are displaying the same behavior toward you is the negative treatment. then you’re objectively incorrect, because negative treatment would mean being rude, dismissive, abusive or cruel. logically, “negative” means below a neutral baseline. one behavior can be at a lower point on the positive spectrum without being negative in the same way that good < great and < exceptional are all positive terms. receiving less of a positiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 11:38 PM
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i actually don’t believe that everyone is entitled the full and total extent of my warmth, comfort and bubbliness, as long as i treat everyone with a baseline level of politeness and kindness. and as generally friendly person, i do. two people can behave identically and still exist in different social contexts, and that context changes what the behavior can lead to. relationship status can affect how friendliness is received and what the situation can become. there are exceptions, yes, but also …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 11:04 PM
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as a taken woman i don’t necessarily feel as comfortable being overly friendly with single men. that doesn’t mean im standoffish, im just naturally a very warm person, and ik how to temper that while maintaining baseline kindness. is there a problem with that ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 01:29 PM
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unfortunately that’s very very true. i get that every couple has different boundaries or whatever but seriously sometimes the lack of baseline respect that people will fail to show their partner seriously shocks me sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 12:14 PM
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yea i was curious, i’ve always wondered around here if some people’s social anxiety would ease up a bit if they experienced what it feels like to be slightly more relaxed or uninhibited in social settings. sometimes a shot or two helps w that
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 12:01 PM
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sounds offputting but i suppose that’s your goal are u the guy who was thinking about doing drugs
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 11:48 AM
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i find im able to be a lot friendlier to guys when i know they have a girlfriend, bc i don’t worry so much about inspiring romantic interest or my friendliness being taken the wrong way
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 11:36 AM
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this but LOUDER
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 11:04 PM
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as someone in the reverse situation, this would stress me out lowkey lmaoo
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 12:59 AM
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hahaha yea it really is fascinating! and thank you 🙏🤍
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 05:25 PM
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someone can be currently single and still mentally relationship oriented neither he nor i have people in our lives like the dudebros you described
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 12:49 AM
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i don’t mind hanging out with single friends, i’m used to it atp. of all my peers im in by far the most serious relationship, same for him. we were talking yesterday about how a lot of people he knows view our relationship as a “standard” to aspire to (we’re in love, no cheating/toxicity, never broke up, we’re respectful and affectionate and clearly like each other a lot)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 09:36 PM
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an orgasm isn’t the only goal of sex
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 08:19 PM
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i find it to overall be a green flag when a man has some platonic female friends. i like when a guy can find a woman’s perspective interesting and valuable outside of having sexual feelings for her. when we first got together, my fiancé had a female roommate. they’re still good friends now it’s a little dicier when there was a previous sexual relationship. partially depends on the duration, why things ended, who ended it, if there are lingering romantic feelings on either side. i’m personally al…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 05:23 PM
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i’d love to go on more, unfortunately every double date we’ve been on so far, the couple didn’t end up staying together 🥹😭 hopefully these two last.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 03:36 PM
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you should !!! something i was saying yesterday was that i enjoy being a little “extra” in how i dress- it’s eye catching and bold. so id recommend that - don’t be afraid to take risks, the biggest payoffs come when you don’t play it safe. “over” accessorize a little bit. did i have to wear dramatic 4 inch thigh high lace up boots? no, but its fun! bold and dramatic, and it stands out. there’s no rule to say you have to fit in. and it’s okay to over dress for the occasion sometimes too ! style y…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 03:35 PM
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so here the compliment is meaning she looks “perfect and well styled, aesthetically put together, a pretty and attractive woman”.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 03:31 PM
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tbh piv gives an unmatched feeling of closeness and “filled” which is really pleasurable. and sometimes your first orgasm heightens the craving for another one.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 03:28 PM
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he’d pass i think, yea he’s not stupid my friends are not his type
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 03:24 PM
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a lot of women in shitty relationships wouldn’t last long here tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 02:09 AM
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he has a pig ??! a huge one ??
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 01:13 AM
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haha it was brunch, my favorite
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 12:18 AM
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my favorrrite
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 12:18 AM
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the snake was soooo friendly !!!! genuinely shocked me how calm it was. a gorgeous animal, truly tbh i don’t hold anything against him really, i just don’t want my man or his new gf to feel weird, yk?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 12:18 AM
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my mans hotter but also maybe yea he could’ve j been friendly! that’s ideal
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 12:16 AM
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a python!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 12:16 AM
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he - told me he “loved” me several times - gushed about how much he missed me when i left to go to the bathroom - when i did a twirl for my man to ask him if the back of my outfit looked okay, he made a point to tell me several times how good i looked - he mostly spoke to me, even though he knows his gf and my man obviously way more - he went on about wanting me to make him an art piece first specifically before i made one for my man - kinda idk … eyed me throughout the date ik individually thes…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 12:16 AM
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his gf was sooo sweet and gorgeous too :/. but the actual reptile was cool !!!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 11:59 PM
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4 girls stopped me and said they loved my outfit, one said i looked like a doll 🥺🖤 omg im so ready for summer. i like, felt myself power up when the sun hit my face. did anyone else do anything fun w some fantastic weather ?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 11:58 PM
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i’ve basically taken the strategy of ignore and redirect but i don’t wanna make his girl or my man uncomfy + it doesn’t seem to be working 🥹
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 09:45 PM
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so i’m drunk rn sorry but anyways today i held a snake and also now i’m on a double date in a slightly weird dynamic, it’s me, my fiancé, his bsf, and his gf, and i’m getting the sense that his bestie might be a lil too interested in a me. he’s made quite a few comments that feel like they cross into something more than friendly, and i’m not really sure how to navigate that without making things awkward.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 09:37 PM
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i wonder what his specific look is. guess he fulfills the niche well
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 11:59 PM
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as far as flirting goes, that line is sooo cringe 🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 03:46 PM
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i honestly don’t think it’s just a matter of handsome men - you’d be surprised, unfortunately a lot of women will put up with a LOT once they’ve decided they’re in love with a guy. it’s a canon event. that being said, this doesn’t really sound like abuse. a lot of people enjoy playful teasing and a bit of light roughhousing / play fighting w a partner. i’m not into fart humor but tickling is normal, it’s all generally in good fun
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 02:47 PM
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i don’t believe sociosexuality maps as cleanly onto libido and kinkiness as you imply a man isn’t selecting for a DB simply by picking a woman who’s low n count. those are two independent traits. there may be some overlap, but i’m not sure exactly how strong the correlation is, if there is any
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 02:04 PM
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good luck!!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 01:48 PM
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inexcusable. her child was literally right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 02:55 AM
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can i just be The Super Slut
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 01:28 AM
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it’s def not a perfect system. i can see why OLD would have its appeal, but i feel like meeting outside of the typical apps can —> better quality , rather than quantity.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 11:39 PM
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happy birthday !!! enjoy your meal !!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 11:36 PM
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that’s fine, and understandable. i always prefer to wait, i romanticized the idea of saving my most sexual self for only one person, and it can take time imo to assess forever compatibility. + i’m sensitive lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 11:36 PM
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i could understand your point for the “dumb boys” bit, but i don’t really understand why specifying that you prefer a slower approach to physical intimacy somehow means the opposite i’ve never been on a dating app before, and i guess there’s some women who say one thing and do another, but as someone who does prefer to wait, i’d probably get tired of having to specify that over and over in conversation. but since ig fast sex is the expectation on apps, id feel like i’d have to. i would’ve though…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 10:22 PM
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aw, how old is your baby? are u going the only child route
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 02:12 AM
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yes it can, and i pushed the thoughts away for awhile because of it. but one night recently he opened up to me and tentatively asked how id feel about not having kids, and i just felt so much relief. i hadn’t realized he’d been having similar thoughts as me. but it made sense - before me , he was content with not having kids, our relationship had just opened him up to the possibility of a different life. but as he got older and looked at the world and understood the financial costs, his mind dri…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 02:00 AM
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honestly, being a preschool teacher ! i love my job but more and more, im realizing i appreciate being able to come home to a child free space. i love my weekends as they are, i love being able to sleep in and stay up late, i love having my fiancé to myself. my little angels are so sweet but they also require a lot of mental and emotional bandwidth additionally, i’ve always had an aversion to the idea of pregnancy which has only gotten worse over time. my man wanted a bio kid and i used to think…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 01:49 AM
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oooh and u can wear a fun fit !! i wanna go one day too
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 09:48 PM
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i’m really curious as well as i used to want kids and recently decided not to
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 09:47 PM
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i feel like being the silently above and beyond hard worker is often not worth the physical and mental cost sometimes it’s better to just do the bare minimum
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 12:38 PM
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is that priyanka chopra ? i loved her in quantico. she’s gorg
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 10:41 PM
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6?!?!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 10:40 PM
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sounds awesome ! where are u gonna go for your date ? o i see , coffee! i was curious if u were gonna go to something music related
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 10:39 PM
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i’d be more upset that he hid it from me, but i wouldn’t leave him.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 05:29 PM
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i was also a nerdy sports captain! it was essential for my social development tbh - growing up nearly all of my school friends came from sports teams. i was already pretty introverted, idk what i would’ve done without the social skills/confidence that came with being great at a team sport
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 09:43 PM
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i do trust his eye, because he’s a creative. he’s a photographer i prefer to be the main one in charge of my own style vision simply because 1. im picky and 2. i enjoy it so its not really an issue of his gender or a “girls touch” or anything like that. i ask for his opinion a lot, making refinements after i decide on most of the outfit myself, if that makes sense. ideally clothing choices shouldn’t be causing arguments for anyone- are there other ways you can splurge on her that she might be mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 12:28 PM
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clothing items? sometimes, yea he does. for actual outfits, he’s paid for a couple of my favorite items after i picked them out. but most of my wardrobe is stuff i picked and bought myself as for things he picks himself, that’s more something he’ll do for lingerie
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 12:18 PM
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all of the above ! i wore something similar (diff top, same skirt and thigh garter, similar boots) when i got engaged, that was an upscale steakhouse dinner. yesterday we went to lunch and a bar
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 12:04 PM
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thank you, you as well 🙏🙏🤍
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 11:24 AM
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thank you 🩷🩷
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 11:24 AM
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i am all for women wearing what they feel comfy and confident in 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 11:23 AM
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lol tbqh most of my wardrobe is black one of my kiddos gave me a clover necklace tho, surely that counts 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 11:23 AM
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hahahahaha thank you lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 11:22 AM
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thank you 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 03:02 AM
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🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤 right back at ya angel
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 03:02 AM
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genuinely idek how to describe, it’s best to show lol literally all over the freakin place today was windy as shit, damn near knocked me over. <image> like it gets warm but it also gets cold af? yk? hence the fleece lined tights 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 01:13 AM
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LMAO nah my phone case is shaped like a bear, it has little ears 🐻 normally i switch my case to fit my fit but i forgot today 💔 i was pissed when i remembered in the uber
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 12:08 AM
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how would u define EQ ? how do u feel it manifests in a relationship and do you feel it makes a man more attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 12:04 AM
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finally mini skirt weather (fleece lined tights doing their part 😩). <image> some girls told me i looked powerful and as a soft spoken girly, that’s my favorite thing to hear 🥹
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 11:37 PM
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show us !!!! i’ll post mine
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 11:31 PM
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gah lee girly yall went on first dates to the maldives ???
