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Politics, religion, anything too serious. Just like with friends really. Not that the girl might not be interested, but you have the risk of destroying the vibe. Like go from a romantic sexual vibe to "hur dur politics/religion/money/etc".
/r/seduction10/05/22 07:01 PM
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I think being needy/desperate comes from within. Need to fix the problem within first. Build some confidence, get more girls (its a numbers game), you will be much less needy when a girl is just another number.
/r/seduction10/05/22 06:59 PM
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I remember being once in an IKEA on a Saturday night (bad idea) and seeing this poor bastard ahead of me in line. Two bratty kids, a cart full of stuff, looking like he'd just been beaten up emotionally. And his wife. Dear God. She might have been hot fifty pounds ago, but blonde, complacent, wearing a long cardigan to conceal her bulk, and ordering him around with this vaguely condescending wifely contempt that made me want to puke. That is what all these systems want you to become. Cooperative…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/22 06:20 PM
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I think it's fine being average, however don't follow the herd. Most important is do something you want to do. For example, don't want to go to college and do a trade instead? Do the trade. Don't go to college because society tells you that college is better. You can be your average tradie but if you're happy that's the most important thing. The worst thing (for dating and life) is to be unhappy.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/22 06:18 PM
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I agree with your argument's premise, however I do believe the animalistic side is still in humans, and so are various behaviors such as alpha traits. Sure, they don't rule society these days, as you said, other societal patterns overrule them. I just find Alphas admirable, regardless of their station in life. I also believe that fostering masculinity is healthy for males (mentally & physically). I think artificial constructs only get us so far.
/r/seduction07/05/22 08:45 PM
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You're 100% right they have issues. But the sad fact is that the end result is that they still get girls. They might end up in jail, broke, or dead, but in the short span where they are in their prime, they slay. I know it sounds kind of ridiculous, but I admire it in a way. More than some dude who lives to old age, solid financials, boring life, but has never slayed left & right.
/r/seduction03/05/22 10:47 AM
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I could agree with that, but the unfortunate reality is that these misogynistic asshole Alphas actually get lots of women and slay left and right. This is a topic in and of itself that's been debated ad nauseam without ever being elucidated. Why do women love bastards & "bad boys"? Why don't they go for the solid guys? Well they do, in their 20s, after having been on the alpha cock carousel. They've been plowed repeatedly then decide to settle on a beta provider who basically gets seconds (she w…
/r/seduction02/05/22 04:13 PM
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Loathing & Admiration, a mix of the two. But I agree, it's a contentious claim. I do believe that one should stick to higher moral values. But going above just the bad boy/thug, I would also include the successful player in this. Any man who slays a lot. Even if one might disagree with the morals, it's hard to deny the efficiency.
/r/seduction02/05/22 10:40 AM
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You want to know? Don't live a safe lifestyle. Don't give a fuck. Just be action oriented. When you see a hot girl, go for it, fuck her, move on. Be dangerous. Stop being a cuck who's over-analysing everything, planning, etc. Remember: Being a man/alpha doesn't depend on any externals. You can be a bad boy no matter the circumstances. It's a sigma grindset.
/r/seduction02/05/22 10:14 AM
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Actually agree with everything you're saying. All I was saying is not fall to the cuck beta mindset of chasing money with the idea that somehow this will make you become alpha and attractive to women. So many men have this mindset especially in modern world. Like you said, have money, but don't depend on it to be alpha. Just to give you an example, do you know how many beta doctors and dentists I have seen? Guys who have ridiculous amount of cash (100K per year easy). I know a dentist that has l…
/r/seduction02/05/22 10:12 AM
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I guess that's the GOAT status. But often not the case. For some reasons, you usually have semi-broke Alphas and lots of beta providers with solid financials (accountants, etc). The Alphas with money (think actors, top athletes) basically swim in pussy lol, it's God status at that point (ie: Ronaldo).
/r/seduction02/05/22 10:07 AM
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This.
/r/seduction02/05/22 10:06 AM
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Yes but at the core of it, is that balding fat cuck with money an alpha? No. He's still just as pathetic.
