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Literally doing it right now. Not fantasy, you need to have the frame to execute. Beneficial for both parties involved IMO. No one is carrying around negative baggage afterward.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/23 04:13 PM
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If she’s not attracted you don’t want her around anyway.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/23 09:58 PM
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I see some doubt in the comments. I will weigh in. I’m with it. Fuck being average. It doesn’t need to be a gross over estimation of your capabilities. The effort matters. You’ll never be amazing at everything. But being well rounded and capable of many different things, trying your hardest to be that “renaissance man”, so to speak, should be your goal. Even that mindset will set you apart and set you up for success. Being red pilled isn’t just about women. It’s about not being distracted by the…
/r/TheRedPill07/08/23 06:39 PM
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It sounds cliche but it's true. I'd rather be surrounded by no one than a bunch of losers. I took this approach and stopped drinking, now I'm bigger, stronger, make more money than I ever have and have been given the opportunity to own part of a business stemming from the company I work for. All in 2 years. It works, it's just such an intangible thing and I believe people have difficulty with concepts. Also, I had to leave my comfortable job and put my dick on the chopping block to prove myself …
/r/TheRedPill31/08/22 05:37 PM
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If the girl I'm seeing does something I don't like and I call her out, how does that make me inauthentic?
/r/seduction27/10/21 09:05 PM
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Extreme ownership is a great book on leadership. It's really the basis of what you need.
/r/seduction22/09/21 01:22 PM
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With a very broad stroke, they teach you what's worth your time and what isn't. They will also teach you how to discern that for yourself through integrity and honesty.
/r/seduction22/09/21 01:19 PM
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A girl I'm seeing right now has thrown all the third wave feminism at me as tests. It's hilarious. I'm a big, tall, masculine dude with tattoos, shaved head and a beard. She's (Bisexual and lives with her 2 gay best friends) called me sexist, told me I was "mansplaining", and said a whole host of other goofy shit to me that I defeated by just not caring. The best reactions I got from her were when I made her comments in to jokes to make myself laugh or just agreed and amplified.
/r/seduction19/09/21 11:06 AM
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Some dudes like to dominate. Some women like to be very submissive or like to be humiliated/degraded. If it comes from a healthy place, it's a great way to get very intimate with each other. It's really hot with the right woman, if you can provide the right care for her after you get kinky with each other. This girl I just started hanging out with is very submissive in bed, but she's intelligent and witty so we have some great debates and conversation. She's also bi and a self proclaimed feminis…
/r/seduction10/09/21 01:48 PM
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Do yourself a favor and have the self respect to walk away from someone who can't make up their mind. The old mark Manson, if its not a fuck yes, it's a no, mindset is what you need. I should've done the same.
/r/seduction29/08/21 09:20 PM
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A chick like that isn't worth it. Find other women. If she comes back around, keep your boundaries and let her do the almost all of the work. She's not worth your time. I just dealt with a similar situation and she started getting hot and cold after we had some good times over the past few months. I started to pursue a bit more and she pulled back harder. Heard from my coworker who knows her that he saw her ex back around (he was living in another state). She flaked on me, which was not normal b…
/r/seduction29/08/21 05:53 PM
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Yeah leave that thing alone for a couple weeks dude you'll feel better about everything.
/r/seduction02/08/21 10:28 PM
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From chair rail to crown molding
/r/seduction22/07/21 02:44 PM
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For sure. As someone else in the thread stated, women smell insecurity. Took me losing some chick I was really in to to stop giving a fuck about things I couldn't change. Take ownership of everything in your life. You might not be able to have control over everything, but you can accept the things you can't control and how you deal with them. You're a champion.
/r/seduction17/06/21 05:25 PM
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30 and bald. I'm 6'3" and just yesterday was flirting with this 6 foot tall, gorgeous surfer girl at my local market. It wasn't until I stopped giving a fuck about shaving my head and I stopped trying to hide it that I realized it doesn't make a difference. Carry yourself with confidence.
/r/seduction17/06/21 04:24 PM
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I agree with this. Fall in to this category as well. I'm a big dude, 6'3" and fit. Not bad looking. I'm not an attention seeker. I hold a position of power at my job. I make decent money. I do my own things and I have a small circle of very close friends. I am dominant when it counts. I make decisions, act under duress and take care of my business. I do that all because that is what I want in my life. I don't do it for anyone else but me, and I need no ones validation to continue being me. I mad…
/r/seduction17/04/21 04:52 AM
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I'm tall, in shape and reasonably good looking. I shave my head once a week with trimmers. I have no problem with women. If your hair is thinning, own that shit and keep it short or shave it off.
/r/seduction15/04/21 01:14 PM
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This is how it's done. You can't have one without the other. Most women who want a man who isn't aloof or about his own life are too needy and vice versa. Only thing is, women can recognize neediness before a man can as its wired in to their brains as a red flag. Even in approaches, you can't be a yes man the entire time. You have to be yourself, even if that means causing a little friction. Without it you will never spark desire.
