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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 72 | Let’s translate “he’s bad at texting”Underrated comment | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/22 09:30 AM |
| 126 | What is this the FDS take on “free the nipple” movement?I don't like seeing men be happy for free. Keep those nipples covered until a HVM earns the privilege of seeing them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/22 12:53 AM |
| 527 | "Are you a feminist?" How do you answer this?I say I'm a radical feminist and watch the light leave their eyes. It's fun. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 07:12 PM |
| 57 | Didn’t realize this sub would cause me to be bannedI got banned from that sub for making a movie recommendation. No joke. It was "Seeking a friend for the end of the world" in case you were wondering. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 03:19 AM |
| 640 | This is hands down one of the most utterly depressing things I’ve ever seen. No matter how bleak things get, thanks to FDS we’ll never be this woman, passively rejected for a proposal by her child’s father after 11 YEARS of dating.I had to rewind to see what I missed because I couldn't understand if he blocked her after she went to pick him, or after a failed proposal, or if the proposal even happened. And if she never proposed, he just blocked his gf of 11 years "because he was tired", as if that's a thing we're just supposed to think is normal. There was too much being cut out and rationalized in 5 seconds of video. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 11:46 AM |
| 76 | Funniest/smallest/strangest Seinfeld-like red flag 🚩 you personally had with an ex?He didn't like onions or garlic. I'm Mediterranean, so I should have run for the hills on day one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/21 06:33 AM |
| 47 | Take your SO to a haunted house and see what happens.I know right. Some LVM hide behind the excuse that it's just "instincts" or "reflexes" but really it's that they haven't extended their conception of preservation to include loved ones as well as themselves. Moms don't abandon their babies, good soldiers "leave no man behind", and HVM protect the women they love without thinking about it twice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 09:19 PM |
| 14 | Take your SO to a haunted house and see what happens.Aww that's really romantic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 06:19 PM |
| 22 | Take your SO to a haunted house and see what happens.Damn I'm so sorry this happened to you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 06:19 PM |
| 368 | Take your SO to a haunted house and see what happens.Oh this is a very good strategy! I have a similar story. My ex took me to a heavy metal concert (might have been a different genera of metal... Kind of a 🚩 that he wanted be to care about all the damn subgenres, but whatever). His friend was the guitarist and we were in this small shitty black room above a bar. There were maybe 30 people lol, but two idiots decided they wanted to create a mosh pit like experience. Basically, they started jumping around, thrashing, and violently pushing each othe… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 08:19 AM |
| 6 | I’ve been celibate 4 yearsIt's also a lot easier to date if you can get rid of your horny brain and use all your faculties to rationally and thoroughly vet men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/21 04:00 PM |
| 25 | Very weird pre-date invite condition/terms given. Thoughts? Anyone else come across this before?The old bait and switch | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 10:24 AM |
| 80 | Skip the date rape and just move in. These scrotes actually believe porn can be reality while they capitalize on sky high rent prices and openly take advantage of naive young women. He's even gleefully admitting to not having thought the situation through. Wow.Hahaha I really need that laugh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 02:05 AM |
| 71 | Article: Has The Sex Positivity Movement Peaked?Perhaps "peaked" is used only to denote that sex positivity has passed the pinnacle of its popularity rather than it being a normative good. Regardless, I agree with your point. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/21 01:22 AM |
| 246 | Article: Has The Sex Positivity Movement Peaked?Highlights: "Sex-positive ideology liquefies all norms, leaving only the principle of consent, and then insists that every consensual sexual act is necessarily good, refusing to recognize that consent is not binary. It is often subtly coerced, to varying degrees.” --- Louise Perry Katie, the 23-year-old in Virginia, described sex positivity as a kind of long con. “It feels like we were tricked into exploiting ourselves [and] tricked into thinking it was our idea,” she said. She half-joked that s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/21 12:55 AM |
