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| 133 | Question: if I (woman) want to be picked up during daytime, how do I make myself available? | Fundamentals | saskles | /r/seduction | 26/08/25 11:18 PM |
| 28 | If a woman is nervous around you - turn on or turn off? | Logistics | saskles | /r/seduction | 25/08/25 12:14 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Why do women emotion dump?Understood. So it would seem unrelated to interest. She just needed someone to talk to through overwhelm... | /r/seduction | 30/08/25 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Why do women emotion dump?I don't completely understand what you're trying to get at... but my best guess is I would speak to all humans on an emotional level. I don't see what having a boyfriend or not has to do with it? | /r/seduction | 30/08/25 06:24 PM |
| 1 | Why do women emotion dump?yes sure if it's true trauma dumping - that's different to speaking deeply emotionally which I would want a potential partner to be able to do. i may have misunderstood the OP. but in response to your comment above about speaking about emotional things, i would absolutely do that immediately with any potential partner (and any man, frankly) - if he can't deal in emotions, he's not worth my further time. | /r/seduction | 30/08/25 06:14 PM |
| -2 | Why do women emotion dump?I'm also a woman. It is normal to do this as a test <3 | /r/seduction | 30/08/25 06:07 PM |
| -1 | Why do women emotion dump?Or as a test to see if you could be a potential partner... | /r/seduction | 30/08/25 05:33 PM |
| 2 | You shouldn’t ONLY be texting a woman in the beginning!Depends on the vibe. If they're chill double/triple/etc texts, great. If you're clearly desperate for her to get back to you, it is such a turn off. | /r/seduction | 30/08/25 05:30 PM |
| 2 | What Are YOUR Best Questions to Ask Women When Getting to Know Themadding to this (as a woman); "how do you like to be touched?" is SUCH a yum question | /r/seduction | 30/08/25 05:15 PM |
| 1 | Best Cold Approach Openers – What Actually Works for You?I don't understand what you're saying about what doesn't add up - the response doesn't seem to relate to what I wrote? I'm interested if you can be a little clearer with what you've written. But however you approach, if you get a "I have a boyfriend" rejection, then be cool about it to stay mature. | /r/seduction | 28/08/25 09:44 PM |
| 1 | Question: if I (woman) want to be picked up during daytime, how do I make myself available?Wow my friend, you are in real child mode, made some big and incorrect assumptions about a) me and b) why I asked this question and it's rude! Mansplaining much about something you're really quite wrong about. Nobody mentioned chivalry or initiative. I asked the quesiton because this game is FUN. I speak to men every single day. I risk rejection routinely. This was never a get out clause. This is a way of flirting and playing with men - for the ones that want to be in that game. Clearly you don'… | /r/seduction | 27/08/25 06:04 PM |
| 1 | Question: if I (woman) want to be picked up during daytime, how do I make myself available?Yes, love this, thank you. Also reminds me that WHEN I'm walking slowly with no real agenda, I'm feeling confident and open (even if I wasn't right before that) - it's like smiling - one can smile because one's happy, or one can smile to start tricking one's brain into being happy... the slow walk can be a result of confidence or can create confidence. Therefore I'll be more open to being hit on. Also... hoop earrings REALLY work!? Wow... this is new info to me! | /r/seduction | 27/08/25 08:37 AM |
| 1 | Question: if I (woman) want to be picked up during daytime, how do I make myself available?(I must say this is something I've never had difficulty with, starting the conversation - it's going up to the person in the first place. The conversation bit I find is easy... think that's different for women) | /r/seduction | 27/08/25 08:31 AM |
| 1 | Question: if I (woman) want to be picked up during daytime, how do I make myself available?#KingOfAssumptions | /r/seduction | 27/08/25 01:45 AM |
| 32 | Question: if I (woman) want to be picked up during daytime, how do I make myself available?Love this. best comment! | /r/seduction | 27/08/25 01:08 AM |
| -1 | Question: if I (woman) want to be picked up during daytime, how do I make myself available?so untrue. | /r/seduction | 27/08/25 12:34 AM |
| 0 | Approach when she has headphones in?The man of my dreams wouldn't bother me when wearing headphones... it really is that simple. women don't think like men! | /r/seduction | 26/08/25 11:13 PM |
| 7 | Approach when she has headphones in?As a woman, I hate when someone interrupts me if I have headphones in; if I do, I'm not wanting to interact with other humans and have made that decision puposefully. I know that is not the same as everyone, but I wouldn't really recommend it... it feels a bit like you're not reading my body language which is going to make me an instant no to whatever you're offering. | /r/seduction | 26/08/25 09:16 PM |
| 1 | If a woman is nervous around you - turn on or turn off?Not always an exeption, often the rule. It may well be the vibes you are putting out, with respect. | /r/seduction | 26/08/25 03:41 PM |
| 1 | If a woman is nervous around you - turn on or turn off?Wrong - if she's not comfortable, I'm telling you for certain, it's not "never" good. It depends why. | /r/seduction | 26/08/25 08:11 AM |
| 1 | If a woman is nervous around you - turn on or turn off?thanks for the thorough response. yes i think having a guy lightly tease about the nervousness will release a lot of tension and also opens up a doorway for her to reveal her true feelings a little clearer so he may understand why she's nervous too. love it! | /r/seduction | 25/08/25 06:53 PM |
| 1 | If a woman is nervous around you - turn on or turn off?dev? | /r/seduction | 25/08/25 01:09 PM |
| 1 | If a woman is nervous around you - turn on or turn off?CUTE!! Yes!! | /r/seduction | 25/08/25 12:03 PM |
| 1 | If a woman is nervous around you - turn on or turn off?Either that, or I was on a mission, and someone cute unexpectedly popped up in the middle of it and I wasn't at all prepared for that; my whole brain and attention had been on the mission, and now I feel like I'm a fish out of water! | /r/seduction | 25/08/25 10:40 AM |
| 1 | Best Cold Approach Openers – What Actually Works for You?As a woman I HATE this as a response. It tells me I was right to put you off. If you say something like what was posted above, like "ah lucky him, have a great day," it shows you're a mature adult man and have a level of respect for how much I might have been harassed throughout my life. | /r/seduction | 25/08/25 01:01 AM |
| 2 | If a woman is nervous around you - turn on or turn off?Yes helpful. Sometimes I do become nonchalant when I become overwhlmed or think I might be "too" into someone... I can see how it would feel cold and mixed signals and potentially also not safe for a man to continue to try to lean into that energy. | /r/seduction | 25/08/25 12:39 AM |
| 12 | If a woman is nervous around you - turn on or turn off?Yes for sure. I thought a guy wasn't into me a few days ago because we were doing a workshop and told "partner up with someone nearby who you find interesting," and he mde full eye contact with me and ducked his head and walked away. I assumed I'd pissed him off earlier in the day. Turned out he was too fearful to approach. Oh how I wish we weren't all so afraid of one another! | /r/seduction | 25/08/25 12:37 AM |
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