sargingmonkeyman Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	How do I clearly signal that I like a girl and am interested in dating her but not necessarily an exclusive relationship yet?		sargingmonkeyman	/r/seduction	14/08/14 12:08 AM
0	How to start a group or polyamorous mltr		sargingmonkeyman	/r/seduction	23/12/14 09:39 PM

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2	How do you guys get in the mood to go out I also have this. It tends to go away once I have opened a few sets but I definitely feel the anxiety at first.	/r/seduction	27/12/14 12:44 AM
1	What is an alternative to kino in high school? It's totally normal and socially acceptable to touch people in non sexual ways while your interacting with them even if you aren't sexually interested. Start by doing that. If you don't know what that looks like watch a Tom Cruise movie. When you are comfortable with that and realize that it's perfectly normal you'll be less weirded out by escalating Kino.	/r/seduction	26/12/14 06:07 AM
1	How to start a group or polyamorous mltr Point taken.	/r/seduction	24/12/14 08:17 PM
2	Im troubled, I have a question I cant ask anywhere else really... Oneitis: A state of being obsessively infatuated with a girl you know nothing about or know or very little about. It typically occurs when one likes a girl one has failed to court or at the beginning of a new relationship and is characterised by creating fantasies about the girl that aren't realistic. Oneitis is not healthy. Love: A state of being that occurs when you form a genuine connection with somebody of the preferred sex. Love it's characterised by a state of intense emotional arousal and…	/r/seduction	24/12/14 09:46 AM
3	I can't stop falling for pepole strongly almost instantly, how can I stop this? [19,M] I don't know if everybody here will agree with this but I think it's fine to"fall" for a girl while you're talking to her. It means you're building a connection. What's not so fine is that you're creating expectations from that connection. I'm not saying this is what you're going through but this is something I struggled with. As soon as you start thinking that you have to close, or that there is an expectation in the interaction that you start being sexual, or about what your relationship might…	/r/seduction	24/12/14 09:27 AM
2	How to start a group or polyamorous mltr I checked over there. I think I need to revise what I'm looking for. Thanks for the tips.	/r/seduction	24/12/14 09:13 AM
1	How to start a group or polyamorous mltr Yea, it's looking that way. Thanks for the feedback.	/r/seduction	24/12/14 09:12 AM
1	Random thought: approach anxiety I have known some very fat guys with very good game. Good luck :)	/r/seduction	14/08/14 12:53 AM
1	How do I clearly signal that I like a girl and am interested in dating her but not necessarily an exclusive relationship yet? Thank you for the info. I will repost it there. I did look through the sidebar and the top 20 posts and didn't see an answer to my question. Can you give me any further tips on where to look? Thank's again!	/r/seduction	14/08/14 12:40 AM
2	Random thought: approach anxiety The first thing I tried when I got serious about improving my game was Simple Pickup Project Go stuff. Here's what I discovered. Their stuff works IF you have the underlying skills that you need. If you walk up and talk to a girl like they do with bad subcomunications it's crash and burn. I spent 6 months making 0 progress doing that before I got a coach who was able to show me why it wasn't working and what to change. Here are a few tips that got me through the phase you're in (I am by no means…	/r/seduction	14/08/14 12:30 AM