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| 3 | Most of what gives women the "ick" are just perceived shortcomings of masculinityFor sure, fighting against the patriarchy while we’re still enmeshed in it is incredibly difficult and uncomfortable. Women do the same thing to each other. We want to “smash the patriarchy”, which many believe requires us to stop playing along by doing things like shaving our legs, wearing makeup, dressing for the male gaze, basically adhering to western beauty standards. And while we all know the vast majority of us women would very much benefit if we woke up tomorrow and stopped spending time… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/24 09:06 AM |
| 1 | Ladies - how do you feel about the supposed trend that men are cold approaching less often these days?I guess that tracks. It’s pretty unanimous amongst women that their 30’s are more enjoyable than their 20’s. Probably helps that dealing with men in public is slightly less of an issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/22 03:22 AM |
| 10 | Ladies - how do you feel about the supposed trend that men are cold approaching less often these days?Seconded. I though maybe it was just because I crested 30, but if some trickle down effect of cancel culture and the me too movement is men no longer approaching me in public that’s fine, too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/22 11:59 AM |
| 0 | So what do men want women to say / do when they face continuous rejection?Omg yes, I’m soooo burdened by your hatred towards women. No man has ever burdened me as hard as you are right now. No more, please. I can’t take one more single sentence of you burdening me with all your big fat misogyny 😭 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 02:43 AM |
| 2 | So what do men want women to say / do when they face continuous rejection?So it’s not even that you personally are being “burdened” by women telling you these things, it’s JUST THE FACT THAT WE EXIST?! 😂 how dare you feel entitled to even be within a mile of woman. barf. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 02:04 AM |
| 10 | So what do men want women to say / do when they face continuous rejection?O O O K A Y Y Y I really planned to just pop into this thread and be like “it’s ok that men want validation!” And then the first comment from a dude is like “women choose to be abused” 💀 you’re not even trying to empathize with us, you’re either incapable of critical thought or a sociopath if you think that it would make sense for me to be attracted to a man who says it’s my fault I was raped by my ex. Or beaten. Or even “just” manipulated. At least those guys had the decency to pretend to love … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 02:02 AM |
| 7 | Help me understand why you all feel hurt when a guy looks at porn/ Instagram modelsSo what about the times my male partner isn’t into to spending quality time with me or helping me with projects around the house? I can ask other men to come over and help me? I can ask other men to come watch a movie and spend time with me? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/22 10:48 AM |
| 3 | Why does being a single mother drastically decrease a woman's dating opportunities?Correct. That’s what I said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 04:58 PM |
| 4 | Why does being a single mother drastically decrease a woman's dating opportunities?Hi, totally agree with your sentiment here. Gotta push back on this a little though. I think a fair number of single mothers mourn the loss their child is experiencing when these break ups happen, too. The pain of knowing you caused your kid pain is… staggering. I stayed in a couple relationships longer than I really wanted to because I saw so much value in the man’s contribution to my son’s life. Obviously that isn’t healthy, sustainable, or fair for anyone. I learned my lesson there. But I thi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 02:55 PM |
| 1 | Do you want a man to do 50% of the housework if you are a stay at home mom?I’m honestly lost now. So you knew what I meant but wanted to play dumb so you could pretend my point sucked? Sure, please pretend I’m some sort of unreasonable extremist rather than say “oh shit, I misunderstood. I haven’t read about that.” Who am I to expect you to be burdened by reality? My bad. Like, I literally plugged a male author. I just said a man taught me surprising and interesting information about a women’s issue. Have you ever met a real misandrist? I’m guessing no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 01:54 PM |
| 0 | Do you want a man to do 50% of the housework if you are a stay at home mom?What are you talking about?! This post is literally about stay at home moms. Read it again. If you have an issue with me referencing only the gender that OP specified then once again, sounds like that’s about your own insecurities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 01:45 PM |
| 0 | Do you want a man to do 50% of the housework if you are a stay at home mom?Great. Maybe you and your therapist should discuss why you felt the need to go back and edit these comments to make yourself look better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 09:20 AM |
| 0 | Do you want a man to do 50% of the housework if you are a stay at home mom?You can just say no, that you haven’t learned anything about the effects of losing SAHMs in the rust belt. I can tell by your response you’re not accustomed to the idea of learning about things before you start running your mouth and spilling your arbitrary opinions all over the place. I’m obviously a feminist and believe that domestic labor, particularly provided by women, doesn’t get the recognition it deserves and even I found it surprising and really interesting to learn about. I wasn’t sayi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 09:17 AM |
