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I'm a female but I own a business that makes enough money to consider a prenup before I married my husband. The thing is, is that this business isnt a "go home at the end of the day" thing. My husband sacrafices to help make this business work, has become very involved in running this business as my partner, and is a great support for me emotionally at the end of the day. If we got divorced there are things I'd want to protect but I owe it to him to benefit from our business in the end because h…
/r/MensRights09/07/12 01:06 AM
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The most degrading themes in these books were found underneath the extraordinarily unrealistic "mommy porn". Femenists have stated that these books are are for female sexuality but overlook the underlying theme of a weak female "protaganist" acting like a spoiled 8 year old who needs to be coddled by a mythical "freakin' hot" 20-something year old billionare who finds her endearing because she looks like his "crack whore" mother. It isn't healthy for women to want to essentially revert back to c…
/r/MensRights05/07/12 07:21 AM
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I would resent feeling like there was power being held over my head as well but again, I would direct that to the cause which is found on an organizational level. Thats the root of change. Getting angry at the cause and using that anger for change. Women, as individuals, arent the cause-even if some lack integrity and use their power to hurt others. Most women are aware of what the organizations have set up to give them power over men, I'm very aware of it, but I have loving, meaningful relation…
/r/MensRights03/07/12 03:05 AM
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Being in an abusive relationship might be something you want to focus on if you do go to therapy. I was raped legitimately as a teeneager (I'm a female)- never pressed charges because I was so ashamed, but I hated that man for years. Until I ran into him again and realized that I wasnt afraid of him anymore. I never went as far as rage towards other men but I realized that anger was a cover for fear and hurt, like you pointed out. You took that fear a step further and applied it to all women. Ne…
/r/MensRights02/07/12 05:52 PM
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Yeah but Twilight is classic literature compared to this series.
/r/MensRights29/06/12 04:48 PM
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These books are terrible. I've never been so insulted in my life by a book. This book is just pages and pages of unrealistic, bizarre sex (pulling out a tampon is not my idea of foreplay) but the very worst part about this is that it's considered a love story. As a woman I am pretty concerned that women are getting off on being treated like children, relationships where the woman is determined to fix the man, and relationships where both the main characters are severly mentally ill/immature. Not…
/r/MensRights28/06/12 10:45 PM
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The sentencing posts are relevant but a lot are just about crazy women doing things normal women generally dont.
/r/MensRights28/06/12 05:45 PM
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That was a reponse to women who want "rights without responsibilities". During the early women's suffrage movement the intention was not likely to grab the same rights with no expectations of responsibilities. It appears that some men think that the womens rights movement was a payback of some kind. I dont think that the early rights movement should be compared to the radical femenisim of today. The two are backed by different motives.
/r/MensRights28/06/12 05:37 PM
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A movement which also has done a lot of positive in the past. I'm thankful that I can vote, work, have an opinion, pick my relationships- and would enlist for mandatory military service just like any man (although I personally feel conscription shouldnt be required for either gender). The goal should be equalizing both genders, not a power struggle between the two. Just because the femenist movement is unbalanced now doesnt mean that the original goals and accomplishments should be discounted. Y…
/r/MensRights28/06/12 07:17 AM
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You're an egalitarian. Mensrights are a mixture of men who truly want to make a difference in the world and men who just want to be hyper-defensive against women. I saw that today when someone told me on a different post that the intention of femenisim was to give women rights without responsibilities. Grassroots femenisim had good intentions and like you said is still necessary in some parts of the world (watch The Stoning of Soraya for a good example of female opression due to extremisim, base…
/r/MensRights28/06/12 04:33 AM
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At time I'm sure there was resentment towards a system. Thats how change is caused. You're not here at this subreddit just to socialize, you're here because of injustices where you're being hurt and want change. Do you honestly feel like all women out there are out to get you? Do you want to hurt women for where we are now? If you do then your misdirecting your anger at individuals and not a system where it belongs. A system that needs to be changed. I also didnt hear rights without responsibili…
/r/MensRights28/06/12 01:35 AM
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Looking at intentions most reasonable people wouldnt say African Americans wanted white people's rights without the responsibilities and men's rights wants women back in the 1800 hundreds as far as rights go- it all stemmed from the need for equality. So it would be reasonable to assume women werent intending on "paying men back for oppression" or having rights without responsibilities (I could be wrong- feminisim could have been a conspiracy to screw over a whole gender. Likely? No.) It would b…
/r/MensRights28/06/12 01:27 AM
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Yeah. I'm sure thats exactly what they were thinking. Is that what African Americans wanted too? What about men's rights activist? You're making sweeping generalizations about a whole gender/social group which is probably based on a few negative experiences you have had with women. I read this subreddit because I'm an egalitarian. In my personal experiences I've had more negative experiences with men hurting women (dad tried to kill my mom in front of me, emotional abuse from men towards women, …
/r/MensRights27/06/12 11:45 PM
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If were just fighting symptoms of that system its an uphill battle. People need to quit having children they cant afford. The school systems need to strive for character development along with academics. We need to strive for true self actualization imstead of entitlement.
