sashazulu Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Males pretending to be women so they can get an FDS Newbie flair trying not to mansplain so they don’t get caught Lol I don’t understand flair but I enjoy and learn from the posts , the depths of depravity make me smdh.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/03/21 12:23 AM
7	Men don’t listen to “no”. They sure as hell do not ! I hung out with a friend who touched my leg and I told him I did not feel comfortable about that and he said “ one day I hope you are comfortable for me to touch your knee “ I told him “ Hopefully you will be so comfortable with my strong presence you won’t need to touch my knee !” I don’t even understand his problem he doesn’t touch his guy friends knees so why the fuck would it be appropriate for him to touch my knee !	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/03/21 12:15 AM
5	She's in a "traditional marriage" but works full time AS WELL AS acting like his servant... Someone save this woman My sister in law said the same thing since my bro is similar he loves having his friends over and you know what when his friends come over he preps , gets the grill out and cooks ! She says hi and watches tv quietly in the other living room . Tell him to get it together !	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/02/21 03:51 PM
40	Since you joined FDS, what are the ‘pink-flags’ or little LVM behavior you started picking up on that you didn’t notice before or would let slide? Love bombing ... never again will I fall for the bs	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/02/21 02:11 AM
2	I'm a completely different woman thanks to this subreddit. Thank you all from the bottom of my heart. You deserve so much better ! No more bs from lvm	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/01/21 01:02 PM
15	“Your life is not perfect until you have a boyfriend,” Crazy , that’s what fuck boys say , seriously I got in a conversation similar to that with male friends and their response is as follows “ women don’t even need to do anything to get laid “ then chastised me because I stated I would rather wait for the right one / continue I move at my pace in life . For them it wasn’t the fact I wasn’t in a relationship they felt i should be out going for every man I can get . Deplorable	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/01/21 12:46 PM
6	Can men stop deflecting and lying about their height when they realise I'm taller than them? Straight up arguments over known info been there	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/11/20 02:36 AM
18	We got the top two trending threads on r/AgainstHateSubreddits this week! We did it ladies! 🥳🥳 Apparently no closeted gay man has ever been misogynist and also we’re the reason feminism isn’t working and not men! One would think that getting in a relationship porn isn’t necessary. Their problem is they want to be with a woman that will accept their addiction to jerking off to a completely different woman that is not the woman they are actually in a relationship with (ie the woman putting up with their shit irl) . Also they want to continue watching others have sex . It’s crazyyyyy they are crazyyyy it’s madness I tell you .	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/11/20 07:05 AM
2	It’s the truth! Woooooow ! They are not ready to hear this ! But PLeaSe SaY iT LOuDer foR tHe PeoPle iN thE BaCk	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/11/20 06:30 AM
9	The Woman That Beheaded Enemies, Burnt Down London, and Drank Poison Now that’s an empowering statue!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/11/20 02:39 PM
7	Pretty is not the rent you pay to exist in the world as a woman. I love switching it up one day heels the other androgynous, to me it’s empowering to purposely dress in a way that is not supposed to be conventionally attractive. I notice with men they completely have no notice of me or “get it “, but women always compliment the haute look.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/11/20 02:26 PM
12	First statue of Mary Wollstonecraft and they do this?!?! 🙄 if I were the city I would get a refund	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/11/20 01:29 AM
13	And That Was The Moment I Knew. Thank you FDS! I wish I had found this community sooner but at least I’m here now. What are your top tips for making yourself feel better post-break up? Well my last bf did that emotionally cheated proceeded to breakup with me a day after we take our first vacation and starts flirting with a woman I had already brought concerns to him abt ( my first vacation with a bf ever) Ayyyy yessss my cool shy fun ex bf who is trashhhhh . I have a lot of guy friends that he tried to “poach “ I made such a scene he was embarrassed ,not me these are my friends you don’t pull that shit and try to keep my friends and I just made sure everyone knew he was trash …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/11/20 01:56 PM