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 08:48 PM
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congratulations 🥺🥺🥺 tell us more, what do you love most about him?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 08:47 PM
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very, he loves when i dress like this
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 06:10 PM
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pleated mini skirt 🤝 fleece lined tights 🤝 thigh highs i feel like im rising from the dead
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 05:25 PM
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for who?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 05:10 PM
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angel u manifested plans for me - my day for wearing a slutty outfit at home has become a day for wearing a slutty outfit outside 🙏🔥🖤
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 05:05 PM
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5’9
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 04:54 PM
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my religious parents would have a heart attack if they saw me today, yes 🤣 but some things are just too good to hide ;) gotta represent my flair 🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 03:33 PM
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exactly, you get itttt 🔥 that’s where the real fun starts 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 04:16 AM
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and own it ! 🔥 might as well lean into it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 03:49 AM
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i’ve seen it 👀 when i was younger tho, in college
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 02:24 AM
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it’s st patricks day / also my man’s birthday weekend, so obviously i’m drinking (and i hope u guys are too!!) am i experiencing some sort of placebo effect for feeling different liquors feel different? i guess i am.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 01:31 AM
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i like this perspective, interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 01:18 AM
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it doesn’t, because if paycheck was ALL that matters as u said, i would take any other trait as long as the paycheck cleared the bar 😊 that’s just how logical implication works
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 12:31 AM
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hm, no, because that would mean i would date a ugly cruel cheating short skinny guy as long as he’s rich and i wouldn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 12:25 AM
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i like when a guy pays for more than me overall so i’ll j call that medium maintenance
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 12:21 AM
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go to the bay
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 12:18 AM
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what makes a woman high maintenance 🤔 like i always have my hair and nails done but i (mostly) pay for that myself. and i don’t expect a guy to offer, it’s nice tho
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 12:10 AM
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small boobs can be so chic. some fits just drape so well on a frame w small boobs
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 07:18 PM
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it’s not meant to be 🥴 i don’t mean to hurt anyone’s feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 06:12 PM
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🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 05:36 PM
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definitely! it also kinda gave me a new perspective on things that i might not have realized a lot of guys want and feel they don’t receive - like there was some stat going around awhile ago about how guys often don’t feel desired, so i am intentional about expressing that to him. ig the positive spin on all the complaints i hear here is it inspires me to be even better for the person i love and care about and like you said, it makes me appreciate him even more
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 04:19 PM
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the engagement rings sub is probably my favorite on the app, i love all the happy couples and it’s so awesome when ppl choose unique rings
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 03:29 PM
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depends on how u define young. i’m 26 attractive tho, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 03:02 PM
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as long as i can have a cute avi
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 01:41 AM
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i also love drugs 🩷
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 01:41 AM
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it feels good to talk about someone you love, even if no one else cares 🩷
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 11:34 PM
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and giving / showing love both giving and receiving
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 10:24 PM
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i love love
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 09:53 PM
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i’m not sick that’s the thing i just don’t wanna go, lol. it was my fiancé’s birthday yesterday, and we wanted to skip work together today, go on a date later
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 03:33 PM
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omGGG i j lied to my boss and called off for tomorrow i feel horrible!!!!! for lying i mean
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 02:16 AM
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oooh is it your first ?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 12:09 AM
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we used to be friendlier w each other for one thing , and there were more yappers
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 09:30 PM
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have a fun weekend ahead of me, just gotta get through today
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 09:29 PM
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the dichotomy is crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 06:22 PM
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cold approach isn’t really that effective unless you’re attractive. i briefly dated a guy that cold approached , it can work, but he was also my type and attractive like it could work as an average guy, if you get lucky. but it’s high chance of rejection, so i don’t blame average guys for thinking it’s not worth it really you need to be in the right place, at the right time, and hope she’s in a good mood/open to conversation. there’s things you can do to maximize your shot but many dont wanna ta…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 04:15 PM
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the women in my social circle have met more of their partners/exes IRL, yea. i met mine at work, my bestie and my coteachers all met guys through friends, my other friend met her fiancé at a club idk many guys, but for the one i know, it seems to be the opposite experience. he goes on a lot of dates, has girls over often, all via OLD . he wants to find a gf i think, but hasn’t found the right one overall i observe less volume but way better quality when people meet IRL
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 04:11 PM
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😩 pain i imagine at that point your whole body hurts
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 03:09 AM
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how tall is your wife
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 03:09 AM
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do you frequently imagine the sex that other men have ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 03:08 AM
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these are such lovely examples ! i’m glad you guys have been able to find so much joy in each other. it’s sad to me that there’s this stereotype that all women are unromantic - when a thoughtful woman is in love, she’ll do a lot for the person she cares about. there are selfish ones ofc but good ones exist too. where are u going for your trip!? that’s so exciting!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 03:07 AM
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things to lighten your load 🩷
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 03:04 AM
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well i don’t really care for seeking to appeal to those guys tbh lol. i love and am blessed that mine are vv great but id also like the tiniest push to perfect, nothing major, it’d be fun for certain outfits
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 03:04 AM
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🩷
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 03:01 AM
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my personality is too gentle and i have too much of an affinity for daggers, leather and spikes 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 03:01 AM
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what chocolate do you recommend? i’m curious as i used to like it, but as i got older, cheap american chocolate started to taste like battery acid to me. i do kinda miss it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 01:16 AM
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does that get painful w how active you are ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 01:15 AM
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slightest boob job
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 01:14 AM
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how much taller
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 01:14 AM
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well did she share ? was the chocolate worth the money
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 12:28 AM
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oh ! well i hope u have / find a woman who does that for you
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 12:28 AM
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hm, can you be more specific ? truth be told i am overall a rather sunshine-y gal altho interestingly enough my style would have one guess otherwise. i kinda go for a “looks like she’d kill you, but actually is a cinnamon roll” type vibe
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 12:27 AM
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yea the blue hair totally gives super mean and scary
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 12:03 AM
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thank you for your detailed answer 🙏 i do agree, romantic love is very special, especially as someone whose struggled more in platonic relationships. but i think there’s some intangible thing that’s missing - perhaps a level of vulnerability, trust and emotional investment that’s often uniquely shared with a romantic partner. that sense of willingly putting your heart in someone else’s hands. feeling drawn to them like they’re the only person in the room. and it’s interesting how much of love fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 12:02 AM
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i love all those examples ! do you find it enjoyable to give ? it sounds like u do
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 11:57 PM
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damn that’s all? this kinda goes to the point that a lot of guys don’t care to receive romance. to each their own tho, if that’s all u want, nun wrong w it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 11:56 PM
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i can’t wrap my head around why 😭 do u have extremely wide toes ??
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 11:55 PM
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q4a: what do you consider to be romance ? what are some romantic things you have / would do for someone else ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 11:14 PM
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i hear they can be difficult to get right, bc guys j know themselves so well and how to yk, yank it, and as a result it can be kinda unenjoyable
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 11:13 PM
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if you could get free, passably natural plastic surgery, what would u get ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 11:03 PM
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i don’t like feeling towered over 😩
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 11:02 PM
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yea, it is really gross. i’ve seen it happen to girls and guys around here. it can be frustrating to have a valid negative experience dismissed. unfortunately it also contributes to a sense of distrust between genders, because dismissal of a SH experience often comes across as tacit approval. might not be intentional, but that’s how it can feel when you’re on the receiving end.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 10:58 PM
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i find that in online spaces i’ll sometimes approach a woman i disagree with in private specifically because i don’t like to give nosy males a woman vs woman show
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 10:54 PM
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yea health insurance and the whole medical industry is notoriously shit here in terms of accessibility
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 09:55 PM
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can be up to around $2k without insurance, which i wont have until i get married in june
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 08:25 PM
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for me personally, condoms, but that’s not an ideal long term plan. i’m making the switch very soon and im nervous, as i had negative side effects last time i tried hormonal BC the copper iud is another non hormonal option , but insertion can be extremely painful + it wasn’t financially feasible for me for awhile
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 07:23 PM
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feeling unsafe when taking public transit alone, period pain, birth control and negative resulting side affects, religious sexual shaming
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 06:11 PM
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oop someone’s angry
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 10:13 AM
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meh, sex without love just isn’t my vibe. i never needed to try it out to know that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 04:52 PM
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fuck u sleep a lot is this normal for u
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 04:04 AM
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that’s incredibly romantic u traveled alone? are u hanging w anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 04:04 AM
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i’m watching bring it on for the first time, doing a drinking game what are yall up to
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 03:46 AM
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idk this place is j so dead
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 03:03 AM
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fuuuuuuuuuuck
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 02:57 AM
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that sounds incredible ! what was the show called? i wonder if it travels
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 12:56 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 10:32 PM
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sunday
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 10:30 PM
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not my type but good for him
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 10:30 PM
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my guy and i watch it together ! i most liked s2 and the season about the queen. when’s pt 2 of this season coming out?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 07:42 PM
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tbh i figured u were, esp considering your story but you know how these other mfs get around here
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 12:06 PM
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for me and my guy, we were coworkers. id always thought he was handsome, but idk, i feel you can look at someone and think “oh you’re handsome and also my type” without there being immediate feelings. + at least for me, i was kinda going through it mentally and involved in some shit when i first met him. we were friends for several months before one afternoon we were all dicking around together and he jokingly squatted me and another girl effortlessly, which was a major “oh shit 👀” moment. then …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 03:48 AM
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this is not necessarily true lol i don’t think u can build a fun enjoyable relationship in your youth w zero physical attraction, i think it can happen tho if there were barriers to physical attraction being acted upon. ime it can happen when one or both parties were in other relationships upon meeting
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 03:40 AM
