sawpony Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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29	What are your views on grooming and how do you deal with facing sudden fears about your relationship after watching RP content? Your parents have got to be gutted over this, they spent years homeschooling and protecting you and now you’re seeing someone more than twice your age? Heartbreaking. Oh honey, please talk to a trusted adult openly about all of this. You have plenty of time to find a man who values your innocence and respects you to the moon & back. This dude is bad news bears.	/r/RedPillWomen	05/10/22 09:48 PM
2	Cycle of fighting off and on after birth of second child Good luck!💖	/r/RedPillWives	18/06/22 12:31 AM
0	Cycle of fighting off and on after birth of second child It is okay to ask for all those things, but know that there are things he needs too and I know this sounds like more to put on your plate of responsibility, but he needs to be loved on. It doesn’t sound like you’re sleeping together and it also sounds like he may be lashing out in other ways - doesn’t feel safe/able saying he misses you but he does. The aftermath of babies is so hard on relationships, suddenly your husband goes from the center of your world to relatively blocked off from your bo…	/r/RedPillWives	17/06/22 03:34 PM
-2	Cycle of fighting off and on after birth of second child I know this sounds like more to put on your plate of responsibility, but he needs to be loved on. It doesn’t sound like you’re sleeping together and it also sounds like he may be lashing out in other ways - doesn’t feel safe/able saying he misses you but he does. The aftermath of babies is so hard on relationships, suddenly your husband goes from the center of your world to relatively blocked off from your body & your affection the way he was used to (and loved) getting. The every few day blow-u…	/r/RedPillWives	17/06/22 03:33 PM
6	Cycle of fighting off and on after birth of second child I know this sounds like more to put on your plate of responsibility, but he needs to be loved on. It doesn’t sound like you’re sleeping together and it also sounds like he may be lashing out in other ways - doesn’t feel safe/able saying he misses you but he does. The aftermath of babies is so hard on relationships, suddenly your husband goes from the center of your world to relatively blocked off from your body & your affection the way he was used to (and loved) getting. The every few day blow-u…	/r/RedPillWives	17/06/22 03:33 PM
3	How to stop fighting with spouse This was a cycle my husband and I were in for many years…I didn’t realize it was related to my cycle (yes, such a facepalm) until he mentioned it and recommended I started tracking my months. Oh boy. I talked to my gynecologist about potentially having PMDD, it was so bad when I finally realized the patterns. You may be experiencing something like this as well - keep an eye on your cycle and journal your moods etc. Just being aware - both of us - of my ebbs & flows has helped immensely (along wi…	/r/RedPillWomen	18/12/21 10:01 PM
9	What advice would you share with someone getting married soon? + a few more questions Ah, I always quote the wise old crone who hollered out this wisdom during one of the speeches at my wedding: “Don’t stop having sex!!” Seriously, she’s right though. It’s the glue that bonds & keeps you together through everything. Never weaponize it, never fake it, never make him feel bad about it - and do your best (reading books about sex in relationship, practicing mindfulness) to consciously choosing to enjoy yourself and his body too. On that note, I love the boudoir pics idea, just make s…	/r/RedPillWomen	15/09/21 04:54 PM
1	Best cities for a diverse couple? Still a relationship advice sub, and strange that these are your first posts in these places.	/r/RedPillWomen	25/05/21 04:36 PM
1	Best cities for a diverse couple? You’re in the wrong sub - this is relationship advice, not housing.	/r/RedPillWives	25/05/21 04:33 PM
1	Laura Doyle coaching cost How did it go? :)	/r/RedPillWives	22/04/21 04:26 AM
3	Just found out my boyfriend is using steroids. How do I put my foot down without losing him? This x1000, how are you getting downvoted for this on RPW? Her statement about “some issues I need to take control of” was a big red flag for me - believing there’s anything you need to take control of for your (captain) is completely anti-RPW. If you choose this hill to die on, it’s on you.	/r/RedPillWomen	16/04/21 03:29 AM
7	Fed up of my partner putting his needs over mine 1) He doesn’t know how you feel unless you tell him. Indifferent is not a good feeling to receive from someone you love, you need to explain yourself in a vulnerable way (“ouch”) 2) it’s okay to get tearful when you say how you feel, not okay to manipulate with crying, but just a quick explanation of your feelings (even if it feels uncomfortable) is so much more productive than being cold/indifferent and expecting him to figure out why you’re acting that way.	/r/RedPillWomen	03/04/21 03:30 PM
3	Laura Doyle coaching cost I was just looking into this as well. Although I love her approach, I’m so turned off by the vagueness of the cost (like, does it change from client to client?) - all I can wonder is why there isn’t transparency? I did just find the cost for becoming a certified coach and wow. More than I paid for 2 years of community college! ...But also probably infinitely more useful than that cost, too, so.😄	/r/RedPillWives	01/04/21 07:15 PM
2	Suggest books on executive functioning? r/adhdwomen	/r/RedPillWomen	30/01/21 01:31 AM