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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 50 | That would be instant ICK for me followed by my departure and blocking everywhere. If he is doing something this gross in front of you, imagine the filthy shit he's doing secretly 🤮I wish I didn't read this while eating 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/22 05:14 AM |
| 22 | Types of men that Asian women need to be wary ofIt's the ones you least expect too, which is why lurking and digging deep on social media is so important to find out who they really are. This scrote I was once in love with seemed too good to be true so I felt the need to lurk. He turned out to be very stupid in that he used the same username for all of his accounts. All it took was a google search to find his deleted comments on asian porn subreddits through some nsfw site that archives deleted content. I was stupid myself for not lurking soo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/22 02:09 AM |
| 2 | Cut him off. and become a queen. We're all rooting for you. (FDS art by me)I looove this! You are so talented, it's insane. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/21 10:00 AM |
| 22 | Normalise shaming men with sex and dating app addictions. There’s nothing cool or ‘alpha’ about a man who spends ALL his free time chasing tail like his life depends on itMen with dating app addictions are so weak. How sad that they let their dicks dictate their whole lives. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 05:47 AM |
| 25 | Why Splitting the Check Isn't as Feminist As PickMes Think It IsWhy do they do that 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/21 05:13 AM |
| 70 | Why Splitting the Check Isn't as Feminist As PickMes Think It IsAs a waitress, I always place the bill in front of the guy so that if he isn't the one covering it, they get embarrassed when their date reaches for it. And if a woman fights for the bill, I always hand it to the guy and tell her, "it's okay, let him get this" L M A O | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/21 03:10 AM |
| 51 | I feel like there are no good menExactlyyy. We should be critical and suspicious of them all, regardless of who they are. It's best to assume a man has malicious intentions until they've proven otherwise | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 05:44 AM |
| 117 | Straight from the horse’s mouth: men who ask you to hook up with them literally only want you for sex. These comments were in response to a woman who was complaining about the audacity men on Tinder have in asking her if she “wants to fuck”They truly have the ugliest souls 💀 Their mindsets are sociopathic and nonsensical. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/21 02:08 PM |
| 29 | ✨Truth✨Men be like: lEt Me *FiNgEr* YoUr clit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/21 05:16 AM |
| 51 | A collection of recent bios I’ve seen on OLD, and their translationsLooking to vibe = looking for someone to manipulate into thinking they have an emotional connection with them but will just use them for sex | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/21 02:34 AM |
| 17 | (TW: SEX, VIOLENCE). These are texts men sent to me when I used to engage in BDSM. Even when they hide behind a "nice guy" facade, this is their true nature. Looking back, I I can't believe I ever accepted being treated this way. BDSM is not liberating or empowering, it's ABUSE.A majority of women who engage in BDSM as submissives most likely have mental health issues and low self esteem. It's true in my case. I have severe borderline personality disorder and I come from a background of abuse. Every time I engaged in BDSM, it was either as a coping mechanism or a self-harm method. When you have a mental illness, you're more vulnerable. Narcissistic men will prey on you because you're an easy target. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/21 09:29 PM |
| 72 | (TW: SEX, VIOLENCE). These are texts men sent to me when I used to engage in BDSM. Even when they hide behind a "nice guy" facade, this is their true nature. Looking back, I I can't believe I ever accepted being treated this way. BDSM is not liberating or empowering, it's ABUSE.The funny thing is I actually genuinely liked one of them as a person - I thought he was a nice guy with a good sense of humor. Then the mask fell off, and he began being shitty and awful towards me even outside of sex. He didn't see me as human and he made sure I knew it. I was foolish to think even for a second that it was just a fantasy or a roleplay. He was showing me who he really was. After that, I decided I don't want to be touched ever again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/21 04:26 AM |
| 230 | (TW: SEX, VIOLENCE). These are texts men sent to me when I used to engage in BDSM. Even when they hide behind a "nice guy" facade, this is their true nature. Looking back, I I can't believe I ever accepted being treated this way. BDSM is not liberating or empowering, it's ABUSE.Because men don't think about doing things for us, they think about doing things to us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/21 04:22 AM |