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i kinda wish i could have the experience of having met my guy, on a first date as a stranger, and experienced the whole “getting to know you” butterflies and shyness of that sort i do always say friends to lovers is the better route, and in some ways, it is. it builds an incredible foundation for a relationship - i remember my first date feeling like i’d known him for years, we were already so comfortable w each other. i get the appeal of going to a bar and pretending you don’t know each other. …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 02:40 AM
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happens. i accidentally forgot my ring at work once now if it’s conveniently always happening when he’s going to certain events or gatherings, that’s more sus
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 11:37 PM
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🤍 anytime man, you’ve always been a really great guy around here, to me and many others and yes, we got engaged a lil under 2 months ago! i’m quite excited ❤️ feel very lucky to have him, now n hopefully forever
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 10:28 PM
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living in chicago, this made me giggle. we love a good baseball cap and beard
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 10:26 PM
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what a gift then, for both of you, the experience u were able to have together. sounds like it changed you guys for the better. these are things you’ve learned that can guide your decisions in a positive direction in the future. i hope whoever you end up with in the future checks all those boxes and more
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 10:01 PM
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aw, i’m sorry to hear that. but i’m glad to hear there’s bright things on the horizon, sometimes people are only in our lives for a season! things change, and better things come in the future 🤍 at least you gained a good friend
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 09:39 PM
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wait i remember u having a girlfriend awhile ago, are u still together ? u seemed to care for her quite a lot iirc
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 09:29 PM
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i was taught something similar, it helped a lot with my outlook on life actually. i used to be very depressed, and learning to practice gratitude was one skill among other life changes that helped bring me out of it. it’s really good for learning to keep yourself in a good mood, to enjoy little moments, to not take things for granted and orient yourself in the present
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 08:46 PM
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like
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 12:44 PM
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right is a great example of ideal build pairing big broad guy x lean woman
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 03:19 AM
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this is something i think some women are afraid of when it comes to dating men who experienced prolonged severe lack of success in dating. there was another long time user, MikeArrow, who i think broke up with his girlfriend of 5+ years for this exact reason. i can kinda understand wym tho, it’s certainly honest. i’m not shaming you. it’s validating for people to find you attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 02:29 AM
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gin is so underrated. i love a good gin and tonic so you’re a dirty martini gal i see
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 01:51 AM
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yes! it’s only 4 months away so 🥹
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 12:04 AM
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that’s very sweet! i’m sure people truly cherish the pieces you’ve made for them
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 12:04 AM
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i imagine a kid viewing it one day, thinking “mom and dad really loved each other” and to me, that’s really beautiful
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 10:27 PM
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i think a woman’s personality and behaviors can encompass a spectrum - moments of cute and also moments of sexy, and it’s okay to display all those facets. cute photos can be displayed next to sexy photos. as for the specifics, that’s for him to find out i suppose
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 09:24 PM
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my gosh i’d be in a state of literal deep depression 22 lbs is major and indicative of real physical or mental issues for me . he’d be very concerned about my health
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 09:10 PM
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it’s one art piece, not a bunch. takes 2 seconds.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 09:06 PM
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it’s easy enough to just put away when people come over lol, and we don’t have people over often anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 08:49 PM
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i think the idea of men being sex crazed animals who are always down for it is something people use to excuse male behaviors, but really the stereotype hurts them in the long run
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 08:03 PM
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all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 08:01 PM
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that’s valid 🙏 i think it would fit in our space, even if it’s a bit tight. i have 14 pieces up already when u first come in lol, so this would kinda j fit the vibes
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 08:00 PM
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i’m gonna make this for my fiancé 👀 cuz we like going to museums together isn’t this so cute ?? maybe i’ll make 2, one with spicy pics 🌶️ <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 07:36 PM
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all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 07:33 PM
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ik people say women aren’t romantic but i find women can be really into making elaborate handmade gifts for people they care about, which imo is just as if not sometimes more meaningful than just spending money on something
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 07:32 PM
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how old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 02:26 PM
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good morning ppd
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 02:21 PM
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hm, okay so sociosexuality doesn’t include flirtiness or dressing or acting sexual Sociosexuality refers to an individual's willingness to engage in uncommitted, casual sexual activity without the need for emotional closeness or romantic attachment it’s just willingness to fuck without emotional connection i could kiss or grind on someone with no problem but still won’t sleep with them, im low sociosexuality
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 03:04 AM
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i spend a lot of time on public transportation lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 02:17 AM
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i’m curious what your interpretation is
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 02:11 AM
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idk depends on how you define slutty
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 02:08 AM
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you’re based , esp w the aggression towards self aspect. i know exactlyyy what u mean by that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 02:03 AM
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recklessly calls women bitches doesn’t see value in marriage saggy jeans drug usage outside of the normal stuff , ex heroin, meth too short , too tall physically weak, super skinny pushover
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 02:01 AM
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i misspoke, i mean sociosexuality and sexual desire
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 12:20 AM
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1 year - ONS almost whenever u want , on tap. a bit of escalation required , but you’re not 100% striking out on dating apps. complete strangers you never see again - FWB with one girl for one year. you coordinate and see each other idk how many times a week, whatever’s normal. you have sex, don’t really hang out outside of that - girlfriend for a year, regular sex at a high frequency, but also emotional investment and emotional support required (which she reciprocates)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 10:11 PM
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how common here is this belief that a relationship is costly and unenjoyable? as someone else said a few days ago, i think love can be quite nice, but some people see it as taxing, or even too much responsibility wyr endless ONS, a FWB or a partner ?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 08:35 PM
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i didn’t say you were shaming anyone, and i’m not saying it’s wrong to have preferences. i mean more the aspect of being a princess, inherently set above other women because of your n count. not overly shame-y , yes, relatively tame compared to other things said around here. my n count is low, i grew up being told that made me “more valuable”, i guess that’s why i bristle at that kinda language. i love being called princess lol but more because im gentle, kind and sweet, not because i just happe…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 05:02 PM
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i imagine there are tall guys who feel turned off when women express height preferences by shaming short men. ik i feel turned off when men discuss their sexual preferences by shaming high n count women, even if im not the target.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 04:50 PM
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what aspect of this do you like, exactly? it makes me feel icky, i find it uncomfortable when my personal sexual choices are used to shame other women
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 04:47 PM
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they’re soo underrated
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 04:45 PM
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yea sociosexuality and promiscuity are 2 diff things
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 03:40 PM
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i love this lmao and i’ve never seen either show some would say it’s unoriginal but i think it’s a fun lil easter egg when sequences are inspired
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 02:56 AM
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fave drug you’ve tried?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 10:52 PM
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you don’t need to wait all the way for marriage to prevent being used for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 06:04 PM
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i also find it’s possible to watch a video without lusting after the specific actors. it’s more like, imagining it was you and your partner in the vid
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 05:59 PM
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for context, i’ve dated three people. not a huge sample size, but enough contrast to understand what “picking better” actually meant for me. my first relationship was emotionally abusive. i picked the “alpha” leader type. protective, masculine, intimidating. and i do like masculine energy. i like assertiveness. but i didn’t understand the difference between assertive and domineering. he was domineering. i stayed too long because he was my first sexual partner. i felt attached, guilty, and with s…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 02:45 AM
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you already asked that question Women, could you love your husbands child from another woman as if they were your own? and i answered, did i not? yes, most definitely, as long as I’m allowed decision making power as if they are my own and I’m involved in their life as a constant figure from a young age. i dont need a biological connection to love a child. the presence or lack thereof of a biological connection between my husband and the kid makes no difference as long as the conditions i met abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 10:59 PM
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i’m curious - are there aspects of this scenario that you suspect would make me hesitate? really this is an ideal scenario (assuming we have the funds to make it work)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 10:48 PM
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that’s a good point - the child being well mannered makes a huge difference
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 10:34 PM
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like marrying a single father or an affair ? the first scenario, yes, most definitely, as long as I’m allowed decision making power as if they are my own and I’m involved in their life as a constant figure from a young age. it’s not hard to imagine, considering my line of work. the second scenario, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 10:32 PM
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if you’re counting groping or non consensual kissing as sexual assault, and technically by definition they are, yes I’d honestly say most women (and a lot more men than you’d realize) experience it at some point in their life. if you’re strictly talking penetrative rape , idk about most
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 10:28 PM
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refried beans look so gross but taste soooo good
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 02:02 AM
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i’ve only dated 3 people tbh, my n count is 2 (i’m 26) and i grew up very religious. while i don’t judge promiscuity in others, i know im an oddball in my circles, i also know i don’t have it in me to sleep around. the programming runs too deep and i know i’d just catch feelings - idk how to separate love and sex. i don’t wait for marriage but i do prefer to wait for sex a bit, and save it for someone i intend to eventually marry. this steered my wrong in my first relationship, i stayed too long…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 11:49 PM
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i like them, they work for me ! but i don’t believe there’s a set “right” way for men and women to behave, if that makes sense. i’m all for people taking on diff roles in their own relationships, it’s just not for me
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 07:51 PM
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i lean trad in a lot of my relationship preferences, probably bc i grew up super religious i prefer to date a man that’s masculine, prefers to lead and plan, open to and appreciative of certain trad dynamics . guys like that tend to believe proposing is a male duty, which leads me to believe that if my dream man, with those traits, refused to propose to me, he probably doesn’t like me enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 07:49 PM
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definitely
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 06:51 PM
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yes , i do ! 💚 we often do a fancier date for major holidays, so for christmas/new years we had a date at a steakhouse downtown. i had a feeling it was coming, he had literally admitted to having the ring at our apartment, + i had told him this was my ideal proposal spot (dinner, no frills, j the two of us) thing is, we got through dinner and he didn’t actually propose. so i figured it wasn’t gonna happen 🤷🏽‍♀️ i had mentally prepared for that possibility anyway. he mentioned wanting to go on a …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 06:50 PM
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sue me
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 04:42 PM
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and that’s beautiful! i’m glad it worked for you
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 04:42 PM
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nothing wrong with that! whatever works best for you and yours, i’m not saying there’s a problem with you doing that. there’s nothing wrong with either of our preferences, yours is just a minority opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 04:28 PM
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i think it’s in bad taste to comment negatively on a happy post a woman made about something she’s excited about but it’s fine to not want to propose, and it’s fine to express that, just not on j that person’s engagement post. i’d rather eat a jean jacket than propose to a man. and most women ime feel the same way 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 01:09 PM
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hey fiesty, how’ve u been ?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 02:24 AM
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i was kinda just answering the general question, not the specific post if you’d only been friends for 3 days there’s not as much disappointment, and feeling of loss, since nothing had really been built yet
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 02:07 AM
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the world is your oyster 🌎🙏 whatever you guys decide, i hope you have a great time !
