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Question For Mensatisfiedmind-/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:44 PM
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I have made it very clear to you that I will not be arguing against your strawman. If you genuinely want a better understanding / specifics around the pressure women have been under to look a certain way, then you have reading material I’ve directed you to.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 07:02 AM
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Calm yourself. Did I hit a nerve? I didn’t specify any particular frequency btw. You definitely know people who have pestered their wives until they give in. Absolutely. Your own dad probably did it. Happens alllll the time. Woman used to accept it as part of marriage. So many women complain about this. The very forced rape - so much more often than you realise. In fact I have a friend who recently gave birth to a baby conceived this way. How are the perpetrators going to end up in jail? How can…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 01:56 PM
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Let’s bring it back to the point. I said there are plenty of men unwilling to learn. You seem to disbelieve me and you’ve concluded they and up in sexless marriages. I said “if only it were that simple”. Do you know why it’s not that simple? Do you understand the reality for women? The fact this has totally gone over your head shows so much about your understanding of what women are still dealing with. They don’t go sexless, they rape their wives. How can you even speak on these issues if you do…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 01:02 PM
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Crikey it’s been 5 days and you’re resurrecting this. Have you read the book yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 11:53 AM
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You missed the big one which is that there are age filters on these apps. There’s an account on Instagram called Swipes4Daddy which is quite funny if you want to see what shit older men come out with on dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 12:35 PM
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If only it were that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 12:30 PM
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Simple answer to this one. Autism!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 09:22 AM
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Why do you need to see these men? Men are only willing to learn if they care whether or not their partner is enjoying it. They also have fragile egos and don’t like being told that their 1 minute dick is a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 04:47 PM
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Please highlight / quote where I said “most men prefer anorexic women”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 02:06 PM
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I see I caught you in an incorrect assumption. Don’t beat yourself up about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 01:55 PM
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Getting attention from boys? How old do you think I am and how old do you think I was when this was occurring? How old do you think the men I was sleeping with were?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 01:48 PM
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Crikey, logic has left the building.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 01:31 PM
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lol. You realise you’re not the only man right? There are men out there, who are not you, who both pursued me and slept with me when I was extremely underweight. Why would I make it up? Just because it’s not your experience and causes your comment to fall apart I must be making it up? Go figure.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 01:19 PM
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Yes they are. Source: former super skinny girl with with an eating disorder
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 01:12 PM
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Read the post. The first sentence references “super skinny girls with eating disorders” - that’s the post u/rootsnyder was replying to.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 01:09 PM
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Omg thanks I hadn’t realised
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 12:52 PM
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Oh it can certainly happen. When people become malnourished which parts of their body shit down first is very genetic. I got periods down to about 75lbs. Doctors refused to believe I was menstruating but I had a scan on my bladder and they noted that I was ovulating at time of the scan. If I’d got pregnant though I likely would have miscarried.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 12:49 PM
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Dude she can’t be the mother of your child if she doesn’t have periods and therefore can’t get pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 12:34 PM
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You are assuming that the man would be willing to learn. In my experience they are offended if you try to teach them. Like it’s a huge insult that they might need guidance. Additionally dicks are unreliable. Many of them can only last a few pumps. If the man is unwilling to work on this then the woman is stuck. People also just have their own ways of fucking, some are compatible and some not.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 07:54 AM
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Stop trying to insert the word “force” in to the discussion, it’s not happening. For specifics read The Beauty Myth by Naomi Wolf.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 06:51 AM
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I didn’t say “force”.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 08:36 PM
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The hoops you’ll jump through to avoid accepting that women don’t like being told what to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 08:24 PM
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Idk, since chimpanzees don’t have Planet Fitness they’re not obliged to make small talk with the creepy guy on reception every time they want to work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 04:58 PM
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“I didn’t actually feel like he was a threat”…. A threat to what? You talking to people who go to the gym where you work?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 04:05 PM
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If you meet a long-term partner what will you do when she ages? Do you have friends and family back home? What do they think of it? Do they know why you’re there?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 02:34 PM
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Whether a man wants a woman to be trapped or not, if she’s a housewife she is. That’s just the fact of the situation. His intention doesn’t affect that. If he turns out to be an abusive asshole she will have nothing and no means to support herself. This is one of the reasons women don’t leave abusive relationships. You’re a bit confused a lot the definition of sexism in general I think. As for the women working in specific areas and not competing against men…. You can keep telling yourself that …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 02:17 PM
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It’s not a dating sub, it’s a debate sub. I’m more interested in why you think only women who are dating should be here? And why are you here? What’s your aim? I’m lesbian and get asked why I’m here. I do have experience dating men. But I’m here to debate Red Pill ideology. There’s some other deeper reasons but that’s between my therapist and I.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 10:23 AM
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That’s just playing childish manipulative games dude. Like I said, not a flex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 10:06 AM
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Ooo something triggered you a bit, didn’t it? I think older women are good with you not wanting to date them. They’ll be just fine so I wouldn’t worry about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 10:05 AM
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“is thinly veiled insecurity and bitterness”. It’s really not. This is logic. The more experience you have with something the more skilled you become at knowing the potential problems and how to detect them. Older women are more experienced and so they can weed out the common behaviours that they aren’t willing to tolerate. You seem to be describing some sort of reverse wisdom. The Red Pill view of older women is very skewed, and it’s skewed for a good reason. Older women can put misogynistic me…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 08:00 AM
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“putting her down rather than up, being sexually assertive and stuff” What do you mean by “sexually assertive”? Putting her down isn’t something to be proud of? You’re essentially saying you’ve learned from YouTube how to sleep with women who have trauma. That’s not a flex. It’s low hanging fruit. The reason these women respond to your abuse is that you remind them of a past abuser which gives them a sense of familiarity.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 07:50 AM
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It’s not that they can’t get women their own age, it’s that they can’t keep them. Older women have much more fine tuned bullshit detectors and are less likely to tolerate inequality in the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 07:37 AM
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“Most women suck at sex FACT” - source? In my experience with men they bust their nut within a few pumps so it’s pretty difficult to showcase skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 07:31 AM
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The Red Pill supports these extreme Red Pill ideas and that’s precisely why people have an issue with TRP. On the face of it the values might seem reasonable, but they are the building blocks for more extreme hateful rhetoric.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 09:02 PM
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The thing is, dating isn’t a financial market with easily quantifiable values. I know that if it was that would make your life much simpler and help you feel more in control of your dating destiny, but it’s just not reality. Also you can’t complain women don’t ask you out when you know full well any woman that does ask you out would be labelled (by you) as “low value” because it means they’re more promiscuous or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 01:00 PM
