| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 194 | “I pReFeR gIrLs WiThOuT mAkEUp” | THINGS SCROTES SAY | saydeesalt | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 05:06 AM |
| 171 | We not doing this anymore ❌ | PICKME CULTURE | saydeesalt | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 04:57 AM |
| 64 | People asking if you’re pregnant | SHOWER THOUGHT | saydeesalt | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 08:27 PM |
| 63 | Men with kids... | SHOWER THOUGHT | saydeesalt | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 04:24 AM |
| 46 | Alcoholics | RED FLAG 🚨 | saydeesalt | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 07:54 PM |
| 25 | 🤮🤮🤮 | COUCH CREATURES | saydeesalt | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 11:27 PM |
| 2 | Men are literally SO deplorable. This is the only bridge left in KY with this architectural design. | MALE DEPRAVITY | saydeesalt | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 04:23 PM |
| 1 | Got called a female incel for being associated with this sub 😐 | THE AUDACITY OF SCROTES | saydeesalt | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 10:45 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | Struggle is realPerformative “woke” men 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 11:54 PM |
| 15 | Well...This whole article is about respect. If she’s asked him to NOT do something before and he does it regardless after, that is disrespectful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 05:48 PM |
| 6 | "Why do you hate men?"I hate that men who can have some self reflection and emotion are called metro or gay. This is what females would refer to as... normal thoughts and feelings? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 02:01 AM |
| 4 | Where to begin...And there’s a child involved? This is depressing ☹️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 04:03 PM |
| 11 | I’m quitting birth control.Gave me closed comedones along my jawline | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 05:52 AM |
| 10 | Why We Avoid 50/50 "Men."Haha I do like when a man pays for dates and I’ll never live with someone before marriage again so I’ve got a house to myself until then 😂 and I have a few guns 😬 I just like the original meme because it makes me feel badass that I can take care of myself 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 06:51 PM |
| 28 | Why We Avoid 50/50 "Men."I like the original. I’m the one shooting because I pay my own damn bills and the other girls are going 50/50 behind the couch with a LVM | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 02:46 PM |
| 11 | Re: His true colors have been Revealed. He just emailed me... I guess he doesn't knowing blocked him already....at least he wished me the best👀I’d be rich if I had a dollar every time my military ex said that to me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 04:00 AM |
| 3 | All the money I sent to my NVM ex in 2 months. Green is him. Don’t be a 🤡🤡🤡Saaaame and I took his ass to small claims court and got it all back 💅🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 03:08 AM |
| 3 | Ladies, without FDS I wouldn’t even have considered this one. But we’re together for 6 months now and I can confidently say I found my HVM! 🌹Research the breed. Some dogs are better at being inside all day than others. I have a doodle and I can come home at lunch to let him pee but he can go 8-9 hours without. Run him hard or take him to doggy day care every 2-3 days to wear him out and he sleeps all day. A border collie or Aussie or husky, this would not work for. Dachshunds and King Charles cavaliers tend to get separation anxiety etc. do a lot of research and be prepared to train them plus pay extra if you’re renting and have limi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 04:33 PM |
| 15 | Don’t fool yourself into thinking he cares or has changed his mind about being with you!I love when they say you’re clingy and they don’t want to even be your friend anymore but they’re A L W A Y S the first to view my story and message first if I unblock | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 02:37 AM |
| 15 | LVM Example Part 3Normal, average, average | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 04:31 AM |
| 19 | LVM example🔥🔥🔥 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 03:13 AM |
| 9 | People asking if you’re pregnantI‘be been 5’11” since I was 12 and when I was 17 people started asking me how many kids I have at home. Just stop making assumptions people! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 12:04 AM |
| 7 | People asking if you’re pregnantDamn 👏 good on you!! That’s awesome | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 12:03 AM |
| 16 | People asking if you’re pregnantYeah or why coworkers are even interested in your afflictions in the first place. Sick leave and not feeling well are a full stop to everyone except your supervisor where I work. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 08:58 PM |
| 15 | People asking if you’re pregnantYeah and like it’s not a joke? Pregnancy and starting a family is very serious to me and to you it’s a phobia, to others it might bring up the memories of a past miscarriage, etc it’s just not appropriate! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 08:35 PM |
