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Outer Game savingpickledryan/r/seduction23/06/22 07:39 AM
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sure but disrespect is either intentional or not. i don't think she is intentionally disrespecting me, but still i dont like her behavior sometimes. i assume she does the same to every1 tho.
/r/seduction23/06/22 10:15 AM
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do u think they are treating me like shit tho. because she would be fun to hangout and would be talkative, but sometimes would ignore me when we hungout and sometimes would not be responsive to me in texts. so it was not all the time. honestly she could just be very distctable and busy
/r/seduction23/06/22 10:10 AM
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thannks! i really like this attitude
/r/seduction23/06/22 10:06 AM
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yeah but they have more experience, so just see it as ur overcoming ur anxiety and doing something new and learning some new skills, dont compare urself to them
/r/seduction23/06/22 08:46 AM
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bring up the topic and then casually ask if they would do it with u. but if they say no then u might not be friends again
/r/seduction23/06/22 08:44 AM
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i think just keep going out with ur friends and talking to girls and observing how they do it. just get more comfortable talkinng to girls like they r ur friends first. then flirt more later once u r not socially anxious. also u r learniing how to deal with "rejection" but its not rejection so dont feel bad about it. ur just learning a new skill and pretty soon girls will respond more to you than ur friend
/r/seduction23/06/22 08:08 AM
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i feel like u should be friends with anyone who is a good friend. if u feel like they are being fake and only want to be ur friend because of ur success and not because they like u as a person then i wouldnt want to be their friend. also if a friend stopped being my friend because they didnt think i was good enough in the past i might not forgive them, but if i was depressed or they distanced themself for valid reasons or soemthing it would be no prob
/r/seduction23/06/22 08:04 AM
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yeah i mean im looking at this critically, even though there were times we did have fun, and i also did find her good looking just not my type, and the emotional immaturity and not being open with her emotions is chill to an extent tho, but ive been in therapy so long i need someone who is really open and in touch with that stuff
/r/seduction23/06/22 07:54 AM
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but would u have rejected them
/r/seduction23/06/22 07:53 AM
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its just to get peoples opinion on it. someone might have a perspective on any of these traits in someone
/r/seduction23/06/22 07:52 AM
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but did i
/r/seduction23/06/22 07:43 AM
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So once u get the number do u go out with them? Or do u do it just to practice approaching ppl
/r/seduction23/06/22 12:35 AM
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Maybe she lost interest? Just ask her out to find out
/r/seduction23/06/22 12:32 AM
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I think it’s normal. I think if ur confident with practice and experience you will improvr
/r/seduction22/06/22 10:47 PM
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Self deprecation is why
/r/seduction22/06/22 09:18 PM
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Because we were good friends and I enjoyed having her as a friend
/r/seduction22/06/22 11:06 AM
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Yeah it’s an experiment lol
/r/seduction22/06/22 10:56 AM
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Thanks! Yeah definitely deleting it
/r/seduction22/06/22 10:54 AM
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Actually I never used it before her. But we talked on it everyday. And I mean delete the app for a bit since i don’t use it much anyway anymore. She has a public profile and I check it sometimes but can’t help it then feel bad when I see her dancing with a guy or something
/r/seduction22/06/22 10:51 AM
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Well I mean the first step led to the next ones. So if I had just said I don’t want to be friends and moved on nothing would have happened.
/r/seduction22/06/22 10:46 AM
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Yeah we did actually I’m trying to get my feelings over her. But I can’t help look at her instagram lol. So I think I’ll delete instagram
/r/seduction22/06/22 10:44 AM
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I want to move on but be friends again one day if possible
/r/seduction22/06/22 10:38 AM
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Yeah I don’t think dinner on a . First date is good unless u like the girl a lot for some reason. Plus if u don’t get along it’s boring. For me it’s not so much a. Money thing as it feels more intimate than casual
/r/seduction22/06/22 10:28 AM
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So basically just say I don’t want to be friends
/r/seduction22/06/22 10:04 AM
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What do you mean joking around or acting funny?