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 01:57 AM
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when it’s a stranger who respects my no when i decline, i don’t mind ime with a friend tho, it’s disappointing and hurtful when someone you thought you could be platonic friends with inevitably (and understandably) treats you very differently when you don’t return their feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 01:56 AM
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My husband was very active during planning as also. I couldn't imagine marrying a man who didn't take an active role in a big moment in our life. i’d have to cancel the whole thing 😭 my brain would explode and honestly i don’t even have the time to do it all myself Ooh a group honeymoon! How fun! That makes it easier. But also challenging because now you've got more options and that can be overwhelming. yeaaa we’re going to vegas to party with our friends, then staying for extra time for just th…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 12:40 AM
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i’ve been kinda estranged from my parents for the last 5 years so they’ve offered, but also i don’t wanna take advantage and just not worry about cost at all yk ? plus im paying for stuff like my wardrobe, hair and makeup myself. not that it’s exorbitant since im not doing a traditional wedding dress, but im also just a preschool teacher lmao so it’s not nothing 😅🤣 really the vacation will be the most expensive aspect and that’s something we’re paying for ourselves
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 12:36 AM
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what? you’ve never experienced the joy of some good lettuce at the end of a long day
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 12:33 AM
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thank you so much 💚💚 it only happened a lil over a month ago ! and that’s how ik im not cut out for the traditional wedding shit - i am doing a courthouse wedding lmfao i’m stressing j trying to figure out the brunch / itinerary after + our group vacation/honeymoon a traditional wedding would be all this x 10 ! truly idk how people manage it (and afford it) i am incredibly lucky having a man who prefers to take a very active role in planning - since my job involves a much heavier daily mental lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 12:03 AM
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i had such a stressful and brain frying day, so i’m gonna treat myself to an overpriced salad i swear when im stressed veggies really hit the spot. salad and painting my lil angels are being terrible crazy two year olds and wedding planning is so daunting 😵‍💫 and it’s not even anything huge ! i swear i wish i could just skip the whole ceremony bs and j sign the papers 💀 but our families really wanna be present, i swear so much stress would disappear if we could completely disregard their opinion…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 11:49 PM
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i completely agree actually, even as a woman i was very intro and nerdy in high school, being good at a team sport was the only way i made friends. it carried me into college where i met more cool friends who brought me to parties. not only does it expand your social circle, but it can be huge for building confidence and resilience i also think it contributed to my physique even in adulthood
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 06:43 PM
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isn’t that your preference? young?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 06:26 PM
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too lean
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 06:26 PM
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omg so you’re j really an early bird . i cant think of a time i last went to sleep that early - i must’ve been incredibly ill i think my ideal sleep schedule is 1 am to 10 am
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 01:07 PM
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what time do you go to sleep ??(
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 01:05 PM
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WHY ARE BABIES AWAKE SO EARLY one of my biggest deterrents to having kids rn, fuck. i just really like my sleep schedule the whole pregnancy and “parenting is expensive as shit” aspect
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 01:02 PM
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i feel like i’m being yelled at and i didn’t even do anything to her
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 12:02 AM
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aw she looks so beautiful. good for her. me personally, i don’t do that. i could tho, maybe if i worked less. really i like it when we cook together
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 03:23 AM
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i love how so many women have mentioned bringing treats
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 03:09 AM
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i hope your date went/goes well 👀👀😏
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 01:13 AM
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5’9 is cool, 5’8 is not. yes i can tell the difference
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 11:30 PM
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q4w: what are some signs you’ve given that showed you were interested in a guy? me personally, i - made the first move, a suggestive common implying i’d like to find out what he’s like in bed (don’t judge, i was drunk and no i didn’t go home with him) - went out of my way to hang out with him - wore outfit details that i knew he liked - brought food for him once as a random gift, after a shared conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 11:01 PM
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idc about image , i care about attraction. im not attracted to men shorter than me. i always believed i could find compatible ✅ kind and loving ✅ handsome ✅ in a man who’s also fitting my height preference, it’s not like the only men who check all those boxes happen to be short. idc about status. and by definition, it’s only shallow (focusing only on superficial things like physical appearance) if height is the ONLY qualifier - personality and character matter too. it’s shallow if a girl would d…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 10:06 PM
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it’s very normal and fine imo for women to feel that men shorter than them are disqualified could be the nicest coolest guy in the world but if he’s too short, me personally, he doesn’t have a shot she unfortunately is on the taller end herself, which makes it more difficult
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 09:26 PM
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how tall are you , you’ve reacted to this in the past she’s also 5’10, it’s not crazy for a woman to want someone taller
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 08:55 PM
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this too!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 06:09 PM
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i feel like that’s not that crazy 🤣🤣 narrows the pool but it’s not wrong or bad
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 05:49 PM
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is this woman being unreasonable? her profile is getting some criticism in the average height dudes sub <image> https://np.reddit.com/r/AverageHeightDudes/s/9UdXBEi3hg
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 05:26 PM
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totally agree w you lol, especially on that last part the way “slut” has such an expanded meaning around here always makes me giggle 🤣 but i don’t mind leaning into it, hence the flair ;) it’s just fun to dress hot !! 🖤 “slutty” or not haha
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 03:17 PM
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haha
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 02:41 PM
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haha the good husband bit ? are u asking my answer ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 02:24 PM
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there’s several female OF stars with decent female followings on tiktok bc the girlies like their personalities
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 02:19 PM
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nah this is fucked up. as a wife there shouldn’t be another man that you “can’t get out of your head”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 02:18 PM
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oooo i don’t drink whiskey 🤔 how do u like it? straight w ice?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 01:21 AM
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i’m always a pretty mellow type
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 01:19 AM
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i’m always in the mood, lol. and i don’t have a boyfriend anyways we’re watching a movie rn 😊 what’d you do with your wife today?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 01:18 AM
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i’m known for being gentle, i’m not a fighting type it j makes me feel bold, flirty, confident
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 12:50 AM
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i’ve always wondered if it’s a placebo effect of some sort but i swear tequila affects me differently im floatingg
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 12:42 AM
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gah lee it’s drowning
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 12:36 AM
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that would be so strange. i’d think she was having a psychotic break my man and my bestie don’t even have compatible personalities
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 12:36 AM
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currently a pornstar, making solo vids (or filming faceless content with you) or a woman subscriber paying for 🍆 stroking vids
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 11:55 PM
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hmmm, what’s ur answer assuming the OF model makes $100/month $1000/ month $5k/month
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 10:31 PM
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i’ve literally never heard that, ever. ime most women would hate to date a man that pays for porn edit: by “them” do you mean the OF star? or the girlfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 10:20 PM
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i wonder if there would be a gender split in answers
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 10:18 PM
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what’s your answer some people feel more strongly about their partner being seen by others some people feel more strongly about their partner seeking out sexual gratification elsewhere
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 10:15 PM
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9 month relationship minimum and they must be introduced to your friends vs has an addiction paying for 🍆 stroking vids
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 10:08 PM
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like have them as a FWB and not a girlfriend? no. you’re in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 10:03 PM
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q4a: WYR date a porn star or someone who pays for porn? OF model or OF sub does it change your answer if the OF star you’d be dating only films solo films ? or even (faceless) films with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 09:55 PM
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i hope u guys still have a good time ! i’m sorry things didn’t go like u wanted them to /: i hope u recover soon - maybe once you’re healed u can do your original plans
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 09:09 PM
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lol so many people staying in the house this valentine’s day, i’m inside too
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 09:08 PM
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fiancé is cooking my favorite breakfast, steak and eggs. gonna take shots and watch movies, just a fun saturday staying inside
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 02:24 PM
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nah. finding something like that out will only breed insecurity. i wonder why he’d even mention that to me
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 02:22 PM
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michael jackson
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 07:28 PM
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a fellow green stone lover ! mines green sapphire 💚
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 01:21 PM
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i totally agree , i find it very gross and weird. they often bring up “resale value”, but why are u even considering the money you’d get for selling your engagement ring ?? it reveals this underlying obsession with money and status.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 12:17 PM
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what reply
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 03:03 AM
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how’d u even find me here
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 02:40 AM
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is this an engagement grab or something do you want our approval? do you need our permission? stop talking our ears off about the same thing over and over, lie your ass off, get some pussy and quit talking about it nothing we say makes a difference anyway, and endless approval seeking is a turn off to women. please for your sake i hope you’re not like that irl or else even lying isn’t gonna work.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 12:06 AM
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no like idc for societal objective ratings of hotness but i need that personal experience of looking at my guy and thinking he’s handsome. a great personality actually. someone i enjoy spending time with.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 10:50 PM
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i love that !!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 08:41 PM
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i just passed this older woman and complimented her on her hair, it was so beautiful and long and fully gray. aging with grace is such a blessing
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 06:43 PM
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congratulations, that’s so exciting! do u have plans to celebrate ?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 04:53 PM
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i am just like you. i spent the first period of my life extremely ambitious, a perfectionist, and burnt myself out. now i just wanna be happy and good at what i do.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 04:32 PM
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i prefer a guy asking, planning and paying. but i have (and did) made the first move. doesn’t have to be expensive, my first date we went to shake shack after work, ate fries and talked. super chill. i believe expensive dates should be saved for further down the line but for an overall relationship structure, i prefer a guy who takes a greater financial load and does most of the planning, so my first date preference aligns with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 04:31 PM
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one of my biggest pet peeves is stupid dog owners who let their dogs shit on the sidewalk and just leave it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 01:10 PM
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my dating history is the same as hers, difference being i’m engaged
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 03:40 AM
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me toooo ! also velvet is so chic 👀 u should get some !!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 02:53 AM
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this i agree with actually
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 02:09 AM
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get hotter
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 01:02 AM
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that is what i said tho. my whole comment was about style. “baddie” in this sense is a specifically bold aesthetic, trendy outfit, high confidence your response would make more sense if i specifically elaborated on her being gorgeous or especially pretty that’s why i talked about her outfit pieces and my desire to get dressed up 👠
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 12:59 AM
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i’m waiting til i get my hair done again next month /: i have an idea to change my hair color and outfits j aren’t gonna hit right until i can fully execute the head to toe concept, if that makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 12:30 AM
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could u rephrase the idea u were trying to make in that post?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 12:16 AM
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it’s negging adjacent, the attempt to knock someone down that didn’t need knocking. humbling for no reason. i wasn’t talking about her market value, just appreciating another woman’s style 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 12:15 AM
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why are u trying to neg this random woman you’ve never seen or met ew i like her style ! that’s it, that’s all ✨ i love when women wear confident outfits in unusual places
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 11:57 PM
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saw a baddie on the train w the coolest ripped tights and thigh highs 😩 FUCK i miss getting dressed up. i feel like i get depressed
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 11:46 PM
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1.5k-2k
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 11:36 PM
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tbh yea the guy who did it was extremely slimey. offered incentives, took advantage of the power dynamic, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 11:25 PM
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aw this is a cute idea. clever for the season, and for a good cause
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 11:06 PM
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i am pro dating a coworker , it j depends on your work environment. how certain are you that she’d reciprocate would you be able to maintain professionalism if it didn’t work out would it derail your career if you had to leave i made the first move on a coworker, now we’re engaged i also knew a girl who quit after sleeping w a boss i knew people at the same job who hooked up, broke up, remained chill it all depends on the job environment and ppl involved
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 10:53 PM