| 18 | Always be ready to leave. As soon as you feel yourself having the scarcity mindset, remember you’re a queen and deserve peace.My aunts husband cheated after 30 years and her partner now had his wife cheat on him after 30 years | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 03:52 PM |
| 10 | I’ve been seeing this post all over ig lately...not sure what to think about it. Thoughts?Coming from an area where you can’t even rent a bedroom for $600 a month, if this person had the bed on an actual frame, I would consider it. If you’re just being a cave dweller cuz you can, then it’s a no from me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 03:36 AM |
| 3 | I feel like I'm trapped in this weird place between a culture that values a girl's virginity too much in a toxic way and hookup cultureI know how you feel 🦋 to me, I stopped hooking up because I wanted to be with someone forever. Not have sex and then worry the next time we fight or I don’t hear from him or whatever else that the relationship will end. If you’re ok with that feeling of uncertainty, then do it safely please. But once I got older, the emotional labor and, honestly, suffering was not worth it anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 02:55 AM |
| 21 | Comedian Nikki Glaser describes not being able to orgasm without watching extremely violent porn and how she doesn’t feel worthy of sexual pleasure. She’s making a lot of jokes about it, but I feel sad for her.“iM a FeMiNiSt” but pay to watch gang bangs and cover the girl’s face while watching because she’s literally being abused. Makes toooootal sense, girl. /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 02:46 AM |
| 3 | Has anyone else experienced guys taking control of their health and fitness goals when you tell them about it?Hey there! I ate so much I couldn’t have another bite sometimes. it really is the most filling “diet” out there. There’s a difference between eating cheese, bacon, and coconut oil for all your calories and a healthy keto diet for sure! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 02:44 AM |
| 3 | Has anyone else experienced guys taking control of their health and fitness goals when you tell them about it?My male* coworker told me I was effectively starving myself eating a healthy keto diet. Right, because meat, cheese, nuts, huge salads and smoothies with berries and/or dressing is starving myself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 02:21 AM |
| 48 | Had a conversation with a male friend today that confirmed FDS strategiesWhen I was young and dumb studying in France, a guy I was hooking up with would kiss me in public but refused to hold my hand. They don’t make any sense. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 02:17 AM |
| 5 | Excuse the profanity, but her passion spoke to me. I’ve been here. Black women, you DO NOT need to struggle behind a man to one day be worthy of love!! You are not losing anything by letting go of a man who mistreats you!Thank you :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 02:40 AM |
| 13 | Excuse the profanity, but her passion spoke to me. I’ve been here. Black women, you DO NOT need to struggle behind a man to one day be worthy of love!! You are not losing anything by letting go of a man who mistreats you!I bring the table AND the chairs! 👏 where can we find more of her? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 12:05 AM |
| 12 | Promise ring = future faking unless y’all are literal teenagersPromise rings were relavent in like, 1945 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 04:09 PM |
| 4 | Dummy Wants Us To All Make Her Same Sexual Mistakes by 30. But seriously, why does every single female sex columnist sound vapid, attention seeking, and like her self esteem is too cripplingly low to be doing this job?“Take a bondage class” “Have sex with feelings” What the actual mind fuck is she telling us to do to ourselves with STRANGERS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 03:28 PM |
| 2 | Why on earth to pickmeishas/libfems think porn, casual hookups, and kinks are "empowering"?I just really don’t think letting a man use me as a flesh light is empowering 🤷♀️ I don’t get it either | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 03:23 AM |
| 4 | The actual trash taking itself out.That’s terrifying | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 03:19 AM |
| 9 | My friends and I love this one: this LVM told me he didn’t believe in condoms on a first date and when I ended the date he unraveled.“Better looking THAN me” He literally told her “find someone better looking, then me” should have just added a comma, Chad | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 11:56 PM |
| 17 | On a post regarding "marriageable" womenSee lurkers? Men know how it works and how deplorable they are. Yet struggle porn and the like are still on reddit and FDS is being attacked | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 07:29 PM |
| 7 | We all know why.Leaving. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 03:23 AM |
| 8 | This is why we should never play housewife (especially besides a job)If you have to ask, then you are dude. She cares that you don’t do little things for her because it’s disrespectful | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 02:52 PM |
| -3 | Mormons brought a man over to my house, he showed me his dick pic without warning after they left to their car.I’m sorry you’re getting down voted for your religion 💔 people on this sub downvoted me for disagreeing with a lifestyle choice and now you’re being downvoted for your choice | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 05:06 PM |