20	Are literally all the men sitting there laughing at us as they ask us on "walking dates" and try to get us to come over to their apartments? It’s not only not thoughtful but it’s also unsafe men will have just met you and get “handsy “ AKA put their hand on your lower back or waist without permission in a public setting , just think of the liberties they would take alone	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/11/20 01:49 PM
7	This Is hilarious and the triggered scrote in the comments is poetry to my eyes. Cry you insecure little man, cry. I enjoyed this and it’s soo true!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/11/20 01:40 PM
15	Pick me attitude spotted in Buzzfeed comments. A shame too since their audience is mostly teen girls A walk in the park for a lunch date at a restaurant located within walking distance of said park. ... and unfortunately teens are more susceptible to LVM and NVM propaganda because they troll sites for teens and HVW simply do not !!! How can we help those teens to understand so they don’t go on their first walking date or apt date and get assaulted?! Or also to stop this lvm grooming bullshit	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/11/20 01:35 PM
36	Are literally all the men sitting there laughing at us as they ask us on "walking dates" and try to get us to come over to their apartments? Coffee dates are being given as genuine advice. Now the apartment thing that’s just their natural creep instincts *if it’s an option on the first 6 dates and if you just met him ie via dating app or real life . Refuse both	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/11/20 01:30 PM
10	Best friend exploded on me for not wanting to hangout with her abusive boyfriend. I’m sorry you are going through that , I learned when I have a friend that has a shit boyfriend the best way to handle is be a friend from a distance because she needs a good friend . Do not allow her to vent to you about him anymore she is transferring his bullshit to you so you can share in her feelings and anger ,don’t let that into your peace ☮️!!!!!!! don’t bring up anything about him or complain she knows he is shit she tells you all the time she has decided to live with it and is now tryi…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/11/20 07:55 PM
7	I love how OP handled this like a queen 🙌👑 the audacity of this selfish guy trying to pressure her into being a warm fleshlight Preach !!!! I had a guy years ago wanting to hook up but he did not want to make out etc I was like “Sir obvi your dick is too big for me “ and I left hahahaha assholes	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/10/20 03:54 PM
10	They will ALWAYS find a way to blame women for their misogyny. Facts*	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/10/20 01:02 AM
1	Don’t be Bob the Builder for a man. I have an acquaintance, the times I met him when he was attracted to me gave me the whole story of his damage and ex 😒I was like nope this ends here . I am not here to fix shit go to therapy.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/10/20 01:57 PM
2	Patriarchy favors male reproductive success by limiting female choice. FDS is a long-overdue countermeasure in the sexual arms race. It's high time women fight back! Well said !	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/10/20 01:39 PM
2	Don’t go on “boat dates” with guys you don’t know well or you could be put into a situation you don’t want to be in. 😬 He basically bought the entire bar shots , tried to set up a day for a party at his house talked about his wife and when I was like no he then referred to her as his partner and tried to get a kiss . The Audacity !!! He also tried to throw his money in the face of my other male friends its a sickness . Word of warning be smart , be mean because they have no shame I’m not the first woman he flexed on and I’m sure as hell not the last .	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/10/20 03:43 PM
2	I haven’t used OLD in forever, and this was literally my first experience. “I’m an empath so I feel things more than you” is a massive red flag. What I hear is “I can be as insensitive to you as I please, but don’t you DARE have feelings around me because only my feefees are important”. He has his own harem of woke empowered women it’s a doozie whenever he posts competing and vying to show how spiritual they are	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/10/20 03:37 PM
28	This is straight up misogyny disguised as "music" 🤮🤦🏻‍♀️ it's sad that girls and women are using this sound on TikTok Ah yes this colorist heap here is extremely problematic. Fortunately he is not that big nor will ever be that big. The demographic that listens to his music is still in middle school by the time they get old enough to know what plan b is they will have moved on .	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/10/20 02:36 AM
