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No Porn, don’t masturbate. Orgasm only from frequent sex. To get to a point where you have frequent sex takes self development. You’re too fixated on Pussy and the validation of sex. You should be chasing your passions and dreams. Hustling hard to build up everything encompassing looks money and status. Then the girls will come. Go focus on improving your looks first, get lean, eat clean and workout hard. Take up combat sports if you really want to channel your masculine energy. Take cold shower…
/r/askTRP21/06/20 02:16 PM
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If he wasn’t prepared to do that in the first place then he wouldn’t be messaging her
/r/askTRP06/06/20 11:19 AM
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No, she ghosted him because he rejected her when she offered herself up to him on a silver platter. She text him her address at messaged him to come over.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 10:01 AM
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You should have fucked her.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 12:46 AM
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can people just fucking read the Rational Male instead of filling this subreddit with autists. Most of us have got to the point where we see posts like this and scroll because we know you'll never get it if you cant think for yourself when it comes to basic stuff that you'd know if you actually read the book.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 11:53 AM
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Take up a combat sports, lift heavy weights, sprint your ass off, only take cold showers Then come back and tell us how you feel
/r/askTRP03/06/20 04:15 PM
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Read Sex God Method. Fuck the shit out of her, I’m talking orgasm after orgasm and right after when she’s full of all of those happy chemicals then hold your ground and tell her you’re at a stage in life where you don’t want a committed exclusive relationship. A lot of a woman’s behavior towards a man is dependent on how well he beds her. You’ll even find that once you get good at fucking your plates that they’ll readily be exclusive to you even when you’re seeing other girls.
/r/askTRP02/06/20 09:13 PM
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Definitely. No woman will respect her man if he cant dig her guts out properly.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 04:17 PM
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That’s part of treating her well.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 02:34 PM
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The better you treat her the more likely she is to want to do more for you Fuck her well and she’ll be doing things for you left right and center
/r/askTRP28/05/20 01:54 PM
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Make him read the rational male. Let him get ahead of the game he’s the perfect age
/r/askTRP25/05/20 06:17 AM
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Talk to him in a way that somehow makes him realise his simp behaviour is from underlying issues like his self opinion and confidence. Then get him disciplined (rather than motivated) to focus on developing himself. If all else fails. Realise that not everyone is destined for greatness.
/r/askTRP23/05/20 03:37 AM
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One of the easiest thing you can do to become a better man is to take up martial arts. The amount of mental toughness, discipline, confidence, willpower and athleticism you build will take you further than just weight lifiting alone, any guy who does a serious combat sport will say the same. ​ Recommend: BJJ, Kyokushin Karate, Muay Thai, MMA
/r/TheRedPill23/05/20 12:39 AM
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Learn a serious combat sport and get you’ll have your own answer
/r/askTRP18/05/20 11:07 PM
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If you need to get a “power move” over a friend. It really shows how valueless you are as a man. A power move would be conquering your life and growing your skills and becoming a better man. You’re just acting and thinking like a little bitch. I’m sure Brad Pitt, Conor McGregor and Vladimir Putin spend their free time trying to get one ups on their friends that are girls. Stop being a loser and grow a pair.