| 52 | A former colleague posted this. He’s old, disgusting, extremely over weight, bald, short. This is over an insta movement that’s for women supporting other women.Women supporting murdered women in Turkey* at that. Even more sad he’s mocking it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 03:08 PM |
| 5 | There's people in the comments saying that some of these are reasonable...All comments become null and void after 7 days 🤯 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 06:18 PM |
| 4 | Gigi Engle and Suzannah Weiss wrote back to back articles in Men’s Health on how to choke us out. “Feminist” writers pandering and promoting sexualized violence to men has got to stop.Breath restriction aka choking until she taps out or passes out | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 11:25 PM |
| 0 | Let him go be with someone on his level.So why are you on a page that quantifies values? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 05:55 PM |
| -1 | Let him go be with someone on his level.Did I say she was worthless? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Let him go be with someone on his level.There are all types of people in this world and you don’t seem to realize that either. I know every successful single moms and others who have 8 children from 8 different men. Is it misogynistic to encourage women to do better for themselves? 🤔 would you move in with a man the same month his ex is taking him to court over living expenses, single mom or otherwise? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 03:17 PM |
| 1 | Let him go be with someone on his level.I HAVE reached out to her to warn her. His PTSD is the most acute his counselor has seen in 30 years of practice. Would you want your child to be raised in that environment? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 03:15 PM |
| 0 | Let him go be with someone on his level.Because there’s a difference between being a single mom and grinding, like my grandmother did, and continuing to perpetuate the cycle of being with LVM. I left him two years before FDS, I pulled up my bootstraps by myself, with no help. Literally no help from anyone. I earned* both my degrees while being emotionally and mentally abused by this alcoholic. If I was a single mom and my parents lived in my town, low cost of living, and a college 30 min away, I would not let an alcoholic raise my chi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 03:13 PM |
| 1 | Let him go be with someone on his level.My father was raised by a single mom and he had four siblings. Nice job making assumptions about me too 👍🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 03:07 PM |
| 1 | Let him go be with someone on his level.Is that the ONLY quality I mentioned? Is it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 03:06 PM |
| 1 | Let him go be with someone on his level.Agreed! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 02:46 PM |
| 1 | Let him go be with someone on his level.I just don’t see why I’m getting shit for point out this cycle when that’s what the meme was about. It should never have been posted then. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 02:45 PM |
| -4 | Let him go be with someone on his level.Also, SHE was paying ME what I SUED HIM for over living expenses from when I was a pickmeisha. I took his ass to court for living expenses, and won, representing myself, and she moved in with him the same month. I would never put my child at that risk. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 01:26 AM |
| -5 | Let him go be with someone on his level.My point is that would have been me had I stayed a pickmeisha with him. And the exact situation that this post is about, occurred. Single parent or not. Making $7 an hour and depending on an alcoholic with unaddressed combat PTSD with more debt payments than his income can cover, is not in my future. And if I was a single parent, it would not be in my child’s future either. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 01:12 AM |
| -10 | Let him go be with someone on his level.Because it’s a cycle. When you’re 31 years old and you’ve only worked at tanning salons, coffee shops, and drive throughs, leaching off servicemen that are not the father of your child to support you, wearing mini dresses and the lowest cleavage possible to work, that points to a LV cycle and she is now with my LV ex. There are many single moms out here grinding and I work with one of them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 01:08 AM |
| -18 | Let him go be with someone on his level.Right because I have two bachelors and a federal career path in finance. Big difference. He’s not the third ex serviceman I’ve been engaged to. I don’t have a fatherless child. I don’t work for minimum wage for YEARS and move in with someone I’ve known for 2 months, cyclically. I thought this page was about HVW values. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 01:01 AM |
| -36 | Let him go be with someone on his level.And I ooooop! My exes new girl is a single mom hooters lookin cafe worker. Boy bye. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 10:26 PM |
| 11 | This woman owns a house with her boyfriend of 9 years. He won’t propose to her.I wish I could read the comments 😭 link? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 10:34 PM |
