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| 37 | And men wonder why women want women-only spaces…The “I’m too rich” comment is incredible because this woman is a famous YouTuber who likely makes significantly more than this man does. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 11:44 AM |
| 9 | Yeah, we’re always to blame. Your Peter Pan complex is totally our fault. Shut the fuck up and buy some furniture and eat with utensils, you Neanderthal.Yet, if they decide they want to live with a gf they will likely move in to her place to sponge off of all of the nice furniture and household items she has purchased over the years. A friend of mine dated and eventually lived with a man like this and he would brag he had more money in savings than she did. Fool was 34 and only had two bean bags to sit on in his living room, no tables and a plywood headboard from Walmart. Moved into her place full of nice furniture and started complaining her st… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 03:44 PM |
| 22 | Who’s surprised? 🙃A few years ago, I was on a date with a guy and I ended up paying the whole bill. When the waitress came back, she put the credit card holder in front of him, not me, so I reached across the table to grab it since my card was inside and I needed to sign the slip. My date freaked out and lectured me because I didn’t wait for the waitress to leave before grabbing the card holder. He said he didn’t want her to realize I was the one paying (even though if she had paid attention, she would have seen … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 12:15 PM |
| 6 | Why girl, why?!I have found multiple married male coworkers on dating apps over the years. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 12:11 PM |
| 9 | The concept of female privilege??Exactly. Out of all of these guys complaining about paying for dates, I’d like to know exactly how many of them actually have even paid for the woman’s meal in the last five years. Most of them are snarking on something that rarely happens and they don’t even do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 05:23 PM |
| 28 | The concept of female privilege??Back in my younger years, I had a male coworker talk about this, referencing “all of the free meals” I get on dates. Ummm...what free meals? Men offer to pay for absolutely nothing. The expectation was for me to pay for my own for well over a decade now. I once made about half of what the guy I was dating made and said I couldn’t afford to go out to eat as much, and instead of offering to pay, he said, “I didn’t agree to date someone to sit at home, you’ll either need to find a way to afford it,… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 12:29 PM |
| 10 | Woman gets negged by her husband and is wondering if she’s overreacting for being upset.Exactly! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 06:24 PM |
| 63 | Is it just me or has negging become the default for men?I think it’s spread pretty far, somehow. I’m in my late 30’s and a little over a year ago, I went on a date with a guy who was 43 who I feel pretty confident has never heard of the pick up artist manual. After only one date, he texts me and says I should take a day off work, come over to his house and hang out alone with him, and spend the entire day getting day drunk, but he guessed that I “wasn’t fun enough for something like that.” Sir, you are right. I’m not nearly “fun enough” to accept you… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 12:09 PM |
| 120 | Woman gets negged by her husband and is wondering if she’s overreacting for being upset.If I were her, I would literally make it a point to tell him everything he could improve on his body, day after day, with no end in sight, until I made my exit plan. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 11:49 AM |
| 32 | Mariah Carey on being called high maintenanceOf course I’m high maintenance. I’m the one maintaining it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 01:51 PM |
| 30 | Explaining your standards to men?You are completely allowed to care about height. Men care about all kinds of superficial shit when looking for a partner: breast size, butt size, weight, hair length, etc. You can assign standards to the physical aspect of what you are looking for in a man, and you don’t owe anyone an explanation for it. If you said you were over the arbitrary weight limit a man like this likely has in his head for a match, he would unmatch you in a heartbeat. Have standards and don’t feel bad about them! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 02:29 AM |
| 576 | Why ask a woman out if you can’t afford it? 🤡Yes, a woman accepting you paying twenty freaking dollars for her dinner totally makes her a gold digger. Next thing you know, she’ll try to get added into your will and take half of the $200 in your savings account and one of your PS2 controllers. Better just stay home in your mom’s basement where you can safely guard your last $10 and whine about this woman who is clearly after you for your money, all the while wondering why you are single. /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 02:12 PM |
| 79 | Canceling the date for this. He can’t bring me a chair? I just threw mine out as it was rusting but I’m not buying one this morning. We have five mutual friends so I have to let him down nicely. How?I would say “any chance you have a spare chair you can bring for me?” If not and you don’t want to buy one, just say “ok, no problem. I think I will have to count myself out since I don’t have a chair. Have a nice time!” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 02:06 PM |