/r/askTRP18/05/20 05:41 AM
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Smfh if it’s not clear she might as well throw away the whole dick appointment
/r/askTRP26/04/20 03:19 AM
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The whole point of The Red Pill isn’t to learn to get women. It’s to understand women and build yourself into a man, which inevitably attracts women. You seem to have your life in check in terms of finances education etc. you also mentioned that you have attracted women but seem to mess up eventually. That would be an inner personality issue. That anxiety is caused by an underlying feeling of lack of self confidence and inadequacy. You also mentioned you were skinny. The best thing you can do ri…
/r/askTRP26/04/20 01:47 AM
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Listen to Bullet From A Gun - Skepta
/r/askTRP14/04/20 11:33 AM
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I swear half the guys who make these post don’t even know who Rollo Tomassi is let alone read his books
/r/askTRP14/04/20 06:03 AM
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Any Drill music regardless of country
/r/askTRP14/04/20 05:57 AM
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Get on your shit again. The sex is getting boring because she’s less attracted to you. Keep slacking and she’ll leave you or cheat on you. If you were a 9 before then it’s your responsibility as a man to maintain yourself and not become a loser.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 03:37 AM
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Looks are subjective if she’s attractive to you then that’s all that’s important. Personally I’m not into white girls unless they really impress me 🤷🏽‍♂️
/r/askTRP11/04/20 03:02 PM
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All the aforementioned martial arts are very effective. Also look into Kyokushin Karate and Sambo
/r/askTRP08/03/20 05:26 PM
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The most valuable advice anyone will ever give you: Grow a pair and build the lifestyle you want before you waste away watching other people do the same thing. Survival of the fittest who dares wins
/r/askTRP05/03/20 11:56 PM
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Best to get papaerbacknbecause of the structure of the content
/r/askTRP05/03/20 11:47 AM
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The 48 Laws of Power
/r/askTRP05/03/20 10:12 AM
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Lose fat Tongue posture (mewing) Boost Testosterone and DHT
/r/askTRP28/02/20 06:00 PM
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Kyokushin Karate
/r/askTRP23/02/20 07:55 AM
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Habits that help me get out of a rut: Combat Sports (Kyokushin and Muay Thai) Consistency with Fitness and Nutrition Get Up early to pursue your goals for the day Morning and evening routines Tidying your room. Cold Showers Semen Retention Get enough sleep Lower stress (try meditation, l-theanine and ashwagandha) If you try these I guarantee things will start to go right. By keeping these in my routine everything’s in the way up for me. Life’s blessed.
/r/askTRP18/02/20 12:43 PM
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I disagree. Most people will go half heartedly and eat mediocre diets that lead to half hearted and mediocre results. If you’ve got a good program diet and lifestyle that suits you then all you need is consistency and patience and the results will come. If you really want to set yourself apart take up a combat sport. As a combat athlete I stay lean and jacked whilst retaining all the character building benefits of training. Taking Up a serious martial art is so many levels above lifting for self…
/r/askTRP10/02/20 12:54 PM
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UK grime & Drill, RnB, afrobeats
/r/askTRP02/02/20 07:38 PM
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If you want the most out of your life and to live up to your potential as a man you Have to be able to be outside your comfort zone in order to grow. Go to the first, be intimidated. The environment alone will force you to grow.
/r/askTRP27/01/20 03:27 PM
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These things are helping me as a combat athlete during my cut to 70KG whilst retaining muscle mass: Cycling Keto with PSMF ( essentially high protein zero carbs and cycling fat intake for calories) Eat quality protein (red meat, whole eggs) On Intense Training days (2 intense workouts) eat closer to maintenance Intermittent fasting Train first workout fasted eat post workout Supplements: A lot of black coffee Creatine L carnitine L Tartrate ZMA Vitamin D Boron The days I refeed and eat a lot of …
/r/askTRP24/01/20 02:50 PM
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Your woman doesn’t respect you enough as a man to behave how you want her to. She clearly needs you less than you need her and so she controls the frame f the relationship. She’d rather spend her free time And energy with another man instead of you. Of course she wants to have sex with him. For her to act like this clearly means you’re not man enough to handle her. Better start focusing on bettering yourself.
/r/askTRP23/01/20 12:53 AM
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Cycle Keto with PSMF
/r/askTRP21/01/20 06:08 PM
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What’s your routine
/r/askTRP13/01/20 10:32 AM
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Raw milk.
/r/askTRP07/01/20 09:27 PM
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I don’t do typical keto. It’s more similar to a carnivore diet with pre workout carbs such as dairy like yoghurt or cottage cheese with honey and fruit. I had the same problem as you until I started to eat more meat and kept the majority of my carbs as sugars and around my workouhts.
/r/askTRP07/01/20 09:08 PM
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Not once you’re fat adapted and cycle in carbs now and then
/r/askTRP07/01/20 10:20 AM
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Look your best before you even step foot into uni. Continue training in BJJ and gym Establish a group of friends quickly and continue to expand your circles Dont get involved in beef drama and gossip and focus on yourself Plan out your schedule effectively to balance training, studies and social life Do everything you do to the best standard and never waste your potential Don’t kiss and tell, it will spread life a forest fire in uni Focus more on giving value and raising your status within your …
/r/askTRP07/01/20 03:48 AM
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Kyokushin Karate.