| 5 | I think we have all dated one of theseAlcoholics 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 11:11 PM |
| 23 | The sad truth: women’s lives often get ruined by men while they walk away unscathed.She was damned if she did, damned if she didn’t. It would have ruined or jeopardized her career whether she gave in or not. And that’s why it sucks being in a mans world. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 07:02 PM |
| 8 | She's calling Dave Ramsey for advice on how to help her WILLINGLY UNEMPLOYED HUSBAND pay back ALMOST $60K OF UNPAID CHILD SUPPORT to 3 OTHER WOMEN. Why would you even marry this kind of person??? 🤯Oh god yes leggo papa dave!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 01:20 AM |
| 2 | Form an orderly queue ladies... He’s a keeper (1. Is referring to fake tan)I didn’t know that gone black meant getting a fake tan there but in the US I legit know scrotes who said if they found out their girlfriend had been with a black man, they would dump them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 11:25 PM |
| 11 | In the words of Amy Schumer “ I’m a 160 pounds and can catch a D whenever I want” Seriously though- it’s ok to have preferences but men can be so shallowThe one dude afraid that he can’t overpower a woman that size in bed meanwhile he says he doesn’t have a six pack himself and he’s scrawny 🤯 the double standards are real | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 11:24 PM |
| 2 | Don't 👏🏻give👏🏻 husband 👏🏻benifits 👏🏻to👏🏻your👏🏻 boyfriend 👏🏻Her and breeny lee 👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 05:38 AM |
| 8 | I can't even get a text back? Best believe she deserves all of this.Right and it could be his or her love language, giving gifts! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 03:37 AM |
| 10 | I can't even get a text back? Best believe she deserves all of this.Wut 😫 that’s sweet | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 03:36 AM |
| 2 | To whomsoever it may concernThose women we’re literally getting assaulted and I’m certain the bruises and abrasions would warrant medical attention. Why do men get off on this shit?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 12:34 AM |
| 7 | To whomsoever it may concernHOW IS THIS PORN LEGAL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 10:07 PM |
| 2 | Put yourself first. Always.Maybe I meant FAM 🧐 I thought that and the rhythm method were the same thing... tracking ovulation. Still learning! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 01:38 PM |
| 19 | Sometimes I think to myself “It would be nice to be married” but then I see stuff like this and say to myself: “nah.”They got married after three months of dating because she got pregnant. The learning curve is steep with these two. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 03:28 AM |
| 2 | Put yourself first. Always.Yeah I heard the chance of pregnancy in a couple with no problems is less than 10% on a given month. The rhythm method is very effective once you get the hang of it apparently. Edit: now that it’s morning, I realize that I heard this in a lecture on babies after 35+ and it’s less than 10% once you’re that old or older | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 03:26 AM |
| 9 | Put yourself first. Always.Or wait to have sex until you’re married and do the rhythm method 🤷♀️ if you’re able | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 02:23 AM |
| 7 | Gay men are proof that men are perfectly capable of understanding how to groom themselves to be more physically attractive, it’s just that straight men don’t give a single fuck how women feel and figured out its easier to just collectively bully us to lower our standards.That ain’t even the original crew 👏 the OG’s were incredible together and so caring! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 02:20 AM |
| 25 | Depraved pedophile wants child pornThat beard is just the icing on the cake 🤢 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 06:25 PM |
| 1 | Believe in yourself and take back your power! We have been brainwashed by religion and patriarchy (two sides of the same coin) to bend to the will of men even if you didn't grow up with it it's still a deeply ingrained part of the collective culture. Thanks for the reminder Deb.I just have to say: Esther and Ruth both changed Jesus’ family tree and the proverbs 31 woman had multiple businesses. Religion is patriarchal, Jesus is not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/20 04:12 AM |
| 34 | Men: women are so boring and don’t have any hobbies!!1!1 Also every man on tinder’s bio:AdVeNtuRiNg | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/20 03:30 AM |
| 11 | Bye then.What does he even want then? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 08:24 PM |
| 76 | The bile!That doesn’t even work anymore! “Oh yeah? We’ll see about that” or “what’s he look like” or whatever. Scrotes will stop at nothing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 08:22 PM |
| 9 | I can’t decide which one is more shameful here...the girl, the guy, or the parents letting this happen.She’s such a cOoL girl, she has a Thrasher shirt on and looks totally cHiLl with the birks and bun | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 01:11 AM |
| 37 | NVM doesn‘t even try...I’ll never date active military or veterans again | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 11:43 PM |