/r/seduction13/04/21 11:42 AM
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In my opinion, being aloof is just natural push pull. I'm stubborn and opinionated and have a lot of conviction for my morals. If I'm speaking to someone or someone is speaking to me and what they are saying is against my beliefs then I immediately become disinterested and aloof. Borderline cold, but I don't become proactive in defending my position. I dont need to prove anything. I don't hesitate in showing my disinterest and dropping the topic of discussion or making a cold call and saying my …
/r/seduction13/04/21 03:48 AM
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Move on bro. Either way it'll be beneficial for you. You don't want to be a nice guy and hang around waiting for this chick so she can lose respect for you. Do your own thing, work on yourself and meet other women instead.
/r/seduction06/04/21 05:06 PM
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Yo, my dude. If you don't like yourself, don't be trying to pick up women. Do everything you can to learn to love yourself first. Then the rest will fall in to place. Don't be too hard on yourself, homie.
/r/seduction06/04/21 04:52 PM
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That's relative
/r/seduction03/04/21 05:30 PM
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Usually introducing yourself is a good first step if you're talking to a stranger. It's all contextual, no?
/r/seduction03/04/21 05:30 PM
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Don't focus so much on doing the right thing or having the right thing to say. This is beat to death, but, just be yourself. Being direct is great, but not all girls are in to it and if you were to have said "I like you and you're hot" to a bunch of girls there, do you think it would have helped you out? Some women like being called hot, but most would rather hear a more personal and sincere compliment. Try just focusing on the conversations you're having, it's more important to be able to relat…
/r/seduction03/04/21 12:32 PM
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Don't think you're better than anyone. Someone who is confident will know when to have some humility. Someone who is arrogant will keep pumping themselves up regardless of circumstance. I once read that a warrior understands when to use force and how much to use. That is confidence. Arrogance is trying too hard when it's not necessary. Confidence requires finesse. Arrogance requires a heavy hand. One leaves a mess and the other gets the job done neatly.
/r/seduction01/04/21 04:01 AM
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Just ask if she wants to go out some time. I just did the same thing with a girl I met at my new job. If you haven't escalated even a little bit then don't expect a yes, but don't not try. The girl I asked out is on the same page as me with keeping our lives separate from work. She has a kid and not a lot of free time as she is the GM of a restaurant in the restaurant group I work for. I'm the new chef at this spot and I work 55 hours a week. Our schedules make it hard to make plans, but I'm sup…
/r/seduction01/04/21 03:57 AM
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The 2 minute rule is a great idea. My workout used to start with 2 minutes of burpees. It's only 2 minutes. I had the same attitude for stretching. Each stretch was 2 minutes. I'd go on down the list and then I'd be ready to work out. 1 hour of your time dedicated to your physical fitness each day is huge and something most people don't even attempt. Do that and you'll have a good foot hold most people don't.
/r/seduction03/03/21 02:26 AM
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Its important to know how to get a woman off and have her be as aroused as possible during sex. Foreplay goes a long way, boys. Its also important to not become a nice guy about meeting her needs first all the time. Women will lose respect for a man that constantly puts her needs first, sexually or otherwise. I am not saying its not good info or important to make a woman orgasm, so don't take me the wrong way here. Just be careful not to fixate. Learn how to properly please a woman, then forget …
/r/seduction03/11/20 02:08 PM
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Don't get me wrong, dude. I rocked camo shorts and hit some hardcore shows in my time, but that was a while ago. I still like to rep my favorite bands when its warm out, though!
/r/seduction29/10/20 01:00 PM
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You wear camo pants?
/r/seduction29/10/20 12:59 AM
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Depends how you carry yourself. I'm a stone mason, so when I go to work I tuck in my shirt so I look as professional as I can when clients see me. But you won't catch me doin that when I'm rockin a band T goin to hang with people. Mission specific. You can look put together either way, it just depends on what you're about, and that can change day to day. Attitude is important.
/r/seduction28/10/20 04:24 PM
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Is that the incel pill? I replied to one above.... shouldn't have fed the trolls.
