sardinesaladsandwich Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
10	never ceases to amaze what men will demand Dependas. Drives me bonkers.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/04/20 11:26 PM
21	My friend (?) sent me this and thought he did something ??? why does being nice have to lewd me...also mommy vibes?? talk about toxic That’s not your friend. I’m sorry.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/04/20 02:02 AM
5	Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 4/20/2020 Right?? Inclusion is an admirable ideal, but when it runs roughshod over, you know, womanhood as well as basic science, I take exception.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/04/20 06:02 AM
13	Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 4/20/2020 I got downvoted on another sub because I objected to the use of the phrase “non-men”. As if women are only an absence of man-ness. I hate this future.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/04/20 11:52 PM
5	Woke up this morning wanting to tell my ex about my most recent exciting news, thought I would tell yall instead! CONGRATS!!!!!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/03/20 05:08 PM
28	Mood. Hard same. I told him so recently. He just nodded in agreement and poured me a glass of wine.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/03/20 04:14 AM
59	Ladies, losing weight was the best remedy to my pick me ways. This resonates SO MUCH for me. Same here: formerly obese pickme, and somehow magically my drive to get Validation ™ via men’s desire for me evaporated as soon as I got my weight and health under control. Nothing left to prove.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/03/20 08:56 PM
3	Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 2/20/2020 I appreciate your thought there, but marketing myself isn’t super applicable in my situation. I’m a highly skilled technician with union representation. Which is to say I make as much as double the non-union hourly in my area, I have health insurance and paid vacation, and I never go looking for work—it finds me, and I’m as busy as I want to be. I’m actually in a great spot. Aaaaand, he’s a high-level director in an industry that’s universally valued, so he’s just going to make more on his salar…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/02/20 05:26 PM
6	Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 2/20/2020 Thanks! I have no problem telling him about it, but I’ll look into your reco!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/02/20 01:25 AM
8	Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 2/20/2020 I’ve been married for a looong time to a pretty quality dude. Our finances are mixed, because frankly when we got together 20+ years ago neither of us had either money or sense. He makes a lot more money than I do, the result of my being in the arts. He spends money freely on himself, and also wouldn’t ever begrudge me doing so for myself, but I have been feeling for a while that I need some separate money of my own. Question is, where to start? Should I get my own checking account first? Or sav…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/02/20 09:21 PM
6	Avoiding male content has done wonders for my life. Tamora Pierce! Tamora Pierce! ❤️❤️❤️	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/02/20 04:26 AM
6	Pretty Much All of Reddit Whenever We Post about Porn being a recurring and pervasive problem in sex and relationship quality. For penis reasons 😹	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/02/20 07:15 PM
6	Pick Me and most lvw behaviors come down to what was learned in the family growing up, past trauma, and low self worth. Love starts as an inside job. What a long, complicated journey it’s been to realize I was a pickme and pull myself out of it, because I was both bullied as a kid and groomed by horrible older dudes, to desperately need the sexual attention of men and believe it was love.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/02/20 04:50 PM
1	What’s the deal with military men? Fellow long-time aircraft mechanic here. Echoing the above. I love some of my brothers, but I wouldn’t date them. There are a few gems out there. And by “a few,” I mean I can think of exactly one I’ve known over 21 years. The PickMeisha-ness of mil spouses is rrrrreal.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/02/20 09:42 PM