/r/seduction02/05/22 10:06 AM
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The biggest thing that messes up men is a soft childhood. And why gangbangers are more alpha than most normies. Single mothers are also fucking terrible at raising men, and usually create nice guys. Took me years to figure this out myself.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/22 09:32 PM
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If you are average looking with limited assets and clout you have very limited chances to become some sort of superstar that attracts people. Women will approach you if you are good looking or have huge social influence. I agree with rest of post except this. Assets are irrelevant, it's about how alpha you are like you said earlier in the post. I literally see gangbangers that have nothing going for them but they are alpha and land more HBB than the "nice guys" with solid education and careers. …
/r/seduction01/05/22 09:30 PM
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Then why is a dude wearing joggers and just being alpha able to land HBB? Being Alpha & a Chad is a personality trait. It's not anything external. (I know your comment was ironic)
/r/seduction01/05/22 09:26 PM
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I might add...One of the worst experiences is when you're semi attracted to the girl when she's dressed...But for some reason when she's naked and in bed, you lose all interest because she's just not that..Good looking? Many girls look hot because their clothing enhances their bodies, but when they take it all off its disappointing. Classic "tits not big enough" for instance.
/r/seduction01/05/22 05:26 PM
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You don't lmao. There are a bunch of literal whores I'd rather fuck, than some normal women in society. I remember a bunch of experiences in college where some girl wanted to fuck me, and believe me I'm a relatively high test athlete but when I saw their bodies, I just noped out of there and couldn't even bring myself to kiss them. I wasn't even that drunk. She has to be attractive and by attractive I don't necessarily mean conventionally attractive, but she has to be your type. The girl has to …
/r/seduction01/05/22 05:21 PM
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Lmfao that is one of the worst thing you can ask a woman and a huge turn off.
/r/seduction01/05/22 09:46 AM
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All this is good, but IMHO everything is helped enormously if she's clearly attracted to you. A woman that is attracted to a guy will show it ridiculously obviously. Like she will grab your arm (not you grabbing her). She will always initiate contact (like hug you, etc). If she's in that state of mind, pulling her in and kissing her is a formality. The problem in most cases is the woman is ambivalent and kind of like "whatever" with you, and then the guys try to kiss her and it ends badly (with …
/r/seduction01/05/22 09:43 AM
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"is this all conditioning?" That's what the "woke" and deconstructionist leftists believe. That everything is conditioning, including gender roles. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Intersectionality Personally I think it's only partly true. I think there are real biological differences that lead to behaviour differences. At the most basic, a man has testicles that produce testosterone, and that leads to adventurous and chasing behavior. These biological differences led the ancient people and tribes…
/r/seduction01/05/22 09:37 AM
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The cultural reason: Since the dawn of time, at least in Western culture, a man with many "conquests" is considered a Chad that women aspire to be with. From Casanova to Zeus himself. And for women it's the opposite. A chaste beautiful woman that refuses many men is supposed to be the ideal. The personal reason: To feel good about yourself and feel that the woman you are with hasn't "duped you" and that you are in control as you have "many options". All about ego. Nobody wants to be the man with…
/r/seduction30/04/22 07:15 PM
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Same as everyone.
/r/seduction30/04/22 07:13 PM
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Rock solid advice, thanks!
/r/seduction30/04/22 04:16 PM
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Nah I have excellent head of hair right now (white guy). I actually go for a fade right now. I always go for low/medium fade. But I also go short on top (buzzcut). Basically like US military regulations lol. But I realised that looking like a soldier is something that many women don't like. Looks too aggressive or something. I think I'm going to let it grow more on top so it's less aggressive/jarhead looking. This is pretty much the haircut I have now, just shorter on top: https://c8.alamy.com/c…
/r/seduction30/04/22 03:16 PM
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One thing to note about women is to be careful to generalise as they're not all the same. I've met women that were "beta" like beta men, and had massive insecurity and were clinging to the man, and would never cheat. Even women with pretty good looks. Ultimately I think alpha/beta often comes down to ego & confidence, alphas have massive ego/confidence and betas have very low confidence & ego. The thing that's dangerous for either a man or woman, is when a beta gets dominated by alpha/high ego. …
/r/TheRedPill29/04/22 07:00 PM
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"How To Remain Positive Even After Getting Rejected By A Woman You Like" The way this is phrased already implies a mental problem on the part of the male. That he's dependent on female validation. Tons of men if not most are. This is the problem. As soon as you put the ball in her camp, you've lost. Because if she kicks the ball away you're done for. This is the problem with men, lots of us are romantics and when we fall for a girl and she screws us over, we become despondent. The answer to this…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/22 07:48 PM