| 1 | 100% of the sites Glamour recommends as “female friendly porn” objectify women right on the front page. Unsurprisingly, even “feminist” porn is still male gaze pandering trash. Can we get some dick and some washboard abs, sis?Or just.... don’t? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 03:51 AM |
| 5 | I had to post this with a message on SC! In the end, they got divorced. It was an unstable relationship from the beginning!The reviews of it on amazon are so entertaining 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 03:38 AM |
| 15 | Prime example of pickmeisha’s being a disease. A grown man harassed a minor and his girlfriend defended him by calling the little girl a slut. When you see girls defending their bf’s degenerate behavior, this is how they grow up to beNo. Teeth. No. Value. Just. No. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 01:34 AM |
| 9 | Listen to your pets!!!Not so much my dogs behavior as my mans... my dog will go full doodle and jump on you and be in your lap etc if you allow it which my new man does. And he doesn’t mind at all! Never gets angry with animals is a big thing for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/20 12:40 AM |
| 2 | Be a HVM in All Aspects of LifeI would keel over if a man did this at my last job. So frustrating to be interrupted and then the men do their good ol boys laughing and joking for 5 minutes afterwards | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/20 07:55 PM |
| 4 | I’m a 5’10 woman and want a 6’3 guy. I looked up the average heights of men and women and realized I’m as tall or taller than every one of these guys. Now I feel powerful 😈 world standard tallFack 😩 I stand with you, I’m 6’ with most shoes or boots I own on | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/20 01:30 AM |
| 2 | YOOOO DO Y'ALL WANNA READ THE RED FLAGS I MISSED WHILE I HAD A CRUSH?I wouldn’t be happy if I worked full time while a man child stayed home tho? Is that one a typo? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/20 01:28 AM |
| 8 | 6+ years with a man and no ring?Six. Years. I know of guys that beg their girlfriend to have kids after being together FOR TEN YEARS and having a mortgage but she says no because they’re not married. It’s embarrassing how stupid that is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 04:13 AM |
| 3 | Praise!The only man I want to pursue and make happy is my brother Jesus Christ 🙏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/20 06:45 PM |
| 11 | ExactlyPorn sick limp dick 4 life | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 12:18 AM |
| 15 | Consider All LV tactics Life Threatening! Asking For Pictures, Coercion, Manipulation, False victimhood, Everything.She’s the daughter of an economics professor at WSU.... it was devastating | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 08:33 PM |
| 6 | Couple I’ve known since HS. Together 11 yrs and SHE had to propose, after yrs of bringing up marriage. She’s also in a PhD program at an Ivy League — she can do way better🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮 my stomach literally turned | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 08:31 PM |
| 12 | Why FDS's high standards for vetting men are important9% of men. 26+. are. Alcoholics. Get me TF out of here please 😩 I’m certain the number is much higher than that considering the number of people who cannot socialize without drinking or don’t think they’re an addict “because it’s just beer” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 01:16 AM |
| 7 | I cannot get over how disrespectful Justin Bieber is to his wife “Listen to me woman.”Wait, he’s married?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 01:12 AM |
| 8 | PSA: Breakups hurt but the alternative is worseYup. It sucks being an empath. Have thought this since I was 12. Even wished I was dumb so I could “fall in love easily” 🤦🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 02:55 PM |
| 1 | Saw this👏🏻👏🏻Big boy shit 👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/20 12:12 AM |
| 56 | Why is feminist media so invested in pressuring women into "maintenance sex"? Why, in the era of #MeToo, are we still being told to ignore our internal warning systems and engage in sex we don't want for the sole benefit of men? How about we pressure men into being more fuckable so it's not a chore?I think most women don’t want to have sex as much as the man does because they’re literally raising a man child and their own children. He is incapable of helping around the house or with the kids and the wife is mentally and physically exhausted and probably resentful of him as well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 06:24 PM |
| 9 | Men with kids...I’m not. But the dynamic of his relationship with one is different than the other. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 01:30 PM |
| 11 | Men with kids...Thank you 👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 01:29 PM |
| 15 | Men with kids...Not saying it does 100% of the time but usually it is and this sub advocates for committed relationships not casual, unprotected sex. I’m saying if one is unplanned and the other is not, that puts me even more on the fence about this person. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 04:46 AM |
| 22 | Men with kids...I just think a divorce from someone you were married to and planned a child with is a different dynamic than an unplanned pregnancy with a girlfriend | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 04:41 AM |
