| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 234 | Dealing with being purposefully celibateI’m training for a 5k. I look fantastic and 3 mile runs and a vibrator wear me out better than any man ever did. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/22 12:26 PM |
| 88 | OLDs are literal hellIf you’re going to use OLD, don’t put ANYTHING in your bio. 1. Men don’t read your bio. 2. If they do, they gain personal information on you, and they might not even be a person you match with, but now they know things about you and you don’t even know they exist. 3. Use a nickname or fake name, see #2. 4. Unmatch, block, and delete anyone who sends you a slightly irritating message and don’t waste your headspace. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/22 01:36 PM |
| 23 | Yeet any man with weird food hangupsI canceled a date that would have happened if he hadn’t kept texting me before hand. Finding out that all he eats was chicken tendies was enough for me to decide that I wasn’t going to enjoy dinner with an adult who eats off the kids’ menu and I wasn’t wasting any more of my time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/22 09:26 PM |
| 438 | Man attempts to low-ball his date after getting horrendous advice from Reddit. Queen blocks and deletes in responseYes, absolutely. It’s his own fault for not planning the date. If he had a certain budget or atmosphere in mind, he could have given her a couple of options. But if a date tells you to pick, and then tries to negotiate with you—that’s the tone of the relationship and it’s never getting better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/22 12:09 PM |
| 113 | The Consequences of The Male Birth Control PillIt’s not about finding a shred of sympathy. It’s about putting women into a bin of “others” and “marginalized genders” because the societal default is men. This is, of course, supposedly “inclusive” while denying women OUR preferred identity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/22 10:35 AM |
| 15 | Man withholds a 12.5K bonus from his SAHM wife because she didnt share the 200$ she made on Etsy (the first time in 7 years she earned anything). Be careful not to marry miserly men who loathe you.I can’t wait for her to leave him and take his ass for all the alimony and child support it’s worth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/22 03:28 PM |
| 23 | Is chasing unnatural beauty standards making women more vulnerable to unhealthy emotional states? Have you experienced this? Please discussThis is why we work on our mental health and don’t worry about the male gaze. Your fitness routine should make you feel strong and healthy. Your eating habits should make you feel happy and energized. If you’re struggling with an eating disorder or binge eating or over exercising or out of shape, that is YOUR health issue to take care of. Put yourself first. Find balance and what makes you feel good in your body and mind. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 04:49 PM |
| 10 | Know your worth ladies! Don’t offer to pay for a first date you were invited to attend. And never offer to drive a stranger home. Boy, bye.It went wrong when she got on Tinder. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/22 11:06 AM |
| 41 | There was a man masturbating and watching porn at a coffee shop I like to go to, have they no pride or dignity?This guy should be on a list and in jail. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/22 04:20 PM |
| 99 | Men know this is what they watch and they don't care. They keep this horrifying industry alive. Never date a man who watches porn. TW:rapeIt’s not just scrotes. It’s privileged pick me’s who once sold feet pics in college who come at other women and call them SWERF’s and “anti-feminist” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/22 10:59 PM |
| 120 | Have not cringed this hard in awhile; at the woman (kirra_kitty1215) who responded to the original TikTok made by dworkfem … it seems like a ‘cope’ to force your ideal of being okay with your boyfriend watching porn. You can’t force other women to be okay with exploitation just because you are.That’s a big glass of copa-cola, and what a 15+ year age gap? I could not imagine dating a guy in his early 20’s after I turned 25. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/22 10:50 AM |
| 2 | Left my fiancée today. Here is the letter I left him.When I left my ex, I quickly found out that the social group of women I thought I had, were in fact just the pick me wives of his college friends. I moved to a new city and looked after my career. I traveled solo for a full month. I’m feeling hot and accomplished and planning more international travel and making new friends in a new place. I can’t even imagine being limited to the group of people I thought were important. I surely wasn’t important to them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/22 12:03 PM |
| 64 | Is he an asshole or is it Aspergers?Including you, so if you’re not having fun with these men, don’t see them again. Paying for a date isn’t an invoice for mental health services. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/22 05:53 PM |
| 261 | How can you tell if "My ex was controlling, abusive, crazy..." etc is the truth from a guy?I was friends with a couple who got married and later divorced after she had spent several rounds in in-patient treatment. She had assaulted me and most of our mutual friends. Here’s the kicker, the ex-husband DOESN’T talk poorly about his ex, although he has plenty of things to vent about. He stays factual. There’s very little editorial added opinion. Instead of saying “she’s a drunk psycho,” he says “I took her to her parents’ house after I found her passed out on my floor again.” (She had bee… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/22 05:52 PM |
| 10 | Women&Children and Whose Life is ValuedBecause the men will diddle the kids. We don’t have time for screenings. Mothers and children take shelter, men step up and fight. They are expendable. They literally are expendable to our species. That’s the hard cold truth of biology. If it took a sperm 9 months to mature, and we could hand over our eggs, it would be a very different world. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/22 11:17 PM |
| 1 | What in the pick-me hell? Ad on Facebook for virtual mental health help.I love this. I’m a self-sustaining woman with a very well paying career. I am not interested in having children, and I’m certainly not going to pay for a man. So yeah, I’m gonna lean into this too. I’m a gold digger. Lol. If I want to split the bill, I’ll invite out friends I already know and like. If a man expects a chance with me, he’s going to have to compete against how well I take care of myself and bring more to the table than I already have. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/22 02:53 PM |
| 697 | Financially abusive Scrote strings along his 4.5 year live-in girlfriend, finally "gets engaged", yet cries when he finds out that he wasn't entitled to ALL of her money after all, etc. Next, he pitches it to the audience about whether he should take the money, then dump her any way.So he makes twice as much as she does and he’s mad that she was able to save and told him the truth before getting married? It’s not his money. She should have secretly kept that money hidden forever. She could celebrate her “raise” when it’s time to file taxes together. Don’t give men money. Don’t assume men will take care of you. Maintain your independence and always have a way out. Far too many women lose everything and end up single moms because some dude decides he wants out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/22 05:06 PM |
| 276 | Man wants to have a kid with his wife's younger sister....the traditional way. This poor woman is actually confused about it. WHAT.Plot twist: he’s the infertile one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/22 04:35 PM |
| 120 | Why do dating apps bring out the worst in men? | the guardian articleI would absolutely never use a dating app if I were in college, in a hip neighborhood, or in my 20’s. But with careful, ruthless vetting, it’s probably the most convenient way for women in their 30’s to meet a lot of men quickly. Just stick to the handbook. Only “like” guys who meet your standards, and unmatch the SECOND they turn you off. They are definitely shopping for sex. If they neg you, want to move off the app, are too eager to meet, NEXT. Dating apps are not for 27 year old me. But at 3… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/22 05:43 PM |
| 702 | What is up with men saying they want someone who is passionate about something?When a man says he wants a “passionate” woman, he is looking for someone who has interest in his passions. I met a decent guy (LVM status revealed eventually, but he’s tall and has an actual job) who loves music. So do I. Once he listened to me talk about his interest enough to pass the “cool music girl” test, it was just all about his musical passion. He can’t listen. He doesn’t stop talking. He just wants a captive/captivated audience and can’t tell the difference. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/22 03:30 AM |
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