| 149 | (TW: SEX, VIOLENCE). These are texts men sent to me when I used to engage in BDSM. Even when they hide behind a "nice guy" facade, this is their true nature. Looking back, I I can't believe I ever accepted being treated this way. BDSM is not liberating or empowering, it's ABUSE.I'm glad I did too. Only after did I realize that the one who sent me the second and third messages particularly enjoyed having power over me because he had gotten his heart broken by his ex, and was refueling his ego and self esteem by asserting dominance over me. Abusing another human being to fill the void isn't a replacement for therapy lmao. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/21 02:35 AM |
| 111 | (TW: SEX, VIOLENCE). These are texts men sent to me when I used to engage in BDSM. Even when they hide behind a "nice guy" facade, this is their true nature. Looking back, I I can't believe I ever accepted being treated this way. BDSM is not liberating or empowering, it's ABUSE.I got reeled into BDSM at such a young age, and thankfully I'm free too since finding FDS. Also, that's so fucking scary and demented. Men are sick in the head. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/21 02:26 AM |
| 305 | (TW: SEX, VIOLENCE). These are texts men sent to me when I used to engage in BDSM. Even when they hide behind a "nice guy" facade, this is their true nature. Looking back, I I can't believe I ever accepted being treated this way. BDSM is not liberating or empowering, it's ABUSE.Sex is meant to be an extension of love and connection, not a twisted, sickening act that's done to us. I hate that porn has skewed the meaning of intimacy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/21 12:28 AM |
| 18 | Another red flag from Chris Pratt’s captionThis poor, poor woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 11:20 PM |
| 194 | I knew I wasn't crazy to think that BDSM/rough sex is wildly incompatible with respecting someoneThe fact that his comment has over 200 upvotes scares me. Men HATE us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/21 09:21 AM |
| 43 | This is what men think of women they hook up with. It is not in our best interests as women to sleep with men casually.You are too, queen ❤ It's okay because karma comes in circles. The universe will take care of them for us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/21 08:12 AM |
| 192 | This is what men think of women they hook up with. It is not in our best interests as women to sleep with men casually.I hate that I had a "hoe phase". The last dude I slept with literally admitted that he only ever saw me as an inanimate object to use. It fucked me up so bad. I still think about it all the time. Men are fucking sociopaths. It's so important to be careful of who we're intimate with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/21 06:26 AM |
| 174 | Peer reviewed study: If you give him the power, he will abuse it.Thank you for sharing this. Every time a man is idealized, his ego gets too inflated when it has absolutely no reason to be because they're never even that special. They end up power tripping and while their self esteem gets elevated, ours just goes to shit. All around important stuff to keep in mind. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 02:47 AM |
| 24 | When you can’t handle rejection. Wait until the end"It's like jumanji trying to do anything mundane" 🤣🤣 this is so true. We can't even do the simplest, most boring, regular things without getting harassed and approached by random scrotes on the street. It's infuriating and just sad. When stuff like this happens to me, I just take out my pocket knife and start playing with it. I don't even respond or say anything, I just keep walking while doing that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 09:44 PM |
| 335 | When you can’t handle rejection. Wait until the endWhat the fuck is wrong with men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 02:55 PM |
| 30 | Welcome to the troll revolution! 🌺Lmao Im stealing this 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 03:12 AM |
| 106 | Make sure you are his first option. Men can fake and pretend you’re his #1 because they’re lonely, when in fact you aren’t the one they want.A loser I was once in love with never got over his ex from a decade ago and has a whole ass Instagram account of poetry dedicated to her. Yikes. Beware of these sensitive softboy types. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/21 01:34 AM |
| 11 | This guy was calling me crazy and I blocked him. These are his last messages. To be clear, he brought up ethnicity out of nowhere.He wasn't even bright enough to turn off the signature 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/21 07:34 AM |
