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| 2 | Fundamentals of Relationships: Part Deux (Guy Interviews 100 Couples)Nice, thanks for your thoughts, it seems like many of these elements would arise from the RP toolkit, but i do think there is something to be said about the 'intentional relationship' part that i don't think RP covers fully. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/12/14 03:38 PM |
| 1 | First date handbook/r/evenwithcontext | /r/seduction | 12/12/14 07:08 AM |
| 2 | First date handbookAt least he asked beforehand | /r/seduction | 12/12/14 07:08 AM |
| 1 | First date handbookWrite a college manual plz | /r/seduction | 12/12/14 07:07 AM |
| 1 | What are relationships for fundamentally?Societal restrictions on womens sexuality is necessary for societal health. I would say not societal restrictions, but societal deregulation. Once the welfare state becomes a thing of the past, women will have to turn towards IUD or move back in with their parents to raise the kid of the absentee father. Removing welfare is the only way to break the current SMP we find ourselves in. My and many other sexconomist commentators. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/12/14 03:24 AM |
| 1 | What are relationships for fundamentally?So the power lies inherently with the man then, since in both their natural states apart, the man is the one who can be happy and the woman is not. In terms of the power struggle, is this not contradictory to traditional SMP knowledge? But i think as this stage i have received the answer to my question. First Layer: "To procreate or not to procreate" Second Layer: "Will she increase my productivity?" And there you have it. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/12/14 03:11 AM |
| 1 | What are relationships for fundamentally?No i wasn't back-tracking, if i made a mistake i'll own up. It was an assertion based on what you think is a false premise, we can leave it at that. My question is more directed toward what the highest goal is, rather than where is comes from, which is what we have been discussing briefly. The neuroscience behind where goals comes from is a separate debate, interesting, but separate. My off-the-cuff statement about highly evolved goals and highly evolved brain functioning may not be proven as ye… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/12/14 02:28 AM |
| 1 | What are relationships for fundamentally?Ok, so what's your counter-theory outside of a supposed logical fallacy? Edit: And why is this the most significant part of the argument? | /r/TheRedPill | 08/12/14 02:18 AM |
| 2 | What are relationships for fundamentally?Eleanor and Franklin D Roosevelt is a good example of this if you care for a concrete example. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/12/14 02:10 AM |
| 0 | What are relationships for fundamentally?It's 1-1 mapping logic, that's not the point though, you have chosen an insignificant part of the argument to debunk. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/12/14 02:00 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Convinced myself to go out, ended up making out with a girl and getting her numberGood FR man! Even if it's a flake, goes to show the power of just going out sometimes. Positive reinforcement all the way. | /r/seduction | 07/12/14 07:30 PM |
| 1 | What are relationships for fundamentally?Glad you thought it useful! I find this topic fascinating and like yourself, don't believe we as a species have come to the root of it yet. I don't believe we have even seen the end of relationship evolution, as in, all the permutations that relationships can take. But i'll save my tinfoil theories for r/Futurology. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/12/14 03:54 AM |
| -1 | What are relationships for fundamentally?When you say relationship, it generally denotes those two aspects. Not be be abrasive, but I suppose that is your definition and part of what I am trying to uncover. In the poly set-up there is exclusivity, albeit between multiples, and the advantages of scale economies in term of housework, income, skills and child-care. I believe the wider jury is still out on whether poly is better for child raising but would be interested if you had any literature on the contrary. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/12/14 03:50 AM |
| 7 | What are relationships for fundamentally?Damn! That list blew my mind. Was literally shouting their names in incredulity as i went through it. I know another theory for this phenomenon also. It is the fact that many individuals on the frontier of knowledge, by definition, are faced with unpopular reception, especially in those days. Even further back, criticism in the tribe would lead to social ostracism, even death, and so women would not touch this males with a 50-foot bargepole. Fast forward back to their day, as they are experienci… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/12/14 03:45 AM |
| 1 | What are relationships for fundamentally?inclinations and drives Agreed, my personal thoughts on this (well, as well as other scientists and back by evidence) is the battle of the Triune brain system and the conflicts that arise therein. What i am trying to ascertain is the highest goal a relationship can strive for in the modern day, which i have framed as being the fundamentals, which may have been a bit confusing but i think most people understood the point. These highest goals should come from the part of the brain that has most re… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/12/14 03:34 AM |
| 1 | What are relationships for fundamentally?Fair point, stability implies control though, which is inherently difficult to do with another complex human in a relationship. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/12/14 03:19 AM |