/r/askTRP06/01/20 05:02 AM
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Alabama is not approved by the red pill.
/r/askTRP16/12/19 09:22 PM
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Means you need to read anabolicmen.com and watch Christopher Walker on YouTube
/r/askTRP04/12/19 09:29 AM
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To get good at anything it’s always effective to have an immersion period. Ride the wave of motivation. Once you’ve improved yourself in the context of the 80/20 rule you can delegate more time to other ventures.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/19 04:28 PM
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“A man who is a slave to his sexual urges is no man at all”
/r/askTRP06/11/19 05:39 PM
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Gotta catch em all
/r/askTRP02/11/19 06:16 PM
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Stop being insecure.
/r/askTRP02/11/19 06:14 PM
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Look up body recomposition.
/r/askTRP28/10/19 12:45 PM
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Have value to give. Grow and focus on yourself and people will be attracted to you. Simple.
/r/askTRP28/10/19 12:41 PM
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Try a carnivore diet and you’ll drop fat carbs right quickly whilst retaining lean body made
/r/askTRP20/10/19 11:01 PM
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It’s an interesting perspective on masculinity. Pairs well with The Way of The Superior Man
/r/askTRP07/10/19 09:38 AM
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I’m in medical school right now, this is my purpose and I’ve worked hard to build myself into a good doctor and leave my mark. If you’re passionate about it and it’s in line with the lifestyle you want to build then of course it’s what you should be doing. Asking if it’s overrated Is ludicrous. Only you know the answer to that. You don’t sound like you really want it. If you WANT it as much as you want to breathe then you wouldn’t be asking such a valueless question
/r/askTRP30/09/19 01:21 AM
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So long as you abide to the same rules as if you were lifting weights then sure. Progressive overload and using the right rep ranges for strength and hypertrophy etc. I use both free weights and body weight training in my routine. In fact, most of my compound lifts are weighted callisthenics. Squat, Deadlift, weighted ring rows, weighted pull ups, decline weighted push ups hand stand push ups/ overhead press.
/r/askTRP21/09/19 12:55 AM
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You seemed too eager and invested after you messaged back the second time when she left you on read
/r/askTRP19/09/19 12:19 AM
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Supplements with mucuna pruriens and boron
/r/askTRP18/09/19 11:11 PM
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That’s like saying you don’t need to do OHP or verticals presses because you do bench press. If you want a balanced and healthy physique without injuries you need to train all plains of movement. For compound lifts that means Squat, hinges, vertical pulls, vertical presses, horizontal pulls and horizontal presses. By neglecting the body row and training heavy weighted pull ups, you’re neglecting certain muscles involved in horizontal pulls/ rows, such as the rotator cuff that has lead to muscula…
/r/askTRP18/09/19 10:55 PM
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Do you do any weighted body rows? They’d compliment your pull ups and negate any imbalances you’d have in the your rotator cuff muscles. Try focus on OHP more than bench for a bit.
/r/askTRP18/09/19 08:29 PM
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Do you do any weighted body rows? They’d compliment your pull ups and negate any imbalances you’d have in the your rotator cuff muscles. Try focus on OHP more than bench for a bit.
/r/askTRP18/09/19 08:29 PM
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Are you vertical and horizontal pulls and presses? Prevents muscular imbalances
/r/askTRP18/09/19 07:47 PM
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Beat me to it. 💯💯💯
/r/askTRP18/09/19 03:26 PM
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Shave your head, grow out you beard
/r/askTRP16/09/19 01:24 PM
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Cringe.