/r/seduction09/09/20 09:47 PM
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Perfect timing, bot
/r/seduction09/09/20 09:43 PM
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No, it'll just fix your "pity me" attitude if you have it. Which is a good thing, because feeling sorry for yourself is weak and sucks the life out of others because you're too chicken shit to own yours. Everyone is dealt different cards. Playing the victim is something anyone can do. Its the path of least resistance and as men, if you are one, taking the easy way out will not ever build you up for success. Exercise and diet teach discipline, which you need if you want confidence and success. Th…
/r/seduction09/09/20 09:36 PM
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Last bit of advice before I let you know the hard truth. Finding a therapist that works for you is the game. Try out a bunch and find someone you like talking to. The point of therapy is going there and actually opening up. If you can't accept it, or decide you're going to be willing to try, don't expect results. These things also take TIME. Months, to make a little progress. But some progress is better than nothing. Here's the hard truth, because I'm not here to be someone's mother. Life is har…
/r/seduction09/09/20 09:28 PM
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Hey man, do yourself a favor. I read your comments in this chain, in response to OP. Take care of yourself. Your mental health seems to be in no shape to be going after women. Exercise, diet and therapy helped me when I was down and out. People love to see people take care of themselves.
/r/seduction09/09/20 04:42 PM
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Hey, thats me. I have no social media. Its so foreign to me why people love to stay buried in their phones. I just went on a tinder date Saturday and told this girl to stop using her phone. She put it away but revealed her crazy an hour or so later when she overhanded a full pint glass at some random persons face for looking at her funny. Check please.
/r/seduction07/09/20 09:14 PM
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I don't believe OP meant emotionless when he made his rock metaphor. What he meant was that a man who can't be swayed is more attractive to women.
/r/seduction29/08/20 04:02 PM
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Tell that to good ol american "french" dressing
/r/seduction06/08/20 02:27 AM
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To quote a great man, experience is something you get shortly after you need it. You need to be bold, make mistakes and learn from them otherwise you will just tread water. All the guys out there that crush it with women have made an ass out of themselves plenty of times. Be respectful but stand up for yourself and be a bit daring in speech and touch. You'll learn and gain confidence after you see what does and doesn't work. There is no magical answer to your questions. No one can tell you how t…
/r/seduction06/07/20 03:00 PM
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Fuck yeah, this sub is great for men to share advice with other men for when it comes to dealing with women. And I suppose these days it's more common for women to be on here as well which is great! But I have found the most use I have gotten out of this sub was in regards to inner game and loving myself. Working on yourself and being consistent with it is the key to success in every facet of life. Women or whomever you wish to attract are drawn to someone who undoubtedly believes in themself.
/r/seduction13/05/20 12:59 AM
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A blend with shiitakes, that's the secret.
/r/seduction07/05/20 01:22 PM
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Damn, people are that thirsty when it comes to a fuckin text message? If you do your job right and have a life you won't be worrying about text messages from women. If shes blowin you off dont give her more attention and negatively reinforce her behavior. Shut that shit down when you see her if shes got her phone out, otherwise ditch the chick who just isn't that in to you. Why clamor for attention?
/r/seduction16/04/20 11:22 PM
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User name checks out
/r/seduction30/03/20 05:18 PM
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Pump n dump is fine if she isnt cool or crosses boundaries that are established but you shouldn't just write off potential FWB's. Some women, the independent ones, are down for a casual sexual relationship. Most guys just cant deal with the fact that a woman might be in to the same thing he is and fuck it up.
/r/seduction15/03/20 05:49 PM
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I mean, sounds like you're faking it. And while faking it till you make it might help establish some confidence being uncomfortable, you're still not being yourself. Girls know when you're putting on an act, most of the time they will just play in to it to make you keep jumping through hoops, because it shows you are looking for validation, which you most certainly are. It takes a lot to actually be yourself. Especially when you realize you're not James fuckin Bond. Girls see authenticity as att…
/r/seduction04/03/20 12:44 PM
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When I was a chef it was more of, a girl I fucked introduced me to another girl I was going to fuck lol
/r/seduction11/02/20 04:36 PM
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Jung wrote a lot. And, FWIW, reading all that you can reasonably digest is worth reading. He was a brilliant man that was much ahead of his time in understanding the human psyche.
/r/seduction05/01/20 09:33 PM
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Probably not the girls you want then bro
/r/seduction11/11/19 11:15 PM
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Agreed, I've got decent game (above average looks as well), a job that gives me a purpose, and all sorts of other reasons not to be depressed, aside from hobbies to keep me busy and constructive. It wasnt until I started to work on myself that I realized no amount of attention or female company will fill in the void of 100% being my own person. So I've taken a step back to get back in to my hobbies and work on myself. I gave up on pick up to better myself, to get more involved on what really dri…
/r/seduction04/11/19 12:00 AM
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Failing is part of life, and it is the only way to improve any facet of your life. Try a new hobby? You're not going to crush it. You will make mistakes and you will try to improve on those. If you dont have the ability to realize you can learn from failure and making mistakes, then you will just about halt your progress in every part of your life. It is literally your choice to have said perspective. You can be a defeatist or you can work your ass off and better yourself. Some people need to st…
/r/seduction22/10/19 06:46 PM
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There is still intention though. Whether it be just to further conversation or end it. There is always intention. Doesnt mean she wants to bang you if she agrees with a statement or has an opinion. But the quote holds true. Do you agree with that? If a girl wasnt interested in the conversation and she was to say something, she would probably be saying it out of annoyance, frustration, being uncomfortable or what have you. There is always intent, even if it is just to entertain oneself. Speech is…
/r/seduction08/10/19 02:48 AM
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I appreciate that. I dont believe its judgemental to think that and have boundaries set for what you deem as acceptable and unacceptable. I didnt articulate my thought properly and I also misread your comment. Having a look or a "hotness rating" you prefer is definitely normal.