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ohhh. okay. i see your perspective, thank you would it help if over the course of your relationship, your girl had spent 10x as much on you w birthdays/holidays compared to what she typically did for her friends ? i always get him larger gifts, for every holiday, this would be the first time it’s different. like i haven’t gotten my sister a physical birthday gift in a couple years ngl (we haven’t been closer we got closer in the past couple months and id like to express my appreciation)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 12:31 AM
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THANK YOU 🙏😵‍💫
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 10:45 PM
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u should consider an elopement dinner ! we’re basically j gonna do brunch at a restaurant w our families after the courthouse ceremony that way u get time w fam without the whole fancy schmancy typical thing
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 08:46 PM
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no, regretfully. the pressure of that time of my life + a toxic relationship —> alcoholism, depression and suicidal ideation. i basically dropped off the face of the earth from my friend group and reinvented myself as i regained my mental health, never speaking to any of them again.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 08:45 PM
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nah i don’t need a gift from him. and i feel like if exchanging gifts was important for us this year, there’s no reason why we can’t just decide “hey let’s do this on may 1 just because” and do it like that, yk? we’ve done expensive ish valentine’s day gifts in the past, but idk, i feel like we’ve got a lifetime together for that why exactly would u feel a ways? i am trying to understand, so id love to hear your pov
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 08:43 PM
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we’re doing a courthouse wedding, per my request lol. technically i’m the kinda girl you’re referring to. he’s more into the classic ceremony than i am, i prefer to do something uniquely us over a stuffy ceremony. classic weddings are a waste of money and anxiety inducing to me. when i say “wedding”, i mean we’re saving up for a celebration trip with friends/honeymoon. our marriage is the overall occasion, so calling it that is simpler
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 08:34 PM
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a lot of my money is going towards savings this year for my wedding, so i wasn’t planning on getting my fiancé a valentine’s day gift, and i told him so but i just had the perfect gift idea come up for a galentines day gift, and im wondering if its so bad for me to buy a gift for my sister and my bestie instead of him is that weird ?? i dont think its that weird, and i feel like ive invested so much more in my romantic relationship in this past year especially, i want my girl friends to know i c…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 08:17 PM
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playing internationally i played a couple matches in europe in my early 20s. that was a lot of fun
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 08:13 PM
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orange >>>>>>>
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 07:21 PM
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i played soccer at a highly competitive level. overall played for 18 years
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 07:21 PM
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22.5 / 23
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 06:29 PM
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on my left ear i have the ones circled in green, on my right i have the ones circled in red <image> at my session i got my triple lobes and my mid helix (the upper circled one :))
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 06:24 PM
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she’s based 🔥🔥🔥
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 01:18 PM
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that’s not exactly what i said now is it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 01:17 PM
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i always wanted to do it but i j never went full send ! going home presented the perfect opportunity cuz like u said COL makes a hugeee difference! getting your third lobes done will look so cute on you i think my goal is this by october , maybe june but june might be aggressive <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 12:37 PM
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cuz of the aesthetic stereotype lol radfem wouldn’t really fit my personality 🌻
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 12:33 PM
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in what way?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 12:10 PM
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my latest 3 piercings are healing nicely and ive caught the piercing bug fr 😩 my next style goals are - changing my hair color to blue 💙 - adding more piercings asap
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 12:05 PM
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ah, the rejection that fueled his resentment ww2 jokes have to be saved for after i’ve had my morning caffeine
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 07:27 PM
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it literally feels like being taken over by a demon i’m HL in general but during that time of the month it’s insatiable
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 06:40 PM
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well i never wanted to go to art school lol so there’s that i don’t expect my paintings to get accolades or recognition fr, i paint for the creative release and relaxation, it’s not meant to be skilled and elevated
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 01:57 PM
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i finished a painting yesterday, i’m proud of myself for completing it cuz i kinda hated it 🥹 but im starting a new one for a friend, and it’s given me a renewed sense of creative motivation one of my goals this year was having my art up in someone else’s home 🌷🙏🤍
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 01:09 PM
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well that would depend on how deep the underlying issues are
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 12:50 AM
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well it sure can help
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 12:43 AM
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queen
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 12:15 AM
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it’s one of those things that feel fun, primal and sexy in the moment but the next morning it’s like ah jeez, and slightly embarrassing
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 12:15 AM
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congrats on the wedding ❤️❤️❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 12:14 AM
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as long as they’re both happy and respectful towards each other i don’t see a problem
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 06:25 PM
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black or latino, broad shoulders, brown eyes, bearded, thick brows my fiancé fits my physical type to a T. i look at him and just 🥹😋
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 06:20 AM
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knowing you look good in what you have on is a really great feeling
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 05:54 AM
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i wonder , does it ever work to DM random people saying you wanna make new friends? if idek who you are or how you found me, why would i wanna be friends
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 02:56 AM
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i got handwarmers recently which has been really helpful w maxing steps even when the weather isn’t cooperating 💪
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 02:52 AM
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i’m dressed very wifely tonight skin tight v neck jumpsuit and a wedding ring
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 02:47 AM
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wishing u continued strength angel 🥺 praying for you and your family
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 10:46 PM
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they like to have girls around, lots of women are into firefighters. they sleep around a lot, they’re hoes, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 04:31 PM
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they have a bit of a reputation
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 04:26 PM
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u were a firefighter? makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 04:13 PM
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what’s your sign? and the sign of your favorite person you’ve dated so far ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 03:23 PM
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cuz my sweet spot is taller than me overall but eye level or shorter when i’m in my platform boots i also don’t like feeling towered over
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 03:17 PM
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min 5’9 max 5’11, im straight
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 04:33 AM
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No, sex is an emotional experience as well as a physical experience for me. it takes a lot for me to open up and be that vulnerable with someone. I prefer to save it for someone I love, who loves me. plus, good sex makes me fall harder. i’d just end up clingy and catching feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 07:23 PM
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🪞❤️ including yourself !
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 01:07 AM
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it’s a decent test of how strong of a couple you are. it can either be a total disaster or the best time of your life
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 01:06 AM
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i think men generally have a wider “would sleep with” range. a man can have a strong physical type he falls in love with while still being sexually open to people outside of it, and generally that’s less true for women. for many women, physical type often acts as a gatekeeper. “if this isn’t there, nothing else starts.” physical type is more likely to be a necessary condition. that said, both men and women can have physical types, especially for romantic fixation. men can absolutely have a look …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 12:35 AM
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thanks !
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 12:11 AM
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yes, i was not as happy back then
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 12:08 AM
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this looks super yummy! did u write up a recipe for your website ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 07:49 PM
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probably one of these best personality traits to find in a partner - a strong sense of humor. good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 07:49 PM
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occasionally, bc of ppd spaces and certain questions like this one being asked. outside of being on ppd tho, not at all my life would be worse in every single possible way. i’d look a lot different too. i like myself a lot more with my current partner, and my current partner is better than my ex on every metric
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 07:47 PM
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why do you do that tho you often take a point i’m making and reduce it to an all or nothing / black or white binary. you probably think guys don’t have types why did you try and claim that if that’s point blank not what i said it’s discouraging to continue a conversation with someone who makes no effort to understand the nuance in what im saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 06:44 PM
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exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 01:03 PM
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i didn’t say guys don’t have types tho did i. i said they’re more important to women overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 11:22 AM
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i think types are a bit more important to women overall than men - i describe a lot of women as typesexual having a strong tendency to a certain archetype of man, whether that be personality or looks or both, and also, adding more “points” to a guy based on adherence to general type like a guy could be an objective 5 but because he’s got certain type traits that a girl likes - maybe he’s got a certain kind of haircut and idk, a beard - to her he and other guys who sorta look like him are bumped …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 02:11 AM
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so what else, that would make it so impossible to get casual sex without lying
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 03:07 AM
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how short is he? is he like 5’4?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 02:59 AM
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fuck no. i’m not dating someone who’s fucking other people
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 02:58 AM
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i never minded being asked out at work at my last job. i once told a guy i couldn’t give my number out while i was working, and told him what time i got off 🤷🏽‍♀️ assuming i was single now, i’d hate it, because at my current job i work with kids. asking me out while im with my students would be super inappropriate . so context matters also met my fiancé at work, so clearly im not opposed to dating a coworker
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 02:56 AM
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improve so he can get it without relying on lying
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 02:51 AM
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i think the strangest was a guy who approached me asking if he could have my number, and if i had a boyfriend i lied and told him im married he was surprised , going “damn! i didn’t realize they let high schoolers get married nowadays” first off, ik i look young but i was 25 at the time. and even still, if you think im in high school, why are you - a 30 to 40 year old man - hitting on me ??
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 04:18 PM
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their broad shoulders 😋 so yum. so strong.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 07:01 AM
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thank you, you get it. i have to go to church w my fam tomorrow full of judgmental conservative people just like that 🥴 i’ll try and make the most of it tho. i’ll enjoy seeing my siblings i appreciate your kind words 🤍🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 07:55 PM
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appreciate it 🥹
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 07:32 PM
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thanks 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 07:31 PM
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back home for the first time in several years 🥴 i’m quite nervous, my family is quite religious and i’m the estranged eldest daughter that left for a big city and never looked back. i dress very different now, and i think im dragging out packing bc im a bit anxious about it all. but its my moms birthday and i haven’t seen her in awhile anyways wish me luck
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 05:49 PM
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it’s the middle of the day and im packing for a trip
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 05:42 PM
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it can work out sometimes 🥹🤷🏽‍♀️ i feel like a non negligible amount of relationships start off in the workplace. i met my fiancé at work the thing is, it works best ime for - actual relationships, not so much hookups - semi transient workplaces - places where it’s not overly detrimental to your career if things go left and you end up quitting
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 04:25 PM
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i dont mind it as long as the guy is polite and can accept my no respectfully, like you said. and ime it’s fine, a bit awkward but not bothersome really. it happens to me pretty regularly because i use public transit, and i appreciate respectful compliments even though im not interested. back when i was single i briefly dated a guy who cold approached me. i didn’t wish for it to happen more per se, because it already happened to me quite a lot. im introverted but i can appreciate friendly intera…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 11:34 PM
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this would be even funnier if u were an alt
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 11:58 PM
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if it was my dream ring, maybe. lots of women love vintage rings, which are pre owned, but vintage and traditional looks aren’t my style. i’m kinda picky so it would depend on how it looks
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 11:57 PM
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thanks ! 🤍
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 11:46 PM
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<image> ik this might be difficult as it’s a lot of words but this is a bit more informative
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 11:44 PM
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it’s a reference to a friend. he gave me the names sarai and marsena it means “princess” and “worthy” in hebrew
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 11:02 PM
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i’m fine with either, as long as he doesn’t expect me to match the lengthy shit
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 03:24 AM
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sandwich method helps. positive criticism positive
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 09:14 PM
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physical, i like the broad shoulders, thick beard and boy brows, large hands. i love how strong a man can be. how tiny small delicate things look when held by their fingers. as annoying as it can be, i also like how loud they can be. the pumped up energy and testosterone as for the social stuff, i love how passionate and protective men can be. dedicated, driven by a sense of duty and deep unwavering loyalty. i like how they can hash things out w each other and shake hands and forget about it. i …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 05:16 PM
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i wouldn’t go so far as to say i don’t find women physically attractive, i have eyes to know hot woman when i see one. i have celebrity girl crushes. but its more visual appreciation than attraction - i’ve never felt the desire to kiss a girl and id certainly never fuck one. there’s no sexual pull for me i like hot girls like i love and appreciate art. pure aesthetic appreciation
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 04:50 AM
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netflix !