/r/askTRP16/09/19 01:19 PM
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strength training will compliment your bjj. Train strength on the days you don’t do bjj
/r/askTRP15/09/19 09:59 PM
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Focus on getting bigger and stronger. Then use the higher metabolism and testosterone levels to lean down. I’d recommend to focus on building the shoulders, back, chest and legs in that order. Using the 6 compounds: horizontal push and pull, vertical push and pull, deadlift and squat as the main body of your routine. Then, use accessory movements on secondary muscles. If you want to be strong and look good I’d recommend reverse pyramid training and micro loading. Check out Greg o Gallagher/ kino…
/r/askTRP14/09/19 08:34 PM
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Fuck the shit out of her, that’s it.
/r/askTRP14/09/19 07:26 PM
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Cyclical carnivore keto diet
/r/askTRP14/09/19 01:12 AM
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Cyclical Ketogenic Diet, heavy emphasis on animal foods
/r/askTRP14/09/19 01:09 AM
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You’re over thinking it like fuck. You should touch a girl because you’re attracted to her. It’s subconscious you don’t consciously think hmm let me touch her leg so she’s more attracted that’s why it’s awkward.
/r/askTRP12/09/19 11:24 PM
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Razor shave it and grow out your beard. Propecia inhibits DHT which is more important than testosterone. Get in the gym. From the 48 laws of power: concentrate your forces
/r/askTRP12/09/19 11:18 PM
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“How much of a faggot am I?” Is no where near the same as how can I learn from this moving forward. All I did was answer your own toxic question
/r/askTRP11/09/19 12:23 AM
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“How much of a faggot am I?” Is no where near the same as how can I learn from this moving forward.
/r/askTRP11/09/19 12:23 AM
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You’re a faggot because your sense of self worth is determined by whether a girl went on a date with you or not, regardless of her being suicidal, to answer your question. The red pill community is here to help men become better men, not for little boys to bitch about how shit they are at living theirs
/r/askTRP10/09/19 09:50 PM
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I would have said something, but he pretty much summed it up
/r/TheRedPill10/09/19 08:37 AM
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Balance is key. Have your cake and eat it too
/r/askTRP08/09/19 01:20 PM
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By you taking her on holiday, she is entering your reality. Everything you decide to do and place to go reinforces the frame. Take the lead and enjoy the holiday. You’re going abroad because you are excited to explore and travel, she’s just tagging along for the experience.
/r/askTRP08/09/19 01:20 PM
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Just enjoy having sex with that girl. Don’t even think about it, if you cum you cum, if not just make her explode instead, either way she’ll be happy.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 10:41 PM
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You have your own answer. You’ll regret it when you’ve got a kid
/r/askTRP04/09/19 12:34 PM
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Approaching is not an instant rejection. Build your own person style that’s shows boldness, confidence that makes you comfortable in your own skin. I’ve noticed in clubs with neon lights the glow from wearing white clothes makes you stand out enough to grab their attention.
/r/askTRP03/09/19 09:39 PM
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Check out anabolicmen.com
/r/askTRP03/09/19 09:34 PM
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Law 4: Always say less than necessary. Law 5: So much depends on reputation. Guard it with your life.
/r/askTRP03/09/19 09:31 PM
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You failed her shit test and are pussy whipped after 6 hours from one conversation. Your problem can be solved with one word. Abundance.
/r/askTRP03/09/19 09:29 PM
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Fatty meat, butter, eggs cheese. Yoghurt, cream
/r/askTRP02/09/19 11:55 PM
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Yeah, it doesn’t matter what you’re saying in terms of overt communication. Women respond to the covert communication. The undertones of the conversation, Body language, emotions in the sub-communication. Talk with your cock not with your mind.
/r/askTRP02/09/19 07:09 PM
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Steak and eggs Cooked in butter with some cheese. Small serving of mixed berries, yoghurt and honey.
/r/askTRP02/09/19 09:01 AM
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Steak and eggs Cooked in butter with some cheese. Small serving of mixed berries, yoghurt and honey.