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People are terrible at explaining this (I think because many don't) but I simply see it as whether a woman can unbalance you or if you can unbalance her. You will notice that alpha males usually say and do what they want with women, and they are never "shocked" by a woman. Whilst the masses of beta males and nice guys will always try to adapt to women, and if a woman says to their face "you suck you're a loser and you're ugly" they will be broken. Basically the difference is the alpha frame is s…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/22 07:45 PM
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You cut his comment though. He's right, in a vacuum an appealing physique doesn't mean shit, plenty of men are obsessed with physique but have low scores in other areas of their life (career, social skills, etc) and that lowers their SMV. There's too much of a tendency in seduction scene to focus on lifting weights as if it changes everything. IMHO being alpha on a mental level trumps physique anyday of the week. What a woman wants is a man who acts like a man. You can lift lots of weights but s…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/22 07:41 PM
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Thing about scientists & engineers is they are usually socially very awkward.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/22 07:37 PM
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If you still think like this, you have a long way to go Just a reality of observing society dude. Alphas like that Daario guy are the ones who have no problem dating any women, whilst simps and simple guys are often frustrated. I'm serious look at any guy in society that's considered 10/10 and attractive by women. Most of the time, the guy has an extroverted playful persona, it's just a fact.
/r/seduction26/04/22 07:25 PM
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Alcohol is totally unnecessary, you should only drink it if you actually enjoy it (I'll have a glass of wine, or beer, or other...to enjoy it in moderation), not to please a woman. The main problem is tons of men are incapable of being themselves without getting pretty drunk as they're stressed out by the girl.
/r/seduction26/04/22 07:13 PM
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Jon Snow is a simp though. Daario Naharis is a good example of a true alpha male that one should aspire to (funny, witty, actually has a personality unlike Jon Snow). He just doesn't go where Jon Snow does because Jon Snow is the central character and nobility. Still there are a bunch of alphas in that show that are side characters or poor due to lineage, but still they are alphas to be admired. Khal Drogo is another good example. He's a very attractive male due to the masculine way he acts, des…
/r/seduction26/04/22 07:07 PM
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The next level is actually stopping and starting a convo & get her number though. That's where shit gets real boyo. I love it in a cold approach setting because it's so real and intense.
/r/seduction26/04/22 06:36 PM
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I look at them but I don't stare too intensely to not creep them out. I don't avoid their gaze on purpose or anything lmao, that would be too much work.
/r/seduction26/04/22 06:35 PM
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I think for both men & women they might be very attracted to someone and not towards someone else. This is what love/attraction is and chemistry. Sometimes there just isn't any. But the hurt/pain isn't any less real when you're the guy/girl who's attracted and the other isn't.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/22 06:32 PM
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Aren't you glad that you have the capacity to take a lot of rejection and have the patience to keep approaching the women you're attracted to until you're successful? No. I have a problem where every girl I'm crazy about I rarely manage to seduce, because I "get weird" and lose my senses. All the girls (objectively hot or not) I end up with, I kind of don't give a shit about. Isn't it weird that the stereotype of "treat them mean" (which happens when I don't give a shit) actually works? And the …
/r/TheRedPill26/04/22 06:30 PM
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Pulling a porn star is an achievement now? Back in the day it was virgins...
/r/seduction26/04/22 06:23 PM
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Ultimately it thus all stars with yourself and what energy you project. All about inner game. People who don't pull are fucked up mentally or depressed in a way (shy, etc). Problem is making the life change to change this shit.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/22 09:04 PM
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This is all and nice in theory. In practice how a person acts depends entirely on his life story. You can't be a badass and not give a fuck if you're not one.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/22 07:48 PM
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You might be very right on mindset. I'm kind of an adrenaline junkie and like exciting things so my entire relationship to girls might be part of this attitude. I love the high I'm getting when surrounded with women, etc. And yes my self esteem is totally dependent on my level of success with women. I think I need a therapist to work on that lmao.
/r/seduction25/04/22 05:30 PM
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At the end of the day I think it comes down to a man's level of self esteem. Yours seems to be quite high and that is good. But I guess for many guys, a girl can do almost whatever she wants with them, because she is so intoxicating (I'm talking about quite good looking girls). And I mean way beyond than just sex. I mean being literally addicted to that girl on every other level. Nietzsche said women are basically the hardest drug and he was right I think.