| 16 | If I see one more beautiful woman with an ugly man, I'm going to screamI went down a Graham Norton rabbit hole and found this video. https://youtu.be/2rezHd0wJBg At 18:45 you can see a soft 6 who has dated a solid 9 for seven years (ugh) propose to her in the least imaginative and most deeply embarrassing way possible. It's just extraordinary that this poor woman agreed to marry him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 07:30 AM |
| 42 | Saw this a while back in another sub and thought it would be at home here..Brilliant | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 12:27 PM |
| 50 | 50/50 relationships will never be equalhttps://granta.com/the-husband-stitch/ This is a really great story to highlight the absurdity of life as a woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 01:17 AM |
| 12 | You aren't "making him wait" to have sexWe are not making him wait. We are just not rushing ourselves. Big difference. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 02:53 AM |
| 56 | Society needs more childfree HVWThis is the perfect union of radical feminism and antinatalism 🥳 love to see it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 05:01 PM |
| 53 | We need to draw a line between oppression that is based on the extraction of cheap labor vs. other types of "oppression"I really like your post. It was very thought provoking for me. I want to draw a small distinction between the Marxist interpretation you've rightfully brought to light, and the radical feminist view. I hope to try and unite the explanations. I think that female oppression based on labor is not the cause, but the instrument. Women who are marriage-free and child-free are still oppressed. Women who do not meet the requirements you set forth have not succeeded in opting out of oppression, because o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/21 08:31 AM |
| 8 | FDS isn’t about finding HVM. It’s about decentering men from our lives and centering ourselves instead.the way the math is mathing I've been laughing so hard at this expression I can't even tell you how much I enjoyed it Oh and your post is the new gospel 😎 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 01:11 AM |
| 15 | Men are like obese bees, so be a picky flower 👏"don't let them eat your honey if they aren't rich or funny" Excuse me while I go embroider that onto a pillow. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 10:11 AM |
| 11 | Why is she cleaning his apartment before she moves in?I'm ashamed to say that I also cleaned my ex's apartment multiple times when I first moved in. I also completely packed up my old place and moved in to his place alone (I hired movers, but he was not involved at all). I ended up not living there after two weeks. I finally trusted my gut. It was an expensive mistake, but my dignity is worth more. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 04:46 AM |
| 6 | "Why didn't she say no?" BECAUSE YOU DON'T EVER TAKE NO AS AN ANSWER.Omg I didn't know that part of the story! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 07:21 PM |
| 15 | The lows you stoop to to get picked.Sometimes you gotta boil that shit. He better clean her diva cup. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 01:25 AM |
| 10 | Imagine being this much of a pathetic degenerate. 🤢🤢🤢It would be MGTOW if he chose a life of celibacy. But instead, he is choosing a life where he proudly exploits and subjugates women. He wants to rid himself of the farce that he considers women human. Well let him go his own way straight to hell. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 02:51 PM |
| 34 | Andddd this is why we don’t date based on “potential.” Actions > words and big dreamsOuu this post just called my ass out! Sounds like my ex and his one lumpy flat pillow. Ugh, never again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 04:01 AM |
| 8 | I love cooking extravagant meals. This Xmas Eve, I cooked myself an amazing dinner. Prime rib, smoked Gouda mac and cheese, carrot salad, sous vide broccoli, and crispy duck fat potatoes...with a custard hand pie for dessert! Sipped homemade eggnog while cooking. Life is good, ladies!My mom always said that the best professional chefs were men simply because they could cook without resenting their creations. You, dear FDS Queen, seem to live a truly rich life with talent and self worth. Merry Christmas! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 07:14 AM |
| 9 | Anyone else have this view on having children?Absolutely! Check out r/antinatalism | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 05:18 AM |
| 45 | Peyronie’s Disease is a nice way to say “you broke your dick with porn”Your writing style is hilarious. And the dick doctor named Capogrosso is just too perfect! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 05:00 AM |
| 63 | The Hypocrisy of Career Menmen are not raised to function as an extension of women's life. Such an important reminder! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 07:22 PM |