| 9 | AlcoholicsOh I was this 👌 close to 30 years. I just really struggle with forgiving myself for giving my youth and emotions to someone when I was in the best dating pool, likely, of my lifetime. Also the best time to make lifelong friends as well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/20 03:53 AM |
| 11 | AlcoholicsAlso took mine about three months to show his true colors. Should have left then. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 09:33 PM |
| 6 | AlcoholicsBlaming it on past traumas 👏 my ex had acute, functional combat PTSD, the worst his counselor had seen in 30 years | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 09:32 PM |
| 8 | AlcoholicsYeah my ex would drink and drive like beer in hand and “it’s normal in Idaho” and he also had 3 DUIs but “none of them in a moving vehicle” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 08:19 PM |
| 6 | Cry me a riverI mean this is true. But do something about it. It’s not easy to work on yourself whether you’re male or female. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/20 06:26 PM |
| 6 | Setting and maintaining reasonable boundaries will help you kick that self-doubtI have motion sickness from reading about all this back and forth 🥴😂 so glad you’re out of it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/20 08:07 PM |
| 24 | Video details a breakup between a LVM and his beautiful, kind hearted ex who apologises to HIM after he went to a party knowing 2 exes were there and smoked up on a family camping trip.“This sounds so terrible, I’m not a bad guy” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 07:41 PM |
| 30 | Written by a true pickmeisha. Why is this behaviour accepted, but only for men? I cannot see anyone thinking it would be okay for a woman to spend hours ignoring their partner and children.Someone that plays video games for hours on end and/or daily is the equivalent of an alcoholic or pot head in my mind. They do it to escape reality. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 06:33 PM |
| 21 | And that's why there is a pandemic of LMVsOr wash your hair and face and shave. You know, normal hygiene things 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 12:25 AM |
| 9 | Refusing to help people you "love" is BS. HVM are happy to provide and support.My dad literally drives the equivalent of a block to pick up my mom from work at 9pm because she doesn’t like walking home in the dark! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/20 08:03 PM |
| 4 | I was beaten for having confidence last night.I wish I could help you 💔 please be careful the next few weeks, I hope you have some allies or friends that can help! I am so glad you are ok. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/20 09:58 PM |
| 4 | I love men who put their red flags in their dating profile bios“I’m banking on your standards being lower than mine” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 03:10 AM |
| 3 | Pickmeisha is messaging girl to rub it in her face that she's dating this guy. HVW is unbotheredMy ex’s new sugar momma messaged me. Her profile said she worked at place A and I still liked a place B on Facebook that was in the town I used to live in with my ex. Well apparently she works at B, not A. Figured this out after a call from the fucking SHERIFF to stop harassing her workplace and I told him I had honestly no idea what he was talking about because I don’t have any contact with place A. But the day after I like a post from place B, I get this message from her saying I look pathetic… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 03:03 AM |
| 8 | Sorry, can’t hear you! 🤣Ok glad it’s not just me! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/20 03:32 AM |
| 2 | Make sure you're not with him just because you want something to love.My dog didn’t budge when I opened the door one day coming home for lunch and I started tearing up thinking he was sick or dead (he was just super tired and used to this routine) anywho, I love him SO much and when guys ask me what I like to do for fun, I honestly tell them “spend time with my dog”. It’s a great way to get your nurturing side out, that and being in the equestrian world if you can afford it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/20 03:27 AM |
| 22 | Porn needs to start being shamed again. Don’t call it natural. Don’t accept it. Make a contemptuous and disgusted face when you see a guy talk about it, or a woman support her SO’s porn habits.“I believe in people having the freedom to make choices to do what they want” meanwhile doesn’t mind seeing women slapped and choked you really think all of those slaps are planned and discussed before hand? That it’s “just acting”? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 08:58 PM |
| 2 | Dating, sex and expectations have changed so much. You cannot expect the rules and vibes that existed 15, 10 or even 5 years ago. Remaining celibate and leveling up in all other areas of my life is making me feel so strong right now.I kind of am too 😅 changing my own oil tonight not because I want to but because I have to, buying tools, etc. Becoming more and more independent as I get older. I don’t like it but its also part of what this sub teaches. I feel torn about it. I know it’s insignificant but still that’s how I feel. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 08:56 PM |