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Can you give some examples of the reactionary and extreme/hateful content? I’m not going to claim to know the sub intimately but I’m on it and a lot of it is just women sharing uncomfortable experiences with men. I haven’t been banned but I’ve never posted, I replied to stuff and never had any issues. I got banned from Ask Women eventually because I broke a rule about cross posting, but I did it out of frustration that the sub was so ableist. Whenever I responded and included context/caveats rel…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 11:56 AM
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Because men can be dangerous so we are naturally wary. Most women have had some form of sexual harassment or assault. An awful lots of women have histories of being victims of violent men (we aren’t talking just a few, a LOT) and we never know which ones are the dangerous ones so it’s natural to be nervous.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 10:15 AM
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Women struggle more with low self esteem than high self esteem. There’s no need to humble women. Men are the ones who need humbling.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 09:11 AM
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I think you are confusing excitement with attraction. The thing with people in your league is there is a genuine chance therefore there’s excitement/anticipation experienced. That’s not the same as physical attraction which is more about your genital’s response to them. With physical attraction if you know there’s no chance you lack the excitement/anticipation element.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 09:06 AM
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I’m going to assume they had a traumatic experience with their ex or has some negative association. I wouldn’t want them to do something they’re not comfortable with. However, for me oral is a dealbreaker. If someone doesn’t do it I would consider us not sexually compatible and break up with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 08:57 AM
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You are misunderstanding the various layers of the psyche. Because of conditioning by society we grow up actually genuinely finding these things more pleasing to the eye. We can know logically why these things are considered more attractive and that we don’t feel the need to please men, but it takes a long time for that kind of knowledge/insight to actually override the conditioning that happens in childhood, growing up in a patriarchal capitalist society. Our own preferences are something we ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 08:52 AM
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I don’t blame you. Some of them are awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 04:07 AM
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Use Loop earplugs for the sound. I also do the lobster technique, go in early when it’s still quiet and then it gets gradually fuller. This is easier than going in later when it’s busy (I’ve done that before and had to leave). As for the non verbal cues… drunk dancing non verbal cues aren’t as subtle as the regular ones. For years I didn’t go to clubs because it was just my idea of a nightmare, but a few adjustments have made them more accessible. Also go to the same events, have certain routine…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 07:46 PM
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None. That’s not a thing that’s happening, unless you are getting dating advice from your grandma.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 05:55 PM
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My usual method for casual sex is to go to lesbian bar or party, start dancing and then maybe dance with a couple of people, find someone I have chemistry with and then go back to their place. That way you’re not really manipulating them because you don’t talk much, it’s more based on the physical chemistry.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 05:54 PM
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I (lesbian) actually read “The Art of Seduction” and tried the techniques on two people. Both became extremely needy and started reading me/sending me poetry. I don’t have time for that. They are looked down upon because they are manipulative and presumably can’t get women without pretending to be someone entirely different.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 05:44 PM
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They meet people at work, through friends, while out dancing, in school, house parties etc. As an autistic person I find club/party type situations the best because you are able to get a feel for chemistry without having to do the awkward talking part.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 04:52 PM
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“All it takes”?. I mean… it’s pretty rare to find that kind of connection, it’s not something that can be conjured up easily. It’s interesting though how you managed to turn that in to a direct insult to me. I wonder why you felt the need to do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 08:08 AM
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No it’s not. It’s about what they create together not what each “brings to the table”.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 08:02 AM
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When two people love each other it brings positive, fuzzy, euphoric feelings. That’s what they hopefully both “bring to the table” for one another. The examples you give are about mundane life tasks. Any woman can learn how to keep a house intact or fix a car. Any man can learn to cook. Both those things can be outsourced to others. This isn’t what adds value to a relationship. It’s just surface level stuff. Each couple is a unique combination, they have a connection on a deeper level, they brin…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 08:00 AM
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What’s insulting is viewing an emotional connection as a transaction. We all bring something different to the table. I don’t think it’s so much that people are upset, I think it’s just an absurd question to be asking in the first place. It’s shows a complete lack of maturity and emotional intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 07:31 AM
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I don’t want to burst your bubble, but that shit happens in romantic relationships too. It’s called bad communication. It’s a life problem not a Men’s Dating World problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 07:25 PM
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The “truth” Red Pill promotes is inherently misogynistic. It’s ironic that you talk about Red Pill men knowing “the truth” on a post where you are bragging about being able to manipulate women. You realise you have been manipulated right? The whole Red Pill thing is done in classic cult recruitment style. They pose common questions men have, “answer” them, and the men feel they’ve finally found “the truth” and the answers to their problems. They find a sense of community and identity and in exch…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 04:47 PM
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With bringing up the tea act are you trying to say women should sleep with Red pill men just to increase sex available to them? What you are missing is that red pill men hold such hateful views of women that they don’t deserve sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 04:00 PM
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She’s not what? After the replies are you still trying to convince yourself you have this power over women? Or that you’re the person who discovered manipulation?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 03:27 PM
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Surely by red pill philosophy it’s their fault for putting themselves in a situation where they were alone with a woman and opening themselves up to accusations? Personally I am more concerned about women who can’t have the careers they wanted because some low life man knocked them up then ran away from their responsibilities. Or the women who have ptsd from sexual assaults.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 11:38 AM
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That’s not what you’re saying though. You’re saying, essentially, that you hold the power in the situation. Thing is…. You don’t have an understanding of how women can tell you’re a misogynist. You think words are enough. That’s very superficial. I don’t date men, but when I’m advising heterosexual friends the first bit of advice is to focus on the actions/behaviour - words are meaningless. Everyone knows there are guys out there who will say anything to get a woman in to bed. This is why experi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 11:31 AM
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Well if she just got sex how is she losing out? Unless you’re shit in bed…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 11:26 AM
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So there’s the sexual harassment - catcalling. I’m 36 and that happens a few times a week. It used to be almost every day in my early twenties. Hit on is a bit different because I’m lesbian and avoid situations where men would do this and if you mean hit on by men or hit on in general. When I’m on a night out at a lesbian club/party I get hit on a few times a night. By men - A few times a year I get seriously hit on as in asked for my number or a date by a man. Generally if I’ve been too nice to…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 08:36 AM
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Meh, as an autistic woman (very much NOT RP) I can say that actually honesty and integrity are traits that are much more common in autistic people. That doesn’t mean NTs can’t have honesty, integrity and be authentic - just that it’s much more difficult to find NT with these qualities.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 08:30 AM
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Just want to say as an autistic woman (this is a friendly comment intended for education purposes) - autistic people detect a lot more subtle details than NTs, the difficulty we have is processing it all. NTs are able to understand and use that subtlety because they notice less of it and therefore have much less information to process. You could compare it to the size of a file a computer has to download. NTs are downloading a smaller file so they can do it much quicker. Autistics are downloadin…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 08:27 AM
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All versions of Kristin Stewart! Twighlight I only watched to see her. But I also like the masc/top energy she’s giving now. Different type of hot but still good. And yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 11:35 AM
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Kristen Stewart My gay awakening was Dirrty video by Christina Aguilera There is someone who prior to surgery was really my ideal woman - but I daren’t even say her name due to the fact she’s a terrible person. I wonder if anyone can guess? Honestly I like all types. Different women have different vibes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:49 AM
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First you need to sort out your definition of disability. You’ve said yourself 1 in 36 kids are autistic - it’s definitely a disability in an NT world, but let’s look at some of the “symptoms” of Allism (not being autistic). 1) insistence on inappropriate and intrusive eye contact, even with strangers. 2) lack of empathy for autistic people. 3) inability to notice important details - fixated on “the bigger picture” 4) deficits in the ability to spot patterns and understand systems 5) over relian…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 08:29 AM
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Did you really just compare homelessness to not having a girlfriend/boyfriend in your teens? Are you for real? I’m starting to think this post is just trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 07:33 AM
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Umm could you please show me where I said Chad is more likely to be an orphan? I was using examples. Everyone misses out on stuff, that’s the point. “Unrigging the dating market” is not a priority. You need to do what everyone else does and accept they missed out on an experience the would have liked to have and make the best out f your situation now.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 08:07 PM
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It’s because people tend to repeat patterns from childhood. So if someone was abused as a child they subconsciously are drawn to what feels familiar and some psychologists suggest there’s a drive to try to finish that story and fix it. Like if their dad was always angry at them subconsciously they try to repair that relationship with their father, which is represented by the bad guy. There’s lots of other reasons that contribute to this pattern, ultimately if anyone is to “blame” in this situati…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 06:41 PM
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I have been emotionally abused until the point I weighed 72lbs and was admitted to hospital. This fictional high school song is not describing emotional abuse. It’s a song, so of course she gets the guy the end. That’s not real life, it’s fiction. The song obviously spoke to a lot of girls who relate with the experience. No - women don’t get masses of sympathy. That sounds like something you’ve been told by a manosphere influencer. On the contrary we get blamed for our trauma. That’s why the ter…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 06:32 PM
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You lost me at “she’s emotionally abusive”. This song describes a situation that men complain about a lot, that women also find themselves in. It proves to RP guys that no, not all women have it easy with dating. Many face the same struggles as men. Women like geeky Taylor’s character in this don’t tend to start entire movements and identity based on hating men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 11:32 AM
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Women in their mid twenties have dated 30+ men? Where are they supposed to have found the time to do that? There’s plenty of women who haven’t dated in their teen years. They’re just invisible to you because they don’t look like porn actresses.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 06:32 AM
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Would you apply this same sympathy to women who are led on by men and manipulated by them? You’ve got your flair as “Red Pill Man” but you’re starting pretty far from the personal responsibility principle. You let her put her legs on you in private. Then you entered a non private situation with her. Must be your fault you got humiliated! Next time don’t let a girl put her legs on you, duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 09:28 AM
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You have messed up that sent a be a bit. You mean “PPD women trying to convince men they should get to know them as people.” Fixed it for you, you’re welcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 09:22 AM
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On a sub where women are frequently blamed for being raped and abused, compassion for guys hanging out in “the friend zone” is in short supply I’m afraid.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 09:19 AM
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Yeah I’m 5’4 and 110-115lbs. I have been as low as 71lbs though and spent a lot of time with people who were similar (in hospital) and I remember whenever I would leave the unit after long admission everyone would look much bigger because I was so accustomed to seeing emaciated people every day. I imagine if I spent time in USA but frame of reference would float the opposite direction.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 04:38 PM
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Body structures vary wildly which contributes to someone’s overall appearance, along with muscle mass. For example models with very small waists tend to have long bodies, meaning there’s more space for internal organs. People women with short bodies will be wider and never get such a small waist. I live in the UK and I’m recovered anorexic. I’ve never been overweight, so these factors might affect my classification. The women in those images seem a bit plump/overweight, but not obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 01:25 PM
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If you’re not a teenager why do you think this? RP seems to assume women want men to pay for this so…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 11:03 AM
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You’ve been watching too much RP content if you think this is how the world works. This is why the internet is so dangerous for teenagers. They can’t distinguish reality from the content.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 10:57 AM
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What world are you living in? It’s standard to split the rent when cohabiting. That’s what I always did with my ex. Never even crossed my mind that he might pay my portion. I’d be surprised if there are any women here who would assume a man would pay their rent!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 10:52 AM
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I think he was 47 when mum died.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 10:38 PM
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My dad was the OPPOSITE. He didn’t meet his wife until 10 years after my mum died. In fact he was a single father to 4 kids for that entire time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 07:21 PM
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Before. We had sex consensually before. I got pregnant and we played happy families for a while. Then he turned nasty, raped me and got me pregnant again, I got the termination and IUD. It was all very fucked up and unpleasant and I have PTSD. As soon as I got him out the house and had got the key off him I went no contact and have remained as limited contact as possible. Within the week of him leaving I was admitted to hospital weighing about 73lbs. He was a proper psychopath. Fully brainwashed…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 07:15 PM
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I kept the first one. He told me that he was infertile. Baby trapped me because of my dad’s money. He did get me pregnant a second time but I got an abortion and an IUD at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 07:01 PM
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He said he was infertile.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 06:59 PM
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It would have been cheaper. But comes with the risk of prison.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 06:50 PM
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The Irish person? Probably. They probably have a great great grandfather from Ireland but have never visited.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 06:49 PM
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Got rapist taking me to court over child custody rn. Happens all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 04:35 PM
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NSFW Reddit is truly hilarious. I’ve just seen a post titled “lick my Irish pussy”. Do we thinks it’s flavoured like Guinness or Bailey’s?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 04:33 PM
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Pahahaha of dear lord. I said ” she doesn’t look like that in real life” I didn’t say “nobody looks like that in real life”. I promise you, once you get up close to women you’ll discover - we have skin texture! Our skin isn’t all perfectly blurred smooth all over our body. We all have stretch marks, pores etc. Example of what I mean. Each of the women in your photo is in a different position. It’s not comparable to the original picture I was commenting on. Several of them are also edited. You’ve…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 10:11 AM
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By “2 C chromosomes” do you mean “2 X chromosomes”? Compared to the misogyny most of us grew up with that’s very very mild. If you think you are talking about an issue of the same level of magnitude you are seriously misinformed. I think it would serve you well to actually listen to women share their experiences, and consider that it might just be true. Probably the sub us banned because of the conduct of the people who ran it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 08:45 PM
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You can’t see skin texture because it’s not there - it’s all blurred.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 08:39 PM
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She’s missing skin texture as well as the photoshopped figure. I’m sure she’s still hot. I don’t like seeing the bra wire though. Picture would be much hotter if she ditched the bra and showed some underboob.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 08:13 PM
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I don’t think reddit banned it because the premise was threatening to some. The sub is (was) based on false beliefs about women. Statistics are wildly misused and misunderstood by the manosphere.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 08:11 PM
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I control the interaction. If I don’t want to take part I just close the reddit app on my phone and you all go away. It’s actually quite healing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 08:01 PM
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If I could separate it out I would 🙂. Unfortunately it’s impossible to completely avoid them. They’re everywhere and part of everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 07:58 PM
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You’re looking for me to say “men” I guess…. So you can undermine me saying I want nothing to do with them. I’ll qualify that then - I want nothing to do with them romantically.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 07:38 PM
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If it was banned by reddit it must have been pretty bad. Presumably lots of hating on women. If they just don’t want anything to do with women why would they make a sub about it? It must be pretty important to them….
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 01:06 PM
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It’s a debate sub not a dating sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 01:03 PM
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No. The misogynists still want to sleep with the silent woman and have her cook and clean for them. I quite simply want nothing to do with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 12:47 PM
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My ideal man is silent and not within 800m of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 11:18 AM
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Having a kid changes your priorities which will naturally lead to less sex. When I was with a man and had a baby I had poor boundaries and didn’t care about my own pleasure. I had sex because society told me that’s where my value lay. So I think my partner was getting a lot of sex as far as new parents go. Now as a single mum, maturity means I know what I like (women!), I just don’t have as much opportunity because I’m home with my kid a lot and only get the freedom to do stuff when she’s at her…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 09:47 AM
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As a lesbian I personally would say these women are all pretty average. I’m interested to see what guys choose though
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 09:34 AM
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Your 8 and above is heavily edited though. She doesn’t look like that in real life. Your average woman is more attractive than your 8+ in my (lesbian) opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 09:33 AM
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No, you might pay less for the sex but you have to pay for travel and accommodation. May as well spend a bit more locally spread out over the year and so you don’t have to fly abroad and fit all your sex in to one week a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 08:11 AM
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Part of the reason I got my septum piercing was to repel men. It also doubles as a way to attract lesbians.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 08:03 AM
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This is mostly true for cishet men. I am so thankful to be lesbian. Even if I was bi I wouldn’t bother with cishet men. Although not every single guy is like this, enough of them are to steer well clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 02:23 PM
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I’m lesbian but married a man so yes. Women are (or were when I was growing up born mid 80’s) under a lot of pressure to impress and please men. The stuff you see in the media these days with women stating the opposite it quite firm terms is a direct reaction to this history of being beholden to pleasing men to prove your worth. Everyone was a pick me. Women were under a lot of pressure to please men sexually, but women’s sexuality and sexual desires weren’t talked about as much and were mainly …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 12:24 PM
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Dude if this is a thing I think it’s because they get insulted by men more often? Also - you don’t know what that look was about - she could just be autistic. I’m autistic and have been told I give very hostile looks but I don’t mean it. I am usually just panicked about having an unplanned social interaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 04:41 PM
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Miner or minor? They’re two very different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 07:11 PM
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“Truly eye opening stuff” er really? Femininity is beautiful, that’s not news. I don’t understand the point of this post. What’s are women supposed to do with this information?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 07:07 PM
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I think that must be the longest reddit post I’ve seen. Every marriage is different. You are making sweeping generalisations about marriage that are inaccurate. My experience of marriage to a man: we both worked same amount of hours (40 per week) except I earned more and also started very early in the morning so I could be home for our kid after school. I did all the childcare, cooking and cleaning. All this despite him being physically healthy but me weighing less than 80lbs and in need of a hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 02:23 PM
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What do you mean by how “good faith” I am? I am saying they go there with the hopes of finding a submissive woman. They don’t think they are abusing them because they think that’s how things “should” be. You bought the minors in to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 02:12 PM
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Men like to control and feel power over women. This has historically led to women being oppressed. Women in the west are now gaining independence and have rights that somewhat protect them from this abuse of power. Some western men cannot tolerate women who are not submissive hence passport bros. Men from countries who already have power over women aren’t going to give that up and pursue women who will expect to be treated as equals.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 12:04 PM
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Lol at “sorry you felt not spoken to”.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 03:19 PM
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Sex and relationships are part of life. There are lots of other parts of life that get discussed - food, politics, music, travel, animals, money, families etc. You notice the sex/relationship stuff because you are fixated on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 12:23 PM
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I agree your county does seem very fake. But you’ve put “born and raised here” - which assumes everyone you are communicating with is over there in USA with you. Reddit is international.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 12:15 PM
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I saw a tag group on another social media site that was called “America is like if you ordered a country off Wish” and I laughed so hard. They are a baby country. It’s like they are playing pretend as a grown up country and don’t realise other countries don’t take them seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 12:13 PM
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Are you aware of cognitive bias? Sex and relationships aren’t all anyone talks about. It’s just that you personally notice these discussions more because they trigger strong emotions in you. It’s odd you are repeating to not take emotion in to account when what you are describing is all based on emotions. You can survive without sex. Emotionally it may be hell, the feelings of rejection, injustice, lust, lack of control, loneliness etc. If you are genuinely struggling to meet your basic needs yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 11:52 AM
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For real
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 11:46 AM
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There are so many alternatives to cold approaching people. Of course you don’t feel as threatened by men approaching you - you’re more matched in size/strength and I’m assuming you don’t have a history trauma with other men?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 05:17 PM
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Melanin, the pigment that darkens skin, doesn’t affect behaviour. Testosterone does. Its not the same. Race issues are sociological /cultural. When it comes to sex hormones that drive sexual behaviour this is a biological factor. Pretty much all women fear rape by men. Rape of women by another women is not a common occurrence. I can actually only think of one case and in that case it was rape because the other woman lied about her identity. Not because she physically forced anything inside the o…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 03:01 PM
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Oh dude “die alone without knowing a woman’s touch”… really? That’s the alternative to cold-approaching? A little all or nothing don’t you think? If you bring it back and think more rationally there are plenty of alternatives. I call bs on you being approached by gay men and enjoying it. The OP articulates well the feeling of being seen that way by people you are not attracted to. I hate it. It feels threatening and placed expectation on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 02:48 PM
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Systematic approaches are useful on a system level. As an individual you need to take an individual approach. It’s not about wanting some kind of magic to be true. It’s literally just common sense. Individuals can be outliers therefore them applying a systematic approach to their individual dating life would be a fail. It amazes me how many RP guys struggle with this concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 06:46 AM
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“Give me”…… no. I don’t comply with demands. If someone is so fixated on something that not having becomes their entire identity - they’re obsessed. If they are so desperate for it that they hurt people (emotionally or physically) to get it they’re obsessed. You don’t need sex to live. It’s necessary for reproduction but it’s not necessary for you to stay alive. Sex for pleasure is not a need. It’s a want.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 04:45 PM
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Nope. You can’t just dismiss that. It does matter because you are saying they want to satisfy “healthy normal desires”, you need to define what “healthy” and “normal” mean. Food is a good comparison because it’s a need (I don’t necessarily agree sex is but let’s pretend for the sake of this argument) but it’s also a pleasure. meaning people are highly motivated for it and it’s vulnerable to becoming an addiction. Your post basically means nothing if you are not defining normal and healthy sexual…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 03:59 PM
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Manosphere content tells men to rape women. It encourages violence. It’s full of hyperbole and absolutes that teenagers, especially autistic teens (I care about this because I’m autistic) are vulnerable to taking literally.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 03:54 PM
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Thanks for the heads up. I hadn’t considered that. I feel like a lot of these guys are autistic (no shade, I’m autistic too) teenagers though who aren’t even old enough to earn their own money.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 03:51 PM
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Dude do your food desires match with your actual needs? Never fancied a bit more cake than you needed?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 03:48 PM
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No it’s not fair because feminists aren’t trying to manipulate young women and exploit them like manosphere content creators are. Feminists don’t encourage rape and violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 03:38 PM
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There are lots. How on this earth is it logical to think that there are only a few outliers obsessed with one of the greatest pleasures in life? No, I want your definition. Because for your assertion to make any sense there needs to be a static metric to compare these sex obsessed people with.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 03:37 PM
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I think the issue here is partly that they don’t know what the Madonna / Whore complex is because they are teenagers. Even the ones who aren’t suffer from it. It’s one of the pillars of misogyny. This sub in particular will slut shame any woman who talks about being sexually liberated. Whenever I mention my sex life on here (casual and with women, often ONS as I don’t have space in my life for a relationship) I get slut shaming comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 03:25 PM
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I have a declaration. I don’t think it warrants a full post so I’ll put it here. Men under the age of 25 should not be allowed to watch or consume manosphere content. Their brains are not mature enough to properly understand it and put it in context. Their view of reality gets warped. Additionally I don’t think men under 25 should be allowed to join the army. Yes, I do think a much older woman dating a man under 25 is unethical as well. But the manosphere thing is really important because of the…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 03:21 PM
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See, when I advise someone to work on themselves I generally mean to go to therapy so you can talk this stuff out and move past the fixation on dating and black and white view of the world. I don’t expect them to change their skill set or looks, I expect them to change their mindset. Ultimately the person it benefits is themselves. Your question about what men “should become” is exactly the kind of thinking that needs to be worked on in therapy. You can’t become anyone other than your authentic …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 03:16 PM
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“Can’t satisfy their healthy, normal desires” - define normal sexual desires..? There are lots of people who are obsessed with sex, men, women, NBs. Men more so because of hormones and what society tells them they should be doing. People go in to treatment for sex addiction and porn addiction all the time. If someone begins to hate an entire group of people due to their lack of sex - they’re obsessed with it!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 03:10 PM
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Covid happened!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 12:31 PM
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I think I need to split my answer in to two parts. As a teen, while in denial about my sexuality, never had therapy: I wore makeup every day Push up bra every day despite the discomfort Heels to go out Changed my hair to almost the exact cut of one of the Su!cide Girls my ex liked. Changed my behaviour Listened to and learned about the music this guy likes etc etc. All sorts of sex stuff that I was NOT comfortable with and severely damaged my self esteem My own needs/wants were not considered at…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 12:30 PM
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If I were a man telling you about your experience as a woman, perhaps telling you that you don’t experience harassment, and claiming I know because I have female friends… you would dismiss me as mansplaining (and rightfully so). This is no different. I am in no way denying your experience, you may be ND but you don’t have the experience of being an autistic person. You might be friends with autistic women but you cannot speak on their behalf about their experience navigating friendships. There’s…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 08:26 AM
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I’ve been going to therapy twice a week for 6 years. You don’t need to patronise me. This is a genuine issue multiple autistic women face. It is discussed within our community. There is research showing that NTs don’t like us on first impressions. I am capable of sharing my experience and I don’t need a non autistic person to speak over me she deny my reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 03:46 PM
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Charming. Always nice to see one women try to bring another down. Well I have no problem with autistic friends and I have plenty of neurotypical one on one friends. It’s groups that get nasty. Are you autistic?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 08:47 AM
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This post really shows how far from reality some Red Pill guys are. Of course women get rejected and fear rejection, even attractive women. What you need to understand when it comes to women saying things like “he was just intimidated by you” is specifically to counteract the damage caused by rejection. Note that phrase you used was someone saying to another woman “he was just intimidated by you”, not the woman saying that about herself. This is because one woman is consoling/comforting the othe…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 08:31 AM
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While I admit I’m not really an expert on male friendships, neurotypical women are very difficult to be friends with as an autistic woman. Maybe your experience is different, but mine is that if they know you are autistic they might be pity friends, but they sort of infantilise you, don’t see you on their level. It feels very tokenistic. Most likely they don’t know you are autistic and heavily judge you for not conforming to social “rules” like making eye contact or saying thank you in the corre…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 08:23 AM
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Shawna ideally because I’m lesbian. Even if it was a super hot woman if they lack emotional intelligence and the ability to show vulnerability then I’m not interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 01:04 PM
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Absolutely! Red Pill influencers (most types of influencers) are acting and saying what they do to get clicks/engagement, not because they genuinely believe the shit they are saying. Even misogynists who aren’t influencers are full of double standards. Fathers expecting their daughters to have successful careers while also being traditional wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:36 PM
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I think men often see women as objects and are therefore less discerning about social compatibility. However these women often end up suffering violence and abuse. It’s my perception NT men are more accepting of autistic friends than NT women are of autistic friends. It’s difficult being friends with NT women when you are an autistic woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 08:44 AM
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Why? We are all cautious around tics. We all know they don’t all carry lime. Some women are cautious around all men, even though we know all men are violent. Pretty simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 07:23 AM
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I’m analogising women being afraid of men. Obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 06:43 PM
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I did see an analogy for women assessing threat from men and I think it’s simple enough to maybe help guys understand. Tics sometimes carry lime disease. Most people do what they can to avoid catching lime disease when they know they might be exposed to tics. Not all tics have lime disease though. So are you taking a risk? You don’t know from looking at a tic if it’s got lime disease, you only find out after it bites you. Bit unfair on the lime free tics to not let them feast on your blood. #not…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 05:20 PM
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The video is viral because it’s a strong reaction. I would have been shaking if I were approached but unlikely to shout and certainly not make a a TikTok. However - since the red pill likes to bring up our natural instincts - you going to go near a momma bear when she’s got her cub with her? Or try to steal a coyote’s puppy? Good luck with that. We are biologically programmed to be more defensive when caring for our kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 05:15 PM
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Personal experiences. How have you experienced this phenomenon? I’m not talking about what you’ve heard or what the RP believe. You said it was your experience so please explain how.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 08:09 AM
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No, that’s not what we are saying. If you are struggling to understand I can’t help you dude, it’s pretty simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 07:29 AM
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I’m, not a fan of the army. I can see an argument for waiting until 25 to join though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 07:27 AM
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You say that’s your experience, in what way have you experienced it? Can you give some examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 07:24 AM
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Unemployable in a position of responsibility? Why would being romantically/ sexually vulnerable make you unemployable? I wasn’t taking about professional vulnerability.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 07:21 AM
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No, not “everyone can be”. Why don’t you go put your phone on the street in front of your house for 5 minutes? Or would you rather put a cup out there? The cup could get stolen so doesn’t make a difference if you put the phone or the cup really, does it?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 06:21 PM
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This is about emotional intelligence, emotional maturity and experience. Of course older women don’t see younger women as “little children”. We do see them as very vulnerable where men are concerned, but definitely not like children in all areas of life. Young women can be very competent in all areas of life, might be planning, maybe tech, financially responsible, project managing etc. But in terms of romance they are extremely vulnerable. First consider how valuable they are sexually. Anything …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 05:53 PM
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Nobody is trying to stop you from going to Thailand dude. I’d like to go but find a pretty relaxed nightlife here. Strippers & pole dancers, burlesque, everyone very sexually liberated. I go out in lesbian scene, you can probably find something like this closer to you then Thailand though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 10:10 PM
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I didn’t say people automatically want to do things their grandparents didn’t. Again, very simplistic. This stuff gets carried down through generations.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 01:30 AM
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If, when you ask them to pull their weight and go on strike, they call their mum over to wash the dishes - run!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 11:18 PM
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Women don’t really have freedoms now. But it’s at least becoming possible for some people. I know a lot of women who are in the position the OP described, alone and enjoying their cats, who have at some point in their life been under the control of at least one man. At least it’s possible now for some of us to live alone enjoying our cats.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 10:45 PM
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“Get the fuck over it”. Get the fuck over yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 10:29 PM
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Society doesn’t refresh with each generation. If only it were that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 10:22 PM
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Er…. Yeah. For years women didn’t have the freedom to do that whereas men had total freedom. Women have only relatively recently been free, so of course we are all having a party. Blame your great grandfathers for this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 08:31 PM
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Make it make sense that a woman wants to hang out with a man for non sexual reasons? She might enjoy playing the same games as him, like the same movies. Why don’t you look up the definition of friend? Usually one of two things happens when a guy detects “the friend zone” 1) woman doesn’t realise he’s interested in that way and thinks he’s just a friend 2) she feels sorry for him. It’s not about getting male attention. Sorry. You are suggesting in a previous comment that friend zoning includes t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 12:29 PM
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“If you take two men of equal physical attractiveness who have these opposite characteristics, who is more likely to get sexual interest” Probably the most confident one. Obviously depends on the person and what they are attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 09:01 AM
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Happy cake day!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 08:43 AM
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If she knows he has feelings but keeps friendly with him…. She’s not forcing him to be friends, he can cut ties himself at any point. If she sees him as a friend and isn’t interested in more she’s literally just putting up a boundary, not “friend zoning” or any other manipulative female witchcraft that the Red Pill had taught you. If she’s made it clear she doesn’t want a relationship but he stays friends with her then that’s his choice. What is she supposed to do? Sleep with him even though she…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 08:40 AM
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Who tf is Bill Maher? He doesn’t make and sense. Wtf is this about jewellery? Are we supposed to like jewellery more than sex? Obviously sex is better than jewellery.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 04:17 PM
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Yeah I’m lesbian but been with men purely because their confidence made me feel safe. I wasn’t consciously aware that’s what was going on at the time. Confidence is powerful.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 11:04 AM
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I thought Red Pill referred to that as a woman having “orbiters”? The “friend zone” is when a woman only wants to be friends. It’s not about stringing people along just to get “benefits” from the friendship. That’s a pretty rare scenario, what benefit does she get from a man than she doesn’t a woman friend? Friend zone is when she sees you as a friend only. It always has meant that. I don’t know how old you are and when you heard the term for the first time? Maybe it was introduced to you by red…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 10:35 AM
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Nobody said one was more shitty then the other. But the OP is about men getting “friendzoned” and women getting “sex zoned”. It’s not asking about men (supposedly) getting strung along. The fault in this mindset still applies even when women are considered to be stringing men along - it comes from the assumption that every contact with a woman who is remotely desirable to the man is a possibility for sex. Rather than seeing women as people first and then developing romantic feelings, they just s…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 11:22 AM
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Men don’t get “friendzoned”. Men make friends. Negative men cannot hold on to the positive so instead twist this in to some kind of rejection. Some women get used. Not “zoned”.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 05:09 PM
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Getting famous for your looks is only considered valuable by certain people. A lot of people don’t care about any of this bs. There are lots of women out there living their lives spending time doing things other than trying to look pretty that have full and satisfying lives. They don’t care you think their eyeliner sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 10:32 PM
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I don’t understand your last sentence. But people have different values and preferences for partners. Consensus is rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 09:40 PM
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Lesbian here - such a wide range of aesthetics appeal to me. Highlights would be fishnets. classic lesbian sleeveless T, anything with side boob. Turn offs - white trousers/jeans, personality lacking formal wear.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 07:38 PM
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Taking advantage depends if he was leading her on or not. Under what guise did he meet her, was he honest about what he was looking for. It’s brave she told him her feelings. Asking to still sleep with her afterwards is stupid. If someone has confessed deep feelings for you it is very obviously going to be difficult for them to have a purely sexual relationship with them. Bro has the emotional intelligence of a mosquito so he would have been useless in a LTR, but at least he was honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 07:24 PM
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“If they don’t care about being more attractive in an attention economy” - wtf is an “attention economy”. Lots of women don’t want attention so I’m sure there are lots of women very willing to skip out on hours upon hours of beauty bs. Also - Now you’ve said the sentence “a lot of women struggle to attract high-quality guys” you’re not allowed to comment on posts claiming women have it easy on dating apps or dating in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 06:13 PM
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Why are you italicising random words? And no, my original comment wasn’t a reflection of my values. It was a response to the hypocrisy of TRP who seem to preach that relationships are “transactional”… except for when it suits them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 05:57 PM
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I’m not looking for a man for any reason. I make a fantastic partner to other women though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 05:19 PM
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“then you would think taking a lot of time to watch different content creators, trying out different styles and techniques, different styles and different brands would be mandatory for every single woman”…. No, not every single woman cares enough about her appearance to watch hours of inane beauty content.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 01:57 PM
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Do we really need a video to tell us this? I identified men attracted to me were looking at me like prey before I even reached adulthood. The worst is when they lick their lips. In the interest of transparency - I’ll admit, I do lick my lips sometimes at the site of an attractive woman and don’t seem to have control over it. But I think it’s less threatening than when a man does it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 01:52 PM
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I think many of your reasons apply. Often it’s the only way they can get a sense of control over the women
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 01:45 PM
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Disclaimer that I’m lesbian. Men are much more visual than women. So it doesn’t matter as much as it does for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 01:42 PM
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I don’t agree with OP. But I just did a reddit search for butterface to see examples and most of the results were NSFW.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 01:41 PM
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I’ll be honest - I’m not overly concerned about knowing TRP inside out. Although I’m curious why asking the average age of the guys on this sub has anything to do with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 12:04 PM
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Omg so much to unpack. Regarding the lesbians on PPD - we exist. Here I am. I’m both a lesbian Chad and a PPD regular. There are lots of reasons people come on here other than wanting men. You are responding very aggressively to the OP. Seems she might have hit a nerve? The same can’t all be applied to men, if it did TRP wouldn’t exist. It men didn’t need women then RP influencers wouldn’t make do much money capitalising on horny lonely men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 11:50 AM
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Do you really think the richest man’s wealth was created purely through to supply and demand? You don’t think his background or investments have anything to do with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 11:28 AM
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There are lots of functional graphics cards that don’t require you to drop half your savings.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 11:26 AM
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You’re right. Considering Red Pill are so insistent on “personal responsibility”, maybe they should take responsibility for being more useful to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 11:23 AM
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You might be proficient at stalking profiles and attempting to humiliate women - but are you capable of discussing the points in the OP?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 11:21 AM
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I just looked, didn’t know the survey existed. The social class one is interestingly predictable. Majority from higher socioeconomic backgrounds - explains why they feel entitled to sex/women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 11:11 AM