| 12 | This woman is badass. She’s a saint for going above and beyond to make sure the son will have someone proper in his life.It could be a troll. I dunno, I could be way off base here but there is something strange about the desperation surrounding having the child. I kinda got the impression that she viewed the son as her only chance at parenthood. If that's the case then I can sympathize with her more. But if it's not, then why didn't she have another child? The post could be written by a man because the long con + the style of attachment feels a little bit male. I hope that makes sense. The more I think about this … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 09:44 AM |
| 40 | This woman is badass. She’s a saint for going above and beyond to make sure the son will have someone proper in his life.I agree with you. My first thought, like yours, was about if a guy did this to me. My gut would tell him that his interest in the child was odd and too strong. I think it's sad that a woman can spend the better part of a decade playing Mommy only to lose everything in a divorce. But I wonder why the adoption didn't take place sooner. A part of me also wonders why her husband would agree to it after a shaky marriage. Did he think this would appease her and make her more committed to play the mom … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 09:26 AM |
| 6 | Men can turn on you at any moment, even if you're famous.It started three days after we got married and the worst of it at the three month mark. I will never understand how he hid that monster so well. Finally out after a drawn out breakup and divorce. My friends still think he was a good guy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 12:35 AM |
| 3 | Men can turn on you at any moment, even if you're famous.Oh my, that's so sad. I think I'm on the opposite end of the spectrum because all my girlfriends have never experienced the kind of abuse I have. So I encounter a lot of gaslighting and victim blaming or just general dismay and lack of meaningful support. Do you think your friend circle, because of the shared pain and knowledge, is more of a real sisterhood? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 12:32 AM |
| 12 | Men can turn on you at any moment, even if you're famous.I completely agree. I should have left the first time he yelled at me, because a week later he grabbed me, then hit me, and months later I was in the hospital. They only get worse and more violent. Some men can't be saved. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 12:30 AM |
| 7 | Men can turn on you at any moment, even if you're famous.I dunno if the authorities were trying to go for a conviction in a lesser charge rather than attempted murder, thus giving him a shot at bail? It seems so dangerous to just have a restraining order. She said that she didn't feel safe living at home so she moved in with her parents. He should have been put on house arrest at least! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 12:29 AM |
| 13 | Thank you to the queen who called me out on another sub! You’ve helped change my life.This is such a nice story! Sending you all love!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 06:58 AM |
| 27 | In which universe are flowers and dinner equivalent to blowjobs??Lol good point! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 06:43 AM |
| 3 | Probably one of the most thoughtless gifts to be given, and absolutely rampant around the holiday season. No thank you! ✋My best friend of 14 years bought me one of these for my 28th birthday. I cherished the card but I wasn't too pleased with the effort put into the gift. I was very polite but I don't know if I'm correct in feeling disappointed/offended. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 05:58 AM |
| 5 | He even starts by saying he's adding backstory to make himself look better. I have no words.You're a really kind person and I can't tell you how much I needed that right now. 💜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 04:33 PM |
| 29 | He even starts by saying he's adding backstory to make himself look better. I have no words.I have to get something off my chest because this post really triggered me. When my ex of two years had his gallbladder removed, I practically lived at the hospital for 4 days. I was so worried for him that I would cry every moment I could steal away, all while maintaining a positive exterior. I took care of him, night and day, for over a week after his surgery. I also would warmly listen to him talk about his "harrowing"/traumatic pain and recovery for over five months. I never complained. I lo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 07:07 AM |