89	Don’t go on “boat dates” with guys you don’t know well or you could be put into a situation you don’t want to be in. 😬 Lol I met a man and he was like tomorrow I’m taking my jet to Vegas and offered for me to go aswell , suspect asss ffffuuuuuuukkk the reply is let’s start off with dinner at maestros then	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/10/20 10:06 PM
19	I haven’t used OLD in forever, and this was literally my first experience. “I’m an empath so I feel things more than you” is a massive red flag. What I hear is “I can be as insensitive to you as I please, but don’t you DARE have feelings around me because only my feefees are important”. Is it bad that I know a guy that would say that Lolol he is also a self proclaimed feminist	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/10/20 02:53 AM
25	Was anyone else here raised by a Pickmeisha mother? (Trigger warning) mother literally told me to marry a man that worships the ground I walk on as my step father did hers( my dad is cool but he was definitely a fuck boy she learned her lesson ) .The few men I have dated have always treated me well and never been even a smidge as problematic as I have heard and read about. I would state that my pick mesha traits were learned behaviors .When I was down she would encourage me and say you have no children and no responsibility to anyone but yourself run enjoy life an…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/10/20 02:31 AM
2	Dating and relationships will never be perfect, but with FDS at least I’m not stressed Agreed, I feel like this is the result of lifetimes of shared experiences from women to women. We live in patriarchal culture that caters to its constituents at our cost. I would not know the divisiveness of Lvm and scrotes without this sub!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/10/20 09:50 PM
3	This is why we don't let men post on this subreddit. We don't want to clutter our feed with a bunch of sea lions DEMANDING that we drop everything to engage in "civil discussion" I literally laughed out loud and I am still dying . Thank you mods for all the work that goes into keeping sea Lions off the sub!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/10/20 12:32 PM
3	This is why we don't let men post on this subreddit. We don't want to clutter our feed with a bunch of sea lions DEMANDING that we drop everything to engage in "civil discussion" I seriously laughed out loud and am still dying . So true thank you mods for all the work that goes into keeping them tf off here.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/10/20 12:30 PM
28	"A garbage collector? Give him a bar of Irish Spring and marry him." I refuse to have a mindset of desperation. Those stats can suck the bag of dicks it’s trying to marry off .	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/10/20 03:59 AM
2	Went on my first date and got groped. It’s awful being violated like that and you are going through a range of emotions as you process what happened, tell that person that you don’t want to see him again and that he made you uncomfortable and assaulted you , no means no !	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/09/20 02:52 PM
15	Spread the word lurkers. We know what's up Women also have to be weary of small talk being used as traps in regards to traffickers, murderers , and rapists . So for reasons understand the context for the attempted small talk is important . Is it to a random lady at a park? Or while she is alone waiting for a cab ?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/09/20 02:40 PM
15	He wanted a traditional woman, but still wanted to treat like a traditional man. That's a no for me dawg. Wut sis ? Before allllllll of that he cheated on her multiple times and any woman with him will have to deal with his affairs . I’m glad she did what she should’ve from the jump !	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/09/20 02:09 PM
3	‘.... some occasional hole’ 🤮🤮🤮🤮 The audacity	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/09/20 04:58 PM
2	Old pickme defending my exes to my family and friends Lololol	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/09/20 01:38 AM
3	Carry easily accessible self-defense items sis I have a key chain that is a giant Bobby pin I can hit people with my keys or take out the point and keep it between my fingers as I ball my hand in a fist and impale any aggressor	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/09/20 01:21 AM
12	FDS is anti polyamory 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 FD is about women finding real husband material poly does not fit the description hell if didn’t vet my dates I’d probably be in a damn poly relationship hahahaha	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/09/20 01:27 AM
2	Never put yourself down for your past choice in men Lol Reminds me of when I first saw this sub and realized “pick mesha-isms” that I was guilty of ! Fortunately we all have GROWN	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/09/20 01:37 AM