| 3 | At what age did you realize male validation means absolutely nothing?You are such a badass queen. Right off the bat you already knew the truth at such a young age. Thank you for your comment - your last paragraph made me cry. This new chapter is going to be a great one. I'm sending you love. 💖 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/21 04:17 AM |
| 3 | At what age did you realize male validation means absolutely nothing?I used to dress extremely provocative too - short tennis skirts, fishnets, thigh highs, etc. If I said I was dressing for myself, I would be lying. I was seeking male attention in every thing I did. I'm so glad that we both realized this at such a young age. We are lucky ❤ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/21 04:10 AM |
| 1 | At what age did you realize male validation means absolutely nothing?Yes yes your last paragraph is so relatable. Nothing cheesey about it at all. I'm trying to heal my inner child too. A lot of my issues stem from being emotionally abused as a child and there is just so much work to do. I wish you all the best in your healing, queen ❤ We're gonna make it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/21 04:04 AM |
| 8 | At what age did you realize male validation means absolutely nothing?Everytime I feel myself getting excited that a man is interested in me, I just remember her quote about men fucking McChickens LMAO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/21 03:43 AM |
| 5 | At what age did you realize male validation means absolutely nothing?You're right, I really should consider myself lucky. I think I just forget how young I am sometimes. There is all the time in the world | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/21 03:29 AM |
| 6 | At what age did you realize male validation means absolutely nothing?LOL 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/21 03:27 AM |
| 54 | Scrote chases woman down an alley hollering and saying “come here” aggressively. Proceeds to call the woman racist for being scared, along with “dumb bitch” a few times.This made me so angry I actually cried | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 01:20 AM |
| 50 | Repeat after me: Statistically casual sex for straight women does NOT include orgasms!I'm so traumatized by the hookup phase I had as a pick me that I never want to be touched again lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 03:59 AM |
| 12 | “Free yourselves from the bondage of male validation” -@sheenie_weenie_, 2021 ADI am so worried for young girls growing up on tik tok. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 03:27 PM |
| 1 | What other podcasts besides from FDS nurture you? I find that the most popular ones are conducted by males, gets tiring after a while.I love Spiritual Shit by Alea Lovely!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 06:23 AM |
| 8 | It’s quiet ain’t no talk backQueeen shit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 01:37 AM |
| 2 | For my fellow Queens with mental illness❤ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 02:57 AM |
| 3 | Just got sent this from a friend....5’9 not attractive...is he taking the piss?🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 04:48 AM |
| 94 | Yup. Especially how creepy most of the men giving out compliments areEvery time I receive a compliment from a man I am immediately suspicious lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 09:23 PM |
| 109 | Redditors having a meltdown over FDS 😂Men want to act like they're oppressed while simultaneously oppressing women lmao 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 07:46 PM |
| 10 | Remember, you don’t need to try something to know it’s not for you! Stick with your boundaries to save your mental health 👑So goddamn ready ❤ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 11:01 PM |
| 2 | Scrote physically abuses his wife because she’s uncomfortable with him watching porn.I truly feel sick after reading this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 07:07 PM |
| 5 | Leaving NVM: There’s a light at the end of the tunnelThank you so much for posting this queen <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 01:38 AM |
| 76 | The biggest problem with "sex positivity" is that it put the cart before the horse.As soon as I turned 18, I fell into the whole lib fem sex positivity empowerment bullshit trap and started escorting to save up money for paying off student loans. My mindset was that I was having a sexual awakening and if I was gonna hook up, I might as well get paid for it too. I've always had self esteem issues growing up so it made me feel powerful knowing that I could capitalize off being desirable. I stopped after a while because that feeling of "empowerment" slowly shifted into disgust - … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 07:01 PM |
| 4 | Went to retrieve my belongings from ex's place. He threw my things at me, did this 🙏, and slammed the door in my face.I am too. 2021 absolutely no time will be wasted on men whatsoever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 01:35 AM |
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