| 3 | Anyone else completely okay with being single forever?Oh yes. I’ve had this exact same mindset for about 4 months now. I’m much happier with the decision to be single than I ever was with searching for a partner. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 11:37 AM |
| 30 | Women only gyms need to be normalized so that we don’t have to deal with being stared at, harassed or catcalled while trying to workout🙄🙄Exactly. If they are truly there to work out and for no other purpose, what difference does it make? It stops women from being leered at and possibly put in a dangerous situation. This would even benefit men who are just there to exercise because it would mean fewer people at the gym overall, and the machines would free up faster. It’s literally a win for everyone and they still had to verbally abuse her over it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 11:23 AM |
| 28 | Another day, another LVM crying and some BS excusesSomeone, please walk this woman to a mirror and remind her she is beautiful, only 24, has a Master’s Degree and her whole life ahead of her. She does not need to be wasting time with this asshole who has already shown he’s willing to stray. She is in the perfect position to tolerate absolutely zero bullshit. We all are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 11:20 AM |
| 9 | Kicked him to the curbThis made me laugh, but it’s pretty solid advice! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 02:49 AM |
| 36 | I used to be one of these PickMes. And then I did the best thing I could’ve ever done for myself and subscribed to this subreddit 💕Yes, this. I’m very minimalist, so I tend to prefer being gifted experiences (tickets to a show, a super nice dinner with drinks out, etc) rather than an item because if I don’t like the item the desire to declutter it will be strong, which I can’t do because it would hurt the person. I also tend to gift experiences back because it keeps it fun for both of us since it’s something we can do together. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 10:34 PM |
| 10 | Imagine being this insecure that you feel the need to go around and humble those GORGEOUS, confident black woman...patheticComing up with this video idea: Let’s send out a super unattractive guy who’s only 5’6” wearing a $3 Hanes tank top and a beret to tell a bunch of beautiful women they are ugly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 03:13 PM |
| 3 | One of the creepy messages I got on my old account. Reading this shocked me since I never heard any man say such weird and disgusting things to me.WTF | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 10:46 AM |
| 12 | Where are we heading?? What's wrong with society? This shouldn't happen or be acceptable. What sort of pickme would accept this? This shouldn't be normalized.Seriously. “Ladies are people too, just like you!” No shit, man. Tell me more of these revelations. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 10:45 AM |
| 22 | 😂 they're watching us 👀This guy, as an ADULT, got himself a cheap bed to sleep in and he thought it was such a big deal he had to make a post about it. Imagine fulfilling one of your own basic needs....giving yourself a place to sleep...and then wanting strangers to praise you for it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 11:54 AM |
| 38 | For a 37 year old scrote who claims to be having the time of his life sexually, he sure devotes a lot of time to writing about us on his blog. 🧐 (6 total screenshots)It’s fake. He’s lying to get other losers to look up to him. Also, with all these women working at the same place or being related, just how small is this town he lives in where he is having all these imaginary liaisons? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 02:20 PM |
| 26 | This is by far the most repulsive LV behavior a man can have.. wanting a woman to woo him. 🤮 That’s so effeminate. Hobbies include video games and makes 50k a year. Any takers? Nah passExactly. “ Buy me a bottle of wine that I can drink while I sit in your house!” What a no mannered asshole. My guess would be she likely even asked him what kind and let him dictate what she bought since women tend to be accommodating and good hosts most of the time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 01:03 PM |
| 77 | This is by far the most repulsive LV behavior a man can have.. wanting a woman to woo him. 🤮 That’s so effeminate. Hobbies include video games and makes 50k a year. Any takers? Nah passYou’re boring me.....want to go and buy a nice bottle of wine and spend hours cleaning your place and take time and effort to get ready so I can try to fuck you, even though I’ve decided I’m already not interested? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 10:58 AM |
| 258 | I’m out of words.I feel like almost every post on AITA is completely ridiculous. This is no exception. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 10:51 AM |
| 1 | 2020 isn’t over yet. Put in the work these last few months and enter 2021 a new woman.Yes! I needed this. Just got rid of the junk food in my kitchen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 12:35 AM |
| 15 | He still opens the car door 👏I don’t know about this one. I was with a guy for a year who always opens my car door for me. He was also a pathological liar, a cheater, and extremely verbally abusive. It’s great if it’s an add on to other great qualities, but I don’t think it’s an indication of a HVM on its own. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 12:29 AM |
| 79 | The audacity these men have. Haven’t even gone out with him and already pulling the attitude card. Fair to say I will be cancelingCancel immediately. Then block this asshole. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 01:42 PM |
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