/r/askTRP02/09/19 09:01 AM
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Eat more Saturated fats like fatty meat, eggs and butter. Fasting increased androgen receptor density and sensitivity and so does L-Carnitine in meat. Creatine will help Free test and DHT. Try boron supplementation too. Look up Christopher Walker on YouTube and check out anabolicmen.com
/r/askTRP02/09/19 01:02 AM
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Continue to do what you’re doing. You’ll heal over time. But only if you spend your time wisely. Constantly strive to increase your own value, self worth and self opinion. Easiest thing you can do to take action is Meditate and take Cold Showers/ Ice Baths. I’d seriously recommend taking up a martial art alongside your fitness. I personally do Kyokushin, karate, boxing and Brazilian Jiu Jitsu. Start off with any one of those. Muay Thai and Krav Maga are brilliant too. Diet is essential, recommen…
/r/askTRP02/09/19 12:41 AM
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Raw Dairy, grass fed meat, pastured eggs, raw honey, adaptogenic herbs organic fruit = perfect diet
/r/askTRP02/09/19 12:28 AM
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Raw Dairy, grass fed meat, pastured eggs, raw honey, adaptogenic herbs organic fruit = perfect diet
/r/askTRP02/09/19 12:28 AM
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This summarised most of the key points: https://www.wearethemighty.com/articles/this-is-what-mongol-mres-looked-like
/r/askTRP01/09/19 09:17 PM
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Phytoestrogens in flax. Literally google flax estrogen
/r/askTRP01/09/19 09:09 PM
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Try get some raw milk and cream
/r/askTRP01/09/19 07:39 PM
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Try get some raw milk and cream
/r/askTRP01/09/19 07:38 PM
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Sure, anecdotes and history of healthy peoples across the world out compete studies pushed by different organisations that are subject to bias. The same people who tell us what to eat profit off of our poor health.
/r/askTRP01/09/19 07:27 PM
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Sure, anecdotes and history of healthy peoples across the world out compete studies pushed by different organisations that are subject to bias. The same people who tell us what to eat profit off of our poor health.
/r/askTRP01/09/19 07:25 PM
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Concerned about estrogen from flax?
/r/askTRP01/09/19 07:21 PM
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Couldn’t have said it better myself. Eating whole, predominantly animal based foods is how our ancestors would have eaten and has allowed us to reach where we are as a species today. People are force fed the idea that plant based and whole grains are better for you. Without realising this way of eating is identical to how the lower class of society has eaten in many civilisations in history. Anyone interested should look into Marco Polo’s observation of the diet of the Mongols, who conquered an …
/r/askTRP01/09/19 05:09 PM
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T-Bone, Ribeye, Chuck mainly, check out the diet. Has done me wonders as a combat athlete
/r/askTRP01/09/19 02:38 PM
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Steak and eggs. Follow a animal based Cyclical Ketogenic diet.
/r/askTRP01/09/19 12:20 PM
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The title should be enough to show you what to do. A lot of guys post these kind of dilemmas, when only one word is the solution. Abundance.
/r/askTRP31/08/19 07:34 PM
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She obviously knows that it was awkward logistics to do it and you were both drunk. If you’re sure she’ll come back again then you have nothing to worry about
/r/seduction29/08/19 05:39 PM
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Make sure you re read the Rational Male section on LTR. Relationship game is much more difficult. She will constantly test you to see if you’re still the man she thought you were. I hope you met you have to think of it from a woman’s perspective rather than think like a woman
/r/askTRP29/08/19 02:36 PM
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You won’t be that guy if she’s the one coming up to you all the time
/r/seduction29/08/19 01:32 PM
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It’s good you’ve been reluctant so far. But now it sounds important in doing so for both of you to move forward. Sounds like you’d both benefit a lot from being in a relationship . Men and women are supposed to be complimentary remember.
/r/askTRP29/08/19 01:31 PM
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Have been doing Kyokushin Karate since I was three. Starting full contact tournament s in September. Strength and conditioning are important for most serious martial arts. Without martial arts I’d be a completely different Person. Much better for inner game qualities imo. Lifting is still amazing. But it’s even better and complimentary if you do it in conjunction albeit if you train the right way.
/r/askTRP29/08/19 01:26 AM
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Whilst writing this long ass post about one girl. You should have realised you have oneitis and you are obsessing over one girl as her orbiter while she is telling you about her fucking other guys without any form of real intimacy with you whatsoever.