| 1 | Dating, sex and expectations have changed so much. You cannot expect the rules and vibes that existed 15, 10 or even 5 years ago. Remaining celibate and leveling up in all other areas of my life is making me feel so strong right now.In the hi line it’s freezing but it’s super cheap rent and I’m a day trip away to Glacier! -40 all last February though apparently | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 08:44 PM |
| 6 | Dating, sex and expectations have changed so much. You cannot expect the rules and vibes that existed 15, 10 or even 5 years ago. Remaining celibate and leveling up in all other areas of my life is making me feel so strong right now.Yeah I’m 26 so I’m an old maid compared to the ages southern women marry, or so I’ve heard | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/20 06:32 PM |
| 6 | Dating, sex and expectations have changed so much. You cannot expect the rules and vibes that existed 15, 10 or even 5 years ago. Remaining celibate and leveling up in all other areas of my life is making me feel so strong right now.My thoughts exactly! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/20 06:04 PM |
| 7 | Dating, sex and expectations have changed so much. You cannot expect the rules and vibes that existed 15, 10 or even 5 years ago. Remaining celibate and leveling up in all other areas of my life is making me feel so strong right now.Montana isn’t too bad if you can stand the snow! People are much friendlier than Idahoans | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/20 04:31 AM |
| 6 | Dating, sex and expectations have changed so much. You cannot expect the rules and vibes that existed 15, 10 or even 5 years ago. Remaining celibate and leveling up in all other areas of my life is making me feel so strong right now.Yeah it’s really frustrating 😩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/20 04:31 AM |
| 7 | Dating, sex and expectations have changed so much. You cannot expect the rules and vibes that existed 15, 10 or even 5 years ago. Remaining celibate and leveling up in all other areas of my life is making me feel so strong right now.Yeah it’s disgusting and all the “country boys” are fake as hell. Can’t find a true Christian man anywhere either that doesn’t wear skinny jeans and a man bun. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 08:35 PM |
| 7 | Dating, sex and expectations have changed so much. You cannot expect the rules and vibes that existed 15, 10 or even 5 years ago. Remaining celibate and leveling up in all other areas of my life is making me feel so strong right now.Yep, went to school in Eastern WA and Idahoans want everyone else to keep out 😂 I know what you’re saying though. Loving Montana so far | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 05:09 PM |
| 6 | Dating, sex and expectations have changed so much. You cannot expect the rules and vibes that existed 15, 10 or even 5 years ago. Remaining celibate and leveling up in all other areas of my life is making me feel so strong right now.Yeah it’s terrible. I just moved from WA to rural MT to be able to save money every month | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 03:29 PM |
| 15 | Dating, sex and expectations have changed so much. You cannot expect the rules and vibes that existed 15, 10 or even 5 years ago. Remaining celibate and leveling up in all other areas of my life is making me feel so strong right now.Of course there’s that aspect. But also cost of living is a HUGE factor to me. WA is outrageous. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 03:15 PM |
| 53 | Dating, sex and expectations have changed so much. You cannot expect the rules and vibes that existed 15, 10 or even 5 years ago. Remaining celibate and leveling up in all other areas of my life is making me feel so strong right now.I’ve honestly considered moving to a different region of the US to have a wider pool to pick from. I’m from the PNW and the number of USELESS men that won’t even shovel snow for their girlfriend because all they own is Birkenstock’s sickens me. I’ve considered* Tennessee and Texas but I’m afraid that would be a total pendulum swing in the other direction—a controlling racist ignorant guy. And at least in my circle, we all know that cowboys aren’t like in the movies. They are p*ssy hungry ass hol… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 02:11 PM |
| 2 | 🤮🤮🤮🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 02:19 AM |
| 2 | Read that again.Life mantra | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 12:18 AM |
| 1 | This subreddit has saved my life. I’m looking back at the red flags I ignored and I just can’t believe I put up with them!Right mine was a mommy’s boy too but she was equally as crazy, sorry should have clarified! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 02:12 AM |
| 13 | 4channer accidentally outlines a decent husband in thread bemoaning lack of trad wivesI’m salivating 😩 they’re like goddamnned leprechauns | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 02:09 AM |
| 2 | This subreddit has saved my life. I’m looking back at the red flags I ignored and I just can’t believe I put up with them!Omg did we date the same person? His mom was insane but not an alcoholic, all kinds of red flags! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 01:23 AM |
| 4 | If he meets the most basic adult human requirement, he deserves the world 🥰🤢Too accurate!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 01:12 AM |