| 1 | What are relationships for fundamentally?So for men on here, would you say that the drive surpasses sex and actually manifest for a wanting of children/successors. As in, it is one thing to enjoy sex and have children consequentially, but it is another to feel a drive a procreate even without sexual intercourse. However i would argue that a man doesn't need a relationship to fulfil this drive so it wouldn't count as a fundamental tenant for entering into a relationship. If you talk about the drive to see a successful, healthy heir then… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/12/14 03:15 AM |
| 3 | What are relationships for fundamentally?she loves me seems like my bank telling me how much they appreciate me Is this wrong in your view? My readings are leading me to believe this is the natural state, more and more. As in, it is a women's right to love your bank account as it is your right to love her beauty and domestic ability. Hmm your point about rock-bottom is interesting though. If you parallel this with imagining that your wife wakes up the next day with a life-long illness that affects her beauty and ability to support you.… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/12/14 03:11 AM |
| 1 | What are relationships for fundamentally?Right, so it being a societal institution actually has some grounding, rather than just purely biology. I agree with these points though. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/12/14 03:06 AM |
| 1 | What are relationships for fundamentally?They rarely form life long bonds I think this is the problem that needs to be addressed and whether we as humans have the capacity to overcome the SMP. This may not be a popular discussion in TRP but i think it's important. Maybe a topic for another day, if it hasn't already been discussed. Also with the concept of family changing, as in governments taking on a paternal role, i find the argument harder to accept that relationships are needed to create family 'units'. As in animals would literall… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/12/14 03:03 AM |
| 2 | What are relationships for fundamentally?Interesting Younger: Would you say this 'Love belief' as you put it is largely an unconscious process? I would argue that at this age bracket young guys are trying to attract women who are peaking in their SMV, so it would be natural to settle. By settle, i assume you mean steady sex security, which is a fair point to make about modern day relationship relevance. Yes, the guilt thing seems to have no place within healthy relationships and can be removed without a lot of thought. Anything in whic… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/12/14 02:58 AM |
| 2 | What are relationships for fundamentally?Fundamental in terms of modern day relevance | /r/TheRedPill | 07/12/14 02:46 AM |
| 3 | What are relationships for fundamentally?I really like this perspective as it fits well with the idea that if you are not living a life of purpose it is hard to create a good relationship/ attract a good mate around that lifestyle. It also fits with, what is think is called, the C/FM dynamic? I can see this working. Are there any further sources where authors/bloggers are coming from the viewpoint of relationship economics/utility? Surprised it doesn't come up more. What are some of the drawbacks of this? Just off the top my head: Havi… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/12/14 02:41 AM |
| -2 | If her friend gets a divorce, your wife is 75% more likely to divorce you [Pew Research Survey]This reduces the pool of illegible women to about 42. But seriously if you use a couple degrees of separation isn't everybody a slut in the making? | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/14 11:33 PM |
| 1 | Holy Shit... Scared of Women. Never Again [FR]I disagree, i think perspective shifts can happen in an instant given you are in appropriate circumstances. | /r/seduction | 04/12/14 10:48 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Smiling gets you placesNice, i think i'm gonna try to remember the smirk next time. For me it's more like either cold/brooding look, or full out shit-eating grin. The latter makes amogs v uncomfortable | /r/seduction | 03/11/14 09:05 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Smiling gets you placesNice, i think i'm gonna try to remember the smirk next time. For me it's more like either cold/brooding look, or full out shit-eating grin. The latter makes amogs v uncomfortable | /r/seduction | 03/11/14 09:05 PM |
| 1 | [FR]Go to Club by Yourself Be Ballsy and Get Laid + Entertainment and Learning ValueI think some crucial steps are missed though. Good for being ballsy and for solo game mentality, but in terms of the game stage progression, through handling the guys, to dancing with here, to location bouncing, to bt pumping like, not much was conveyed in that FR. Good FR for sure but not many APs i can take away. | /r/seduction | 02/11/14 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Now i know how hot girls feel. (Being Treated Like a Sex Object)Progress So i have had some good convos and nights out with the boys, over the last little while i have been going out a lot less and the same thing with nuance now. I have i have been met with a higher calibre girls which is nice, but it has introduced the game back into it full fledge . Which is good in a way but the AMOGs CBs and mother hens are ripe for the picking around these 8s. A few have shown curiosity at best, and literal non-acknowledgement at the worst. Expect, slight digs at you fr… | /r/seduction | 02/11/14 02:13 PM |
| 13 | Tinder Field report (It's been a long while since my last lay)Sorry to say but that lady is not a 5 at worst | /r/TheRedPill | 18/10/14 04:53 PM |