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 04:48 AM
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i don’t think his style changed at all, mine changed a lot more. and nah, i don’t directly pick his whole outfit. i actually don’t like the ken doll dynamic where women pick out the whole outfit for their man - i find it more attractive when a guy has his own personal sense of style
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 04:48 AM
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hm, i think that’s part of it. like i mentioned to brigid, date nights, regular sex, creating fun moments, laughing together, strong communication, showing appreciation and affection, being flirty - all of that ties into that general spark. but also those feelings of “wow he’s hot” and “i’m so lucky to have him” play a huge part.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 02:50 AM
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that’s just one sexual possibility 😊 i do buy clothes for him! but only stuff he’s chosen. he likes getting hoodies for christmas/his birthday. i’d also bought him his first football jersey a few days before we got engaged, that meant a lot to him i love to see him in a baseball cap w a nice chain 😩 and i suggest it for date nights sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 02:45 AM
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it’s soooo dangerous 😭😭😭😭 is she into rock climbing ? have y’all done it together?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 02:41 AM
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right? so many spicy possibilities 😋
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 02:16 AM
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sounds great to me !
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 01:45 AM
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haha that show does always have the crazy concepts doesn’t it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 01:40 AM
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yes i did, if it works for them, good for them. it’s not my cup of tea but as long as they’re all happy and consenting 😊 i would not date my man’s twin, i don’t wanna date two different people. just wanna love and be loved by one. the appeal? sexual purposes. + he could have more time to pursue his passion
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 01:40 AM
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is anyone watching the free solo skyscraper climb ?? this shit is insane
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 01:23 AM
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nah. i prefer monogamy i’d love having a clone tho, a clone of my man. with like, a shared mind between them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 01:23 AM
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for sure! and also j being with a person who’s your match, someone you really enjoy being around. date nights, regular sex, creating fun moments, laughing together, strong communication, showing appreciation and affection, being flirty - all of those things can be maintained for years. finding each other physically attractive is also really important imo
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 12:56 AM
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it’s a really really great feeling to have and i wish it for other people. i have the BIGGEST crush on my fiancé, sometimes he makes me so nervous i can’t even hold eye contact 🥹 and i’ve lived w the man for years now
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 12:53 AM
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they can ! you just have to tend to the fire. there’s ebbs and flows but those feelings of butterflies don’t have to go away
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 12:29 AM
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woo hoo!!! i hope lots of good things come your way ! i love tarot cards, the art is so pretty
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 04:15 PM
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chocolate chip banana bread
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 04:06 AM
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be passive aggressive overly beef w women endlessly whine without action be mean to me overly act cutesy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 11:50 PM
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just tell them. “you know what i’d love to see you in? XYZ.”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 08:27 PM
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never actually more characters and psychedelic abstract stuff. do you create art yourself ?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 03:22 AM
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which one
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 03:14 AM
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ha lol it’s funny tho, he actually doesn’t influence my art at all
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 03:13 AM
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i guess partially bc it’s surprising honestly. surprised that i’d be pissing people off that bad 🤣 i’m not that problematic
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 03:01 AM
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painting 🤍✨ i have a couple pieces im close to finishing, and a idea burning in the back of my brain for another and maybe cleaning, lighting candles my man will be wfh so i won’t have the place to myself tho
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 02:56 AM
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it’s kinda a bit necessary in a relationship i feel, showing interest in the other person’s interests i can do it for sports but i just can’t for video games 😂 i could never watch another football game for the rest of my life and be perfectly happy but for him, ill watch, ill wear the colors, all that jazz and sometimes it piques genuine interest in something u never would’ve otherwise gotten into. he got me into wrestling! i’ll never be a die hard fan like him but being open to a partner’s hobb…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 02:19 AM
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i prefer a nice cold energy drink
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 01:52 AM
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i can promise 1.75 of these but ! he still thinks i will be an amazing wife and that’s what matters there’s no one size fits all good wife / husband when it comes to roles you fulfill in a relationship. treat your partner well, yes, but when it comes to specific actions that looks different from person to person. overall show you value them and appreciate them. and take care of yourself. make them feel seen, heard, desired
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 01:52 AM
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absolutely not , i’m not nearly brave enough. + my man wouldn’t feel comfy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 01:47 AM
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i’m ngl i’m pretty bored by his video game stuff but i still cheer for his team a lil bit or whatever when he plays madden otherwise i do tune out tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 01:45 AM
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i’m sooo over the cold !!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 01:44 AM
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i got the day off tomorrow so i’m excited for that at least
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 01:44 AM
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who were u on discord
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 01:43 AM
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lmao your interaction inspired this ngl cuz wtf was that 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 01:43 AM
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i wouldn’t go that far
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 01:43 AM
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very true
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 01:43 AM
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i’d lowkey be flattered
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 01:42 AM
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some of the women on the main threads are so mean outta nowhere, it scares me lowkey 😂😂 like wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 12:43 PM
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absolutely not, i’m a preschool teacher. i already don’t make that much. and in the future, id prefer the dynamic where i do a bit more of the childrearing and he pays a bit more of the bills. not full provision, more like 70/30.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 02:30 AM
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honestly not really. i just think it’s childish and obsessive. especially since sex is a way bigger deal than just a kiss. 2 friends might kiss each other for a laugh. doesn’t mean anything and has no real impact on anyone the way sex might honestly can’t imagine anybody asking that beyond age 20
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 04:03 AM
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hm, no not exactly. i don’t really mean just insecurity. that can be facet of it, sure, but overall i think holding a playbook of your partner’s every move in a past relationship takes away a bit of the human element and robs the current relationship of being its own experience. i get it to a point if you’re afraid of being settled for, but it can become obsessive, and that’s what causes relationships to break down. you basically start bringing a third party into the relationship in your head. e…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 03:14 AM
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man i can give u max 4 of these but some of these are either OD, niche or straight crazy/unhealthy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 02:06 AM
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i’m so glad u were able to go that route. i hope it continues to help you 🤍🙏 it’s been good, the ideal man i was describing was my boyfriend at the time. we got engaged around nye, so we’re planning a wedding and stuff which is fun i do agree that teaching feels like a great honor almost. lot of responsibility yk? but very rewarding. i really love my kids a lot were you in the military? i had no idea !
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 01:14 AM
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being asked this is a huge red flag for me
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 01:02 AM
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!!!!! i honestly feel bad for people like that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 01:01 AM
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🎯
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 01:01 AM
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oh my gosh. wow. well i’m glad to hear you’re doing better. it sounds like you’ve been through a lot this year - i hope you’ve been able not only to find things to heal your hurt, but also things that bring u genuine joy and enjoyment i’m alright. same old same old. relationship things, teaching the lil kiddos. trying to enjoy life every day in any way i can yk
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 01:00 AM
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because i suppose it gets to a point where there’s no positive gain to the over explanation. ideally sharing about the past can provide context to certain behaviors and interactions, but at a point it’ll just introduce over comparison
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 12:57 AM
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how’ve u been ?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 12:53 AM
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and it seems like it could just cause unnecessary problems
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 09:22 PM
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i agree tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 09:04 PM
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no yea that makes sense. that’s a reason why watching dating shows w a partner can be interesting- it brings up these discussions
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 09:02 PM
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that seems like way too much, especially depending on wym by details
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 09:01 PM
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wow - it must’ve just been deleted bc i opened it, read it, closed it, opened it again seconds later and it’s gone
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 08:32 PM
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how much should people tell a partner about their past? whether it be sexual encounters, past relationships/experiences, past trauma etc
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 08:29 PM
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i’m not very confrontational. so even if it was super obnoxious i’d probably just hang around him less but if it was just quick glances i’d probably just ignore it. small peeps are kinda automatic responses if someone looks good/dresses in a standout, eye catching way. i’m not offended by people seeing my body, i accept it as a natural consequence w the way i dress. as long as he’s not making uncomfortable comments or straight up staring all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 08:00 PM
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how much are your boots? what do you wear ?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 05:39 PM
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whoah what colorway??