/r/seduction25/04/22 05:09 PM
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Look, I'm absolutely far from an expert on relationships. And I agree with your stance that "seeking validation is bad". At the same time, I feel there's a certain biological reality with women. A woman's weapon is basically sex/her body/her attraction. Speaking for myself, I can't say something like "does she deserve to sleep with me" because that would be a lie. She holds the card and I know it, and she knows it. She absolutely doesn't care if you don't sleep with her, because a man is just an…
/r/seduction25/04/22 04:43 PM
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They want a good fuck, you go the safe route, you go slow, play nice, cuddle, make plans. Only for her to dump you the next day. Because that's fucking beta behavior, just reading it, it feels beta and nice guy cringe. If she's giving signals that she's attracted, there's no shame in being aggressively sexual. For some reason, women (without even knowing it) will automatically categorise a guy as "beta" and "friend zone" if he isn't somewhat assertive in his moves. Because ultimately a woman has…
/r/seduction25/04/22 03:07 PM
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The only time (from my experience) women prove themselves to you This happens when you are just high status (socially, etc). If you're just a high value wanted dude, she will worship you. But most guys aren't that.
/r/seduction25/04/22 03:04 PM
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If she isn't bringing something to my life why would I sleep with her? Because I'm a bull and want to fck? As a dude reading this I'm kind of puzzled lmao. It's not that complicated.
/r/seduction25/04/22 03:03 PM
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I think it really depends how high your status & attractive you are. But yeah on average that's probably true.
/r/seduction25/04/22 03:01 PM
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Both men and women might just want a one night stand. It's not something to be worked up about.
/r/seduction25/04/22 02:59 PM
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The internet in general is shit and this place is just for relaxed discussion nothing more.
/r/seduction25/04/22 02:56 PM
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Not gonna generalise with everyone that single, but I remember a quote very strongly and that is "A woman isn't going to fix your life". I think many people in society have mental issues stemming from life circumstances that make them lack confidence, be needy, etc. Tough to say but I realised until you fix that, you won't get anywhere with women and in fact you will never have healthy relationships (because you might end up with a girl, yes, but your standard is fucked up so she is quite a lose…
/r/seduction25/04/22 02:55 PM
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I'm not sure it's oneitis in that case though (could be wrong). But the type of guy that is so needy he craves female attention, and will get attracted to nearly all girls around him and get superficially attached to any of them. But the next day he could meet another girl and be ready to seduce her and not give a F about the girl he met the day before. Basically it's sexual opportunism and it's nearly impossible for this guy to be loyal in relationships or even be in relationships to begin with…
/r/seduction25/04/22 02:42 PM
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The main problem has been illustrated by Yukio Mishima, genius Japanese writer who committed ritual suicide. There is no heroic death for men anymore. There is only the consumer capitalist society. And now progressivism and the corruption of female minds. Its over.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/21 09:28 PM
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"Who will women marry?" No one. Marriage is dead or dying. They fuck well endowed black males or other alphas then end up marrying a beta provider (usually White or Asian). Stop thinking in terms of marriage, marriage is a social construct that doesn't have anything to do with biology. Generally speaking the modern world is going into the shitter. Which is good because it will come out renewed and more natural afterwards.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/21 09:26 PM
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Lol that's my post/thread in a single pic. Nailed it.
/r/seduction25/10/21 06:48 PM
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You forgot the part where the used up bitch with broken face and black eyes tries to acquire the "nice guy" once she has no other options.
/r/seduction25/10/21 11:18 AM
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Agree brother.
/r/seduction25/10/21 11:17 AM
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No problem bro. In fact I think I'm wrong by categorising it as a generation thing. It's more of a class/subculture thing, there are plenty of totally normal zoomers. And I'm basically a "late zoomer" or "late millenial", so I often associate with Zoomers rather than older millenials. I guess what bothers me the most is people with loose morals, and "trash culture". Like people who would laugh at a bunch of people beating up someone and posting it on social media. That's the kind of zoomers I ha…
/r/seduction24/10/21 09:54 PM
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I'm really talking about a certain segment of zoomers. Obv there are plenty of zoomers which are totally fine, depending on country, etc. I've been to countries where zoomers are totally fine, usually richer countries. For example Korean & Japanese Zoomers are fine lmao. But in the West, especially in lower or lower-middle class background, Zoomers can be so messed up. It's like I watch them and it turns me off being a parent.