| 1 | Do you want a man to do 50% of the housework if you are a stay at home mom?You edited your earlier comment to make yourself sound reasonable and make me look like asshole. Which I don’t really need any help with. So pardon me if I decline to accept your flimsy olive branch. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 08:57 AM |
| -1 | Do you want a man to do 50% of the housework if you are a stay at home mom?Omg, could you be more insecure? Go to therapy. jfc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 01:40 AM |
| 0 | Do you want a man to do 50% of the housework if you are a stay at home mom?Lol, really? Do you think I would ever list this shit off this way to someone I know irl, especially outside of this context? Of course not, that would be like throwing a fit over having to pay taxes. Sorry my PTA experience is so intimidating to you, though. Did downvoting need help, or do you need to talk about it a little more? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 01:36 AM |
| -2 | Do you want a man to do 50% of the housework if you are a stay at home mom?Do you actually know what’s expected of a SAHM? I planned, organized and ran classroom parties for 5 years. I supervised at recess and lunch, I stayed the whole 2 hours for every soccer practice so the dads who were coaching wouldn’t have to reprimand kids or call parents. I volunteered at fundraisers, I went to school board meetings. I collected donations. I networked with other parents. I babysat my son’s friends. I did shopping for the PTA when they decided they needed 50 fidget spinners by t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 12:57 AM |
| 41 | Do you want a man to do 50% of the housework if you are a stay at home mom?There’s a BIG difference between the daily duties of a stay at home wife and a stay at home mom. If a man doesn’t think raising his children is a job he probably doesn’t put much effort into parenting or being a partner either. I’d much rather stay a single mom than be in a relationship like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 12:28 PM |
| 1 | True or false, women on this sub are more likely NOT representative of the majority of the population but the men on here ARE💯 Somewhere around here there’s an r/askwomen (or similar) post by a guy who was literally asking if we had thoughts. Classic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/22 02:27 AM |
| 5 | True or false, women on this sub are more likely NOT representative of the majority of the population but the men on here ARE🛎🛎🛎 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/22 02:23 AM |
| 6 | What does a red pilled woman get out of the ideology?Right? How well did this guy just tee me up?! I can’t pass up an opportunity to plug the life changing difference it makes in a woman’s life to work in feminist spaces designed to buck the patriarchy! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/22 12:14 AM |
| 9 | What does a red pilled woman get out of the ideology?Thank you so much! Around age four I just started bringing him with me to my job at the abortion clinic. Obviously that wasn’t sustainable long term, what a mess. Thank goodness for kindergarten, am I right? Came just in time. And now, 5 years later, thanks to having always worked in feminist environments led by women, even though I’m a single mom (army widow 🤷🏼♀️) I can work full time and still stay home with my son whenever I need to. My feminist bosses have made sure that I can work from hom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/22 10:15 PM |
| 13 | What does a red pilled woman get out of the ideology?I'm going to push back on this a little bit. Being a SAHM can be a huge investment in your kid's future, and depending on a woman's income it can obviously be cheaper than daycare. I made a very conscious choice to stay home with my son for a couple years solely because I believed it was what was best for him and his development. So I think it's worth considering that for someone whose priorities are different than your own, being a SAHM can still be all about planning for the future and being f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/22 09:02 PM |
| 1 | According To A Study, Women Are Actually Happier With Less Attractive MenWalk it off, you’re fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/22 05:50 PM |
| 0 | According To A Study, Women Are Actually Happier With Less Attractive Menthis is why we hate you people. Edited to add, quit downvoting me you immature little kumquat. Get over yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/22 05:46 PM |
| 0 | According To A Study, Women Are Actually Happier With Less Attractive MenYou’re joking, right? Because the thing we were freaking out about actually happened. It’s happening. Where the fuck are you dude | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/22 05:42 PM |
| 1 | According To A Study, Women Are Actually Happier With Less Attractive MenWell, if that’s how you respond to women when we explain our perspectives on men, marriage, dating and how it effects our well being, you’re kind of proving my point. And I’m really not just flapping on about some random opinion I’ve just come up with. I really think there’s a chance the data backs up what I’m saying. I know it’s annoying I’m not taking the time to check out studies and confirm right now, sorry. But I’m looking forward to having the time to do so later. I’m happy to follow up an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 03:29 PM |
| 6 | According To A Study, Women Are Actually Happier With Less Attractive MenRight. And my point is that it’s likely that despite anti-depressant’s negative side effects, women taking them to help maintain content independent lives are healthier and safer than the general population of women who are in (or actively seeking) long term serious relationships with men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 01:53 PM |