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Absolutely NEVER a good idea. I cannot bare it when guys do this to me and it’s never ever going to be a yes. From what I understand in the past, we are talking 70 years ago, there was a neurotypical social code where women did initially refuse so as not to appear easy. This is no longer a thing. If she says no leave it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 09:12 AM
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Does anyone know the average ages of RP guys on this sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 08:20 AM
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So read the first sentence…. We don’t blame women. Second sentence…. Blames women. Not sure if you genuinely can’t see that or you’re just trying to gaslight me. Either way I don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 01:27 PM
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What you are describing is entitlement. These men believe they are entitled to sex with women. Rather than accepting that some things in life will take more effort. Ultimately I think it comes down to personality. There are plenty of guys out there not getting laid who know that nobody owes them sex and realise that’s one area in life they might be disadvantaged, but there are areas where they have an advantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 01:21 PM
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I’m so confused. Red Pill Men: we aren’t blaming women, don’t you know RP is all about accountability and taking personal responsibility Also Red Pill Men: RP was created because we realised women are childish and shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 01:13 PM
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I think you are underestimating how many women would LOVE sex work to be legal so they can get a break from being hounded by horny men. The issue comes when there’s a man manipulating them and taking a cut.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 02:18 PM
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Similar to men: Ignoring your boundaries Love bombing Excessive jealousy But these are just red flags. Once identifying a red flag you can tell if it genuinely signals a threat by talking to the person about it and seeing how they react. If they are defensive and dismissive then dump them. If they are understanding and willing to talk through it then she might not be that bad… but don’t trust only her words, pay attention to whether the actions match the words. Example: this is from a het perspe…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 02:10 PM
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On the whole men are hornier than women, sure. But whether you like it or not - we are all individuals. You can preface your post by saying you are talking about populations, not individuals. But it doesn’t change the reality that we are all different and individuals. There is unfortunately no magic formula for dating. It’s complicated and difficult to navigate and very confusing. I know. I’m sorry but that’s just reality. It’s like you want a cheat page to ace the test but unfortunately the che…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 02:04 PM
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The beauty of this graph is that it very clearly demonstrates not all couples are meeting online. Lots have met through friends. OLD doesn’t work for a lot of people. So why not go back to the tried and tested method of hanging out with friends, going to bars and parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 07:36 AM
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A gem is it? Where’s the post then?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 06:22 AM
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Yeah one of the guys I slept with at that weight had an ED himself but the other one I’m surprised he didn’t find it more off putting. Lots of strange noises from pockets of air in hollows of bones and stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 07:44 PM
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Most women you meet will just want to be friends with you because that is life. You are not “getting friendzoned” you are making friends. The more friends you have the more people you meet, the more you experience life, it will happen for you eventually. If you are spending a lot of time online and not engaging in friendships IRL you aren’t going to meet anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 07:39 PM
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So I’m a lesbian and don’t experience attraction to men BUT the most fulfilling sex I had with a guy was with someone who didn’t lose his virginity until age 26. Only a year prior to meeting me he was a virgin. But we slept together within 2 dates, can’t remember if it was first or second. He might have been autistic which would explain why we got on so well. He explained that he changed his style and got in shape and worked on himself loads.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 02:56 PM
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This is correct. If you look at statistics for things like maternal mortality, gun violence, obesity - USA is really not a great country. It’s an immature country with a huge ego. But they make you recite the pledge of allegiance every morning in school kind of brainwashing you in to thinking you are superior and, bizarrely, that other countries are jealous of you. Most of Europe is better than USA. Sorry to burst your bubble.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 10:28 AM
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At 45kg someone 170cm would have a BMI of 15.5. In the UK someone at that bmi can be legally detained in psychiatric hospital for refeeding/treatment of anorexia. Just FYI. Have you ever slept with someone who was emaciated? I was sleeping with men down to a BMI of 14 and there were complaints about my bones digging in to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 07:30 AM
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What’s your view on sleeping with very underweight women? I slept with men when my BMI was 14 and in hindsight I can’t believe they were interested
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 07:21 AM
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Literally overweight so BMI 25-30.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 07:20 AM
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I agree! When I say overweight I mean based on BMI standards - I’m not talking about people in the obese BMI range. I live in the UK and the biggest people I’ve ever seen were in USA. You rarely see people on that scale over here. Yes there’s still a lot of overweight women, but morbidly obese I don’t see that many compared to the states.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 07:18 AM
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I haven’t slept with anyone that size since.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 06:21 PM
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Sure sure
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 06:20 PM
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emotional outbursts? Is that a weight specific trait?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 06:20 PM
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Also just to add when you say “it’s America”…. You know reddit isn’t just an American site right? Thankfully I’m not in America! You lot want to sort out your government’s total lack of regard for health of its nation.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 06:05 PM
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It did make me feel tiny too but I was underweight at the time so thought it was just that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 06:03 PM
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I suppose the reason I ask isn’t because I necessarily think they’ll always be better, just that lots of guys on here claim to not be able to get women, and also act like overweight women are a plague or something. In reality they can be very fulfilling sex partners
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 06:01 PM
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They all have different body shapes tbf.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 05:59 PM
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Sounds like me sleeping with men
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 05:58 PM
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I think the hourglass is a big part of it. The woman I’m talking about was perfect hourglass
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 05:57 PM
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Pahahaha… my BMI is 19. It was about 16.5 when I had this encounter
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 05:54 PM
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Sounds like you were hurting from your breakup dude. It’s pretty standard for rebound fucks to be rubbish
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 05:53 PM
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In that case you’ll be aware that drunken hookups come with varying quality… and sometimes even the hottest woman in the club is shit at giving head
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 05:50 PM
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Okay just to clarify - you are aware this is what Manosphere influencers are doing aren’t you? Because the fact the likes of Andrew Tate are exploiting lonely men isn’t ever acknowledged on this sub when it’s raised.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:47 PM
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They probably respect women and have a genuine connection with the women they meet. They don’t share your ideology. They aren’t trying to assign women a “value” based on things like N count.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:04 PM
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I think what they are trying to say is just go and live, without actively looking for dates. Like go and do recreational and social activities and you will eventually have a spark with someone. Not necessarily go outside and just cold approach random women. Get to know a variety of women as people without pursuing sex, and eventually sexual chemistry will occur.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 07:01 PM
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Sometimes it does come back to women, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 12:15 AM
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Nice try at psychoanalysing me. I have several fears, anything to so with a discussion on Reddit doesn’t make the list. I recognise you are saying TRP promotes personal responsibility- BUT when you actually discuss ideas with red pill people they repeatedly blame women in some way. I see it all the time on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 12:13 AM
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No, you still don’t get it. I didn’t click on a single link that was the TRP sub because there are unlikely to be discussions between lefties and TRP. You are repeating what TRP repeats to you a lot about itself. When it actually comes down to it, in real discussion, actually amplifying those concepts across a variety of nuanced contexts, they can’t be true to that and it always comes back to something women did wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 09:11 PM