| 0 | Sleeping over after sex ?I'd be interested in this in terms of ONS. The first time i left was quite recently, but it was a strong move as she wasn't even that committed/may have had buyers remorse. Also accidentally left something there, which she had to meet me a second time to get. I think it matters on how well she is invested in more interaction/if you wanna be there or not. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/10/14 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Now i know how hot girls feel. (Being Treated Like a Sex Object)I see what you are saying but i lack clarity on application, as in, i want higher quality broads. Higher quality broads are not tryna novelty fuck so their is no chance of a bait and switch there. In that category of game i am back to normal gaming with the extra hurdles i have been discussing. So you are saying being open about relationship desires with girls has provided you with increased retention? This sounds counter-intuitive to what i have exp so far and i would rather follow the track of… | /r/seduction | 18/10/14 02:27 AM |
| 1 | Now i know how hot girls feel. (Being Treated Like a Sex Object)Damn that video is too real for me.... | /r/seduction | 18/10/14 02:17 AM |
| 1 | Now i know how hot girls feel. (Being Treated Like a Sex Object)Thanks man, i'll be here like 8 months. End goal is def a Scandi girlfriend but i don't wanna tell myself that because it seems insurmountable. Culture, friends, family all seem to be heavily stacked against that end goal but i'll need more field time to see. I suppose i need to work on some time-bridging/future projections, but every one of my numbers has flaked, another Scandi guy told me he doesn't bother with numbers anymore but obviously nawalt and all that so will still try various things.… | /r/seduction | 18/10/14 02:15 AM |
| 2 | Now i know how hot girls feel. (Being Treated Like a Sex Object)Nah mate your not understanding. The night i wrote this i didn't take any of them home, just got wasted with the guys then went home. What i am saying is that its a dark road to go down when you just being treated like a clown and pandering to pussy. Fuck that i am my own man, i can work on my shit and get the top tier if i put my mind to it. But alas, i have already mentioned about the social stigma aspect and how top tier won't even see you as viable. | /r/seduction | 17/10/14 07:47 PM |
| 3 | Now i know how hot girls feel. (Being Treated Like a Sex Object)Thanks bro, what would have been a better subreddit, i thought this was most relevant. Yeah i still have trouble as i said, my game is not tight as fuck by any means so i'm not looking for cred for any of this. Yeah so it looks like qualifying and social circle is the prescription. Funny i actually tried qualification but it was possibility too high a hoop to jump as she immediately threw it back at me. And also qualification is supposed to be building attraction also, which is useless if the ga… | /r/seduction | 17/10/14 07:43 PM |
| 2 | Now i know how hot girls feel. (Being Treated Like a Sex Object)Good question, as i said, emphasis on social circle game to hit the top tiers (this will be quite difficult i think), but within club game, try to qualify harder. I would say build comfort but as i said, they don't give shit about this. Any answer is flawed in so far as the game has already been completed when they signal the bang. | /r/seduction | 17/10/14 07:36 PM |
| 1 | Now i know how hot girls feel. (Being Treated Like a Sex Object)Do you speak German though? I had zero luck in Berlin, they didn't want to speak English to me at all, just acted like they didn't understand and shit. | /r/seduction | 17/10/14 07:30 PM |
| 15 | Now i know how hot girls feel. (Being Treated Like a Sex Object)If you want bangs yeah, relationship... Depends | /r/seduction | 17/10/14 09:02 AM |
| 7 | Now i know how hot girls feel. (Being Treated Like a Sex Object)ITT: Guy is adjusting to positive discrimination | /r/seduction | 17/10/14 08:58 AM |
| 11 | Now i know how hot girls feel. (Being Treated Like a Sex Object)Can confirm, though this was Thursday, IMO the best night here. They generally do this when they are absolutely schloshed ie grabbing ass, being sexually aggressive etc Then when they are sober/hanging next morning, quiet as lambs. No morning fuck either | /r/seduction | 17/10/14 08:57 AM |
| 3 | Now i know how hot girls feel. (Being Treated Like a Sex Object)Joke fuck and horny fuck are different IMO, but you're right, i'm going to work on somethings to reframe this believe and hopefully still give a shit in field. Oh and any hints to what's on the horizon? In my mind, it's pushing the boundary of 7.5-8 through social circle club game | /r/seduction | 17/10/14 08:55 AM |
| 2 | Now i know how hot girls feel. (Being Treated Like a Sex Object)True, but my attraction/horn fizzles as soon as i feel like a joke fuck to them | /r/seduction | 17/10/14 08:54 AM |
| 2 | Now i know how hot girls feel. (Being Treated Like a Sex Object)Seduction is the most effeceint route to the lay IMO. Ie Lay Confirmed: Game Complete | /r/seduction | 17/10/14 08:51 AM |
| 2 | Now i know how hot girls feel. (Being Treated Like a Sex Object)Thanks, didn't think about the male models but yeah i feel this, you are another niche category. About the AA, that's a tuffie, as the other guy said, we all start from bottom but because of looks you will progress much faster and even top out at a higher level. | /r/seduction | 17/10/14 08:50 AM |
| 51 | Now i know how hot girls feel. (Being Treated Like a Sex Object)Sounds good man. My only addition is that i am not attracting these girls per se. My game still has a long way to go in terms of my social skills and state maintenance. It's like this: There seems to be a ceiling on the looks 6.5-7 (+makeup) due to the social stigma of being with a black guy. Yeah rough but that's just how the cookie crumbles. 7.5+ are not going to risk this gamble in my experience but will report back if this changes. If i legit attracted girls with game i could at least see a … | /r/seduction | 17/10/14 08:46 AM |
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