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 03:05 PM
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i can’t believe how much cheaper sneakers have gotten i went through a phase in college where i really wanted to be a sneakerhead, but the jordans i wanted were anywhere from 400 to like 800$ now you can get those same pairs for as low as $130
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 02:59 PM
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that’s valid, especially for an introvert. and even more so if you’re dating strangers
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 02:53 PM
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boooooo for what 🤣 what’s wrong w a girl having a softer side
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 02:52 PM
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only if u assume all confidence is narcissism and it depends on how it’s used too - like in the sense of ruling over everyone and being better than everyone ever, okay yea. but in today’s day and age it’s not always used like that. oftentimes it’s just a woman of high worth and esteem and strength - “we can all be queens” yk
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 02:51 PM
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u got me there maybe i do have issues a little but im mostly fine and thats all that matters 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 02:44 PM
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tbh maybe the woman he’s dating is doing the same thing 🤷🏽‍♀️ all that matter is that they’re honest w each other and on the same page about it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 02:38 PM
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for sure, except i think it’s the aunt that doesn’t have kids. or maybe her kids are all grown up some women don’t want kids of their own and just wanna help out w their nieces and nephews
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 02:36 PM
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porque no los dosssss and anyways i don’t get that vibe at all! it’s just a name for a girl that’s sweet, a girl you care for and wanna dote on queen feels tied more to the strength and power a girl has, princess honors her softness
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 02:34 PM
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don’t let them get to u brigid, i get u girly 🤣💯 it’s just sweet and caring
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 02:21 PM
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what’s wrong w it? i think it’s quite sweet 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 02:20 PM
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emotionally and mentally how do ppl date and invest in multiple people at once 🥴 i don’t think i have the capacity for that. maybe it’s because im naturally pretty reserved, and softhearted. i don’t like hanging out w people 1 on 1 enough - doing it w one person is one thing but multiple in the same week? 🥴 and when i allow myself to start really catching feelings for someone , im all in. +there’s something more romantic to me about seeing where things go w one person at a time and giving it you…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 02:18 PM
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gosh i’d hate to be the dudes gf in that situation. the idea of a guy sleeping w someone else literally right up until making things official w me is just 🤢🤢🤢 i’m glad it worked out for them tho, all that matters is finding someone who’s compatible w your dating style. lots of people multi date, as long as they stick to other multi daters it’s all good
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 02:03 PM
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1, not even close feeling emotionally close heightens sexual desire for me, arguing nukes it a fun date will have me daydreaming about going back to the bedroom w him
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 01:47 PM
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it’s an escape from reality. and you wanna turn it up to the max
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 05:31 AM
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well no shit. but that’s beyond the scope of the question
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 01:49 AM
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there’s a difference between having a sex drive that makes singledom uncomfortable/not ideal vs a sex drive that impedes one’s ability to live a healthy productive life, teetering towards hypersexuality as a disorder id just assume that someone that goes so far as to take experimental drugs is in the latter situation, a can of worms i’m not interested in dealing with or maybe they’re a perma virgin incel and someone like that likely isn’t my type anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 11:03 PM
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sure, and to me, *some of (edit if somehow unclear) those are the things i listed above.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 10:55 PM
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accidentally clicked your page 😭 omg
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 10:31 PM
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it’s not unusual to care about your friend’s physical and emotional health. all of those things could jeopardize that. my “sexual moors” were indoctrinated into me from birth bc i grew up in a strict religious environment. but not everyone does, and people can still live happy and fulfilled lives with different sexual principles than me. there’s not one right way to live your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 10:20 PM
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getting STDs knowingly being the other woman/cheating sleeping with someone who treats her poorly continuing a sexual relationship that she doesn’t totally enjoy lying to someone about intentions
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 10:11 PM
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my first was a bad decision ig , so i suppose 1/2? 50% lol but also i like who i am now and ig that was a part of who i am today, so no regrets really
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 09:57 PM
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as long as they’re being safe and not harming themselves/others idc what my friends do w their bodies. i don’t see a reason why i should
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 09:55 PM
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i don’t find myself feeling afraid of most men, so no, not really. for men that i have felt nervous around, it wasn’t primarily their sex drive making me feel nervous and yes , i would be hesitant to date this kinda man. i’m HL so it seems unnecessary, and also i’d be sus of the type of guy who feels the need to take something like this
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 09:53 PM
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why do you think that is ?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 03:42 AM
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hm, sometimes. sometimes it really does just end up being only girl interactions other times yea there’s guys paying for stuff but they end up just kinda being .. there. not really relevant
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 02:35 AM
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rules 1 and 2
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 07:48 PM
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well that’s boring to me, bc 1, they’re not alike and 2, neither scenario would ever happen anyway guess you’re just gonna have to wonder ! bc it’s not a thought i care about anymore. atp u think of it more than i do
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 02:35 AM
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within the first month of us dating, i said “hey im not comfortable with a man im with going to strip clubs. if this is something you want to do / if this is an important experience for you, we are not compatible. are you okay with aligning with this?” and he agreed (obviously not verbatim but that was the summary of the convo) asking me to go to a strip club would be considered reneging on that promise and agreement, and therefore, grounds for a breakup.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 01:15 AM
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absolutely not breakup.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 06:34 PM
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i made the first move but he asked me on a date i essentially commented on his hat (it said “freak” on it) and asked him if that’s what he’s like in bed, and told him i’d like to find out pretty straight to the point. i wouldn’t have done it if i wasn’t drunk and i hadn’t been friends with him for some time first. when i made that move on him i trusted his character, and knew what type of guy he was. it’s kinda funny, i didn’t realize i had feelings for him until i saw him talking to another gir…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 12:23 AM
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😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 10:34 PM
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are you ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 04:44 AM
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congratulations on your proposal ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 02:57 AM
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facial structure, i can’t like a guy fr if he’s not handsome to me facial hair 😩😩😩 thick beard and strong boy brows broad build, strong 😩 5’9 requirement , can’t like a short guy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 02:00 AM
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yes, i really don’t like the look of light eyes. brown eye supremacy 🔥
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 01:58 AM
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i mean, cognitive empathy is just “i can understand why you’d be sad by that”. that i absolutely experience. but it’s not something where i can exactly put myself in a guy’s shoes and truly relate to him. my life has been absolutely nothing like that of a chronically single man. i can’t simulate the totality of that kind of emotional experience because my life has been the opposite. it would be disingenuous for me to pretend “i totally get it” because clearly i dont. i watched a video once of an…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 01:51 AM
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2 weeks i can’t, clearly
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 01:20 AM
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i think private but not secret is honestly ideal when it comes to relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 06:43 PM
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how much do u love the second dress vs the first? and how major is the price difference? $100 vs $200 is a diff situation than $1000 vs $2000 what percent of ur wedding budget did u ideally wanna allocate ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 12:54 AM
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hm, zero my formerly perma single friend recently got a boyfriend, she’d been totally single by choice for like 2 years. very pretty and social, partied a lot etc, just uninterested in men. she ended up dating a friend of a friend
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 11:51 PM
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it’s possible ! there’s hope out there ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 11:04 PM
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some women will really throw themselves at you when they’re into you. it def happens
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 11:02 PM
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did u recently get married? ur flair used to say engaged !!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 07:19 PM
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to give a diff perspective from the other response, i’m someone who likes the “friends first” approach. i caught feelings for a friend 7 months into us being coworkers, working closely together. i made the first move and now we’re engaged.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 12:42 PM
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well that’s not always the case. sometimes women do bad things, women aren’t perfect. but i don’t see waiting for sex as a bad thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 12:15 PM
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that’s a good point, as long as tension is actually building yk? i feel like first date w a stranger is faster than i could ever wrap my mind around. too soon. u barely know each other ! that’s another good point u bring up - knowing each other for a long time first can completely change the timeline of when the vibes feel right. that’s why i think having a “rule” for it can sometimes fall flat.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 03:51 AM
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i totally agree. call me a romantic, i feel like the ideal is to be locked in w just each other as soon as possible. it has risks tho for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 03:36 AM
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wheww soo if she wants exclusivity while you both wait together , that’s a no for you ig waiting for marriage tho, i feel like that can’t be that common outside of religious circles 🤔 so i suppose that’s easy enough to avoid
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 03:30 AM
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ik id just get my feelings hurt 🤣😭 im too simpy
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 03:22 AM
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pascal’s wager - u inspired me to look that up. interesting concept, thank you. Anyway I feel like I know what mutual lust feels like whether or not it's consumated. I'm also pretty sure I was dumped a few times after it became clear I would be too slow. this is important too ! mutual lust can be palpable. tension and chemistry are fun 🔥 and also, i do think it’s important that a man or a woman walk away if waiting too long isn’t something they’re fully comfortable with. But in general if I were…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 03:17 AM
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i am team women doing what they’re comfortable with , with their bodies. just gotta find the right guy you’re compatible with
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 02:52 AM
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i imagine for some people it could really suck to fall deeply in love and then realize u don’t enjoy sex w them at all
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 02:51 AM
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okay yea that makes sense. not even as some set test, naturally at least a kiss usually happens pretty early
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 02:47 AM
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do you always multi date ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 02:43 AM
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an expiration point is valid for sure. don’t want it to build resentment
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 02:40 AM
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now YEARS Is quite a long time
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 02:40 AM
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do you think there’s other ways besides PIV that desire, genuine interest and attraction can be communicated? are there not other things that make you feel wanted ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 02:37 AM
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which is wild to me i can see it being true in some cases yea, but i think it’s a bit of a paranoid assumption, and depends heavily on a girl’s background.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 02:32 AM
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i can understand that . it’s not a good feeling to get the impression that someone you like is holding out on you while going further w other people if you know she’s exclusively dating you, are you more likely to wait longer ? and how soon do you like to discuss exclusivity
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 02:25 AM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/kVl7uEuntp
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 02:20 AM
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can u answer the q without some generalized analysis of the female sex that i wasn’t asking for i was asking about YOU not how you’ve decided all women think 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 02:19 AM
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q4a , j thinking about the latest post do you prefer sex ASAP or after waiting ? or some third answer
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 02:10 AM
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one thing about working w kids is that it will really remind u to enjoy your childfree evenings for as long as u can
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 12:45 AM
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i kinda think, part of the difference is that guys will unhappily date down just for access to sex whereas women won’t - women would j rather be single women will do it for money i suppose
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 12:44 AM
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more likely they will scream and cry bloody murder at drop off after getting used to being w their parents and families BUT hopefully after the first wave of misery passes they will be happy 🥹
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 12:40 AM
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i can’t send u flowers but i’m sending u virtual ones angel 🥺 wishing u continued strength and unwavering hope
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 11:58 PM
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i could swearrrr i’ve read a study confirming this , would have to find it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 11:57 PM
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i’m excited to see my little angels tomorrow but i have a feeling that “ive missed them 🥺” feeling will fade by lunchtime 🥹🥹🥹💀
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 11:45 PM
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real, same. it’s not a bad thing as long as u find someone who’s worthy of those things, that you enjoy doing it for
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 11:18 PM
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oooookay
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 10:34 PM
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ah. well, whatever you are, conservative is the type of girl you want, and there’s less women like that in a city like mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 10:24 PM
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hm, i wouldn’t say that necessarily true. maybe bc you’re super conservative
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 09:40 PM
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ooh that’ll encourage hair growth too ! very good for your curls
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 09:24 PM
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guiltyyy 👋 this isnt even that bad!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 08:52 PM
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oh okay yea ! missed that. well i’m glad u enjoyed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 08:49 PM
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hm, well isn’t that how it works? u like someone’s vibe, you like traits they have
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 08:46 PM
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sure, gotta match the brainrot w wording ppl look for. a few months ago there was a raw attraction craze really im j irreparably brain rotted myself 🤣 but anyways, how would u prefer to describe it?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 08:38 PM
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a lot of girls ik, big city lots to do, are fine w a casual vibe, that’s what i said. they don’t want the typical dating —> relationship set up.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 08:34 PM
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i actually think it’s more fun to realize that women can feel great love and deep genuine attraction for men with great traits yea, lots of em, but also blackpill “imperfections”. normal people, not just superhuman romance novel males.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 08:20 PM
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what’s your looksmaxxing plan for 2026?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 08:18 PM
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even in my college years partying multiple times a week my experiences, and the experiences of my sorority friends who i partied with, were a lot less sexually “out there” than the things i see guys around here talking about. not to say your experience didn’t happen, just that even in my early 20s i wouldn’t say having a roster was what every girl was doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 08:03 PM
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where are u from ? ik in the US, boobs are pretty sexualized
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 06:54 PM
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i wonder how common multi dating / having a roster is as a long term strat. it seems exhausting honestly, juggling dating multiple people i was talking to a couple of friends about their dating app experiences, and it sounds like they just go on one for a couple weeks, see how it goes. and a lot of girls ik are pretty uninterested in having an actual serious relationship. sometimes they just want someone they like enough to see kinda casually, they enjoy their freedom and space. even if it doesn…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 06:52 PM
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for me, anything super nerdy immediately raises assumptions that we probably won’t be super compatible ex TTRPG. ik it’s an assumption that’s occasionally incorrect, but super nerdy guys often are associated w personality traits that i find unattractive ex highly neurotic, introverted, awkward, shy. and this is coming from an intro semi nerdy girl also hunting. something about shooting and killing things for fun just feels a bit sociopathic to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 12:46 AM
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🔥🏆🥂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 04:58 AM
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16 counting ur kindas as 0.5!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 04:42 AM
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i believe it’s partially because of the growing idea of “you don’t owe people anything”. the encouraged proliferation of a selfish mindset
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 04:30 AM
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okay so there’s 2 things i’d like to point out. maybe u got a high score , maybe u can see that you’re not as far behind as u thought maybe u got a low score, hopefully u can realize that u can still find great love even if u don’t have a typical path all hope isn’t lost.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 04:21 AM
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idk u well yet but i like you. you’re cool 🔥 i wish u well, and i truly mean that. also ive over analyzed my fair share of texts btw so i get u on that !! and nerves are SO normal and human ghosting can happen to anyone, it’s annoying but it happens, the rest, like u said, anything is possible. ig that’s what it all comes down to in life, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 04:03 AM
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not annoyed, more curious? cuz i’ve interacted w you for awhile now i believe in you. j want you to be happy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 03:54 AM
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spread when are u gonna get a gf man
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 03:44 AM
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yes u get two of these 🏆🏆 but let’s make em platinum gold for the aesthetic ✨ (are u a silver girly)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 03:38 AM
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i’m j teasing myself a lil for the record , i actually am happy w how i turned out. i got lucky
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 03:31 AM
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girl i’m only at 7 out of the 25 😭 im technically doing the worst !! and that’s okay lol. there’s different paths to happiness, yk?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 03:24 AM
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aw wait is he your first serious relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 03:23 AM
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those are states of mind , not states of body. which arguably gives u a better chance at changing them if u truly want to
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 03:04 AM
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well i hope 2026 goes better for u!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 02:58 AM
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what’s stopping you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 02:58 AM
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yk what, if it does any good i hope it helps ppl feel happier about themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 02:55 AM
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i’m rather normie i just had a weird ass dating life 😭😭 so i failed
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 02:53 AM
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well what’s your dating status now? are u happy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 02:50 AM
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well shit, what happened ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 02:42 AM
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🥹🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 02:40 AM
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STOP no seriously is this too easy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 02:37 AM
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omg u guys are crushing it do i need to make it harder ?! was it too easy??