/r/seduction22/06/22 09:56 AM
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I guess I don’t want to lose the friendship or I want to make it how it was before. But u think it’s more mature to move on?
/r/seduction22/06/22 09:38 AM
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I think if a long time friend rejects u then it’s important to think about whether u still want to be friends or not
/r/seduction22/06/22 09:37 AM
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Why do u think so? Is that a better way to deal with rejection?
/r/seduction22/06/22 09:33 AM
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Yes agreed! I want to move on but keep friendship open. If the feeling comes back I can always take another break. But we were good friends so I think it’s okay to keep it open unless she says she doesn’t want to be friends. But I’m still wondering what a more mature of handling rejection is
/r/seduction22/06/22 09:13 AM
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Maybe what are you guys drinking? Or how do u guys know each other? Or maybe just say hi I’m (your name) what’s ur name?
/r/seduction22/06/22 09:12 AM
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Yeah true!!!
/r/seduction22/06/22 09:05 AM
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I don’t want to be with her anymore but I might still be friends. I think though I should handle rejection better in the future and just be chill about it and move on. Although if ur friends u can still be friends once u get over the feelings.
/r/seduction22/06/22 09:00 AM
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???
/r/seduction22/06/22 08:32 AM
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Lol wut
/r/seduction22/06/22 08:32 AM
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I think just meet guys who don’t want to be friends and will ask u out
/r/seduction22/06/22 04:01 AM
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Yeah I will date other people but I dont know if I should ever be friends with her again
/r/seduction22/06/22 03:55 AM
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i mean its stuff im working on anyway rn, i guess we could be friends again someday, better to take a break anyway
/r/seduction21/06/22 12:34 PM
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well i mean she doesnt want to be friends right now. since ive been acting weird she wants to wait a bit till im over her and can be her friend again i think? and she wants me to do that stuff shhe listed bc she thinks it will be good for me
/r/seduction21/06/22 11:54 AM
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hm what do u mean?
/r/seduction21/06/22 11:33 AM
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well she didnt like me and rejected me and doesnt want to be friends so i think i will move on
/r/seduction21/06/22 11:21 AM
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thats the new user boost i think
/r/seduction21/06/22 06:17 AM
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does tinder even work?
/r/seduction21/06/22 06:12 AM
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i dont have high standards but i wouldnt want to date someone unattractive. if u cant get very many attractive matches as a male model tinder is a waste of time.
/r/seduction21/06/22 05:58 AM
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Or they are unattractive, meaning attractive users arent really that active and its a waste of time
/r/seduction21/06/22 05:41 AM
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Ok!
/r/seduction20/06/22 06:07 PM
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Yes I’m not saying a friendship can’t turn into a relationship or even if u get rejected and stay friends it can’t later. But I think friends should not be one sided. So yeah the monkey brain thing.
/r/seduction20/06/22 05:02 PM
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Hm so what do you think the problem is? I see it as a problem of genuine friendship. People should be genuine friends if they want and can and decide to. Guys shouldn’t be in one sided friendships if they like a girl and vice versa. And girls shouldn’t try to capitalize on their good loos and lead guys on intentionally because that’s not a real friendship. I think guys should just ask girls out if they like her. And if she rejects them they should be mature and be friends still. Although the dyn…
/r/seduction20/06/22 04:41 PM
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But is it unintentional on the girls part or not? I guess it depends on the girl.
/r/seduction20/06/22 04:34 PM
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Well yeah I mean a girl has asked to have she’s before but usually that’s rare
/r/seduction20/06/22 02:53 AM
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I think that’s a good question. But I’m not sure why
/r/seduction20/06/22 02:53 AM
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Yeah that’s all good but the part about feeling creepy I think just knowing it’s not creepy will help
/r/seduction20/06/22 02:52 AM
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I just can’t help but feel a girl will think I’m creepy and can’t see myself as someone sexually desirable
/r/seduction19/06/22 11:13 PM
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But is it creepy to kiss a girl?
/r/seduction19/06/22 11:08 PM
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i think that wouldnt work for me cuz how can u go out with another girl when u still have feelings for a different one?
/r/seduction17/06/22 03:02 AM
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