/r/seduction24/10/21 09:47 PM
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PS: This is for you from me. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2l6JUNFAJ9o
/r/seduction24/10/21 09:23 PM
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Yeah well fuck that, I guess. To each his own.
/r/seduction24/10/21 08:33 PM
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You don't seem very mature dude. And I'm not talking about "saving hos", I'm talking about younger pretty decent girls that have no clue what they're doing because a stupid culture is being pushed in mass media. But if you think that's all OK, all power to you.
/r/seduction24/10/21 08:26 PM
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That's true, but what these girls don't know is lots of those guys are very bad news for them. Used to be that girls were smart enough to not date such people. Now they're worshipped as a culture.
/r/seduction24/10/21 08:09 PM
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Great post. Exactly what I was talking about. The point I'm trying to really convey is that the ultimate goal shouldn't just be to chase women, but to become a man that's at peace with himself, and exudes strength. Indirectly then, seduction will become much easier. It's a paradigm shift. Unfortunately many men are stuck in the paradigm of trying to seduce with all their insecurities, trying to apply a cheap PUA/pickup tactic coat of paint on it. It might work temporarily, but in the long term t…
/r/seduction10/09/21 06:09 PM
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I do. I guess I get disinterested if the woman's personality turns me off completely. She has to be hot, but that's not enough. If she acts like some ice princess, I get disinterested immediately because to me the sex isn't worth that personality.
/r/seduction10/09/21 06:03 PM
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I get your point but... ​ You would KNOW if you are attractive because you would be getting approached on an almost daily basis and receiving solicitations for sex from random women. This is me. But I still have problem getting involved with women due to issues. Trust issues, etc. So really the attractiveness part is lost on me because that's really not the problem. if you remember that film (I forgot the title) where a guy takes a pill and becomes ultra-alpha, not giving a fuck? His appearance …
/r/seduction10/09/21 06:00 PM
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Fully agree. The reality though is lots of men DO cover these deficits with fake things. IMHO lots of the root problems (not all) in seduction come from this.
/r/seduction10/09/21 05:58 PM
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Lololol this is a pure exageration and I never said that either. These "PUA Pros" are full of shit there. Only way that Frankensteins get women is if they are loaded.
/r/seduction10/09/21 01:43 PM
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Girls are much less attracted to looks than men, this is scientifically proven. The problem (and why I made a disclaimer about looks on here), is that most men talking about looks look abysmally bad. Of course a short dude riddled with acne, pasty white, ugly skull, etc, who doesn't even wash or dress properly, will be turned down. But most Western men actually make an effort and look decently good. This is not the problem. The problem, and reason for this thread, is that most men who fail, fail…
/r/seduction10/09/21 12:49 PM
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I'm 1.9m and blue eyed.
/r/seduction10/09/21 12:40 PM
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Look at it from a guy's perspective. I don't know about you, but for me, there are girls that just don't do anything for me. I'm just not attracted. And I'm talking about good looking girls. It's very behavioral too. Sure you can be tenacious when "on the hunt", but IMO if push really come to shove, you shouldn't try to make something happen if the chemistry definitely isn't there. And there's a difference between zero chemistry, and a girl being outwardly not interested but subconsciously you m…
/r/seduction10/09/21 10:11 AM
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I never said I aim for a "10/10 blonde bombshell". To tell you the truth, I detached myself from women and just let it happen on its own. I don't cling to them. I focus on bigger projects for my life such as my passions and career. I was just making a point. Even for the "factory worker", there is very little "simple women" as you see them in this society. I don't even think they exist. Every girl I see from the youngest age in places such as highschool, is just a social animal. She's not attrac…
/r/seduction17/07/21 09:39 PM
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I dislike the notion of good & evil, at least the definition of hollywood films, because its naive. I respect a higher kind of morality. That being said, it's naive to think that morality & seduction have anything to do with one another. Time and time again, reality shows that women are not attracted to a man who's simply moral. Women are attracted to status, power, sexiness, social proof, etc. You can hate it all you want but its what I see. You can be a great guy, but if you're poor or a loser…
/r/seduction17/07/21 07:47 PM
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The problem is that ugly people think like this. And it's true for dead ass ugly people. They exist, but most people aren't ass ugly, they're decent. And so are women. I'm a good looking dude. I'm 1.9m, athletic, tanned, and have the 6 pack. Girls will eye fuck me when I run, once they even yelled at me "hey, I want to fuck you". But I'm telling you. Yes my looks open doors. But after that door is opened, it's all about confidence & social skills & status. And confidence you often only get when …
/r/seduction21/06/21 02:55 PM
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Thing with dating when young is that for men it often sucks, because usually unless you're a rich kid, you have no negotiation power. When you're in your 30s/40s and have your life together (in theory), you can seem much more attractive and secure to girls. Lots of poor good looking 18-30 years old are struggling with girls because we simply don't have the finances. Even if you look like Dicaprio, if you're struggling work wise, you wont be good material.
