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Things are amicable between us but we didn’t wish each other merry Christmas or reach out to each other for the past few weeks. they reached out to me recently with a very cold message but other than that, we have no contact. I’ve not really reached out because I’m dealing with my healing and life and I’m sure they are as well. No kids and working on finalizing our divorce decree so just waiting on it.
/r/Divorce_Men30/12/24 09:12 AM
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NOPE Negative Negatory None of my business and none of her business Don’t know don’t care what she does tbh Wish her well LOL
/r/Divorce_Men28/12/24 09:53 PM
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I traveled (still now! In Latin America, downloaded a few dating apps, worked out, worked on myself, smoked weed, sight seeing. I journaled about what happened and recorded myself on audio and video. Took it a day at a time. Sending you good vibes and you’re not the first nor last to go through it. Merry Christmas
/r/Divorce_Men26/12/24 01:56 AM
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Go to Therapy Leave She put hands on you. What kind of example is that for your children? That will or might normalize that behavior to them. Is that worth staying together? You seem to me (not a professional) to be codependent and this person clearly doesn’t respect you (again, put hands on you). Move on, go to therapy, journal, do what you need to do to keep your kids safe and a healthy upbringing which this marriage (sorry to say) doesn’t seem that way. When you try to leave or moving on she’…
/r/Divorce_Men23/12/24 10:23 PM
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Good on you and it’s their life now and focus on the kids. Great job staying away from the cringe.
/r/Divorce_Men22/12/24 04:07 PM
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Nothing is worth that inner peace because that’ll start to impact your kids. The relationships they’ll form will be impacted by how you both are in your marriage and that is definitely not worth it. Sounds like you know what to do and all the luck.
/r/Divorce_Men22/12/24 03:57 PM
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Talk to a divorce attorney and cpa or even tax attorney. Hope your kids are ok n that should be the most important thing
/r/Divorce_Men22/12/24 03:53 PM
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Post nuptial agreement (I’m in the process rn of doing this) during my divorce
/r/Divorce_Men21/12/24 11:31 PM
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Be candid and communicate. When in doubt just ask and you can either gain from it or save yourself the time if you’re not aligned. Not every interaction is a home run, you’ll hit it off, or see a relationship blooming. Know what you’re looking for, think what that woman would be doing and where and try to be there and see what happens. Most of all, focus on the positives, move on, and work on yourself for the next time. This is all normal and be kinder to yourself and don’t despair on a future t…
/r/Divorce_Men21/12/24 11:00 PM
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Is the marriage worth your inner peace? Do you trust your partner with your future? Are you aligned now and in the future? Are you happy? Is this the person you can see vividly being there with you and for you? Marriage should be a multiplication effect and not a subtraction effect.
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/24 11:56 PM
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Go to therapy and I am no professional but speaking from personal experience. If you’re doing things to dull your feelings or escapism it’s not good now nor in the long run. Talking to someone is helpful and they’ll suggest and see somethings that you do not and be candid ofc as well.
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/24 03:33 AM
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A week?! DAYUM
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/24 03:03 AM
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When she got her birth control put back in and got an apartment.
/r/Divorce_Men15/12/24 06:14 PM
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