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 02:36 AM
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DID I MAKE THIS SHIT TOO EASY, fUCK
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 02:36 AM
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well fuck i partied a lot in college but idk man, my friends did NOT sleep w 40 people in a year
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 02:33 AM
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okay i made it so PLEASE DONT LEAVE ME HANGING THANKS 🥹
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 02:25 AM
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me personally i only check off 8 soo i fail
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 02:25 AM
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has used a dating app has gone on 5+ first dates has ghosted someone has been ghosted has had a situationship has sent or received nudes has slept with 3+ people has talked to multiple people at once has had a “what are we?” conversation has kissed someone on the first date has had a bad date they still laugh about has been drunk on a date has had a hookup that didn’t turn into anything has dated someone for under three months has stalked someone’s socials before meeting has had mismatched inten…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 02:20 AM
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soo i made a normie dating life bingo, what do u guys think? too generous? too strict? how well do you do? if there’s bullet points u guys think should be included/changed, im curious to hear em <image> i’ll include the copy paste list in a comment if anyone wants to respond that way
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 02:20 AM
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great timing lmaooo i’m making it now and that’s okay, i’ll fail too
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 02:01 AM
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left my hometown / state to go to college 8 years ago, 26 now. very VERY glad i left, i prefer a bit of city life
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 01:04 AM
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there’s a balance to it - able to enjoy and partake in life’s pleasures, but also able to find an identity, as an individual, that you can be confident in and proud of.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 01:03 AM
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i was thinking about creating a normie dating life bingo to see how close ppl here fit to the norm
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 12:28 AM
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fuck yea man !
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 11:06 PM
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i choose to believe in positivity!! u can too! like come on, u don’t believe the holidays tend to make ppl a little happier ?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 11:06 PM
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i’m on public transit and maybe it’s cuz im in a good mood but people just seem nicer today. i overhear hopeful conversations that people have on the phone, i got sweet comments about my hair, less anger and gross vibes on the train, people holding the door for each other. ik the good vibes can’t last forever, eventually ppl go back to getting bogged down by work and life and such but im trying to hold on to it as long as i can yk
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 10:51 PM
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🏆 so far u win
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 10:33 PM
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i haven’t had a night out in tooooo longgggg ! it’s freezing here 😭 so def not me later this month i plan on whipping out the fleece lined tights and getting lit w my bestie so hopefully ill touch grass vv soon whoever here it is that went out most recently, im jelly of them 🥹🥂 probs someone who partied on new years
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 10:26 PM
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why do you think it’s fun to be mean about other women’s looks online ? you don’t think that’s a bit odd ? are you generally a happy person …?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 10:24 PM
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fascinating. i wonder if there’s a generation gap like to me, mid = average hits a lot of “conventionally attractive points” = above average to at least some degree even if she’s not the type of pretty i personally aspire to, i can at least acknowledge that she’s not average. in the same way i find chris evans visually boring, ik he’s above average, just not personally attractive to me. as for fillers, i wonder if it’s gonna eventually phase out like BBLs did.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 10:22 PM
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it’s a look that has high appeal in LA/influencer baddie spaces. plus instagram airbrush filters kinda smooth the harshness of bold makeup
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 09:52 PM
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i wonder who these women are calling her mid, as she has a very very large fan base of women who love her and follow her for her looks/style. she’s very clearly above average, which is why she’s in the position that she’s in ig some people are just bitter
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 08:47 PM
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he pays for a lot ! but we’re not a 100/0 dynamic, i contribute financially too plus i like having spending money of my own. i can be a bit high maintenance ✨ and it’s not cheap !
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 03:38 AM
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😩 so easy to find a seat without everything being all crowded, ugh
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 03:02 AM
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she should take accountability for her stupid decisions. her ex husband is better off without her
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 02:55 AM
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good luck 🌬️✨✨✨✨✨
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 02:53 AM
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i have bills to pay 😩
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 02:52 AM
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i’m not ready to go back to work 😩 i miss my kiddos but holing up in my apartment and sleeping in has been freakin amazing
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 02:07 AM
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tbhhh the only right answer would be to put me outta my misery and kill me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 10:15 PM
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🤣 a new years gift, if u will. his lil expression of love 🤍
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 05:29 AM
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🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 04:48 AM
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aw nah lol we’re cool, he knows who he is
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 04:45 AM
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my lil hater is so obsessed w me, heyyy 👋😉
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 04:37 AM
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it makes you less self conscious!! it’s always in you, you j need to quiet your mental reservations enough to let it out ;) i loveeee dancing tho. in the kitchen, in the club, letting your body feel free 🤩
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 04:36 AM
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well i’m 6 shots deep so forgive me, i feel like this is a sex joke
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 04:33 AM
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most definitely
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 04:27 AM
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6 shots deep i feel amazing
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 04:25 AM
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honestly, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 01:02 AM
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semi normies
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 01:01 AM
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what platform are u thinking of posting on?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 08:49 PM
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are u okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 08:48 PM
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my criticism is entirely for women with this belief, hope that’s clear now.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 12:40 AM
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okay … and all social media affirmations of that line of thinking seem counterproductive to these women’s desires, as i said. not saying it doesn’t happen, just saying it’s an odd way for them to think.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 11:12 PM
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you’re misunderstanding what i said i’m not calling these women fantasy, im referring to the “power fantasy” of these women imagining a man who approached them as submissive to them i find that a very odd way of thinking, especially when women often prefer men to make the first move.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 10:44 PM
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this is such a strange way for a woman to think approaching is submission? what weird power fantasy women do you hang around😭
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 08:43 PM
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i can understand it being hurtful when a toy is often used to replace an experience a guy is well and able to give like if he’s sitting right there ready to go and she’d rather go totally solo w a dildo , most guys are gonna feel a way about that but sometimes he’s out of commission, needing a break etc. or sometimes toys can be used to enhance the experience w him, rather than completely replacing him. that can be lots of fun
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 08:00 PM
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honestly don’t remember it and to me that equals a great fuckin time lol tbh the past few days have been a blur, my man and i are both off work just holed up in the house together. ideal ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 02:20 AM
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it’s the holidays, now u have more time than the rest of the year, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 02:30 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 02:29 AM
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not gross if it’s an SO. there’s trust, comfort w each other etc very gross weirdo behavior tho if it’s not an SO
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 02:28 AM
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how do u plan on improving w this?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 02:26 AM
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sorta? there’s def like a 2 day period where i just hate everyone 💀 but i recognize it’s j my mind playing tricks and ive j gotta keep swimming im an introvert for sure but not a total misanthrope
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 02:26 AM
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preach
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 01:51 AM
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today was the last day of school before break I MADE IT 🥳 oh my gosh i’m so happy it’s christmas break. i gave my angels huge hugs before clocking out, i love them to pieces but man im happy to be child free rn anyone have fun christmas break plans? any vacays, hobbies yall are excited to spend time on? i’m gonna paint, light candles and wear my skeleton onesie 🖤
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 01:47 AM
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loveee a good choker
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 12:32 AM
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i’m 26 now with no kids. i used to think id have my first kid by 25 (my mom had me at 22) but i really really am loving being child free rn. reaching my most confident self, enjoying my relationship, enjoying being able to spend money as i please. ofc the fact that im a teacher and deal w 5 angels accidentally calling me mom for 8 hrs a day does have an impact on things but sometimes i wonder if maybe im not meant to have kids of my own. maybe nurturing other people’s kids really is my calling
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 04:32 AM
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false. i loveeeee my big bag, even tho its mostly empty. it j fits my style so well!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 04:26 AM
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gorgeous brows and beautiful brown eyes too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 06:53 PM
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i can see the appeal, it gives dominant. good job 🔥
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 06:52 PM
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b, i don’t do hook ups
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 06:52 PM
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ooooh what’s it all look like?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 06:51 PM
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i guess i got the bad boy thing outta my system when i was still young , i was 21 when i decided to find better for myself and stick w it . thankfully it didn’t take me multiple different relationships to figure it out, but it did take that singular relationship being multiple years of me learning the hard way. that’s life, that’s growing up. u make dumb decisions as a teenager. if anything im way more attracted to the good guy that i left the bad boy for 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 07:06 PM
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loki is better looking and more interesting but cannot date a supervillain, so thor ugh
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 07:02 PM
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sheila ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 06:34 PM
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what’s your favorite?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 06:34 PM
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social conditioning perhaps, and sexism to your second question, no
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 06:33 PM
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they already do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 06:32 PM
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that’s fine
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 08:06 AM
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oooh this is also fun
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 03:51 AM
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jewelry or perfume
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 03:51 AM
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sexyyy, sure!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 01:33 AM
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not like children, just respect them a bit less
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 01:31 AM
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she’s not wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 01:30 AM
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great sex life that’s filmed and uploaded. as long as i look hot in all of it always
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 01:30 AM
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a real green flag !
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 01:28 AM
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hm, i don’t think so, no. granted i was only on BC very briefly within our relationship, and had to go back to condoms due to complications. i don’t think the short time where we went without them made me love him more. having sex in general even w condoms made me fall for him harder
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 11:38 PM
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my personal definition: broke ugly boring doormat that people walk all over in professional and personal life low social intelligence no passions or hobbies unable to resolve conflict with maturity, abusive/violent when angry at me addicted to drugs/unable to be a productive member of society it’s also worth noting that i personally find it more apt to break things down as low/medium or average/high value
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 12:07 AM
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