/r/MensRights27/06/12 11:31 PM
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The original intention of feminisim wasnt to screw men over but to give women a better quality of life (which was necessary at the time)-also the current intention of the mens rights movement that started after the status of men being sunk by a culture weighted too much in the opposite direction. As a human, no one is entitled to "have it all" but I am entitled to the life that I design. The point is balance, which very few people, men or women, are able to achieve. As a decent human being who i…
/r/MensRights27/06/12 09:38 PM
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I agree that same sex marriage should not be prevented on the argument of protecting the sanctity of marriage (there is really no good argument against same sex marriage at all actually). I think femenisim was good for women finding self worth in relationships and in their lives but like many things that started off with good intentions has gone overboard into creating women as perpetual victims to society. The fact of the matter is, in my opinion, that marriage is a casulty more of a self-cente…
/r/MensRights27/06/12 08:51 PM
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A lot of women get crazy about porn either because of the objectification of women or because they have low self-esteem and they feels that reflects on them some how. I personally dont mind my husband watching porn because I know that it doesnt reflect on me or our sex life. This is just a side note: I just read that series and feel like I have a moral obligation to let you know that once you read that book, you cant ever get the time you wasted on those stupid books back. I'm really concerned a…
/r/MensRights26/06/12 12:16 AM
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Well, being financially used by this guy was the least of me and my family's concerns. The lying, cheating, and emotional abuse were really the big ones. It seems like there was a direct correlation between "I dont give a crap about this relationship" and the money/time/effort he put into the relationship. I think that's the case with some women who expect everything to be paid for as well. I personally feel balance worked the best with me and my husband while we were dating.
/r/MensRights25/06/12 05:13 PM
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From a female perspective: Unless the guy is really insistant-and I'll still offer to pay when the check comes- I'm uncomfortable with the guy paying for everything. I see the cost of the date less of an investment and more of a way to indicate to my partner that I'm self-sufficient. I did date a man who saw it as an opening to financially use me for years until I wisened up and left him. His unwillingness to contribute to anything was a good indicator of how he was in every aspect of the relati…
/r/MensRights24/06/12 06:38 PM
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That wasnt even a " In the heat of the moment caught you screwing my best friend" slap (which still isnt okay), that was a premeditated "put you in your place" slap. Why are you still with her? You're supposed to be her partner, not her pet that peed on the rug that she's punishing. There is no "gender double standard" here. No person, man or woman, in a healthy relationship ever slap their partner to punish them.
/r/MensRights18/06/12 04:39 AM
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Thats true. Selfish might not be the right word. The point is that suicide is very rarely intended to hurt others. You're either too consumed in your pain or wanting to take the burden off of others, but regardless of the gender most people aren't intending to "leave messes for others"
/r/MensRights17/06/12 10:01 PM
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Suicide is by nature a very selfish act. Not in the way that it's intended to hurt others, but that you get so caught up in your pain that you cant see how it will hurt the people who love you. It doesnt matter what gender you are. People will likely be hurt by anyone commiting suicide. When I tried killing myself as a teenager I remember being so stuck in a box that my depression overshadowed everything and everyone. I know of one person who did kill himself to get back at his wife (left a note…
/r/MensRights17/06/12 07:43 AM
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The only thing I think would make this better is a time cut off to financially abort.