/r/seduction21/06/21 02:14 PM
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Also, this is bullshit. If you're a proverbial chad, you can fuck her no matter if you're "dad material" or not. If you're tall, good looking, and aggressive, many women will go along, you just got to be alpha about it. Stereotypical but true.
/r/seduction21/06/21 02:12 PM
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Just date the right girls. Usually younger. Younger girls dont give a flying fuck about your job.
/r/seduction21/06/21 02:11 PM
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My main question is simple and about a simple situation: How do you break the awkward ice about having what would be called casual sex? What I find difficult is the entire awkwardness about going to have sex (which is kind of a taboo). I meet countless random girls, on holiday, in the street, etc, that are basically, vulgarily speaking, eye-fucking me. Now that's all good and well, I'm interested too. But what then? What theeeeeeeen? lol. It feels so awkward being like: "Hello, you look nice, wo…
/r/seduction21/06/21 02:10 PM
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IMO this is good, but also, there's a million type of girls with different mentalities & psychology, and there is no one size fits all approach. Some girls DONT WANT TO BE APPROACHED, some want to be approached a certain way, some are down to fuck almost on the spot, some aren't, etc. You just got to try and see what happens. Also, lots of how a girl will react to you in particular is not in your control. You might be her type or she might be horrified by you. And totally different reaction base…
/r/seduction21/06/21 02:01 PM
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The problem is comments like these come from really horrifically ugly people but that doesn't represent the majority of men, that have the potential to be chads. "Women are far more selective about looks than men"...Lmao. To men, only looks count. To women, it's looks...But mostly status and confidence above looks, its about whether you can be a secure masculine high test man that will be able to care for her (imaginary) children. You can be good looking but effeminate and autistic as fuck, and …
/r/seduction27/04/21 12:08 AM
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> Appearance is the most important aspect of seduction, for both genders. This is so fucking delusional. Stopped reading right there. This can only come out of the mouth of people that maybe isn't good looking but was led to believe that's all there is to women because it leads to confirmation bias. Appearance isn't nearly as important for women as it is for men. Unless we're talking about really ugly hobo like people, it's not the defining factor. The problem with many not very good looking peo…
/r/seduction27/04/21 12:01 AM
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The main thing is that getting real advice through real conversation and actual action (seeing the chad in action, etc) is more helpful than some tips written online. And I'm not saying all Chads fuck literally everyone...But on average a Chad can seduce a much higher number of girls than the average dude. I've witnessed it countless times. To me it came down to a simple combination of being good looking enough (not 10/10 by any means) and knowing how to talk to women & some basic tricks. The fi…
/r/seduction26/04/21 10:45 PM
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It's logical enough. Let's say you are hanging out with a girl. You are attracted to her....And 3 weeks later you're still hanging out with her and haven't dated or banged her yet? I'm sorry but even just looking at the situation from the girl's POV...You're a friend not a boyfriend/sex partner. The question then becomes: "Why didn't you make a move"? The answer usually is fundamentally "because I could get rejected". A dude will hang out with a girl for days even weeks, afraid to make a move or…
/r/seduction26/04/21 10:41 PM
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Looks are important. But you don't need to be a 8-10/10 guy to be a chad. Looks are highly overrated (unless we're talking frankenstein people). I am fairly good looking (1.9m athlete, blonde/blue eyed, and 7/10 face) and yes I attract girls based on looks (they look at me with lust) but that attraction can vanish instantly without the charisma & confident talking skills. I've witnessed lots of chads that frankly I found to be ugly, but they had the testosterone & experience necessary to seduce …
/r/seduction26/04/21 10:25 PM
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