| 21 | If he meets the most basic adult human requirement, he deserves the world 🥰🤢Is the bar in a hole in the ground or just the same as the floor? 🤯 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/20 10:34 PM |
| 19 | DON'T DATE SIGNIFICANTLY OLDER MEN.Where did you find this? 🤢🤯 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/20 04:57 PM |
| 57 | Comment QUEENS 👸 roast Ed from 90 day fiancé 😂😂😂IVE BEEN WAITING FOR HIM TO SHOW UP ON THIS SUB my god he is disgusting. I get that he has a condition but he’s a creepy ass. She had sex with him after he wined her up | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/20 04:11 AM |
| 16 | Absolutely disgustingIt gives me anxiety just to THINK about being trapped with my previous abuser/alcoholic. My heart breaks for women around the world trapped with theirs or doing sexual “favors” because they’ve lost their job. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/20 05:26 PM |
| 37 | Boys after you treat them how they treat you“yOuR’E MAkInG mE feEL LiKe aN AssHoLe” 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 07:15 PM |
| 1 | Reminder: LVM say anything to get what they want.This... makes no sense? I am so confused. What was his point with all that 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 08:49 PM |
| 3 | Facts.THIS 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/20 12:05 AM |
| 14 | Could you call him if you were in the hospital? If not, DO NOT HAVE SEX WITH HIM.I wish this was on a billboard 🤯 moments like that are life changing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 02:41 PM |
| 2 | Low self esteem is dangerous, as evidenced in Tiger KingYeah his mom seemed odd to me too. I think the majority of this crap is related to drugs really! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/20 02:06 AM |
| 2 | Low self esteem is dangerous, as evidenced in Tiger KingYeah the series really showcases abuse/codependency 😞 and why is a guy like Jeff Lowe even married? I kept thinking, what did she do to convince him to do that? All the relationships were just sad | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/20 01:54 AM |
| 6 | Low self esteem is dangerous, as evidenced in Tiger KingDoc 100% ran a sex/slave work cult and I could barely watch the show after you know who committed suicide. He was gaslighted and controlled with drugs. Barely 25 years old. Didn’t even get to live a life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/20 01:40 AM |
| 8 | Never again, mom, I promise!Hahahahhahhahaa I’m triggered! 😅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 07:28 PM |
| 9 | This is horrible!!! let's try to help her!🤯🤯🤯🤯 I cant 😳 people like this exist | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/20 04:23 AM |
| 9 | Coronavirus making married moms realize that they may have a husband, but they don't have a partnerI think I would go absolutely insane if I was still with my Q and stuck in his house. Needless to say, I am enjoying being alone for going on two years now ☺️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/20 01:29 AM |
| 3 | “I just wanna vibe”Or “I’m betting on your standards being lower than mine” like gee thanks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/20 12:25 AM |
| 57 | Coronavirus making married moms realize that they may have a husband, but they don't have a partnerSo many women are trapped with their abusers and qualifiers.... I am so glad I left mine. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 02:00 PM |
| 11 | Please remember men like this exist. This was taken from a post about men having babies with one night stands or FWB if the woman gets pregnant. Pleaaaassseee respect yourself enough to never be in the predicament of being pregnant with a losers childMy ex didn’t even give a shit when I had nexplanon cut out of my arm because of the complications it was giving me. Didn’t even discuss alternative methods with me either. Ended up getting a yeast infection form using another method and again radio silence from him. They really don’t give a shit unless you give them sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 07:51 PM |
| 7 | Ladies, we are MAGIC, remember that!I’m committed to only sharing these qualities with someone that deserves them 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/20 03:33 AM |
| 4 | I saw this and thought of you lovely ladies!!Those Vyleesi prescription commercials for “hypoactive sexual desire disorder” are revolting to me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/20 01:23 PM |
| 5 | Never going to date a broke man ever again.100% can confirm. My ex is an alcoholic, he’s financing more shit and upgraded to a thinner, dumber version of me. Single mom too. I’m sure he is reassuring her that he’s the “man of the house” and built all this himself when in reality, his total debt ratio is over 60%. More like 80% if you don’t count his VA disability income | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 08:39 PM |
| 5 | Best Date idea You can come up with is Drinks!!!! GTFO! RantWhy would I drive an hour to go drink alcohol? That’s just so... cheap. And obvious. He would want you to stay over. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 12:08 AM |
| 11 | It's About More Than Paying For Dates - Some ExamplesA LVM will be petty enough to claim you owe him money for toilet paper, when you don’t even live with him, because you naturally use more than him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 08:31 AM |
© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter