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| – | Is it possible to go from introvert -> extrovert?I'm an extroverted person with social anxiety. AMA. But on a serious note, to hate being alone a lot (I get depressed and sad) but have social anxiety is a very miserable kind of existence. Social anxiety is just a fear of being judged by others, taken to the extreme. I panic about going out to party or to bars with people, but I crave the social interaction and energy at the same time. It probably does get easier to keep the SA in check, since I actively work on my issues because I would be eve… | /r/seduction | 30/05/16 06:23 PM |
| 2 | What's the difference between a boy and a man?Confidence based on the wrong thing: the inability to see fault in yourself. | /r/seduction | 28/04/16 09:59 PM |
| 1 | I have accepted my situation, now I have to learn how to be happy with it.It's not about how you can be entertaining TO people really. I've battled a lot of social anxiety, and as an extrovert that needs social interaction that has been challenging. Mildly put. One thing that struck me with your wording that I recognize from the social anxiety subreddit and my own thinking though, is the focus on what I contribute. I used to have so much anxiety about not saying the right things, not being funny enough etc, that I'd put off seeing really close friends and family. I wo… | /r/seduction | 24/04/16 09:57 PM |
| 1 | I have accepted my situation, now I have to learn how to be happy with it.First off, don't read anything /u/Aeon199 writes. He's most likely trying to make himself feel better by putting everyone else down and hating on women. Now. You are stuck in a vicious circle of bad confidence when it comes to meeting women and thinking they'd never be attracted to you. It's very possible that the women you've approached so far haven't been attracted to you, but that doesn't mean that no woman ever in the world will find you attractive. There are tons of attractive people who ar… | /r/seduction | 24/04/16 07:43 PM |
| 1 | Business social skills & female-attracting social skills: different or the same?Disclaimer: Am 27 yo woman. The first three things you posted were right on point. But I disagree with ALL of your "Differences": Yes, neediness is terribly unattractive. But attention? Definitely not. Showing attention to subjects and passions I have just makes you that more attractive and special. Just imagine talking to a girl or business partner, and them giving you their full attention to you speaking passionately (and confidently, preferably) about your interests? It makes you connect! And… | /r/seduction | 24/04/16 05:36 PM |
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