| 92 | Moved to the US.. can't believe how men treat women hereI've dated three "immigrant men from somewhat traditional & God fearing countries" and damn did they use that shit to cloak themselves in self-righteous drivel and dodge accountability and consequences because no one in their circles would doubt their status/ reputation or believe me. I really felt like as a woman, I was deemed lesser. First in subtle ways, then in full on medieval ways. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 12:28 AM |
| 12 | Moved to the US.. can't believe how men treat women hereSo insightful! A must read! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 12:22 AM |
| 41 | I've seen the Presidential debate compared to a lot of things: the circus, Facebook fights, wild animals attacking each other.... But this is what really got me. I think every woman has at least one story of arguing with a piece of shit NVM like Trump. Watching it was like an out of body experienceWomen are socialised differently and are taught to repress a lot of those impulses. And many narcissistic traits get reinforced by toxic masculinity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 10:49 PM |
| 20 | I've seen the Presidential debate compared to a lot of things: the circus, Facebook fights, wild animals attacking each other.... But this is what really got me. I think every woman has at least one story of arguing with a piece of shit NVM like Trump. Watching it was like an out of body experienceI could only watch it in 10 minute intervals because my anxiety was through the roof. I hate being taken back to feeling so angry and vulnerable in convos with aggressive gaslighting men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 10:48 PM |
| 31 | I've seen the Presidential debate compared to a lot of things: the circus, Facebook fights, wild animals attacking each other.... But this is what really got me. I think every woman has at least one story of arguing with a piece of shit NVM like Trump. Watching it was like an out of body experienceUggghhhh I shuddered just reading Shapiro's name. Sending you a virtual hug cuz damn I know what that's like! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 06:46 PM |
| 41 | I've seen the Presidential debate compared to a lot of things: the circus, Facebook fights, wild animals attacking each other.... But this is what really got me. I think every woman has at least one story of arguing with a piece of shit NVM like Trump. Watching it was like an out of body experienceIt's extremely depressing and the only good I can take from it is that it's showing us who the decent people are in our lives. Shitty people make themselves known these days. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 06:18 PM |
| 2 | Confessions of a former pick meOh damn, sounds like my ex | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 02:38 AM |
| 7 | SCORCH A SCROTE: Today I burned every single love letter, card, note, drawing he ever gave me- AND I DID IT LITERALLY WEARING A CROWN I ORDERED JUST FOR THIS OCCASION!Queen energy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 02:22 AM |
| 184 | If men are 'more visual', why are they ugly?This is such an important distinction! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 02:00 AM |
| 17 | The audacity of a LVMUgh I can't believe this is real 🤢 get out girl! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 09:16 AM |
| 1 | Dude I made mistakes with decided to get in touch after 8 YEARS! This was his big move 🤣 I'm so glad I'm not the girl I once was and I'm putting this FDS wisdom to work!🤗🥰😎 thanks girl, loving life now | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 10:51 PM |
| 5 | Dude I made mistakes with decided to get in touch after 8 YEARS! This was his big move 🤣 I'm so glad I'm not the girl I once was and I'm putting this FDS wisdom to work!HAHAHA he wanted an easy win but the pit lane was closed 😜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 04:06 PM |
| 3 | Dude I made mistakes with decided to get in touch after 8 YEARS! This was his big move 🤣 I'm so glad I'm not the girl I once was and I'm putting this FDS wisdom to work!😁 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 05:37 AM |
| 5 | Dude I made mistakes with decided to get in touch after 8 YEARS! This was his big move 🤣 I'm so glad I'm not the girl I once was and I'm putting this FDS wisdom to work!🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 05:04 AM |
| 9 | Dude I made mistakes with decided to get in touch after 8 YEARS! This was his big move 🤣 I'm so glad I'm not the girl I once was and I'm putting this FDS wisdom to work!I think he ran out of porn 😋 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 04:17 AM |
| 6 | Dude I made mistakes with decided to get in touch after 8 YEARS! This was his big move 🤣 I'm so glad I'm not the girl I once was and I'm putting this FDS wisdom to work!Ya that really bothered me. It is just so intrusive and reeks of entitlement. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 04:03 AM |