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I think people misunderstand therapy a bit, but okay. I never mean it as an insult but sometimes we have stuff we need to work through. Women do it with one another all the time so I don’t think the woman would find it weird. With the men there are two possibilities 1) they see women as sex objects first, then people - in which case they are hoping to sleep with her 2) they see women as people first, them sexual beings - in which case he genuinely enjoys her company and probably wishes he could …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 08:42 PM
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She might feel insecure she might not. Depends on personal values.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 08:28 PM
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You are failing to understand what I’m saying. I said “when discussing with the red pill” and “in practice it doesn’t hold men accountable for the problems between genders”. Ideas between genders and discussions with red pill are discussions that include red pill men being challenged with facts, such as violence against women statistics, gender pay gap etc. Usual feminist arguments. This is what the left are usually challenging red pill men on. All of these things are justified by red pill men a…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 07:43 PM
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Stupid? It’s free pleasure. That’s not stupid. And before you say “sex isn’t free”, if you do it on your own it totally is. You have the power to make yourself cum as long as you’ve got your hand. It doesn’t matter if your bank account is empty. If you can get 5 minutes of privacy you can make yourself feel something really good. That’s not stupid. It’s powerful.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 06:57 PM
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See even if an individual doesn’t have success themselves, if they are genuinely socialising regularly then they are going to encounter lots of couples that don’t conform to RP ideology. So either their cognitive bias is blinding them - or their version of having tried in the real world is a approximately 3 failed attempts with the last one over 5 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 06:48 PM
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The equivalent to a woman posting a picture of herself in a bikini is her boyfriend posting a picture of himself posing in swimwear. End of. Liking other people’s thirst traps is a SEPARATE issue. If he is liking women’s thirst traps is he okay for her to like other men’s? In the first post the man feels jealous of his girlfriend’s actions and feels a sense of ownership over her body. In the second picture the woman feels jealous because she feels insecure about her body compared to the (probabl…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 06:39 PM
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So what you are describing is what the Red Pull tells you it tells you. That’s one of it’s selling points, it takes away the feeling of powerlessness. But if you actually challenge Red Pill men they don’t ever accept or acknowledge that men are the problem. Not for anything. It’s all women who are the problem. When something or someone (like TRP) tells you something often - don’t blindly assume it’s true and that’s actually what’s going on. TRP will repeat to you that it’s all about being accoun…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 06:21 PM
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What did I just read? Why did you ask different questions to women over 35 and women under 35? You described a friendship, which is a normal thing for people to have. In the bed example some boundary issues. The friendship in itself shouldn’t be an issue, no woman cares if you won’t date her because she’s got male friends. There’s enough men that don’t get jealous over that stuff to choose from. It’s not going to stop her from finding a relationship if she’s truly looking for one. In cases where…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 05:51 PM
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No sorry you are wrong. Intelligence is a genuinely attractive trait and very important to some. It’s not necessarily linked to salary. There’s loads of jobs where you can have a good salary but no intelligence. Estate agents for example. There’s also lots of types of intelligence. I think when people say this what they mean is they are looking for someone they intellectually connect with.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 05:30 PM
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You don’t understand why the left dislikes TRP (and bigotry in general). To go with the simplistic “animal” argument - do you know any dogs or cats? Do they all behave exactly the same? My experience is that they have distinct personalities. Their behaviour is also heavily influenced by their upbringing/training and environment but also innate. TRP offers something that is very appealing to young men, but it’s not reality. To start with the way they hook you in to it is not ethical. They use the…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 03:18 PM
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So disclaimer: I lost trust for men a long time ago… Fortunately I’m lesbian but did have a comp-het phase. Okay so - PPD hasn’t necessarily made me less trustful, I didn’t have trust to begin with, but it has made me more worried for young men/concerned on their behalf. Particularly young, autistic men, due to their vulnerability to being hooked in by RP content and having that really warp their frame of reference/world view…, essentially for the purpose of lining the pockets of men like Andrew…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 09:36 AM
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Lololol you seem to have fundamentally misunderstood the time and dedication a adult relationship takes my friend. It’s a little more effort than leaving a reddit comment. You just pointlessly tried to psychoanalyse me, presumably so you can feel a sense of power or superiority? Your comment is adds nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 04:18 AM
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1) I haven’t been looking because I don’t have time 2) I forget to reply to texts so end up “ghosting” everyone 3) I’m scared of getting hurt and struggle to trust people For reference I’m a lesbian. I do hook up fairly regularly on nights out but tend to ghost them afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 05:34 PM
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I think my grandmother did, they seemed quite in love. I don’t think her mother did love my great grandfather though. He was a horrible man from what I’ve heard.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 07:40 AM
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What are you talking about? I don’t fuck with men. I gave up on that years ago. Women make much better lovers.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 07:57 PM
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It’s not about “owing” men anything. If we have a family we have responsibilities to the kids as does the man. My experience is that men struggle a lot with recognising their responsibilities and tend to rely on the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 05:42 PM
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He’s a sociopath. Not autistic though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 11:49 AM
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Are men who don’t date big women also delusional and unstable? Preferences don’t determine mental health unless your preference is for animals or kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 09:28 AM
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Scientifically - no. Sorry. Levels of testosterone vary between women, which will affect how feminine or masculine they seen. Additionally some women have bulkier frames and broader shoulders.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 04:36 PM
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You’ve managed to blame the mother already, claiming autism and height is due to her reproducing later in life. My autistic ass birthed an autistic kid at 21. I would tell them to stop trying to date neurotypical women! Life’s too short to try fitting in with NTs, they just experience the world so differently. I would tell them to go find autistic only spaces to socialise. I wouldn’t want a neurotypical daughter in law anyway. Sounds like too much effort. End up with neurotypical kids who are im…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 03:55 PM
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I was unaware of an outage. I did have a 3 day ban not long ago and ended up just spending money on in app purchases for games on my phone
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 03:45 PM
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Pharmaceuticals, some of which I bet were to treat conditions related to obesity!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 10:10 AM
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Oh and to add regarding the HAES activists - their voices are nothing compared to advertising power of the food industry.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 06:17 PM
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Well this is awkward but I actually have a degree in biomed and no, it’s not as simple as that. Metabolic pathways in the body work in very specific ways. A common misconception, for example, is that when in a calorie deficit we will burn off fat first before any other body tissues are used. This isn’t the case. The body will also consume muscle tissue. I promise you - it’s not easy to work out enough to burn off your average calorie intake in the US. Particularly since your minimum wage is low …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 05:57 PM
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Lol, no. You’ve seen some obese American women supporting the HAES movement and decided that all obese women support it. Most aren’t even aware of it. “If one works out enough the American diet cannot make them obese”. Again, you’re just wrong. It’s much harder to burn off calories than it is to consume them. In USA a single meal from a restaurant will be enough calories for their total daily expenditure. Bodies vary massively in terms of metabolism. For example people born prematurely or who ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 05:27 PM
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So….. even though it’s the women whose health is being affected it is the men who are the “victims”. Give me strength. I assume you are in America and therefore unaware of how hideously unhealthy American diets are. It’s very difficult to stay thin in America. Your food seems to have very few rules. The portions are gigantic, your fries have approximately one zillion ingredients (okay maybe slight exaggeration) whereas here in the UK fries have 3 ingredients (potatoes, oil, salt). Your smallest …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 03:22 PM
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I agree. I am non binary, but I prefer not to date trans women due to genital preference (and aversion). I don’t feel the need to put this on my profile. It’s just going to dig the knife in for trans women who are already struggling with dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 08:40 PM
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