/r/askTRP29/08/19 12:47 AM
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Try get in simple carbs like fruit and your creatine 15 mins beforehand, carnivore with higher protein and moderate fat is effective. Close to a protein sparing modified fast, but just enough fat to maintain health short term for the duration of your cut. Paired with nutrient dense satiating foods like boiled eggs raw liver and beef/lamb heart you’ll drop fat quite quickly. Try the cardio you are doing fasted and keep your weight training to 3-4 days a week every other day and your fasted cardio…
/r/askTRP29/08/19 12:36 AM
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Have you even read the Rational Male
/r/askTRP28/08/19 11:37 PM
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If IF and Keto worked, look into a Carnivore diet. Has really helped me as a combat athlete. If you’re going to eat carbs, eat them around your workout like fruit, honey and starchy tubers. For fat loss stick to high animal protein, heavy strength training with compound lifts, progressive overload, with a bit of hill sprints and low impact fasted cardio such as jumping rope and there’s no way you should fail.
/r/askTRP28/08/19 11:31 PM
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Of course. If you fuck some of the hottest girls, then the others will want to get a piece. Its also important to have high status in your social circles to pull this off. You’ve got to be the top man. The way we approach social interactions is identical to how we would have behaved in tribalistic environments. All the highest status women would want to fuck the highest status, leading and dominant Male. The higher your value the higher quality girls you attract. Tomassi says women would rather …
/r/askTRP28/08/19 11:20 PM
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The problem here was telling your mates in your work environment . You exposed yourself in a position of weakness that this fat gay guy took advantage of. Law 4: Always say less than necessary. Law 5: So much depends on reputation, guard it with your life.
/r/askTRP28/08/19 11:12 PM
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If you fuck the hottest out of all them. Then you’ll get a player reputation compared to a fuckboy reputation if you slept with more quantity of less quality. (Girls talk). By building that vibe the hottest girls will want to fuck you as a status thing.
/r/askTRP28/08/19 11:04 PM
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Then you have the answer
/r/seduction28/08/19 10:44 PM
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Thanks for the advice, I had no idea One arm Pull Ups, One Arm Push Ups, Handstand pushups, levers, pistol squats and gymnastic training were for pussies. Who would have thought.
/r/askTRP28/08/19 10:42 PM
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Look up Kinobody, Elliot Hulse, Brandon Carter and Alpha Destiny. Free Weights, callisthenics and weighted callisthenics are much more effective than machines
/r/askTRP28/08/19 09:46 PM
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Date them both
/r/seduction28/08/19 09:44 PM
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Kyokushin Karate is my personal recommendation, Krav Maga and Muay Thai are extremely effective as well.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 08:00 PM
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You’ve added a new tool under your belt of many potent things that will help you grow as a person. Tomassi talks about how ones personality can completely change if they decide to change. I would recommend looking into these topics that I’ve invested in to make me a better man: Semen Retention/ Sexual Transmutation MMA meditation Cold Showers Androgen optimisation Carnivore diet The longer you focus on yourself the more you will grow. You don’t have to be great to start. But you have to start to…
/r/askTRP26/08/19 07:59 PM
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Make your own decision on what you want to do, don’t let people tell you what to do from behind a screen
/r/seduction20/07/19 11:39 PM
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Are you really going to determine your choices in life by people you don’t even know telling you what do from behind a screen
/r/seduction19/07/19 09:49 PM
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This girl fully offered herself to you on a silver platter why wouldn’t you
/r/seduction19/07/19 02:03 PM
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Incels...
/r/seduction19/07/19 01:05 AM
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Make the move, you don’t need to write a long post and have comments to know that.
/r/seduction17/07/19 02:01 PM
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Did you say that in a sarcastic way? If she had to tell you she’ll send it by email it showed you’ve had an emotional effect. Push-Pull remember, do what you find amusing not what you think will attract her
/r/seduction15/07/19 07:05 PM
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How does any of that suggest you didn’t pass, chill out, and enjoy the dance between you two, if it fails, move on to the next girl
/r/seduction15/07/19 03:25 PM
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Incels...
/r/seduction13/07/19 08:22 AM
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Stay the same, want to remain unfazed, be a little warmer with her though
/r/seduction09/07/19 03:24 PM
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