/r/MensRights14/06/12 06:12 PM
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It's easy to try to see your cause in every conversation too. I've learned over the years that there is a time and a place for that but not in situations like this. My mom is extremely vegan and has even turned a miscarriage we were talking about one day into a discussion about eating healthy. Turning someone elses pain into a platform to talk about her cause was not only a leap, but totally inappropriate. I feel like thats what happened with this post, only less extreme. I would be frustrated w…
/r/MensRights08/06/12 06:39 AM
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Maybe I'm misinterpreting this but it seems like you did completely miss the point of that conversation. It seems like it wasnt so much of an argument as it was her trying to vent over a bad day. I totally agree that women shouldnt cry to get out of tickets but it doesnt look like thats what she was doing at all. And if she tells you to "fuck off" for talking about things that stress you out like your driving record, why are you still friends with her?
/r/MensRights08/06/12 05:27 AM
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I'm 9 months pregnant with a planned child and I think this is ridiculous. Pregnancy is extraordinarily difficult and expensive but if your partner is unsupportive emotionally and financially then youre probably not with someone who really wants to be in that child's life anyway. Not only that but extra money for pregnancy certainly isnt going to discourage unplanned pregnancies.
/r/MensRights05/06/12 06:25 AM
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I disagree with the idea that older women are intentionally witholding sex for empowerment. I am vaguely aware of the women aging around me who are going through this and going through pregnancy right now has made me realize how effortlessly hormones have murdered my typically high libido. I think there is a alot going on physically with women as they age and to not expect their sex drive to change at someone is like divorcing someone over physically aging because they falsely advertised what th…
/r/MensRights04/06/12 03:45 PM
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My family took in foster kids for five years and I would not recommend adopting over two years old. A lot of children in foster care (9 of the 10 we had in our home) had attachment disorders which led to my dad being falsely accused of sexual abuse by a liitle boy- quickly dimissed, and years of our family genuinely wanting to make a difference in these kids lives and feeling like shit for it. My aunt took in foster kids as well (single) and one of them tried to poison her and her dog. We adopte…
/r/MensRights22/05/12 04:49 PM
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I agree with that. The trick is getting people to follow it.
/r/MensRights21/05/12 03:36 AM
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I'm pregnant right now and my husband and I decided to have children because we both wanted them and are secure at this point in life. At eight months pregnant my typical day includes getting sick after every meal, awful heartburn at least three times a day, having to use the restroom constantly, swelling, exhaustion but not being able to sleep well or stay asleep, anxiety, pain everywhere (it feels like someone kicked me deep in the groin), and contractions. By the way, my pregnancy has been "e…
/r/MensRights21/05/12 03:32 AM
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I think there needs to be one basic code of conduct for human beings to live by that apply to both genders.
/r/MensRights20/05/12 11:28 PM
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Set up an appointment and a date. Maybe compromise and say "look, I really want to work on this. We can do a session with your grandparents if we can alternate it with a session with someone I choose so we can attack this on every front. Thats how serious I am about this" If your not religious (Im agnostic so I understand) just take the core principals out of what they're trying to say and focus on those. They might say exactly what she needs to hear in a way she'll understand. If you feel attac…
/r/MensRights18/05/12 02:56 AM
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I'm eight months pregnant and there were names I loved and my husband hated, so we had to find a middle ground where we were both happy. If there is any chance at recovering this relationship-if you both want that, you need to start counseling immediately. Let her now that you will be headed for a divorce if she names your child a name you both cant agree on- not because of the name itself but because its a big indicator that she doesnt respect you or your place in the relationship. I might repo…
/r/MensRights18/05/12 12:21 AM
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My husband and I have a great opportunity to both be stay at home parents since wr run a business out of our home and dont need the extra income. He just got out of the military and our daughter isnt due until July so he's starting to get painfully bored. He's holding off until after our girl is born to pick if he wants to work or be a stay at home dad but I'm not sure he's going to make it until July. Honestly, anyone that thinks daycare is better than a stay at home dad has their parenting pri…
/r/MensRights09/05/12 01:50 AM
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