| 15 | Dude I made mistakes with decided to get in touch after 8 YEARS! This was his big move 🤣 I'm so glad I'm not the girl I once was and I'm putting this FDS wisdom to work!Hahaha I did enjoy that 😉 who says FDS can't be light-hearted and fun | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 02:51 AM |
| 11 | Dude I made mistakes with decided to get in touch after 8 YEARS! This was his big move 🤣 I'm so glad I'm not the girl I once was and I'm putting this FDS wisdom to work!Would have been wasted on him. Thanks girl | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 02:19 AM |
| 22 | Dude I made mistakes with decided to get in touch after 8 YEARS! This was his big move 🤣 I'm so glad I'm not the girl I once was and I'm putting this FDS wisdom to work!I dunno why I kinda expected him to not be boring. You know how people always say that men age like fine wine, well I call bs. Most don't get more creative, original, or quick witted. Zombies indeed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 02:19 AM |
| 11 | Dude I made mistakes with decided to get in touch after 8 YEARS! This was his big move 🤣 I'm so glad I'm not the girl I once was and I'm putting this FDS wisdom to work!Thanks girl, it felt so damn good | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 02:13 AM |
| 21 | Dude I made mistakes with decided to get in touch after 8 YEARS! This was his big move 🤣 I'm so glad I'm not the girl I once was and I'm putting this FDS wisdom to work!The self-confidence and total lack of social skills is astounding | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 02:12 AM |
| 61 | Dude I made mistakes with decided to get in touch after 8 YEARS! This was his big move 🤣 I'm so glad I'm not the girl I once was and I'm putting this FDS wisdom to work!Changed all my socials to start over and get away from his almost telepathic ability to pop up wherever things were going well for me. I truly believe he still feels entitled to my time and energy. And lol, he even wanted me to keep the damn convo going! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 01:46 AM |
| 9 | How it’s starting to feel around FDS in light of recent bansYou're absolutely right. I made the move to spinster today. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 06:11 AM |
| 46 | How it’s starting to feel around FDS in light of recent bansI thought I was doing ok, then I burst into tears an hour later. I tried to explain why GC was so important but words weren't enough. Dammit I'm so disheartened. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 02:47 AM |
| 42 | Fragile little things they areHahaha this is every "sensitive, brooding artist" guy I know | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/20 04:29 AM |
| -1 | What do you think life is like for attractive men? Compared to attractive women and other menI agree with the hierarchies that you outlined, except for one point: Ugly women/bottom half of average men And I don't care what Jordan Peterson has to say about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/20 01:21 AM |
| 2 | Shit like this is such a slap in the face for those of us who dated a toxic man for YEARS, gave him the world, got attached, and never changed a thing.Do you think Karol G could do better? I just found out Anuel has a kid with someone else. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/20 05:45 PM |
| 14 | A guy picking out flaws and telling you? Please let me know your experiences.I think that most men are so bad at having conversations and an emotional connection that they think pointing shit out is the same as saying something meaningful. Identifying something is the simplest thing you can do. As a teacher, I want to share with you the work of Bloom who created a hierarchy of intellectual thinking to be used by teachers to design evaluations. Bloom's taxonomy Judge the quality of conversations you have with men by this standard and save yourself time ladies! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 03:04 PM |
| 1 | It's funny cause it's true... and sad, but true.Holy shit, that was very funny. FML | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 08:13 AM |
| 8 | ExactlyLmaoooooo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 02:28 PM |
| 4 | [CMV] Women are fundamentally boringIt's such a shame what you have chosen to do with your intellect and education. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/20 01:54 PM |
| 13 | [CMV] Women are fundamentally boringit's not about the message, it's about the messenger. Oh the irony. This is precisely how men have claimed moral and intellectual authority: it is good and true because it came from a man. Let fact and nuance be damned! Don't pretend that men are not equally fascinated with themselves, and to the detriment of all those they see as beneath them (especially, but not limited, to women). How many days have been spoiled by men droning on about their simple ideas and the minutiae of their lives. And a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/20 06:07 AM |
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