/r/seduction08/10/19 02:33 AM
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He does touch on that in the book and gives examples. One thing that's already been said in this thread is that some people just suck. A major point in the book is, no matter how hot a girl is, if she acts like what you describe in your comment, then shes not worth it and not a good match for you. Worth reading for sure. A side note, some rejections will be way worse than others, but it's usually not about you, unless, you know, you're being a dick.
/r/seduction07/10/19 10:45 PM
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Dale Carnegie said, (paraphrase) "always think about why someone is telling you what they are telling you."
/r/seduction05/10/19 12:43 AM
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1 word answers are so wack. Dont care how hot a girl is, if she gives answers like that shes fuckin laaaaaaaame
/r/seduction07/08/19 12:50 AM
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I'm kind of sapiosexual if I'm not immediately drawn to some women. Most of the girls I approach give IOI's or are physically the type that really turns me on. If I get a weaker signal or am intrigued and we end up talking I wait for them to pass the intellelectual monkey bar test. These women specifically, for me at least, are much harder to read on a physical level because our conversations are usually super heady and the interaction is a bit awkward at first. You just have to make some sort o…
/r/seduction07/08/19 12:28 AM
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How is this shaming? Not saying I agree with the post but you are digging for something saying that is shaming anyone and it just isnt there. I dont agree with that at all. "The rest of us can't". You sure as fuck can. No one is shaming anyone and if you're being shamed for being you it's on you to give a fuck. This post isnt saying if you are being yourself every girl will want to fuck you or show interest. Its saying if you are yourself, you will find more of an abundance of prospective women.…
/r/seduction05/06/19 03:15 AM
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Your post history shows you hate women and have unresolved mommy/daddy issues. Don't project your own short comings and hatred on to others. Fix yourself.
/r/seduction26/04/19 04:03 PM
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Ambiguity
/r/seduction02/02/19 03:44 PM
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Yeah life isn't worth wasting your time on people trying to bring you down
/r/seduction12/01/19 04:20 PM
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Don't give them the time of day. If you take the high road it shows people you're above that.
/r/seduction12/01/19 04:18 PM
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Lol, k bub. Enjoy your pathetic existence as an ignorant cunt and keep failing with girls you cant even approach in real life cuz you dont know what they drive. Remember after you close down tinder after yet another unsuccessful day to open up pornhub and be the real cuck. Enjoy your evening dick weed.
/r/seduction22/12/18 02:58 AM
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I'm not the one passing up women because they are capable of providing for themselves. The lady better be able to provide for herself just as I provide for myself. Your insecurity is apparent in your post. Work that shit out for yourself. The fact she drives bothers you? How do your relationships with anyone work out? Get the fuck out of here you fuckin lame. Get real, boy.
/r/seduction22/12/18 02:51 AM
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What the fuck?
/r/seduction22/12/18 02:34 AM
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Dress how you want and own it. If you cant, you wont get girls.
/r/seduction15/11/18 09:34 PM
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To answer your question, you dont really pick who you love. That shit just happens and hopefully you realize it before they're gone.
/r/seduction04/10/18 09:54 PM
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Buddhism
/r/seduction17/01/18 02:33 AM
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A girl will be more tolerant to hear stuff from an attractive guy. But if you're lame, it does matter how attractive you are, she will just think you're hot and lame and probably go on to find another attractive guy who isn't lame lol.
/r/seduction09/08/17 10:53 PM
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Without a doubt. But the thing is you gotta do it for yourself. Take care of yourself so you can be proud of who you are, what you've accomplished. When you enrich yourself, the rest will follow. You need to be confident and happy with where you are before you can go ahead and pull the girls you want to pull. Mindset is huge, laws of attraction. Try meditation while you incorporate regular exercise in to your life. Mental well being is just as important as physical well being. You could be Mr. O…
/r/seduction09/08/17 10:44 PM
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Entirely subjective, IMO. I know people on both sides of the spectrum that have immense success with pulling women. If you're not the most attractive guy I think you need to have serious inner game and real confidence. I do alright, and I'm not the most in shape. I do happen to be 6'4" wide shoulders and back but I don't have abs, and I'm literally covered in hair, back hair you name it. But.... I own who I am. Girls can smell insecurities, so just be comfortable in your own skin and you are ahe…
/r/seduction09/08/17 06:58 PM
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