| 11 | According To A Study, Women Are Actually Happier With Less Attractive MenYour snide response blaming women for the violence and abuse they endure in many relationships with men is nothing short of disgusting. You should be ashamed of yourself. “If they could only change their taste in men” right, because I get on dating apps and look for the guys who are going to hit me, rape me, manipulate me and emotionally abuse me. That’s how it works. It’s our own fault, as women we are just so dumb and helpless we go out of our way to chase down men who will hurt us. And the st… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 10:42 AM |
| 18 | According To A Study, Women Are Actually Happier With Less Attractive MenThe side effects of psych meds are less likely to be harmful to a woman’s health than a toxic partner or multiple pregnancies. So if it’s true that half of women reporting they’re happier single are on antidepressants, I still don’t see an issue with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 09:34 AM |
| 2 | If sex is not a need, then why would women be remotely upset about abortion being banned?There’s a difference between saying pleasurable sex is needed for human survival and saying it is a human being’s right to access the full range of healthcare that is needed in order to be safely sexually active. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 05:36 PM |
| 1 | Women have said they make "relationship material" men wait for sex because they care about them and they didn't care about the other guys or see a future with the other guys. What's the logic?That seems likely to be an opinion of yours, rather than the proven findings of psychologists but I’m happy to let you believe it either way. I only brought up my different experience because I thought it made for interesting conversation. I’m uninterested in being informed by a stranger on the internet that my own personal thoughts and feelings about my most private experiences are somehow incorrect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/22 12:20 PM |
| 1 | Women have said they make "relationship material" men wait for sex because they care about them and they didn't care about the other guys or see a future with the other guys. What's the logic?No… I think partly because I intentionally don’t want to be vulnerable in that way every time I think it would be super fun to have sex with someone. But actually, I completely understand the feeling of giving part of yourself away as you described it in your last comment. I’m just more likely to experience that feeling after being emotionally vulnerable, rather than physically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/22 07:17 PM |
| 1 | Women have said they make "relationship material" men wait for sex because they care about them and they didn't care about the other guys or see a future with the other guys. What's the logic?I mean, if you feel like you’ve given away part of yourself after sex that honestly just sounds like a personal problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/22 09:49 AM |
| 2 | Why are most divorces initiated by women rather than the man?So you’re telling me that you have actually read multiple studies about divorce and you have never ever EVER seen spousal abandonment referenced? Or are you saying you’ve seen a list of statistics that represented data about motivation for divorce, and you never saw spousal abandonment referenced in the title of any specific piece of data? Because I will eat my fucking foot if you can show me a study on motivations for divorce published by a reputable source that not once mentions spousal abando… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 01:25 AM |
| 14 | Most men present themselves poorly in public.Throwing my two cents in here just in case you’re interested in another perspective. Some people actually find the super trendy style you’re referring to unattractive. I love to see anyone in a decent quality, well fitting and classic looking outfit much more than anything uber trendy. It could just be the Midwesterner in me, but I get “trying too hard” vibes from clothing that only looks acceptable because it’s on trend, not actually flattering or nice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/22 08:50 PM |
| 7 | (Casual) Sex really is overrated and job prospects are shockingly underrated around hereI don’t think I invested much time or energy into getting sex, to be honest. I invested TONS of time and energy into dating, and I do regret that, actually. I know myself pretty well… I know which major life choices I file into which category, lol. But sure, you’re right. no one ever knows for certain that they would or wouldn’t be happier if they had made different choices in life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/22 08:46 PM |
| 8 | (Casual) Sex really is overrated and job prospects are shockingly underrated around hereIdk. My life has a lot of meaning. I’m very involved in my son’s school and sports teams, I’ve worked in a field I’m extremely passionate about for almost a decade. But I wouldn’t trade jamming as much casual sex as I possibly could into my early-mid twenties for anything. I am really glad I had those experiences, and I actually think I embrace monogamy now quite a bit more easily than my friends who missed out on a “hoe phase”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/22 08:24 PM |
| 1 | If prostitution became legalized and normalized, how do you think that would affect relationships among cis gendered straight couples?I don’t think enough men would opt out of marriage for it to have any kind of suddenly noticeable economic or social impact. Maybe there are some sex addicts or serial cheaters who would avoid relationships, which would be great. Legalizing sex work would certainly help put a dent in the pay gap by giving more women financial independence. More money in women’s pockets eventually means more proverbial “seats at the table” occupied by women, which typically means better workplace environments for… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/22 10:20 PM |
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