sarbearsunbear Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	How do you know if you’ve been settled for? This is the best take on the situation for sure!	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/21 03:19 AM
0	Are all women disgusted whenever a man opens up or is vulnerable? Like subconsciously? Not at all	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/21 05:32 PM
2	Do some of you actually not care if a guy has hobbies Totally. Actually all the really good climbers I know were distance cyclists, xc skiers, or runners in high school. They also like cats and like...birding and math. Nerds for sure.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/20 12:49 AM
3	Do some of you actually not care if a guy has hobbies Haven’t thought of that, if someone was really into digital art and coding maybe? Personally I’m not drawn to gaming or see that as an interesting hobby, but I’m sure there are some people who would be into that. Do you mean just playing video games of a certain variety? Would it require some kind of skill or knowledge? I feel like maybe I’d draw the line at a dude who just comes home and puts on a head set and plays video games for hours. But again, if someone was particularly good at something…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/20 12:07 AM
9	Do some of you actually not care if a guy has hobbies I think guys with slightly more “nerdy” hobbies are awesome. ...and I’m a long distance runner and rock climber. I think all hobbies can be cool if the person is truly interested and excited about it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/20 07:47 PM
6	Do some of you actually not care if a guy has hobbies I care. Hobbies, passions...whatever. I think it’s a red flag if people don’t have anything that they love to do except sit around. Maybe some girls are cool with it but they are probably also people who don’t have interests or hobbies...	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/20 07:42 PM
1	Which red flags are you willing to let slide and why? Oh no! Haha I didn’t take it as a jab, I just had an existential crisis realizing that I got a degree in math and this is what I’m deciding to do with my life lol...I should go to law school haha	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/20 06:37 PM
3	Which red flags are you willing to let slide and why? Hahaha no I just didn’t really think about being low income since I just left a job waitressing where I felt I actually was low income. I still don’t make much, I was just kidding because I’ve felt like I’ve really made it in life by comparison. I am not offended at all lol, just roasting myself for getting a degree in math and choosing to be a teacher.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/20 06:33 PM
3	Which red flags are you willing to let slide and why? Lol @ me realizing I’m low income because I’m a math teacher hahah	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/20 02:52 AM
2	The level of student debt a girl has should be more prominently considered by men when choosing a girl to commit to. I mean, I think taking into account student loan debt and the profitability of your partner’s degree is pretty reasonable. This is something I definitely consider. Even if a guy makes more than me, if he has a lot if debt it could be a deal breaker.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/20 01:57 PM
1	If a woman stops sleeping with you she lost her attraction/respect for you and you should leave her That’s like saying anyone who denies ___ (anything that’s important to you) in a relationship is “cruel.” Which I think implies someone is intentionally making you suffer and I don’t think that’s the case. It’s just not where that person is at. Like, yeah it’s not nice or ideal but it’s up to the unhappy person to openly state their needs and find someone else who can meet them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/20 02:14 PM
1	If a woman stops sleeping with you she lost her attraction/respect for you and you should leave her This is if you’re married and have kids. Obviously that’s not easy. Thought op was talking about girlfriends? I think it if it happens late into a marriage I’d just see someone on the side instead of an expensive divorce but to each their own	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/20 02:07 PM
3	If a woman stops sleeping with you she lost her attraction/respect for you and you should leave her I mean, I don’t think it’s cruel. But yeah I think if you aren’t happy and don’t feel like someone is attracted to you I would just leave. A lot of women thinks that’s just how sex is (unfulfilling) no matter who it’s with, which is sad but yeah either speak up or find someone who isn’t interested in sex either. I think it’s totally fair to give someone the benefit of the doubt and just say, for me, sex is an important part of a relationship. I’m sorry you are feeling_____about it but I don’t th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/20 12:35 AM
19	If a woman stops sleeping with you she lost her attraction/respect for you and you should leave her Hmmm I think sexless relationships are not particularly healthy. Some women as they age start to find sex uncomfortable or their hormones change-but the couple might really love each other and I know some people who have an open relationship where the man has a person on the side (like seeking arrangements). Otherwise yeah I kind of agree it’s awkward to not be physically attracted to someone you care about but it’s probably the right thing to break it off instead of lie that you’re still attrac…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/20 12:09 AM
1	Are there any women here averse to dating high-n men or men who have a large number of casual sexual partners? Why? Do you feel negatively judged for your preferences? Haha idk like 10-14) I think it’s like 12 but I feel like I could easily be forgetting at 2 people somewhere lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/20 02:25 AM
1	Are there any women here averse to dating high-n men or men who have a large number of casual sexual partners? Why? Do you feel negatively judged for your preferences? I’m not against dating someone who’s been with more people than me, but I don’t want to be with someone who has been promiscuous to a level of having a negative reputation for how they treat women they date, or if they do it irresponsibly. I think this totally depends on the person an their personal situation. But even more, I’ve felt uncomfortable being with guys who have been with waaaay less people than me. Somewhere close to the same summer as me is more comfortable for me (idk why)	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/20 01:01 AM
2	Ugly men who want sympathy for having to date ugly women are fucking retarded Honestly, I think some people might match on looks, but since they’re insufferable whiner incels, their attitude is more off putting than anything else...they think it’s their looks when really they just...aren’t interesting and are totally under developed humans. I’ve dated people less attractive than me because they were AWESOME. These people don’t get that it’s not that they can’t get good looking or “average” girls, it’s that no one wants to be around WHO THEY ARE. I think because they put s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/20 09:36 PM